Sunday, June 21, 2026

Can we talk about cortisol, stress, and trauma?

Did any of you need to get away from stressful or toxic relationship or family dynamics before you could shed weight? I personally noticed a time in my life where I had a lot of space from one particular parental relationship, coincided with me being a healthier weight, without trying. This is what sparked the question.

Did any of you need to do something to improve your cortisol levels before the scale would budge? Quit coffee, regulate mood/sleep, end toxic patterns?

What really IS the role of cortisol in weight loss? Is it more important than people think?

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I can never lose weight

hello!
Im 17F and currently on summer vacations. my whole life i’ve been Fat and i have always had unhealthy eating habits and a problem of binging foods along with not being very active.

Over the years I’ve tried counting calories and going to the gym but I’ve just never stayed consistent with it, quitting a couple of weeks in because i have no willpower. I really don’t want to spend any more of my life and I really wanna lose the weight but i can never do it

I will be getting a proper gym membership this July so Im hoping that helps but Im not very optimistic due to my many failures.I’m looking for advice and tips on how to stay consistent during weight loss and how to deal with cravings as thats what mainly causes me to fail

Currently my height is 5 feet 4inches
and my weight is 183 lbs
my dream weight is 120-130lbs

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Walking pace and exercise

Today I hit 11 min/km through 10,7 km, 119 kg/178 cm, I was reading somewhere that 6km/hour should be max speed, because of injuries. I can definitely walk faster, should I tho?

I do not want to run because of knee stress, I walk with 1 leg on floor always, power-ish walking- true power walking can reach like 10 km/hour + and I cannot find fat people walking like that anywhere so I am not really sure about my goal, I am better at it with every step I take.

I also want to go down to like 7,5 km evening walk and buy a gym membership for body strength, if it will be possible, otherwise just because of the hot sun making impossible to walk with sunscreen on (i sweat a lot and the sunscreen washes away in 1st 10 mins) what workouts should I focus on for weight loss? Right now, never actually visited gym, I am thinking of a bit of walking for warm up then some squats, girl pushups and rowing, finish with stretching.

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Saturday, June 20, 2026

So proud of myself!! I’ve lost 10.6 lbs so far

So I started my weight loss journey the beginning of May. I had been not taking care of myself, drinking too much alcohol, drinking several sodas a day, eating out all the time. And I suddenly realized I had gained 30 pounds!

So I decided I needed to change that and get back on track and get my confidence back! I started tracking my calories and increasing my movement and I’m down from 144.4 to 133.8 as of this morning! I couldn’t be happier, my clothes are starting to fit better and my confidence is coming back. I don’t really have anyone to share my excitement with so thought I would share here!

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I’ve given up with weight loss and I have just accepted being fat.

Hi all,

I’ve been overweight all of my adult life. I am 5”1 and weight 12 stone 12. I’ve always struggled with my weight have tried all of the slimming clubs and all of the diets going. Haven’t tried the jabs.

I don’t know what to do next , I just feel like I should just deal with the way I am , no matter how hard I try I just can’t lose the weight.

I lost weight when I was 18 but I lost two stone and then I put it back on within 2 years.

My highest weight was 13 stone 4 but I went down to 12 stone 12 in a year which isn’t good, this was done with a weight loss group.

Sorry for the rant, just feel like giving up and accepting it.

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I'm terrified of gaining weight again

I was weighting around 77kg [I'm 166cm/ 5'5 tall] last year and lost 14kg in a few months because of a side effects from a medication I took for my mental health and prior to this unexpected weight loss I had always wanted to lose weight and now that I did, I'm terrified of gaining even a few grams, I can't help but go on the scale everyday to check if I'm still in the 62-63kg range or lower, whenever I get over 63.10kg I get so anxious and I spiral in some emotional state that I hate and end up not wanting to eat even if i'm starving, I want to eat but I'm just so scared of gaining weight again that now I don't even know if it's actually hunger, glutony or if I'm just frustrated of not eating at the usual time I eat everyday, it annoying and I hate this feeling, I genuinely have no idea how to change this.

I have been depressed for years and getting out of bed is already hard, I know I should be exercising more but I have no motivation even if I try, I did manage to start drinking more water lately but I feel like it doesn't change a thing, there's always sugary snacks and drinks around and I do try my best to not binge eat all of it, I don't but then I'm frustrated.

I need tips.

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Friday, June 19, 2026

feeling crazy, does my deficit make sense for me?

i’ve (F26 165 lbs cw, 175lbs sw) been eating in a deficit since about march i think? i use an app called “lose it!” to track my calories. i’m 5’3” and quite sedentary so they only give me 1406 to eat on weekdays and about 1667 on weekends. every time i mention this to anyone they tell me that i’m eating insanely low and that there’s no possible way that’s my deficit. i’ve used a calorie counting app to figure out my deficit and it’s literally the same as the app says, why is everyone acting like i’m horrendously under eating? i’m short and don’t workout often.

it has been incredibly hard to make changes and eat within this deficit, i’m def more used to eating between 1700-2000 cals depending on the day. but ive been working to make changes to how i eat (egg whites only instead of egg yolks, only having matcha lattes once a week instead of daily and drinking more water) and i’ve finally managed to eat within my deficit for the last two weeks. i’ve lost 10 pounds & i feel good about my progress so far.

but i hate being talked down to by others that i’m not eating enough or i’m not eating the right things, it’s making me feel crazy. both my dad and my sister ridiculed me for deciding to only eat egg whites, but just that one change drastically changed the cals of my breakfast and made it easier to eat in a deficit. my breakfasts are 40g of protein now with that change and the whites are 68 cals instead of full eggs being 140.

it’s just been a little discouraging to have people tell me i’m doing things wrong but i’m noticing my measurements getting smaller and the number on the scale getting smaller so i must be doing something right. sorry this was a bit of a vent post but i also want advice from people actively working on weight loss, are these people right and this isn’t a sustainable way to be eating? i’ll never go under 1200 cals but i’m just doing what my weight loss app tells me :/

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