Wednesday, February 20, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 20 February 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Confessions of a calorie counting "weight loss success"

Long post.

I dont know why I'm even writing this. I'm not a naturally hugely warm and open person, and this is slightly terrifying. Not because I think I'm some matyr but because peeling back the veil is always scary, but I'm determined to say something. I think about my niece, shes three and her favourite things are princesses, ballerinas and her cat. I think about my best friend who cries about her body, I think about the messages I've received saying "Oh I wish I could lose weight like you." This type of post has been posted many times before and thats why its important- because it is a reality of what can happen during this process. Over the last two and a half years, I have lost 55kgs/6 dress sizes. But for the last year and a half, my extreme calorie counting, starvation techniques, crazily strict dieting, excessive exercise and my need to control everything has led me down a path of disordered eating that I wish I could take back.

And i lied, i lied for so long about my truth. I lied on here, on Instagram, to my friends, to my family and to myself. I posted before and afters, proclaiming ideas of basic calorie counting and balance, about how anyone can do it and do it naturally. I fed my insanity with likes and posts, Ana sitting on my shoulder saying what a good job I was doing. They dont need to know the truth... why would I want to expose myself like that? Just enjoy the attention... enjoy the feeling of being successful in the eyes of others. Ignore the knawing sickness, live a lie. Skinny is better then happy. Skinny is better then happy. Skinny is happy.

I won't let her make me a liar anymore. This is my confessional. Pray for my forgiveness as I exorcise this demon out of my body.

The reason I want to tell my story is because I AM POTENTIALLY YOU. I want to warn others against the dangers of allowing yourself to be completely controlled by your weight loss goals, and how true happiness really does come from underneath. True fulfillment lies in the choices you make, the impression your character leaves on people and the experiences you have. Your value as a person does not solely consist of a number on a scale.

I am a cautionary tale, here to emphatically say that YOUR GOAL WEIGHT MAY NOT RESULT IN A LIFE CHANGING MOMENT. There's no parade, no one hands you a medal. And that disappointment, realizing that you're still you complete with all your same old problems - now only thinner - is a hugely intense disappointment. I felt as awful at 65kgs as I had at 115kgs. I stood alone, in a cold empty bathroom, and cried.

I think about my 22 year old self and think about how badly she had wanted to be the size I am. I would have given anything to literally cut the fat off my body, I would have sacrificed any small child that beezlebub would have accepted. "Only then will I be happy."

I read a lot of the first timers posts here and I'm not going to lie, we all know that we share common mental issues and reasons for being overweight and wanting to lose weight. I would argue that common threads amongst us are: - family pressure and expectation - a desire to be loved - clinical depression/anxiety - relationship issues caused by our insecurities about our weight. - societal pressure, or in many cultures the idea that thin = successful, happy and worthy.

I was a teenager before the curves of Ashley Graham and Kim Kardashian existed, and when you had to shave your pubes to wear the low cut denim of 2003. I was the fat funny friend, the teenager who never got a date, the daughter who felt as if she was not loved because she was fat. I was obsessed with Disney princesses and barbies as a small girl. And for SO MANY OF YOU - I know this can be a common story.

But here I am, in front of you today, saying I would happily put the weight I forced off my body this year back on in order to stop the endless calorie counter in my head. I wish I hadn't had to starve myself, I wish I hadn't caused long term physical damage to my body and my mind. I wish I hadn't sacrificed happiness to be thin. I wish instead that I had taken the steps I'm now being forced to take - getting control of what's underneath, grabbing the tentacles of kathulu and getting her back into line.

I am lucky in that I live in a country where the government has provided help. I also think because I quit drinking a few years ago, I am self aware enough that I reached out, and I am now in the system and examining my relationship with food, with my parents, with myself. I know there are so many who have struggled for so many years with eating disorders, friends I know. Your sister. Your mum. Your dad. Your uncle. Your best friend. It can be a life long affliction and I'm glad I'm at this point sooner rather then later. I am feeling better. I wish it hadn't taken three trips to the hospital, three months of missed periods and a year of begging from my mum and my partner to just stop.

I wish I had never heard of MFP, CICO, and I wish I'd just focused instead on building sustainable habits, eating real and whole food, doing exercise because I enjoy it. I started off in a great and healthy way but it dissolved into madness. I became lady Macbeth, screaming out damn spot. Obsessed. Controlling.

I would like to make a contrasting point here before I just get slammed in the comments. I do not believe that following CICO, or in fact pursuing the goal of weight loss in any way, is a negative thing. I dont think that you'll automatically get an eating disorder just because you are strict with yourself. Losing weight, one of the reasons we all came here, is a noble goal that will give you a better life. Do I still take daily medication? No. Can I run a 10k? Yes. Are people nicer? Yes. Do I have a better sex life and better relationships with those around me? Yes. It is an irony in all of this that if I hadn't started losing the weight then I would still be 115kgs under the absolute concrete belief that thin = happy. I would still be incredibly sick and unhealthy. I would still be an agoraphobic, living in my bed.

Kind traveller, thank you for sitting by my fire. I wish you well upon your journey and wish you all the success but heed my warning, it is simply this: If you are not happy within yourself now - losing weight will not bring you completion. It will never fix a relationship, make you more friends or cure your depression. Exercise and healthy eating can help that, but starvation and obsessive thinking does not.

That horrible saying "nothing tastes as good as skinny feels" is utter rubbish. I ate proper spaghetti bolognese yesterday for the first time in a long time. Pasta tasted just as amazing as I remember it tasting.

1200 calories is not a bible figure. Calories are incredibly relative and honestly - their value is questionable. Health should be your goal, being able to dance and run and climb stairs and run marathons. Travel comfortably. Fit a wedding dress. Confidently approach your boss about that raise you damn well deserve. Live a long and healthy life, dying old, not having to get your knees replaced at 30. The sheer act of weighing less does have an incredible mental benefit.

But your weight does not equal your value.

And let me tell you - you are worthy and valuable and beautiful and worthy of living your best life right now. And you can do it. The only thing standing in your way is you. And if that goal is to lose a couple of pounds then hell yes friend. But dont make it the only thing that will ever make you happy.

In the invaluable words of Morty, "Get your shit together.".

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Tuesday, February 19, 2019

What do you think of this open-access food diary concept?

I am a medical student who performs mobile health research on weight loss and diabetes. I noticed that many people who tracked their food intake were unsure if they were inputting the accurate calorie amounts for the food they ate at restaurants. I built an open access food diary for a smart city competition that hopefully chips away at this issue by letting restaurants tell you exactly what you ordered. Here's the concept video to understand it better. Restaurants would be able to write in your food diary for you after you make your purchase. I have integrated with several PoS systems on iPhone, Android, and the Apple Watch, just curious on your thoughts. The plan is to sync data with the health app on your smart phone to be another source of food/exercise data similar to how FitBit can sync data with MyFitnessPal, so you would still use all your other devices/apps.

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the last ‘Day 1’

I’ve started and fell off multiple times with this weight loss journey. Gaining motivation and then losing it, blaming it on my work schedule, stress eating, not going to the gym because I didn’t pay the bill, feeling lazy in general and not being able to shake it, you name it, I’ve went through it.

But I am so over this.

So today I’m starting fresh, for the last time. I’m going back on my 100% plant based lifestyle. I’m committing to 5 days minimum in the gym. No more ordering out, ordering in, I deleted the ubereats and gopuff apps off my phone. I’m going to change my relationship with food and find something else to use as a comfort other than whatever I’m craving @ the moment && stop eating out of boredom.

I can and will do this. I have to.

SW: 245 GW: 145

this is more than possible.

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Looks like I achieved ALL of my weight loss goals! :D

I have this giant excel workbook with a tabs on calorie intake, run logs, swim logs, insults, SVs, NSVs, charts, comments, encouragement, motivation, measurements and of course GOALS! I had a list of goals that I kept track of as I was losing the weight, to see how far I had come in terms of what I wanted! :D

Here is my goal list! All done. <3

Weight Loss Goal Status
Hit 70 kg Achieved in 2 months
Hit 65 kg Achieved in 5 months
Have a normal BMI Achieved in 2 months
Have a normal ASIAN BMI Achieved in 6 months
Have a normal ASIAN BMI if I were an inch shorter Achieved!
Be the lowest weight of my adult life Achieved! Saw 58.8kg/129.6lbs on the scale
Run the 10k again this year Achieved! 10 min lower than last year at 80min
Have a healthy waist circumference Achieved! 74cm/29inches
Fit into the polka dot top Achieved
Fit into black top#1 and zip it up Achieved
Fit into black top#2 and button it up Achieved, boobs still too big
Fit into all my saree blouses Achieved + Fitting into skinny people's blouses now :O
See crotch sucking in tummy Achieved! in 8 months
Question mark side profile Achieved!! :D
Lie down and have concave tummy in the mirror Somewhat, loose skin, lets be realistic <3
Have a healthy Waist to Hip Ratio Achieved at 0.76!
Want to have a waist I didn't really think so until now. Hubby has exclaimed so many times about my awesome new waist. I believe it now.
LOSE AS MUCH AS NEPHEW WEIGHS (30lb) AND CLICK A PICTURE HOLDING HIM Achieved 8 months!!

Here is a brief summary of my stats.

Stats Starting Current Lost
Weight 168 lb 129 lb 39 lb!!
BMI 27 20.7 6.3 points
Time May Feb 9 months
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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Wednesday, 20 February 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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I think I can actually do this!

I've struggled with my weight my whole life. I was that stereotypical fat girl that was bullied all the time in school for being fat. My family was constantly pushing me to lose weight even though all of them were just as overweight as I was or more so and they would bribe me to do things with food as the reward. How could a child/teenager be expected to lose weight and change their eating habits when they knew nothing about living a healthy lifestyle and their parents only bought processed junk and takeout for every meal?

As the years rolled by and I got older, the weight slowly kept piling on. I hated myself more and more every time I looked in the mirror. Even as an adult, I couldn't quite get a hold of my eating habits. I thought that being fat and not taking care of myself was the only way after struggling to lose weight time and time again only to never make any progress.

Here I am now though. I'm 20 years old and finally on the road to leading a better and healthier lifestyle. In early January, I finally stepped on the scale to see how bad things had gotten. At 5'8 I weighed 322.3 lbs. I was so disappointed in myself. I had always told myself, "Well, at least I'm not 300 lbs". But there I was. I had surpassed the threshold of what i thought i would never be.

I stepped off the scale and learned as much as I could about weight loss. I finally settled on focusing on CICO and exercise. I vaguely remembered that CICO had worked for a short while when I was a child but that I just hadn't stuck to it. I decided that this would be my final attempt at losing the weight. I had to succeed this time. I dropped my calorie intake to 1500 calories a day and exercised almost every day.

The good news now is that I've dropped 21.3 lbs since January 24th of this year. I never thought weight loss like this could ever be achievable for me. Every prior attempt got me nowhere. I just wasn't in the right headspace to push through. I'm now 301 lbs. I'm almost under 300 again. It doesnt even seem real.

The bad news of course is that I still have so far to go. Even looking at the progress I've made I still feel like there's so much potential to crash and burn along the way. I don't want to fall off and give up completly on myself.

Any tips and pointers are welcome. I would love to understand more about what I can do to be a healthier person and I would absolutely love feedback on if I'm losing weight in a good way or not and what I can do to improve.

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