Friday, September 18, 2026

Help & Advice? - 5'6F, 150lbs to 125lbs

Hello,
I'm currently fluctuating 148-152lbs, but I am hoping to lose 25lbs before my sister's wedding. I've always been on the heavier side, and although I know it is largely self image, all of the other bridesmaids are extremely skinny so I do not want to be standing out as I'm sure these photos I'll continue to see throughout my life. Before the summer I had been able to get down to 145lbs, but unfortunately due to summer activities such as a cruise I am back where I started. Food has always been a reward or emotional comfort tool for me, I remember within my childhood often if I was sad the answer was here's a nice homecooked meal and sugar.

For those who love food is there any recipes you suggest/how do you overcome this? Any general weight loss advice for this would be greatly appreciated. In addition any suggestions on incoporating exercise would be amazing, as I struggle to find exercise I enjoy & stick to--I have an open basketball on fridays, but outside of that I'm very inactive.

submitted by /u/YelenaB-coolwaytodie
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/SNALvqU

WEIGHT LOSS-95KG,165CM

hlo im a 16 year old boy. I am 95.50kgs and 165cm in weight and height. I want to lose weight cuz im tired of being bullied and i want to make a healthy body. i have a bad habit of eating chips and cold drinks everyday since like 4-5 years and since last 1-2 years ive consumed a lot of maggi and fastfoods like pizza,noodles,fried rice,manchurian etc.

Now i wanna lose weight. Im from india btw and im too shy to go to the gym. havent filled out the form yet cuz exams are going on and im gonna go to gym since 1st october when exams end. i want yall to gimme some suggestions and i want to know how much time will it take to lets say reach 70kgs and body? also im insecure about my chest like its soft and i often get bullied for that too so will it get good if i loose weight? also the skin at my belly is tearing and new skin is appearing and i think its a bad sign. if i lose weight fastly does it lead to a surgery for removal of extra skin?

please pour in all the knowledge and motivation im gonna need it. Im doing it so that my family dont have to suffer from me being ill and the hospital bills along with the taunts they get from toxic neighbours and relatives.

submitted by /u/Educational_Spot865
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/kKcznJD

Thursday, September 17, 2026

20lbs down

I (34 5’5” 258lbs) have a long history of weight loss and weight gain. At 16 I weight between 220/230, by 19 I was 130, so a total loss of 100lbs in three years. I developed an eating disorder at the 130 mark and worked to normalize at a healthy weight range of 160-75, I have a muscular and curvy build and was unhealthy at 130.

For years I managed the healthy range, sometimes dipping a little higher but mostly keeping it off and progressing my exercise. For health/medication reason I ended up gaining a fair amount of weight after age 30.

Fast forward, I just had a baby. I conceived of my daughter at 225, but a very healthy and muscular 225. Still, too high. By the time I was nursing her, my weight crept to 278, an unfathomably difficult and high number for me to reconcile.

I have finally lost 20lbs from there due in most part to diet and exercise. I’m so happy to have finally achieved this and am hoping I can make it back to 200. I can’t imagine I’ll ever get back to 160/75 but if I did that would be an incredible accomplishment. Excited and motivated to keep going!

submitted by /u/AlgaeShort8516
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/KCgk3Wb

I just gotta complain about this stupid weight loss.

So some boring but somewhat important stuff: Male, 30, 5'10 (178cm) going for a more feminine appearance and thus trying to get to 150 (68kg) pounds.

I started at 200 pounds (90kg)

Currently at 170. (77kg)

Now, I was more focused on getting my diet right with a nutritionist, way more than weight because I knew I'd take it too far. (body image issues, you all know how it is.) We worked out a good diet and I'm the type of guy who works well with a "Eat this, this, and this, and nothing but." type of diet. So two protein shakes, a high fiber cereal, two yogurts, some chia seeds, some fish oil pills, a good mixed salad, and occasionally a fiber bar to round it all at out and I was hitting like, 1500 calories eaten a day. Great! Not the point but great!

Months passed, got down to 170 pounds. I was overjoyed. All I needed was 20 more pounds to get to my goal and then really start the refinement process of turning my body into a more athletic feminine build.

Then the progress stalled out, hard. No more going down. In fact, I noticed it even went up a pound or two (in a more permanent way).

Then I did mathhhhh. Fucking mathhh. So according to the TDEE calculator, at 200 pounds, I was burning 2200 calories by breathing. Accordingly, at 170, apparently, I'm burning 1700 calories by breathing. Which means with my daily calorie intake of 1500 or so, went from a 700 deficit, to a 200 deficit. Except of course, some days I eat that 600 calorie burrito on top of my diet... which sets me back three days in total. Awesome.

Then I did so much more math. It takes, according to some general science, roughly 3500 calories of burn to equal 1 pound of permanent loss. That means it would take me 18 days (roughly) to loss 1 pound if I never cheated on my diet or 360 days (basically a year) to lose 20 pounds. Awesome. Unacceptable.

So then I of course, figured out a workout routine. I like walking. Walking is fine. Walking to the local gym and back takes roughly 3 hours total. My plan was, and is, to walk from here to gym, 4 days out of the week. (The other three days I have prior obligations so I can't do it every day). Okay sure. Ah, but wait, I did more math. After calculating my walking speed, distance, time, age, height, and all that nonsense in a calculator, it spat out that I burned roughly 600 calories from walking 3 hours. Times 4, thats 2400 calories for a week. Times 4, thats (roughly), 9600. Add in the 200 per day being burnt from diet and you get 15,600 burn. Divided by 3500 and you get 4.4 pounds per month. Or roughly 1 pound a week of fat loss. Or 5 months to lose 20 pounds if I walk 12 hours a week, 48 hours a month, and never cheat on my diet. Ughhhhh.

And before anyone is like "ah man, what about [this exercise instead]" I like walking. I can't guarantee I'll do [insert exercise] 4 times a week for even an hour but I can guarantee I can at least theoretically do the walking through a trail or in the woods for three a day.

Then comes the worry post my weight target. Like at 150, I'll be burning like 1650. The plan was always to stick to this diet permanently considering it A. tastes good and B. hits a lot of my nutrition and then add another meal on top. Because 'Everyone burns 2000 calories a day'. How foolish I was to think so. So if I do that, I'll suddenly undo all the progress I spent working towards my athletic goal. Which means I can either A. Really take up exercise as a hobby, like, really really take it up as a hobby or B. Get really used to eating my current diet and not anything else ever again if I want to maintain my ideal aesthetic figure.

What an annoyance.

(Yes I know all the math could be wrong, the calculators seem to want to give me different information for no reason, but it really painted a picture to me that this is going to take forever.)

submitted by /u/Mike_Handers
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/pM4qXYf

Have I been too severe with my weight loss?

Hey all,

Just hoping to get some outsider perspective on what I’ve been doing and whether my progress has been healthy. Sorry if the title isn’t great, I wasn’t sure what to put. I’ve gotten a lot of conflicting information from different sources throughout the process so far, and I figure people on this sub might have a more concrete answer.

Stats:
23 year old male
6’2
Currently 195lbs
“Lightly Active” lifestyle — 50-60 hours of work per week requiring light activity, as well as strength training when I can fit it in, typically 2 hours per week. The core of my strength training is high weight low reps, so short bursts.

Progress so far:
I have been seriously dieting for just about 2 months now. I did not have a scale until 6 weeks ago, and at that point I was ~210. This puts me at 15 lbs lost in 6 weeks, above the “healthy limit”.

Now that I’ve written out all that info, my absolute biggest issue is that I think I may be taking it too aggressively. I practice a 21:3 fast as it is suitable to my lifestyle, and I have also found that I have a persistent hunger craving between meals if I eat multiple smaller ones throughout the day. I eat the bulk of my calories at the beginning of the window, and then I consume a protein shake at the end of the window.

My daily caloric intake is ~1800. This is where I think I may have gone wrong. For whatever reason I was under the impression that my maintenance calories were ~2300, and as such was maintaining a 500 calorie deficit. Today I used the Mayo Clinic calorie calculator to see if I needed to slightly lower my intake to account for the 15 lbs lost, and was shocked to see that the estimate for my current stats is 2750 calories per day maintenance? This would seem to suggest that I have been maintaining a deficit of 1000 calories every day for 2 months.

If this is true, I would say that I have been fine on the deficit. My energy has been fine, my hunger cravings have been extremely limited (possibly hidden by an unrelated medication), and I haven’t had any issues until now.

My biggest concern at this point is that I haven’t lost any meaningful weight in a week. I have bounced +/- 0.5 lbs, which is unusual for me. During the journey I have been able to see consistent weight loss throughout the week. I do not know enough about weight loss to assess this, but I am worried I may have accidentally overdone it and ended up plummeting my metabolism. The only other major change has been that my biceps and triceps suddenly got wayyyy bigger, so maybe the water retention in my muscles has skyrocketed? Not sure what that would indicate.

I’m sorry for the long post, but to summarize my questions into a TLDR of sorts:
- What seems to be the accurate maintenance calories?
- Was my deficit too aggressive up to this point?
- Why has my weight loss seemingly stopped, even while maintaining the same diet?
- Is my metabolism shot? If so, what are the steps to repair it?
- Why are my biceps suddenly way bigger and firmer?

Thank you all so much for your time and consideration. If there is any other information I can give that would help, please let me know :)

submitted by /u/throwaway19385396
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/d7R56l1

Update!

I made a post a while back (Maybe a month or two) about getting into a calorie deficit and cutting out meat. Since then I've lost 13 pounds!

I did have a week in there where I started over eating again, but I got myself back on track. I've avoided meat almost entirely since I last posted!

I'm so so so proud of myself and I've learned a few things as well:

1: The current cultural obsession with protein is kind of unnecessary.

The fact that every product has little text bubbles on it bragging about how much protein it has, led me to believe that it must be REALLY hard to get enough protein. I was super worried about how I was going to get enough protein without meat. Well it turns out that nearly everything has at least a little protein in it (avocados, pasta, ect.) and I only really need like 70 grams a day based on body weight. As long as I remember to a eat a good amount of eggs, beans, or a fake burger I'm usually fine. I was counting grams of protein for probably the first two weeks or so but now that I know how much protein is in most of the foods I eat I just eyeball it.

2: Eating a big breakfast because it's the most important meal of the day is such a scam lol.

Ok so this one is my opinion and it probably doesn't apply to everyone BUT I find that I'm much more hungry after like 4pm. Eating a bunch before that leaves me with very few calories for dinner or dessert, which is when I want to eat the most.

3: Giving up on the whole day because you over ate is a trap.

I know this one will be obvious to a lot of people but I when I tried to lose weight in the past I had a horrible issue with overeating and then just giving up and eating whatever I wanted for the rest of the day. I heard someone online explain weight loss in terms of weekly deficits rather than daily and it really helped me. Essentially what matters is generally eating less, one day won't have that big of an effect on your weekly weight loss. However if you eat like 4000 calories that day it probably will throw you off lol, so just set a different goal for that day (like 2000 instead of 1700) and just move on with your life. All is not lost, one day of overeating won't ruin your week, but binging will.

submitted by /u/A_Puzzled_Potato
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/4qjMbrw

Wednesday, September 16, 2026

Struggling to lose weight

I am 193 pounds 5”3 20F. When I started my weight loss journey two years ago I started at 195 pounds in about five months I lost 30 pounds taking me down to 165 pounds. since then, I’ve mostly maintained that usually weighing in around 170 pounds but in May, I went through a really hard break up and I stopped going to the gym and looking after what I ate. I ended up deciding to get things back on track and I re-weighed in at 187 pounds and since then I’ve been in a calorie deficit and aiming for going to the gym around three times a week however I weighed in today at 193 pounds. I’m feeling really defeated and like nothing I’m doing is working.

submitted by /u/pinkhappystitch
[link] [comments]

from loseit - Lose the Fat https://ift.tt/nRD5Lqu