Monday, February 24, 2025

losing weight changed everything

Two days will mark my one year anniversary of changing my life and it is the best decision i’ve ever made. I never expected some of the random things that came with weight loss. For starters, my face looks completely different. I can see some cheek definition and look way less ugly to myself. People in public treat me with respect and not like i’m invisible. I think it’s a pretty messed up part of society, but it makes me appreciate the people that were always nice to me. I can actually be confident in social situations and make people laugh. Girls specifically treat me differently and I can actually talk to girls with my friend and they are interested in me. I got a whole new wardrobe and now instead of dreading hot days where I can’t wear hoodies, I pray for days warm enough to wear a t-shirt. Losing weight has helped me in so many ways that aren’t just for my health (the most important reason to lose weight.)

EDIT: Currently 5’8, 17, 211 pounds right now, started at 288. I’m still big but everything is already better

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Parents comments throwing me off

Hi everyone,

I’m in a difficult stage in my life where (and I have my reasons) I’m having to live at home. I’ve been home about 7 months now after having lived with an ex partner for six years. About October time I really started taking my weight loss journey seriously again as I fell off for about three months after the break up.

Since then, my mum has been regularly commenting on my appearance. Yes, I made the mistake of not moving in silence with her. So whilst most of the comments are positive saying the weight loss is really visible. If I wear anything other than black leggings “that’s not flattering- you need to just wear black”. Like tonight, I am innocently making a coffee with my back turned “don’t wear that cardigan on a date- it makes you look five stone heavier”.

The comment tonight was really random and completely unprovoked. And it’s just made me feel like crying. I’m so proud of what I have achieved in my journey so far and still very much going. I’m fed up with her comments. She is equally as pessimistic about my dating life too. I work from home too so she’s constantly coming into the room where I’m working, talking to me. I’m just around her so much, my work is already stressful and trying to maintain a weight loss journey with all this going on is making me miserable.

I don’t really know what I’m hoping to achieve by this post but. There must be several of you that have been in a similar situation. Maybe some guiding talk would help? Who knows

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lost my first 10 pounds!!

Hi guys!! Just here to say I lost my first 10 pounds in just under a month of a consistent calorie deficit. This feels like the 100th time I’ve tried to lose and something has finally clicked and I’m able to stay consistent so much easier. getting started is HARD. And still is sometimes! I never thought I could do it!!

I will say what has helped me most is phentermine, a food scale, and most importantly - not weighing everyday. The phentermine helps me feel full and the food scale helps me be much more accurate and realize that I need to be eating less (or more!) of things I was counting wrong. And not weighing everyday kept me from feeling discouraged since daily weight fluctuation is completely normal.

I’m working against endometriosis, fibromyalgia, venous insufficiency, and a billion medications which makes weight gain easy and weight loss hard.

It’s just wanted to post somewhere they I’m proud of myself!

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Sunday, February 23, 2025

3 month update

(92 days)3 months in and I'm down 32 pounds. Here's stats and things I've done as I go into the second leg of my 4 or 5 leg plan of losing weight.

  1. Stats-Biggest streak of going in a caloric deficit was 53 days. I have eaten in a deficit 87/92 days, all 5 days "messing up" due to eating with friend/s or parties. perfect 87/87 when I'm in control of what I eat or the environment(restaurants or food places/cooking). Currently on an 11 day streak.

  2. Breakfast-During this time, I have 7 breakfast options I go to: Protein shake, Smoothie, Eggs w/ any combination of vegetables/meat/cheese/sauce, Oatmeal w/Protein/ fruit, Yogurt w/protein powder/ fruit, cereal, or breakfast burrito(at a food place my fam goes to). I also have Minute Maid zero sugar for vitamin C or water.

  3. Other food-The rest of the day is made up of whatever I feel like eating or whatever my family cooks. Ive eaten out a fast food places, cooked meat and combined it with rice, I've eaten an Oreo or fruit snack, Ive had fruits, ramen, literally anything. Fish, pasta, burgers, are things that the fam cooks and ill eat that throughout the week until its gone. The plan here is to be able to eat like how the normal person can eat. I don't really care for huge gains or trying to have peak fitness, I just want to be able to enjoy things most people around me enjoy while having a normal lifestyle. Being able to have everything and anything I like allows me that luxury. Its all about portion control and making at least one good food decision a day.

  4. Exercise- I am one that plays a lot of basketball and you could say I have that itch of a Steph curry despite my weight( great shooter, and when I have the energy will run around and use other players to get myself open). I play 4-5 times a week and play in a league so I'm always trying to get better. With that, I burn a lot of calories in the week. One thing that hinders me from playing so much that you'd call me crazy is a meniscus injury that I left untreated, so that's held me back a couple times. This also led me to obtain a Achilles tendinitis injury as well, and a bunch of scrapes and bruises that haven't been fun having, but I'm trucking through like a warrior. Getting down to the weight is my number one goal, then I will look into fixing these issues and build myself up through lifting and other healthy options to get to where I want to be, but for now its'"f**k it, we ball". Side note, I did go to the gym for lifting and cardio, but I decided to lose the weight first through basketball then, improve physique after. I get a little bit of everything through basketball anyways.

  5. Motivation- I don't run through motivation at all. I used to believe that one needs it to do this, but despite all the reasons I would want to lose weight, none of them drive me to succeed. It's loving the process like I do making spreadsheets, watching sports or other things that I've been able too do long term. Learning to cook, finding new methods to lose, diagnosing how I feel every time I eat, making decisions when friends ask me and figuring out how to adapt the rest of the day if my path changes. That is what's driving me, but it doesn't even feel like I NEED to keep thinking about it, its just happening.

6- Hunger Levels- Two things I hate when it comes to hunger levels: Feeling full and feeling hungry. Only time I don't feel good( other than lack of sleep) is when I overeat or I feel the need to eat through my stomach. Ive done a good job eating despite not feeling hungry and it keeps my stomach from sending signals to eat something.

7-Water Intake- for me personally, only time I feel the need to drink water is when I'm exercising. Other times, I'll either drink what I want, or ill have a water bottle here or there, but it's not something constantly on my mind. I know that if I get back into water, drinking one to two cups every 1-2 hours is the ideal thing (outside exercise). I lose the most weight after I exercise because sodium levels and water retention deplete, so when I hit the scale I can lose up to 3-4 lbs from before the workout and after( not net loss throughout the day). This is not a recommendation for how to drink water, only the sentence regarding 1-2 cups every 1-2 hours is my recommendation for people wondering how much to drink. Either that or when you pee having a clear or lightly yellow color.

  1. Body measurements- Not really sure how to feel about body measurements. I guess the main ones I'll talk about are waist and chest size. I lost about 3 inches off chest and 4 inches off waist. other things I'm looking for a change in is the over the knee circumference for my leg sleeves I feel required to wear and the upper thigh because not having my legs touching when walking would save me a couple weeks for clothing not rubbing together and chafing. I haven't seen real movement there yet and it can be quite inconsistent.

  2. Clothing- This is a project that I'm most excited about and the last one I will talk about. That's where the true enjoyment of doing this will come from long term. So I have about 120 shirt/hoodie in my closet, drawer or baskets. they range from 45 waist to 61 waist and I added torso as I will lose a couple inches from it because of the waist. Right now about a 5th of the clothes fit good, the rest either have a body outline, show the bottom of my belly or just aren't close. the ultimate goal is to fit into this one flannel hoodie long sleeve that I bought 5 years ago, but If I don't its ok. It's kind of like a game to me. You unlock new clothes with each loss of a inch on the waist. Two of my favorite hoodies I've ever bought are starting to fit enough that I can hoop in them with one of my long workout shirts. That puts a smile to my face most people never see around me lol.

So, with that being said. The second leg of my weight loss will have me losing 30lbs getting to 270 which should take approximately 3 months to do barring any setbacks. I've already made TDEE adjustments, and yeah, I'm just excited to be at a weight I haven't been at since early 2020. step 3 will be to get to 240-250. step 4 will be optional which is learning to maintain and maybe put some muscle on, and step 5 will be to get to 220. last two steps depend on loose skin as I want my body to be able to catch up to it if it can.

If you have any questions, lmk. until summertime 🙂

P.S. not a doctor, any recommendations or things I do say should be taken with a grain of salt.

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Some advice needed

So I'm stalling during my weight loss. About 2 years ago, I lost about 40lbs through working out and calorie counting. I hit a depression period back in May and gained 10lbs. I've been back at it since December and barely any luck. 6ft3", 255lbs. An office job but I workout 4 days a week. 50mins on the treadmill at a medium/high incline at a brisk walk. Then about 4 machines for the area that day (currently focusing on lower body as my legs have always been week and wanna try it). I lift till my form is poor or those muscles are shaking.
I also take creatine too. My daily calories is 1,900-2,000 and protein is around 180grams. I initially gained some weight with the creatine (water weight) but then I lost some as well. So technically I lost about 2lbs since I started taking it. But I've stalled for about 1.5 months now. I understand progress is slow. But even not losing .25 lbs a week? I know there is some muscle growth since I've had to increase pants size up 1. But I thought nuslce growth to be a lot slower than weight loss? What am I missing?

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Saturday, February 22, 2025

Gym Anxiety - is David Lloyd Worth it?

I’m looking to join a gym/pool local to me but have some anxieties about using a gym.

I’m F25 150kg 5ft3. I’ve been obese as long as I can remember and am making some steps to change that now. However, I’ve never joined a gym and don’t know how to use any equipment…not even to turn it on!

I’ve joined gym memberships previously to access pools as I love to swim, but want to start to access the gym as well so I can do some more cardio and weights ideally to help progress weight loss and muscle development.

There are not many gym and pool combos near my home and David Lloyd is the main one relatively close by other than local council leisure centres.

I joined council leisure centres at university but never felt brave enough to enter the gym, partly because it felt like staff were there because they had to be and not bothered in helping customers.

I see David Lloyd advertised as a supportive and all about personal growth etc. Is it the right place to start my journey and are the costs worth it?

Thank you!

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How to stop calorie counting

I've been calorie counting for years at this point. Now, I want to stop, I'm not sure how to go about it. I have a pretty good understanding of the calorie content of most foods, but I’m looking for tips on how to eat intuitively while still maintaining weight loss. Of course, I won’t be eating everything I want but in moderation, also eating healthy but moving away from calorie counting might help reduce my food noise, and I just don’t really want to anymore. Does anyone have any tips on making this transition?

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