Tuesday, January 28, 2025

You’re not there yet if you keep making it about other people

This post is controversial. I have commented on this before but I'm just going to say my take. Every second post on this sub is something along the lines- people treat me differently! my wife is acting strange now! No one is noticing my weight loss! Hear me out, I am not saying fat people don't get treated (unfortunately) worse. But I'm also saying low confidence also plays a huge part in how people see and treat you, no matter the size you are. We expect other people to treat us nicely and say we're beautiful while we look in the mirror and say nothing nice only critisise and hate ourselves.

Having your partner compliment you more and seeing the results out in public should come second. And I am also guilty of enjoying the compliments and seeing the social changes but we have to focus on the things that are important to US first. I enjoy reading posts that say "finally I feel confident in myself". For me I started noticing accomplishments that no one even knows about, like being able to walk uphill to my job faster than everyone and not being out of breath, looking forward to trying on clothes, looking forward to cooking. Whatever it is, do it for YOU first, stop focusing on how you were or are being treated, how men or women or your partner reacts to you.

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Does Lose Skin thighten after losing a lot of weight quickly?

Hello, im currently 18 and been overweight for the last 6-7 years, ive been on a pretty strict weight loss journey (260 lbs - 150 lbs) that also includes 24+ fasting (water diet).

Due to this ive sometimes lost 2 pounds a week but a lot of times its been more than that for example last week its been 6 pounds. And now that im really starting to see the lose skin im worried ive gone too fast and unable to fix it without surgery anymore.

Am i being irrational? Or is it "impossible" by now for my skin to tighten? Im kinda new to weight lose and was ignorant about the other factors until pretty much now.

Thanks for your replies, means a lot

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Monday, January 27, 2025

Struggling to Lose Weight Without Risking My Period and Hormonal Health

I’m hoping to get some advice from those who have experience with amenorrhea and managing weight loss while maintaining hormonal health. I’m working on losing 15 kilos by the end of June, and I’m committed to working out and eating well, but I’m really worried about messing up my hormones and losing my period again.

A little background: I went through a period of extreme calorie restriction in October, and it ended up causing my periods to become irregular. By December, I completely lost my cycle. It’s starting to come back now, but I really want to avoid going through that again.

I’ve been reading a lot about amenorrhea and how extreme exercise or energy loss can cause it, and I’m really nervous about that. I’m not sure what level of exercise is considered “extreme,” and I’m unsure how to approach this in a safe way. I want to be able to lose weight but not at the cost of my period or my hormonal health.

Any advice or experiences would be really appreciated. I’m just trying to find a healthy and sustainable approach to this, and I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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Underrated aspects of losing weight?

Hi! Struggling to find the willpower to stay as consistent as I near the normal BMI range, so I was hoping to find some through this. What are some parts of weight loss that aren’t often talked about that have been really enjoyable to you? They can be aesthetic or functional!

Something that’s been fun for me are my collarbones slowly getting more prominent! I carry most of my weight in my chest, so they’re not exactly popping out yet, but I honestly forgot they’d even existed because I hadn’t seen them in so long so this much is exciting :P

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My weight loss not making sense

I’m a 22 year old male and I have been on a calorie deficit for 3 weeks now. Last week 2 I lost just under a pound however last 3 I lost 3.3 pounds/1.5kg and my calorie deficit was roughly the same. I usually consume around 1000-1100 calories daily and have a BMR of 1870. I also weighed myself 5 times to make sure it was accurate and I got the same results each time. Is anyone one able to explain this to me?

Also is there any food suggestions while being in a calorie deficit as I often find myself really hungry and I just choose not to eat.

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Sunday, January 26, 2025

-25 in 26 stats and thoughts

M 6' 1" SW 234. CW 209. 25 LBS. 26 days.

Began new routines 1-1-2025.

No potatoes, rice, noodles, or bread. No fried food. Sparingly use condiments. Sugar as a treat or reward. Diet soda or diet energy drink. (Should really stop). Need to drink more water. Protien for breakfast. Meat and vegetables for lunch. Nuts and fruits for snacks. Dinner with family can get complicated. When we have, for example, lasagna my portion is less than the size of my fist. But I will load up on the veggies that were cooked as well. I have not been the one to cook very much this month. I should help by cooking for a family aimed healthy meal.

The training and weight loss has benefits that include: My knees are not as stiff and sore. Feeling faster and running tracking numbers on the track and trail prove it. Have longer bball training sessions. 1+ hours each time. Flexibility and stretches are becoming easier. I feel more comfortable and confident in my knee\leg that was broken just last may. Shirts, pants, and coats are looking big on me. I am wearing my L's as often as i can because at this rate that size will look too big for my frame soon. I have been in the medium size section of my clost. I have some sweet garb back there, thousands of dollars worth.

My wife doesn't compliment me or want to talk about my path. She is not on the path she wishes to be. I wish she was on a healthier journey, but she continues to make choices that do affect her negatively, per her desired goals. Exercising with my kids more. Bought them gym passes. Been training them twice a week, in addition to the usual practices and games each week.

Not sleeping great, but i attribute that to my new attempt at sobriety. I kicked pot to the curb two weeks ago. I was vaping so much I was wheezing. Breathing and lungs no longer feel discomfort.idiot Also, not buying pot allows me to spend money on self care products. I bought a muscle massage gun, Game changer! I got out knots in my hamstings and calves ive been living with for many years. Get one! $29 on amazon.

Journaling and sharing with you all my highs and lows. Reading all of your battles helps me. thank you all for your openness and comments* Tracking mood daily. Tracking weight daily. Tracking hours trained each day, and kicking the shit out-of my weekly goals!

Learning to love my body, loose skin and all. That means you toostretch marks, group hug!

Creating art hasnt increased but i have been more intentional with my time and projects. Better interactions with my colleagues at work. Im a graph designer, and I've been taking on larger and larger projects lately. Maybe just a coincidence.

I am ready to "plateau" with my weight. The gym was closed for a few days last week, so i had to find a different place, that was frustrating.

Yeah, im doing okay guys. I am here to cheer you on, and understand failing or fall backs. Shitty moments have lead me to this good one. I must remember that.

My mantra (borrowed) is, "If not now, then when? If not you, then who? If not here, then where."

Happy weekend to you, all. Kick monday in the balls and start strong.

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How to calorie count when family dislikes it?

Hey all, so I'm at 194 lbs currently and I want to lose weight so I can be 160, then go from that to 130. So I've thought of counting calories. This has been rather unsuccessful on my part due to being inconsistent, and I'm rather conscious about whenever my family yells at me to quit it. I understand that kind of stuff leads to eating disorders, I mean it's awful that people will starve themselves for a perfect physique... It's just that I have the inverse problem. I will eat if I'm going through a tough time, and I want to stop it. So, how can I count calories in a healthy way while also losing weight to ensure I meet my weight loss goals?

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