I am kind of at my wits end everyone, and I really could use some help and guidance.
Very very short background on me, I am an old user of this sub. Back in those days(8 years ago) I went from 400Lbs to 185Lbs in like, two years and made it to my goal weight, documenting the whole journey on this sub.
Now, I am back up to 363Lbs... I was back up to 400Lbs, but I went down to 339Lbs for the shortest amount of time last spring, but have been climbing ever since. A lot has changed since that first time losing weight: The world shut down for a couple years, I moved into my own house, I got married and had a family, and got a new sit down job with infinitely more levels of stress and responsibility(9am-5pm).
Even though it is what I just did, I hate the thought of making excuses, but good lord, a lot has happened to me in the last 7-8 years. As someone who had already had an issue with weight, it appears I just fell back in to some old habits when the going got really tough. Now I am writing this post, asking for any sort of help or advice from random people on the internet... I am desperate for something. I am currently in therapy(have been for a year and a half) and it just doesn't seem to help in regards to my weight loss, but it is helping with some other stuff I have going on... I believe I have identified my issue as mostly a food addiction, instead of stress eating or always being hungry. Now, stress does push me to start that addictive habit of eating something with tons of carbs in it, which seems to trigger my addiction and it only gets worse from there.
I have came to the conclusion that I have a food addiction just by listening to my body and mind and seeing what I am doing when I am doing bad in my eating habits. The other night, I was thinking "I want a spoon of peanut butter" and I was just about to get up, when I was like "Why???? I am in no way at all hungry". After those thoughts, I didn't get up and I just kept playing games. Within an hour, I was basically feeling like I was shaking, and my mind was racing, thinking I really wanted that spoon of peanut butter, to the point where I just wanted to go to bed! To me, that screams addiction: I did not give my mind what it wanted, so I started getting anxious and almost shaky. So, first I would like to try to start by breaking this addiction. I am thinking I may need to start a no carb diet for a few weeks, and then possibly have very low veggie type carbs for the rest of my deficit/weightloss journey/life, as that is what I did the first time I lost weight(just without knowing it). The first time I lost weight, I cut out all carbs and didn't count calories, I went down about 25Lbs, and hit a plateau and found r/loseit, learned about CICO and the rest was history. I think in that first attempt, that hard cut off from carbs/sugars and fats broke my food addiction and got me past that 1 week hump, without me even knowing it. What do you guys think?
The only thing getting in my way now, is the current lifestyle I need to maintain. I have a 9-5 job, two kids and a wife who need me. When I lost my weight the first time, if I started to crave at like 8pm, I would just go to bed for the night. That is just plain not an option now, as my kids bed time is 8:30, and after that I like to spend time with my wife.
After saying all of that... I guess I am just looking for something... I did this before under different circumstances and a different life style. Please help me...
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