Friday, January 6, 2023

There’s no one I feel safe taking about my milestone

I’ve been overweight/obese basically my whole life. I’m 29 and I’ve never really had any success ever in losing weight. I’d go like a week eating “healthy” and trying to work out and it would never stick.

In September I got new health insurance and was offered to join a weight loss program that gave you a free digital scale so said fuck it why not. I was not very happy to find out my initial weight clocked in at just shy of 423 pounds. Seeing that number really made me realize I need to make changes.

My progress has not been staggering, I’m not going to lie. The holidays in particular were an extremely stressful time for a multitude of reasons. But today I stepped on the scale and it was under 400. It took longer than I was hoping but it’s truly an accomplishment in my mind. I still have my moments of poor health choices but it’s a far cry from how I was even just a year ago. But I also feel like it’s not something I can go around celebrating with any of my friends or anything. So I just thought I’d post here. It’s a start. Here’s to getting it under 300 in 2023.

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I’m obese but my mom said she will disown me if I lose weight

I don’t know what to do :/ Sorry I don’t really know how to summarise everything but there’s another post on my account that explains it. I’m 5’4, 14 and 293lbs but basically my mom really does not approve of my weight loss.

Today she told me that if I really went ahead with this ‘fad’ and lost weight that she would disown me and I wouldn’t be her daughter. What the fuck??? What I do with this information should I just wait until I’m 18 to lose weight? I love my mom I would never want to hurt her but what do I do? I feel like I’m lying and going behind her back if I lose weight but at the same time being obese is affecting me so much.

My mom has always been so good to me but now she’s being so harsh about weight loss it’s so discouraging because I know I’m not supposed to be this size but I know I can’t upset my mom either

And I also told her about seeing a doctor. I told her I was having issues breathing (which is the truth) and she said I was lying and that she just thinks I’m saying this so I can see a doctor to lose weight. And I guess that is true but now I feel like I’m so stuck. I genuinely don’t think it’s normal for me to get as tired out as I do but now I can’t do anything about it? :/ And my dad agrees with my mom but refuses to get involved because he thinks it’s an issue for the women to solve so I can’t even try to convince him

I will still try and exercise and eat less where I can but this feels so wrong to be doing behind my mom’s back. I feel like I should just lose weight when I’m 18 instead but I don’t know if that’s a good idea?

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What was the one thing you did that made a major impact on your weight loss?

If you could pick one thing from all your changes in order to lose weight, what was it?

For me I am still on this journey but if I could look back and choose one thing that gave me the biggest difference where I noticed not doing it stunted my growth, it is strength training! I used to do body weight and other classes (spin, yoga…etc) but training with weights (gradually raising weights over time) gave me the biggest difference in my body especially after a few months.

Obviously calorie deficit helped but even with maintenance calories, strength training still shaped and toned my body the most compared to anything else.

What’s yours? I’m curious to see how different everyone’s bodies are and what worked for them! Hopefully it will help other people to get some ideas!

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Just a FYI. Body recomp or fat loss

Hey folks

This post is just to make people aware.

On my weight loss journey, I decided back in October that I would give the scales a miss. Got my missus to do my measurements instead and just continued with my cardio work outs / weight lifting routines / eating healthy and high ish protein.

The big reveal came on New Year’s Day. I had lost 16 inches of size across my whole body and put on 1kg!

If I hadn’t of been doing my measurements I would have been so disheartened with the 1kg weight gain after so much effort so I guess what I am trying to say is fuck the scales in the bin, unless your main target is weight loss. Or if you’re exercising, the scales can go up due to gaining muscle.

There is not enough info out there about body recompensation and I personally feel it’s the best way to go about getting healthier.

Further info can be read here

https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/body-recomposition

Good luck on your journeys, I hope this post helps somebody.

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Restarted 2 weeks ago to counteract a sedentary job. Here's what works for me

Pre-covid I went from 215 to 175, I was extremely happy with that but plateaued around there and wasn't too focused on finishing my journey (GW: ~155-160). Since then I've maintained around 180, and was fine with it, but no gym and not focusing on my intake.

I recently started a new job where I'm very sedentary, travel often, and have generous per diems (allowing basically any meal and quantity I could want). I've realized that I either take control of my health or will rapidly re-gain weight. After binging over the holidays, I committed to gaining control over my body. I wanted to share what I do as the posts here provide me so much motivation:

Eating:

I track my intake with Lose It. I've tracked intermittently over the last few years, but I'm on a ~2 week streak right now and don't see this resolve breaking. I've found that a proper setup in the app contributes to success.

  1. CICO: In this community, I feel that most have an awareness of this. There are many posts that can be found in search diving deep into the importance. If you're just starting out, know that the only way to lose weight is to be at a calorie deficit
  2. Set a caloric goal that is achievable: I'd previously set goals that were far too low. I could do it for ~3 days, but once I broke for a day, I'd be off it and would need to restart a month later. Using LoseIt's tools I found a calorie level that I rarely hit (which is motivating), while maintaining health and sustainable loss.
  3. Understand how you think about your calorie limit: Personally, I hate seeing the dial on LoseIt turn red (when I exceed my set calorie limit). I therefore have my limit set a bit higher than what my actual one is. As a result, I end the days 'under' which motivates me to continue
  4. Focus on more than just calories: Macros are a rabbit hole that I don't want to go too deep down. However, I track two additional things:
    1. Protein: I've been pescatarian for almost a year, it's been a journey finding appropriate protein substitutes. Protein's ability to fill me up, combined with starting to exercise and wanting to build muscle has made this my number one priority to ensure I get enough.
    2. Fiber: I've had some GI scares (ended up just being appendicitis), but it has made me more in-tune with my body's movements. Having solid, easy, poops is something most people probably don't appreciate when they happen. Eating enough fiber facilitates them, therefore I loosely make sure I get enough each day.
  5. Intermittent Fasting: I've loosened up my fasting regiment, and don't really formally track it, but it helps how I think about food and eating. Previously I wouldn't eat except for noon - 10pm. My schedule complicates this now, but it helps me think twice if that midnight snack, while being within my caloric limit, is worth it
  6. Track almost everything: When I tracked every single calorie, I'd get exhausted by the tedium of it. I track almost all of my food, but I allow myself certain things to make my life easier and because they don't cause much harm. I figure I miscount ~100 calories daily, but I see this as just built into having a lower limit and keeps away logging-fatigue.
    1. Examples
  • I don't drink soda, but I do drink a lot of sparkling water and an occasional Bodyarmour Lyte. A spindrift is ~10 calories & BA is ~20. I don't bother logging this, it isn't going to change my habit or goals.
  • My Preworkout is ~60 calories. If I'm tired before working out I'll have it. If I'm not, I don't. Either way it gets me to the gym so I don't bother logging it.
  • When I put balsamic vinegar and oil into my cucumber tomato salad, I measure and log that.
  • It's about picking your battles. Ultimately you only cheat yourself.

Weight Loss:

  1. Set small, achievable goals: Previously, I'd set my single goal as my ultimate goal weight. 20-40 pounds seemed so far off and the perceived lack of progress was discouraging. Now, I'm planning to go 5 lbs at a time. That seems achievable in a month and I see clear progress towards it. My ultimate GW is always in the back of my head, but I feel like each day is actually making meaningful progress.
  2. Weigh yourself constantly & consistently: Weight fluctuates throughout the day as you're more or less full. Every morning, I wake up, shower, brush teeth, go to the bathroom, and then step on the scale. This, in my opinion does two things:
    1. Makes checking weight a natural part of my morning routine. It isn't something I fear or forget, it just happens. As soon as I step off the scale, I log it in LoseIt.
    2. Eliminates as many factors as possible when taking the measurement (as any scientist would want). Your body is as empty as it will be during the day, allowing you an accurate sense of what your weight is
  • This also provides the satisfaction of having multiple data points on your weight graph. Infrequent logging makes lots of long straight lines connecting them. Daily logs create a true accurate graphic of your journey.

Exercise:

  1. "You can't out-exercise a bad diet": This is extremely true. It is so much easier not to eat calories than it is to burn them.
  2. Learn how to exercise: I'm not an authority here and still don't fully know what I'm doing. There are resources, trainers, and friends who can help you become comfortable in a gym. Find what works for you. The first few times will be awkward and uncomfortable, and I don't think most people at the gym know what to do with every single machine. Being uncomfortable is part of this process.
  3. You can build muscle while losing weight: I had this notion that I would only do cardio until I hit my goal weight. I did no strength and just did cardio. Maybe that works for some people, but I feel much more satisfied and motivated by incorporating strength training alongside cardio. In just 2 weeks I've noticed muscle and changes to my body. Small ones that only I'd notice, but it drives further motivation to continue going to the gym.
  4. Go to the gym regularly, even if just for a little bit: I know that once I start allowing myself excuses, it'll start a cycle where I skip more days. This week I felt pretty crappy one day, but still took myself to do some light cardio for 40 minutes. Your body needs to move, let it.
  5. Get clothes that are comfortable to workout in: I'm not saying go spend hundreds on nice gear. No hobby or life choice should start with that. But get a pair of shorts and 2 lightweight shirts [Or whatever you're comfortable in] to reduce barriers to working out. Personally, I could never workout in jeans and hate doing cardio in any pants - some people love that though. Understand what is comfortable so you can maximize your workout.
  6. Have something you do every day: I end at the gym with 20 crunches, 20 squats, and 20 pushups. My pushup form is shit, but I see this routine as a constant to track progress. In a month hopefully all of these are easier.

The journey is hard, and then maintenance begins. But the confidence being in your own body, health benefits, external recognition, and (realistically) societal prestige make it worth it.

I've had success in my journey by thinking about the time it takes for habits to form. Its hard to get through the first 3 days, then to get through the first 2 weeks, and then to get through the next month. Setting goals that push you over these hurdles will keep you motivated and lead to long term change

I've started and stopped many times. I hope this post illustrates that weight loss can be nuanced and there are a lot of things to consider, but hopefully you took something away from it or can add your own experience to it.

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Suddenly "gained" 4lbs due to menstrual cycle. Is this normal?

SW: 151 lbs | CW: 117.2 lbs | GW: 110 lbs. | Height: 5'1"

Hi guys. My weight loss journey started back in May of 2022 when I reached an all-time high weight of 151 lbs. Got really serious and started doing CICO, tracking my calories and following along to Fitness Blender YouTube workouts when I could. I'm also a single parent to a now 2 year old. It's been close to two years since I've had a period thanks to birth control completely stopping it. I've gotten as low as 113 lbs, as of last week. I was elated because I was so close to my goal weight.

Now all of a sudden, I'm weighing in at 117.2 this morning. I also started my first period in a long, long time. I'm cramping, bloated. But I have no appetite, I'm literally forcing myself to eat and drink water because the thought of it is making me nauseous.

Is it normal to suddenly put on 4 pounds of what I'm assuming is water weight and retention due to my period? I'm hoping it will just shed and fall off by this time next week, but I'm also feeling kind of defeated and annoyed, like all of my hard work wasn't worth it (which I know isn't true). Just looking to see if this has happened to anyone else! Thanks!

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Thursday, January 5, 2023

Going to a Chinese Buffet Tomorrow — How do I make sure I’m still in a deficit?

Hi, guys. Really need some advice if you’ve got the time. So tomorrow my family has planned a big day and want to go to a Chinese buffet afterwards. The problem is I can’t count calories (or can I??? let me know if it’s possible! they don’t have calories on their site, already checked) and I want to be sure I stay in a deficit. I’m 315 lbs 5’6 female so I can eat around 2,340 calories per day at my fitness level (one above sedentary, 30-60 minutes of exercise per day) 5-7 times per week and still lose weight (around 2 lbs per week according to MyNetDiary app). I don’t want to blow my calorie budget on one stupid day or even just say “f*ck it” for a day. I also can’t really back out of eating there with my family or it’ll cause more problems than it’s worth. My weight loss is a secret because my whole family is obese and anytime I mention wanting to get healthy they completely freak out. If you have any tips on how I can make tomorrow go smoothly without affecting my weight loss, I’d really appreciate it! Thanks in advance.

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