Tuesday, July 21, 2026

Finally seeing some changes!

F(63) all time high weight was 252 just before the pandemic. Time at home during COVID helped me reset some (but not all)eating habits and I got down to about 230 by 2023. In 2023, I started experimenting with intermittent fasting and found that I could usually push breakfast to 10 am and just eat a “light”breakfast because I knew lunch would be between 12-1. Also easily stopped eating by 7 pm which kept me from snacking along with my husband in the evening (I wasn’t a big evening snacker to begin with). Lost another 6-8 lbs. Retired from a high stress academic job in 2024. Had total knee replacement in March 25. Started exercising more…although I had been doing water aerobics for years while waiting to retire and do the knee. Late July last year, my new PCP did an A1C when we discovered that despite my obesity, no one had ever done one—I had been seeing physicians in same practice for 20 years! MyA1C was 5.7. Time to get serious about weight loss.started using the LoseIt App and increasing frequency and intensity of workouts as knee improved.

Husband found out he had high blood pressure in Nov after a TIA (at age 60) so has joined me in carefully logging food and macros and exercising more. He needs low cholesterol and low sodium while I needed low carb so finding the right balance has been like Jack Sprat and his wife from the nursery rhyme.

By Feb I was down to 193 and A1C was 5.3! Today I weighed in at 186 (at home, PCP visit isn’t until early Aug)! This is after a rocky June/July. My elderly mother had a stroke (4th in 4 years) on June 10. I spent 10 days helping my dad manage her care while she was in hospital and then moved to skilled nursing. Meals were very erratic and not always healthy. No exercise. Then went home just in time to leave for a 10 day family vacation that included a wedding! Came home and found I’d actually lost another pound! Husband and I have developed some good eating habits that we worked to maintain while traveling. One is nonfat yogurt with fruit for breakfast, we just bought some when we got to our destination. Another is hummus and veggies for lunch, sometimes as a wrap in lavash bread, sometimes just as a dip. Part of our time was in a bed and breakfast and our host fed us VERY well for breakfast so those days we sometimes just didn’t have lunch until 2-3 pm and no dinner. Being 2 hrs behind our home time zone helped there, we never really adjusted our sleep schedule too much, so 2-3 pm seemed like dinner time. We also split entrees when feasible. We just don’t eat as much now as we used to.

Recently friends in my water aerobics class have been commenting on weight loss and when I look at trip photos of myself in leggings or exercise shorts I m not embarrassed to share them! I even proudly show off my knee scar! I recently found some pics from 2019 and I’m horrified at how big I let myself get…stress eating no exercise nearly killed me!j

I’m down from size 22w pants in 2022 to regular 18! Bra size is way down also!

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Finally met my initial goal weight!

F30 SW:255 CW:180

I have been on a natural weight loss journey for about 3 years now and I finally reached the goal I set for myself in 2023! I know that’s a long time to lose 75lbs, but I don’t care and I’m proud of myself! When I set that goal I was very depressed and feeling hopeless, truly didn’t believe I’d achieve it in the next 5-10 years, let alone 3. Throughout this long process I have learned so much about my body and repaired my relationship with food. I‘ve (mostly) consistently strength trained and learned to enjoy my time in the gym. I truly appreciate that I’ve done this the natural and slow way because it’s allowed me to figure myself out in a way that I won’t allow myself to gain the weight back. Now that I’ve reached the initial goal I do plan to continue the journey and continue to learn along the way!

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Monday, July 20, 2026

Is it okay to take a 7-day break from working out?

I've been on my weight loss journey for about 3 months now. During my first month, I lost around 10 kg, which I'm guessing was mostly water weight. Ever since then, my weight has been stuck between 72-74 kg for almost two months, no matter how hard I try.

I've stayed consistent with my workouts and have been trying to watch what I eat (I weigh what I eat and make sure I eat between 1,600 to 1,800 kcal a day) but seeing the scale refuse to move has been really discouraging. I started this journey feeling excited and motivated, but lately it just feels exhausting. Like it's something I have to force myself to do instead of something I enjoy. It's frustrating to put in so much effort and feel like nothing is changing.

I'm honestly thinking about taking a 7 day break from working out. Not because I want to quit, but because I feel mentally and physically burned out. I want to give myself time to recover, reset, and hopefully come back with more motivation.

The problem is that I'm scared. Part of me feels guilty for even considering taking a break because I'm worried I'll lose all the progress I've worked so hard for or fall out of the habit completely.

Has anyone here taken a week off during their weight loss journey? Did it help you mentally or physically? Were you able to get back into your routine afterward without losing progress? I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences because I could use some reassurance right now. Thank you in advance 🙏

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Almost 3 weeks binge free, here are some thoughts/realizations

I have struggled with binge eating, compulsive over eating my entire life. I have consequently been overweight most of my life with brief periods of weight loss.

I have been trying to stop the binge eating this year and finally gained the tiniest bit of ground this summer. Since July 1st, I have weighed myself daily and logged all of my food faithfully.

Some observations about my mental health, physical feelings.

1) I have un-anticipated anxiety over eating. I used to have guilt, shame after a binge and now that I'm not bingeing, I'm consumed with the fear that a binge will come back. I feel a void in my mental space now. I used to be obsessed with "what was I craving" and what was next and how I could hide my eating or how I could take up my free time with eating. Now I'm noticing a completely different anxiety creeping in. I do not trust myself with food at all.

2) I am now starting to dislike the feeling of being really full. I am really paying attention to this natural pause that happens when I'm eating. I stop eating. I used to push past that natural end to my meals but now I just sort of take stock of how my stomach feels and often find myself not wanting to take another bite. My dog is loving it.

3) other surprising anxiety points: what happens if I let myself get too hungry? What if I see a number on the scale that disappoints me? What if I don't finish this weight loss journey? What if I have loose skin? A lot of "unknowns".

I'd love to hear how other people were affected by mental health during weight loss or trying to stop bingeing.

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Back to being down to Class II Obesity

In late 2023/early 2024, I started a weight loss journey where I went from 310, perhaps even 314 (I remember seeing it on the scale but I can't definitely say), all the way down to 248 pounds. I remember being so happy that I went from Class 3 obesity to Class 2 when I hit 263 (I'm 5'8").

In 2025, life happened and I put back some weight on (back to 280-285). Moved out for the first time, and finished my degree, those were my priorities at the time as I felt like I couldn't concentrate on a weight loss as much. Now in 2026, with a job and more control over what enters my home I got back down to under 263lbs... Currently 256 lbs, which means class 2 obesity again.

It's a small victory, but a meaningful one to me. I don't want to sit on my laurels this time, but seeing something like this is a mark of progress for me. Every day is hard, but it's worth it.

There's some days where I feel like I lost the motivation but not the discipline, and seeing those small but meaningful milestones brings back the motivation.

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Sunday, July 19, 2026

Day 1/180 : 68kg -> 56kg

Hi everyone! I'm starting my weight loss journey today and wanted to post here for accountability.

I'm 21F, 167.4 cm, 68 kg, and my goal is to reach 56 kg over the next 180 days. This is the first time I'm committing to a structured plan instead of trying random diets.

My plan is pretty simple:

>Eat in a calorie deficit

>Cut out added sugar

>Walk at least 10,000 steps every day

>Do an evening workout

>Focus on balanced, high-protein vegetarian meals

>Drink plenty of water and get enough sleep

I know progress won't be perfect, and I'm expecting there will be good weeks and difficult weeks. My goal is to build habits I can actually stick to rather than lose weight as quickly as possible.

I'll be posting updates here from time to time to stay accountable. If you've lost a similar amount of weight, what advice would you give someone starting out? What mistakes should I avoid?

Thanks, and here's to Day 1! 💪

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Trying to get enough protein in with a severe lactose intolerance

Basically what the title says. My goal is to get 113g of protein each day. All the recipes/tips/weight loss and nutrition videos and posts I see online are people essentially living off Greek yogurt, cottage cheese and whey. So much weight loss and nutrition content isn't for me because everyone uses cheese. I wish dairy free yogurt had the same amount of protein as Greek, cause I would just swap it out but it has almost no protein. I can only do eggs and packs of tuna for so long... Dairy free/Lactose Intolerant people give me all your hacks and tips to load up on protein!!!

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Is this plan too aggressive?

I’m a 5’11 male who is 31 years old, and I started my weight loss journey at 215 lbs. The main goal that I have is to cut heavy amounts of fat/weight because I want to slim down so that I can start lifting weights from a very low BMI/weight starting point.

The last month or so I’ve been walking, starting from a completely sedentary lifestyle and at first did 3 miles, crept up to about 4 miles, now 5, and at about 6, four to five times a week. Ive cut down to about 198 in a month and a half. I wasn’t watching what i was eating too much, just literally putting in miles walking and maybe cutting some deserts etc.

I was originally thinking 180 lbs by end of August, which is about 18 lbs in a month and 10 days, which kind of felt too aggressive. Then I thought maybe I could do 160 by Christmas.

From what I was seeing, my daily maintenance calories with my level of exercise is around 2700. Given that the daily average calorie burn for a week walking 24 miles a week is 340 or so.

But I’ve been able to maintain about 1500-2000 calories in while still walking 6 miles 4 times a week. Thanks in part due to caffeine from energy drinks. In some cases doing more, like yesterday I walked 7.9 miles and only ate 2000 calories, so that’s a deficit of about 1500 just yesterday.

I’m pretty motivated, because I’m in the process of getting divorced and I am in the prime age of my life so I want to get an extremely toned and muscular physique, but I figure 160 will be too low, and I will naturally gain back some of the weight, maybe to 180 or so which will be a good starting point to start bulking.

For those that have done a similar cut, is this sustainable? I also have EoE, and honestly have felt better eating less anyway, because I get heartburn fairly easily.

Does anyone have recommendations on continuing to get the recommended vitamins and minerals while cutting so many calories? Of course I’ll ask ChatGPT as well but maybe some people here have specific advice for my weight/gender/goal set

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Saturday, July 18, 2026

Advice for getting back into the gym/deficit?

Hello all. I have been at this for a few years and have gone from 222lbs to \~158lbs. Im not sure how relevant it is but i am 20F, 5'4". I have primarily used a calorie deficit for weight loss, however I started going to the gym and really enjoyed watching my endurance and strength increase and have been going at that for a while. I am seeking a career that requires a high level of fitness and would like to get into more calisthenics style workouts, but this obviously requires that I lose at minimum another 20lbs, which is where I think id be happiest. My GW is 130-140lbs with great muscular fitness.

I have been plateaued for a very long time. I was around 160 at the beginning of this year, and I finally got to sub 160 a few months ago. My lowest was 155 but I have been gaining weight more recently. I believe a potential part of this issue is I began donating plasma to support my income, but im not entirely sure. Ive seemingly been losing a lot of the control ive had over my cravings. I know that donating plasma makes you a little hungrier, but ive actually had no energy to go to the gym or even do home workouts. I was donating twice a week, im going to try and drop down to once a week.

Im still worried this isnt the full issue, as even today (days after my plasma donation) I do not have the energy to go to the gym like I used to. My deficit is \~1400-1500 but this has been impossible for me to stick to recently and ive been exceeding this. Has anyone experienced this, specifically after having lost a substantial amount of weight and trying to lose the last 20 or 30 lbs? What did you do to give yourself the energy you needed to get back into fitness?

As a final note ive honestly been a little shocked because comparing pictures around 180-190lbs to now look almost identical to me. Im not super concerned with my physical appearance, moreso im upset that it seems like the fat I need to lose to better control my fitness is not decreasing in the way id anticipate it. I guess thats more just a rant than anything. But im curious if anyone else has experienced this and what their thoughts were.

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Anyone else struggle to believe the scale?

I can see the numbers going down. I know my calorie deficit is working. People have been mentioning it to me. Hell, I've even seen a subtle difference physically.

Today the scale said I was at 202, which is 20 pounds lost. I can't help but feel like that isn't true.

It's so strange because I know it is true, but I've always had this thought when it comes to stuff like weight loss: this won't work for me.

Obviously it has, and I know factually the scale is going down and the measurements are changing but I have this weird self doubt in myself.

Has anyone else experienced that?

Also, my weekly average seems to go down by 3 pounds a week. Is this normal? Most sources say 2 pounds is the healthiest, but I'm eating at a normal deficit. I'm not complaining but I'm worried that I'm doing something wrong/unhealthy.

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LoseIt app question - calorie calculator (plus a small vent)

Hi all,

5’6” 36F here. I started using the LoseIt app a little over a year ago. I was lucky to lose 45 lbs over the course of about 5 months, and when I was at my “smallest” (185lbs), my daily calorie count to lose 2 lbs/week was in the low 1300s. I tend not to count exercise towards my calories as it never helps with weight loss.

After a couple months of stress eating I’m up at 200 lbs and back on the program. My question is, if 1300 calories/day was my calorie allowance at 185, what’s going to happen as I get closer to my goal? Is my allowance going to get below 1200, which everyone says is too dangerous to go below? Right now I’m seeing zero progress after 3 weeks at around 1600 calories/day, and I’m trying to restrict it even more, but with my exercise plan I don’t know how I can sustain 1300/day when I’m so hungry after my workouts, let alone below 1200/day.

A few things to note:
- My goal weight isn’t super ambitious, just 160 lbs, but at by the logic of the app it sounds like I’ll have to eat like a traditional supermodel to reach that weight.

-I do track my fiber and protein, but as an unemployed pescatarian ( in other words) I only eat fish but can’t afford to eat much fish), I often fall about 20g short of my daily protein goal, unable to reach it without exceeding my calories. I also drink plenty of water (at least 100 oz/day)

-My current workout routine is 4-5 days/week on the the elliptical for 20-30 minutes, one 75 minute intensive hot yoga class, one 75 minute light yoga class, and one 60 minute hot Pilates class (though I’m hoping to bump up the Pilates to twice a week and ditch the elliptical altogether). Also when the weather isn’t terrible (I live in the Midwest), I’ll walk my dog 1-2 miles/day.

Tl;dr - will I have to start eating below 1200 calories a day as I get closer to my goal of 160 lbs, based on my 1300 calorie limit at 185 lbs? If so how do I manage that with a moderate-activity lifestyle?

Thank you in advance - if any questions arise I’ll post the answers here as an edit, rather than respond to individual comments

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Be aware of the social media coaches that try to encourage unhealthy / unsustainable weight loss methods

I think online fitness coaches are fine for the most part, but there’s also some of them that encourage unhealthy weight loss methods. I’m not gonna spread his username everywhere but an example I’ve seen of this is this one fitness coach who tells his clients to ONLY eat these tiny plates of meat and veggies with 1 protein shake a day and nothing else, he’s seriously said in an Instagram reel “ for your breakfast you’re only gonna drink one protein shake”Like he’s telling you you CANT eat anything else. I’ve seen some of his posts even go as low as promoting a 1,100 calorie diet for everyone. There are people paying for his services just to eat a miserable diet for months on end. It’s just about a calorie deficit at the end of the day, and of course you should prioritize Whole Foods for the majority of your diet as well for optimal health while fitting in some of your favorite foods that you enjoy to make your diet more sustainable/ enjoyable. Some influencers just try to make it as rigid as possible, which I think can keep some people stuck/ makes weight loss way harder than it already is.

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Friday, July 17, 2026

Mini lean bulk to breakthrough 6-8 week long weight loss plateau

Like the title says. A little background, I’m 5’10 male that weighed 220 September 1 2025, I got down to about 170lbs as of May 2026. Since then I’ve been bouncing between 167-170 pounds for the last few months and can’t seem to break below 166.5 pounds. So all in all, I’ve been at a deficit for about 11 months, give or take a cheat/re-feed day here and there.

As far as fitness and diet, I’m eating 1600-1900 calories, I do 1 hour long boxing cardio classes 4-5 times a week, and like 3 times a week. The calorie numbers are NOT including expenditure during cardio and lift days so it’s possible on those days I’m getting as low as 1300 calories after cardio calories are accounted for

The question I pose now is what if I did a mini bulk for about 2-3 weeks to build some lean muscle mass as well reset any metabolism slow downs. Then I would resume cutting and try to eventually hit my goal weight of 150. My maintenance is about 2300 calories, so I would aim to eat 26-2800 calories for a 2-3 week period

Has anyone done this, and did it help your plateau? Would I just be better off eating at maintenance for a few weeks then going back to cutting? My thinking is, if I’m going to put eat extra calories, I might as well go extra hard lifting and turn some of it into muscle mass. Can any significant amount of muscle even be put on in a 3 week bulk or will it mostly be fat?

If anyone could provide personal experience, that would be great. It’s been real demoralizing cutting hard these past two months of summer time, and putting in a lot of work in the boxing gym/cardio and not seeing any scale progress.

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Will I end up skinny fat with my current routine?

I’m 5’2, 61-61.5 kg rn. As females we tend to have higher body fat percentage and since I’ve started losing weight I’ve been worried about looking fat regardless of losing the weight. Cus skinny fat exists. Unfortunately.

Now I’m a student and I don’t get much time in a week to spend my time exercising at home, let alone going to the gym.. although I do have a stationary bike and I use that thrice a week for about 20 minutes. Aside from that I walk about 7k steps everyday. On days I’m more active I get about 10k.

I don’t do strength training and that’s what u need to build muscle/tone up no? I also just eat in a deficit without focusing on getting every macros nutrition and what not right because I really haven’t got the time to nitpick and recheck everything 🥲. I’m so disappointed in myself for it but it’s really tough being a student, living alone, focusing on studies, on weight loss all at once. So the best I can do right now is just eat whatever I have at home and eat around 1200 calories to be exact.

Most of the time I don’t even go close to my protein goal because I live in a region where carb/fat rich stuffs r our main source of food, not protein rich ones.

At this rate, I might lose the weight but still end up looking fat and soft no?

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What is the realistic timeline and how can I improve?

I am 26 F. Around late April, I decided to take care of my weight. At that point, I weighed around 84 kg. I started weight training for 1 hour 3 days a week using a PT. Slowly started being in deficit. But it was never perfect because of every weekend bingeing. Once I started noticing small changes and definitions, I started to walk on treadmill daily for around 3km on incline at 4km/h.

Now I weigh 79.8 kg. I have decided to maximum avoid outside food since I don't know how to control myself. For the past few years, life has been really tough for me and my family - multiple deaths, health issues, job loss, mental traumas, housing issues, and so on. The only way I knew how to cope up with this was by eating food from outside. So, 5 days a week, I used to eat clean but would consume chocolates around 800cal 3 - 4 nights a week, 2 medium pizzas ( fast food joints ) during the weekend, and soft drinks with it.

Now I'm trying to do strength training 6 days a week, treadmill incline walking for 3km at 4km/h, trying to eat 1500 kcal or less per day. Also avoiding junk food and sweets altogether.

I'm aiming for around 55 - 56 kg. What is the realistic timeline ? Also what can be done to improve my weight loss journey?

Honestly, seeing improvements in my body and weight loss progress is bringing me some joy in my life, but I don't want to set unrealistic timelines that would disappoint me. Any advice and support is appreciated ❤️

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Thursday, July 16, 2026

50 lbs gone. Not linear, but it works!!

SW: 180 lbs (81.6 kg) CW: 129.4 lbs (58.7 kg). I am 5'3" (160 cm) and 32F. I lost most of the weight December 2023-October 2024, going from 180 to 132 in about 10 months eating 1400-1500 calories a day and prioritizing protein. I was vegetarian at this time so I supplemented protein a lot. I was also rock climbing and walking, as well as lifting maybe 3 times a week.

Took a "maintenance break" and gained back up to 139 from October 2024 to June 2025 😬 and got back down to 131 in October 2025. Gained again to 135 from October 2025-June 2026. Stayed active throughout with lifting, yoga, pilates, and a lot of walking (10k+ a day)

I work in special education for a public school district and have definitely noticed a gain/loss pattern that I'm determined to break this year lol

This morning, I saw 129.4 on the scale. Breaking 130 lbs has felt IMPOSSIBLE for the last couple of years. I attribute it to getting my ADHD, food noise, and comfort eating under control, as well as learning more about nutrition, and separating food from emotions. Now that I'm at a healthy weight, using a food scale to measure everything is crucial. I eat the same meals often. I have a go-to grocery list to lessen decision fatigue even when I haven't meal prepped because I'll always know what to make. I aim for 120+ g of protein a day and now usually stay between 1200-1400 calories of whole foods with little to no snacking. I'm still getting about 8-10k steps a day now that it's summer but my activity has gone way down this month because I'm finishing university (late, i know) and taking teacher certification exams. Weight loss in this range has been slow but steady, especially when compared to losing 6-9 lbs a month back when I was class 1 obese lol

Aiming to get serious in the gym again in August after taking my last exam and planning on slowly increasing my intake a bit once I get more active again. My original goal was to get to 120lbs but I mostly want to lower my body fat %. Using the navy formula I'm estimating it to be around 27% right now and I'd like to get to the 22-24% range. (Apparently can't get a Dexa right now because I have healing piercings I can't take out??? I haven't asked about glass retainers yet.)

Just wanted to celebrate myself. I worked hard!! It's not always smooth sailing but it's possible!!

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NSV *kinda*

I'm down just over 50lbs. My husband has not made much comment on my progress. I asked him not to because he doesn't celebrate me in a way I feel celebrated.

He started off kinda making comments like "of course you're going with the vegetarian omelette" or "are you sure you can eat that?"

These comments are well-meaning and supportive, but I was and am still feeling insecure about sharing my weight loss with anyone. I don't want excess commentary on my choices from family and close friends.

Anyways, tonight when we were having our adult time, my husband went to grab my thighs. They've always been his favorite part of my body. *Cue pause* and barely audible "wtf??"

I was like "what's wrong?"

And he said "Well I guess I just hadn't realized how your body has changed. There's a lot less to grab than there used to be" (MASSIVE EYE ROLL to this bc I haven't dropped any pants sizes)

I was torn between feeling flattered and self conscious. I told him when I started that I'll likely wind up with loose skin and he said he would love me no matter what. Anyways, there's my kinda sorta NSV for today!

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Loose skin after loosing 60 pounds and I don’t feel good about how I look.

I don’t know what to do but it bothers me that I have loose skin on my arms, legs and stomach. Standing up I look good, but then when I lay/sit down I look fat still. My thighs and calves have always been larger parts of my body, it’s mainly just muscle when I touch them, but they jiggle from the fat loss surrounding the muscle and I don’t like that, my muscle on my calves look big, kinda loose and it looks odd because I have small ankles. My breast are much smaller now, but they’re long and you have see folds from the loose skin.

I started this journey back in November October, I still want to loose about 40 more pounds overall before starting to maintain. But I don’t know, there’s apart of me that feels regretful for gaining all that weight when I know, I was young and didn’t really get much of a say in my diet, plus experiencing traumatic experiences in my childhood and teenage years, your body will hold onto fat to feel a sense of safety.

Now that I’m older, I can eat clean, I mainly do walking as my work out of choice, that’s how I lost the weight. I’ve been practicing yoga everyday recently because I want to become an instructor. I just feel dysmorphic in a way that my body is a reminder of my past self, I’m going to have to carry all of that with me physically as a reminder of all the things I’ve been through. I’m in my mid twenties, I want to feel young again after having to be the adult my whole life, I’m slowly getting that spark back in time. I would like to look lean and tone. I want to have a strong back. I want to be confident in a bikini and not conscious about my body. I feel that my confidence is growing as I lose the weight, but as I get closer to my goal weight, I feel like I’m at that stage of weight loss where you think that you look fatter than you actually are, until you look in the mirror one day and say “huh I look different” you know?

I’ve been overweight my whole life and this is the result of that, my weight currently is probably the lowest I’ve ever been since maybe 15/16. I don’t want to get surgery, because I don’t want the scarring. Non-invasive methods won’t work as well as going under the knife, and might go in the opposite direction of what you’re looking for. I heard that using copper peptides, skin tightening creams with retinoids can help, plus red light therapy, but that can only do so much when you’ve been overweight your whole life. I also think as I go closer to my goal it intensifies my relationship with beauty which I’ve always struggled with.

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What Do I Do?

Back in 2023, I started my weight loss journey at 213 pounds (5'3/159 cm). I fasted, counted calories, and walked 10k steps a day and a year later I was at 154 and very close to being out of the overweight category. The thing is, I started being quite unhealthy in the way that I lost weight and it wasn't sustainable. I slowly gained back like 30lbs over a year. Then I went off to college and came back and now im 225lb at 5'3. I gained quite a bit more than your average freshman 15. My clothes dont fit anymore and I cant seem to regain my consistency with weight loss. I really love fashion so it hurts every time I try and wear something cute I could slip right into in the past that now wont even come up my thighs. I have ADHD and some other mental illnesses and its hard not to stay in the bed all day over the summer when my work and whatnot are all on zoom. Because of my ADHD I also tend to eat out of boredom.

Sidenote: I used to have a fitbit and I lost it and never bought another, and I wonder if a fitness watch would help me to move more. Has it helped you?

What would you do in my situation? I did it in the past but why is it so hard now?

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Wednesday, July 15, 2026

Halfway there

So I started at 400 pounds, and now I’m at 305.
Whether that’s an accomplishment or not, I’ll let other people decide. Most days, I still feel like I have such a long way to go before I’m healthy, and that can be mentally challenging. You lose all this weight, and while there are amazing improvements, there are still a lot of struggles.
When I weighed 400 pounds, I could barely walk 400 steps before I was in serious pain. On a typical day, I walked maybe 1,000 steps total. I’d walk to my office, sit down because I was exhausted, and then walk back. That was basically all the exercise I could manage.
Now, I average about 5,000 steps a day, and on some days I hit 10,000. Even when I go for a 1 or 2 mile walk, it’s nowhere near as painful as walking just 400 steps was at 400 pounds.
People don’t always realize how physically painful it is to be that heavy. My calves hurt constantly, my shins ached, and every step felt difficult.
Even though I still feel very overweight, I’ve gotten something back that I didn’t realize I had lost: my mobility.
I can walk to a coffee shop. I can go grocery shopping in person. I can clean my apartment without feeling like I’ve run a marathon. Those are things I used to take for granted.
My next big goal is to start going to the gym. I haven’t stepped foot in one during this entire journey because I’m scared of people judging me. But I think that’s my next step.
For those of us who start at this size, weight loss isn’t just about the number on the scale. It’s about getting pieces of your life back, one step at a time.

If you’re just starting, and you’re where I used to be, don’t underestimate the small victories. One day you’ll realize you can walk into a grocery store, clean your apartment, or grab a coffee without thinking twice. Those moments add up

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Should I shift to focusing on body recomp rather than weight loss?

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Can we talk about discipline and weight loss?

I know I need to lose weight. I also know how to lose weight and what works.

What doesn't work is my depression/anxiety/ decision fatigue.

I have narrowed down my failures to also emotional eating because growing up I have never talked about feelings / taught to. /Made acceptable.

So I eat.

Bored i eat. Stressed I eat.

I also struggle with PCOS and insulin resistance.i did lose a whole bunch of weight when 18 but frankly it was easier to focus on a weight loss journey when just me.

Now in 30s since having kids it's a whole another trip. I'm constantly tired. If not physically then mentally. So I look at all these tips on how to skip motivation focus on discipline. I read it all. I make all the plans except idont execute.

All I know is I have a coworker with kids in 30s who has weight issues and swelling and now with knee issues looking at replacement. Idont want it to be me. With my kids.

How and where do I just at one point tell myself to not freeze and do it.

To not eat at night when exhausted .

To trust the process and start the journey.

If you made it this far thank you.

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Tuesday, July 14, 2026

Starting to lose weight

Hi everyone. I am a 29 year old, 5’11, 195 pound male.

I have been eating clean and cut back a lot on food intake.

I’m walking 4-5 miles daily and swimming about a half mile and doing yoga daily.

I am determined to reach my weight loss goals, now with that being said is there any legitimate “weight loss supplement” or tool?

I see mushroom coffees,lymphatic drinks, other stuff to “flatten” your stomach. A waist band to constrict your abs like a sit-up would (backed by the FDA) Etc..

I’m very skeptical on all of it and not convinced. My main point with this post is to ask, is any of it legit?

TIA.

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Recommendations for weight loss journey?

Good evening!
(Quick preface - I’m writing from Europe so am not overly familiar with lbs and feet system, I hope the numbers I write are not too far off.)

So, I’m 30 yo woman and after realising I really disliked where my weight was at I decided to remedy the situation.
Problem is, I… might have done it wrong. On one hand, I’ve lost 26 pounds in two months (12 kg) and I’ve never felt better. I sleep so good, my face is finally slim again, my acanthosis is retreating at a super fast pace and generally I feel very happy.
On the other I’ve spent these two months and a half on 850 calories a day. I didn’t even eat bad! I made sure to have a day with extra calories and on all others I ate meals that were filling and diverse, low in calories and with as many proteins and fibers I could. Okay, on that front I didn’t do terribly good thinking back on it, they were def low in calories and diverse but as for proteins and fibers I could have done better.

For reference, I’m 167 (5’6”)cm tall and currently weight 80 kg (176 lbs). The end goal is 75 kg (165 lbs), because then I’m having a fat grafting operation and I need the extra fat. Also just generally I loved my body at 75 kg and I hate having a slim body, as I’m naturally masculine-looking and when I was slim it was very evident and I had terrible body dysphoria.

The problem is, lately I’ve noticed I’m really hungry. Since I’m on vacation til early August I’ve been adding two hours swimming sessions whenever I can and I feel famished with quite prominent cramping. I know I probably should add more calories daily but I’m terrified that by doing that I’ll retake all the kilos I’ve lost.

Do you have any suggestions for what could be a healthy calorie intake that won’t make me regain everything?

Thank you to whomever will answer ☺️.

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Monday, July 13, 2026

Extremely lost

I have been feeling very lost in my weight loss journey. I struggle with pmos and ADHD so day to day is a big task.

Being consistent and disciplined is very hard and no amount of self love or self pity is helping me and feels like I have fallen off the bandwagon and that nothing is going to help.

Anyone experienced this and how they have gotten back to their routine and way of doing things and getting motivated and disciplined.

I was thinking maybe an accountability group or buddy might help me but I am very alienated from my friends and family because of starting a new job and quite honestly am feeling the worst I have felt in years.

So, here I am daring to say the word HELP to a bunch of kind internet strangers !

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How do I achieve a build

Hello, I'm a completely fresh start, I've never worked out or desired to, but I recently want to start working out, but I can't find anything online that understands what I want to achieve.

I currently am 5ft 10 and around 18 stone , and all I know is I want a slim but not over muscly build where I can't see my veins because I hate veins, they scare me😭, I found that I need to aim for 15% body fat and that all I can grasp,

I would ideally like to know what workouts I should do and maybe like a plan on how to achieve this build, I've looked and toned is too much muscle but skinny is too little

If any advice or weight loss / work out plans could be shared that would be brilliant because I have no idea what I am doing.

So just a reminder so it's all together

Currently 5ft 10, 18 stone,

Dont like veins at all

Want to be not skinny but not muscly, something in between

And would appreciate advice

Thankyou

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Sunday, July 12, 2026

[F] 50kg+ down! Saggy skin and clothing advice needed!

Hi everybody. I’ve been on my weight loss journey for a year now and loss has been moderately fast. As expected, I’ve been left with a lot of excess loose skin on my upper arms, breasts, stomach, buttocks, and upper inner thighs. Of course, skin removal surgery is on the table for once I’m at my GW and maintained it for long enough, but until then I can’t do anything about it other than building muscle which always has a limit without juicing (which does not interest me in the slightest).

I ordered a pair of shorts that end just above where my thigh skin sits. They fit wonderfully, however my saggy thighs steal the show in a less than desirable way. I have control undergarments that do the trick especially for my stomach, but they don’t extend down to my thighs and would be on show if they did anyway. I would rather not have my control wear visible In the first place too.

Considering I’m maybe another year off until I go for surgery, does anyone here have any hacks and tricks to make these shorts and any other skirts and similar clothing pieces work with the loose skin? Maybe methods of taping the skin up or clothing combinations that would look cute with shorter bottom pieces whilst covering the sag? Maybe some particular tights that would look good under them whilst disguising or drawing attention away from the saggage? Any advice or tips appreciated!

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Advice needed on how to continue after a motivation crash

To start off i feel like some background is required.

193cm, 145kg, male, 32 years old

8 years ago i was in the best shape of my life after losing 25kg and gaining a lot of muscle. Going from not being able to do pull ups to doing 20 at once. It felt amazing. I believe i weighed 100kg at the time. From there i got into a happy relationship and stopped going to the gym and eventually just started gaining a lot of weight. The most i've weighed myself at was 156kg about 4-5 months ago.

I know how to build muscle and how to eat properly while eating in a way that is sustainable.

I started properly going to the gym again 4 months ago but i had a good attempt last year also. Basically over the last 16 months, i've gone to the gym for about 10 of them, 3-5 times a week.

First 2 months: started gym this year at 156kg and doing 3 workouts per week. Push, pull, full body. After the first 1-1.5 months i lost about 10kg (probably water weight) and that's about the exact same weight i've been ever since.

After the first 2 months: Went back to my old workout routine of push, pull, legs, push, pull, full body so 6 days a week. I also started to follow all of my calorie intake for about 2 weeks so i roughly know what every meal has in it. On top of daily gym, i do about 45min of intense walking outside. I feel like i shouldnt try to jog at this weight.

The problem: I'm having insane motivation issues as my scale is stuck. I eat about 1500 calories per day on a good day and 1800-1900 on a bad day. Either day is still well below my maintenance calories which are about 2500-3000 depending on what site to believe.

My meals consist of the same foods each week but its the foods that i love so i'll probably keep eating them:

  • Minced chicken
  • Cottage cheese
  • A lot of salad and vegetables (volume eater)
  • Potatoes
  • Steak
  • Salmon

I feel like i've never been stuck at the same weight for so long as i have right now. It definitely feels even worse since i've been very strict on the diet and have not gone above 2k kcal on a single day for about 3 months in a row now. Today i weighed myself at 146 and i had a insane motivation loss as my brain is telling me "another week, same exact weight"

Either i'm doing something horribly wrong or losing even a few kg will take me about 2 months on 500-1000 calorie deficit per day. Which should not be a thing at my weight and the amount i move and workout per day.

I wouldnt ask for help usually but i feel like if i fail this now then i'm done and it's going to be harder to return to weight loss journey the older i get. I want to get it done now.

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Gained ~15lbs on a 3 week binge. How should i go about losing it?

I have lost about 40 pounds over the last year mostly eating super healthy whole foods and have been maintaining my weight at about 2000 calories a day for a few months now, but for the last 3 weeks, the binge got me, for the first time in a long time. I feel terrible and feel like i have gained so much fat in my stomach and face. I am back in a good state of mind, and am ready to get back on the weight loss grind, but in a situation like this, it is super tempting to cut my calories by like a thousand for a month, which would hypothetically get me back to where i started. Is this the correct move? I feel so gross and just want to get back to where i used to be.

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Saturday, July 11, 2026

Can I build muscle while on a deficit?

Hello, I’m M 18, and currently 5’10 270 pounds. I lift 5x a week. I was wondering if I can lose 80-90 pounds and still gain muscle so by the time I’m 180-190 pounds I look lean

Does anybody know what my calorie intake and protein goal should be for this goal if possible, or should I just only focus on losing the weight and then once I’m at my desired weight then build muscle. I only ask cause I enjoy going to the gym but it is kinda uninspiring if I go knowing I’m not gaining any muscle while on a cut.

I’m aware that if I wanted to do this the weight loss process would probably go slower. Also I was curious that I normally skips ab workouts at the gym right now, I was holding those off till I was leaner. Should I be doing an workouts in the gym and if I should start now which ones should I do cause at my current weight I can’t do a lot of the workouts I see recommended for them online.

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I'm finally ready to take my health seriously. I need advice.

Hello everyone,

I'm coming here because I really need some advice. I'm 22 years old, and I know I need to lose weight. I'm currently around 320 lbs, and I'm just not happy with where I am. At my healthiest, I was around 215 lbs, and I felt strong, had muscle, and was much more confident.

One of the biggest reasons I want to make this change is because I'm one of the caregivers for my parents. Watching how their weight has affected their health has been a huge wake-up call, and I don't want to end up in the same position if I can help it. I also have PCOS, which I know can make weight loss more challenging.

I'm not completely sedentary; I hike once a week and stay fairly active, but I know I need to be more consistent. I've decided that joining a gym is the next step.

The problem is deciding which one. My partner thinks I should get a 24 Hour Fitness membership, but it's honestly more than I can comfortably afford right now. I've been looking at the Planet Fitness Black Card because it's much more budget-friendly and still seems to have everything I need as a beginner. We've been going back and forth about it, and I'm feeling stuck.

For those of you who have been in a similar situation, which gym would you recommend? Is Planet Fitness enough to lose a significant amount of weight and build strength, or is 24 Hour Fitness worth spending the extra money? I'd also appreciate any advice from people who have successfully lost a lot of weight, especially if you have PCOS.

I'm ready to make a real lifestyle change. I just want to make the smartest decision to set myself up for success. Thank you in advance.

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I’m about to be in the 100s!!

Hi friends! I know this is silly, but I don’t really have anyone in my regular life to talk about this with lol. Today I am 200.1 lbs! Tomorrow is definitely 199 day and I am bursting with excitement! I have not been under 200 lbs in around 4ish years. I’ve lost around 55 lbs and am looking to lose around 40-50 more, so I’m over halfway there now! If anyone wants to drop some tips on helping to stay motivated during the later stages of weight loss I would greatly appreciate it! Take this post as an opportunity to celebrate your recent wins as well!!

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Friday, July 10, 2026

Food controls most of my thoughts

I lost 30 pounds one summer and managed to keep it off for a while, but stress during my final college project led me towards weight gain and now I am 205 pounds as a 5’7’’ inactive woman (even more than I used to weigh). I admittedly lost all that weight very fast and often fluctuated due to an inconsistent appetite, but I get sad thinking about how proud and happy I was at around 165. I don’t think my body is the most important thing about me, but I have been dieting on and off since I was a child, and the way I am always hungry and thinking about food is exhausting. I feel miserable and like a failure about how I look and like all my health concerns are my fault. I dont know why I feel this way about myself, because I believe that your weight is not a cause for judgement or disrespect.

I haven’t seen a primary care provider in earnest since I was a rising sophomore, and I am wondering if I should ask about medical solutions for my obesity, binging, and food obsession. I have never stuck to calorie counting, or really any habit throughout my life, for more than 2 weeks. I’ve read James Clear, i have tried apps both free and paid (noom, fatsecret, myfitnesspal, happyscale, and many more). I’ve vowed to work out with maximum motivation only to stop within days. I tend to eat fast, and cough painfully after eating or doing cardio. I am obsessed with my passions and graduated with honors after leading multiple projects. I pour constant time and energy into my work, but I can barely bring myself to do basic self care like brushing my hair, let alone weight loss. I do have adhd, if that could he a factor. Sometimes the idea of food is the only thing that gets me out of bed, and I will sleep through an entire day otherwise. I want this to be different, and I want to have a body that I don’t have to constantly think about. Should I try again? See a doctor? Is my behavior disordered? I dont know what I should do!

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How on earth do I work out with this schedule??

Hi all. I need some advice. I’m working on weight loss (clearly) and so far with calorie deficit alone I’ve lost 30 pounds. Ive got 58 more to go but I’m going through larger plateaus of no weight loss. I need to start burning more calories because I refuse to cut my daily limit lower than the 1400 I’m currently at. Herein lies my issue. Where on earth do I add workouts to this schedule:

5am wake up & day prep for self & toddler.
6am -7:40am commute to school.
School 8am - 4pm.
Commute back home 4 -540pm.
Parenting, dinner (toddler) bath time, bedtime 540-7pm
7-730 lunch prep & house tidy
730 - 9: Study
9-920: Shower brush teeth etc
920-11 Study
11pm Bed

I’ve tried working out while studying but it makes for a bad study session AND a bad workout. The weekends I try and do a home workout guided by YouTube but with a busy toddler weights are dangerous and I can’t always complete the workout because my kiddo wants to play and have mom time because we barely see each other during the week. I park on the very top of a parkade so I do 4 flights of stairs to get to my car. I do the stairs in my school building on breaks and lunch. There’s not a gym close enough I can afford to use my lunch break to work out and frankly I’m usually studying during that break because I’m not the sharpest tool in the shed and this is a very hard program.

What do I do here?

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Thursday, July 9, 2026

Weight loss questions/advice

So I’m 180lbs and trying to loose that weight at the age of 18. I know I need to eat protein and exercise which I’m finally taking a lot more seriously. I drink protein shakes like everyday during the week, exercising and eating again protein almost everyday. But my problem is that Friday n Saturday (sometimes Sunday) I eat carbs like pizza, pasta, etc and usually don’t exercise so would that effect my weight loss journey or no? I usually eat like 4 pieces of pizza for reference.

My next question is even when I do eat crappy foods should I still do a bit of walking like will that help or no? Cuz I really don’t wanna quit cold turkey and I also just kind of hate weighing myself.

I also walk for like a mile or a mile and a half during the week with my dog so usually about like 15-20 mins a day. I’m also lifting 1 pounders sometimes too now. I only just really got more serious with it so anything would help!

Also I think a lot of healthy foods are boring as hell so are there any recipes that are good but not like “ughh I hate this” attitude.

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I weighed myself for the first time today

I posted on here a couple months ago asking if anyone else on a weight loss journey didn’t weigh themselves. I hadn’t weighed myself or known my weight for about a decade because knowing it would trigger my eating disorder behavior in the past. I don’t remember what it was the last time I knew it, probably around 240-260, but that definitely wasn’t my highest weight. It was a lot higher about 2-3 years ago after I gained more weight due to chronic illness, probably around 300-320. My guess for a year ago when I really started my fitness journey is around 280.

When I made the other post I was thinking I’d be ready to weigh myself in a couple months. I also realized that in order to make sure I’m still in a good calorie deficit I would need to know my weight. I guessed it was somewhere between 180-200, and today when I weighed myself it was 188, so actually a pretty good estimate. I don’t even remember the last time I was under 200 pounds, definitely when I was still a teenager.

Anyway, I’m proud of myself for losing that much weight, but even more than that I’ve been able to recover from my eating disorder and now have a healthy relationship with food, exercise, and my body. I don’t know what my goal weight is yet. My original goal was to just to get out of having to wear plus sizes, and I’m down to size L and between a 12-14. I’m thinking 150 then see how I feel. I’m a 5’5 woman but I also have a pretty muscular frame and do strength training, so the higher end of normal will probably be a good place for me

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People not understanding why I'm calorie counting is getting me down

Just needing to vent. I'm down 50kg from my highest weight and I've been actively focusing on losing weight for 18 months where the bulk has come off - around 38kg. However I'm now in the skinny fat phase where I've got a serious belly pouch going on that I'd like to shift. I appreciate that that part is going to be slow to get there.

But right now I'm getting really frustrated at people close to me saying "It doesn't matter, just have a day off" when I'm now trying to accurately track calories for at least some period of time (2 to 3 weeks) to work out my maintenance calories on a new exercise regime I've undertaken. People see me looking mostly skinny (arms, shoulders, face, etc) and wearing nice fitting clothes, sure I look good - tight clothes compress my belly in and my figure looks ok. But there's still blatantly a lot more fat to lose that people don't see.

Currently I weigh myself daily and I look at an average of the weight over 2 weeks. I gauge from that whether I need to increase or decrease the amount I eat depending what pace I want to lose weight at. I lost at nearly 3lb/s a week for 4 months continuously and had side effects - hair loss, sagging skin, etc, muscle loss. I've also at times really struggled with some disordered eating in the way of binge/restrict cycles and still lost weight - but I know that's harmful and I don't want to be doing that, even if it gets results on the scales.

So sure if all I cared about was looking at the number on my scales and wanting it to go down then I know I could very easily just undereat a lot and the weight will eventually come off. But I don't want that and risk side effects.

I'm currently targeting a small weight loss target (200g a week) as I'm hoping to also build some muscle through strength training at the same time. So like.. with my current activity level I simply don't know if my body can get by on as little as say 1400 calories or maybe I actually need closer to 2000 calories with this new exercise program. Current aim is 1600 calories a day and see where I'm at in 2 and either increase or decrease that by 100 calories depending on what my average weight ends up as.

I know that even looking at a week by week weight there are fluctuations/sudden weight catch ups etc and realistically I only get a clearer picture by extending my average to looking at weight over 2 or even 3 week period.

So I feel like a day off from not tracking calories during this period effectively makes the entire weeks data useless and I have to start again to figure out what my target weekly average calorie intake should be.

Maybe I'm overthinking this, but I'm just frustrated at people for not getting how much I time and mental effort I'm putting into this when they're so dismissive of me telling them I need to be careful of where I'm eating out etc and choosing only places/foods that I can get a close as accurate calorie count from. You baked me a cupcake? Great, it's likely very tasty but I'm sorry - I can't eat it. I couldn't accurately gauge whether it's 200 calories or 600 calories. Invited to a small restaurant with no nutritional labels on any of the food.. out of the question at this stage for me.

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Wednesday, July 8, 2026

Help! Im attempting to lose a little weight while working on creating a sustainable diet for myself

Hi all, its my first post in this sub so bear with me. Im a 25YO M who is looking to begin a weight loss/muscle gain journey. While I don't necessarily need to lose a ton of weight, as I sit at 5'10"and 185lbs, I'm looking to get rid of belly and oblique fat that Ive struggled with for years to get rid of, to the point of mental health problems arising. I just want to feel good in my skin.

Currently, I go to the gym 4 days a week and get an additional day or two of zone 2 cardio per week, though my diet has always lacked a little. So, I'm working on starting a new diet that could help me achieve this weight loss that I'm after, while also aiding in gaining muscle in its place. I'll post what I have so far below, but would very much appreciate any additional help or direction I could go.

Breakfast
Protein overnight oats
Ingredients:
Oats, Chia seeds, Honey, Greek Yogurt, Protein milk, Protein powder, Dark chocolate chips
OR Breakfast Option #2
Eggs, Meat like sausage or bacon, Bread, and Potatoes
Fruits/Other
Blueberries, Blackberries, Bananas, Pears, Strawberries, Avocado, Nut mix

Lunch
Sardines on toast with lemon, chili pepper, and green onion with a side of fruit

Dinner
Protein:
Chicken breast
Ground turkey
Ground beef
Other meats that seem interesting/good (bison, fish, or venison for example)
Carbs:
Pita bread/Naan
Spaghetti
Potatoes
Rice
Toppings:
Lettuce, Spinach, Bagged frozen veggies, Bell peppers, Tomatoes, Avocado, Pickles, Everything but the bagel seasoning, Sauces like tzatziki

Snacks/Dessert/Drinks
Protein bars, Pita chips/Naan/Pita/Flatbread with tzatziki or hummus, Rice cakes, Any fruits that I have under breakfast, Nut mix, Oikos triple zero yogurts, Protein ice creams, Dark chocolate, Coffee, Bubbly water, Protein shakes/Fairlife shakes

Where could I go from here? Is what I have a good starting point? Am I missing anything? Any help or pointing in the right direction would be greatly appreciated. Thank you all!!

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Feeling Stuck and Unsure how to Proceed

Been trying to lose weight for years, got way more serious about it in the last 12 months and really, in the last 6.

Started the year around 285. I'm a 5'11" man. In the pursuit of making losing weight as quick as possible, I have been targeting 1800 calories per day during the week with a little bit more freedom (~2100) on the weekends.

During the week, breakfast and lunch are consistent and high protein: Greek yogurt for breakfast with coffee and chicken+ broccoli meal prep for lunch. Dinner is variable but, is usually pretty healthy.

All tracked with MyNetDiary.

Six months in, I've lost 20lbs. I feel like that isn't adding up. I go to the gym 3 times a week, doing 15 minutes on the elliptical at moderate intensity (~130 bpm sustained) followed by 45-60 minutes of moderate intensity lifting. I don't always hit my 10k step goal on gym days but, I am usually at 8.5k+ so, not far off.

On non gym days, I walk 2-3 times a day and average 12.5k steps.

I work from home currently and spend 3/4 of the day standing on a balance board to try to keep the small movements going.

I am seeing progress. Waistbands being a little looser, thighs slimming down a bit, etc but, this rate doesn't seem right to me. Even accounting for gaining some muscle mass, it isn't making sense.

I am not sure how to proceed. Is it possible that I am actually eating too little and sabotaging the weight loss by being in continuous starvation mode? I don't feel hungry throughout the day but, maybe that isn't the indicator I should be looking for?

I'm going to talk to my doctor about getting in touch with a dietician and having a blood panel done to make sure there isn't something I'm missing in the medical side but, any thoughts or ideas?

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Officially lost 100 pounds in 1.3 years

22 year old 5'7 male here. I was apparently 250 lb in March, 2025. As of today, my scale says that I am 150 lb, which means I've lost 100 lb.

Wow, looking back, I'm shocked to how I was this obese for this long. I was at least overweight-obese since 2nd grade of elementary school. I struggled most of my life in finding clothes that could fit me. And now I could fit in clothes that are considered small. My BMI is at the healthy range for American standards. My waist-height ratio is considered healthy. My body fat still seems quite high but I'm sure doing a lean bulk/cut cycle + lifting weights will fix it instead of continuing to cut even further. I can run for at least 30 minutes and once ran for a whole hour.

But obviously, my journey is not over at all. I still plan on losing 10 more pounds at 140 lb to try and see if I can lose a bit more fat as I still have quite a ton. But after that, if I still look quite fat despite at a really healthy weight which I'm assuming is skinny fat, I'll stop my long awaited weight loss and start doing a lean bulk to increase my muscle mass before doing another smaller cut and so on. Thought lifting weights on progressive overload and eating high protein would get me away from that but oh well. I've heard about recomping but I hear the results for that are extremely slow so I'd rather just do the bulk/cut cycle.

I do wish I had accomplished this weight loss before college as I'm in my final year. Perhaps my social life would've been a lot better and I would've been a lot more confident and done more physical activities that I enjoy. Perhaps I could've gotten a girlfriend. But the past is the past, and my weight loss journey is nearing an end while a new journey is starting. I just want to say thank you for this long, struggling, process to becoming healthy.

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What’s a realistic expectation for my stomach?

For context - female 5’1, start weight 258 and goal weight 150ish.

What can I expect my stomach to look like by the end of my weight loss? I carry enough weight to have an “apron belly” and I’ve had two c-sections. I don’t imagine a flat stomach would ever be achievable without surgery, and that’s fine. But I was wondering if you lost a lot of weight, was there a big improvement in your “apron belly”?

So far, my face and legs have become very slender. Hips and butt have reduced in size, but it seems nothing is shifting in my stomach unfortunately.

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Tuesday, July 7, 2026

Weight loss is coming with a learning curve

Being on this journey has taught me many things so far. I find that the more I learn about weight loss, about the progress, the struggles and the challenges, the more I realize how little it has to do with weight.

Ironically enough, it's about everything else.

What a person old habits looks like, and what they associate with pain, and with reward. What type of movement that comes most natural to them and what type of foods they prefer as healthier options.

It's through honesty about who we are and our already habits, that we find our indvidual direction in life. And breaking good or sedentary habits is no different. Anyone who thinks they can copy somebody else's routines and expect same results, will need to think again. They need to include their own personality.

The person losing weight is the same person who must be custom - included in any routine or plan. This also goes for when we are to support others in their weight loss. We must adapt the support and shape it *around the person* rather than throwing them some generalized disciplinary module with "count calories!" or "Walk more!"

Something that's easy to forget is. *Knowledge isn't equal to appliance.* We all can know that logically, less calories leads to less weight. Or counting calories will give more information on what to cut off. Or running is healthier than couch potatoing. But applying that and making it to long lasting routines where we change our everyday habits and turn around a whole lifestyle? That's something else. And is unlikely to happen over night. It's also unlikely to stick perfectly even if we are progressing more than not. (And it doesn't need to)

Weight loss comes with a learning curve, and in that curve we will get tons of feedback. But if we or our loved ones are not careful, said feedback can turn to guilt. (And guilt is craving self destruction.)

Therefore we ought to view anything that happens , any result , *as feedback to where to go next.*

Try any ideas a couple weeks and then evaluate. (What helped? What was hard? What needs to be adjusted? What options is available for said adjustment?) Try something again. And allow the learning curve.

It doesn't have to be perfect or work instantly to count. Even ending up in slip ups, comfort, or guilt is feedback for a progress, *if you know how to turn pain in to purpose.*

The worst obstacle with any habit breaking changes isn't the changes themselves, but how we treat ourselves or our loved ones during the learning curve.

So I have come to the conclusion that weight isn't what matters the most in weight loss. Being kind and respecting the learning curve is.

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Small Weight Loss in One Year: from 48 to 44% body fat, what worked, what didn't, and DEXA images, if sub will let me post them

Last year, under someone else's post, I shared a mortifying image from my DEXA: at 48% body fat, it didn't even look human. And that was AFTER I had already started losing weight. I knew I had to make a change. Here's what I did:

JULY: joined a pilates studio, did home workouts, counted calories miserably; lost a couple pounds

AUGUST: quit the pilates studio because it turned out to be a scam, kept up with home workouts sporadically, kept trying to count calories; lost a couple pounds

SEPTEMBER: got COVID, went completely off track

OCTOBER-APRIL: stayed off track, losing and then regaining the same few pounds cyclically

MAY: learned I'm prediabetic, realized this is no joke, I can't keep screwing around like this; joined a low carb eating program through my health insurance for those with prediabetes or diabetes; began tracking my glucose and ketones daily as part of the program, but quit counting calories, as that's not part of the program and it depresses me anyway

JUNE: started to get the hang of eating in this new way; cut out sugar EASILY for the first time in my life; got rid of the joint pain and fatigue that plagued me; stopped crashing after meals; for the first time in years, WANTED to move; resumed daily walking; started doing more random exercise; lost a couple more pounds

As of today, I'm down only seven pounds from last year-- my goal was 40! But my body composition scan today showed the following:

  • my bone density is still about what it was last year
  • my lean body mass is the same as it was last year (which I'm considering neutral, because my LBM last year was low-- but I didn't lose any with the fat I lost, and I didn't work to build muscle, so I think that's fair
  • my body fat percentage went from 48 to 44, so I'm still not near my health target, but I'm moving in the right direction
  • my visceral fat went from 1.9 lbs to 1.5 lbs, which was one of my biggest concerns

Here are the things I'm going to continue doing for the next year:

  • eat added sugar only on occasion (I was eating added sugar daily, and like... a mortifying amount)
  • avoid the foods that spike my glucose (white rice and white breads are the biggest culprits for me)
  • maintain low-ish carb ratios (I'm not really "low carb," as I find that I feel great as long as I avoid the carbs that spike my glucose-- but I find that staying under 100g carbs daily feels best)
  • maintain decent protein
  • check calories if my weight creeps up, but don't make calorie counting an obsession (I 100% agree that weight loss is CICO, but I've found that my body makes better use of calories when my insulin is steady, so avoiding foods that my body doesn't process properly is easier for me and makes me feel better-- eating white rice in a calorie deficit will theoretically make me lose weight, but the glucose spike that makes me fall asleep immediately after eating and keeps me in a daze the rest of the day isn't conducive to the physical lifestyle I need to be working toward)
  • walk daily and frequently

Here's what I'm adding for next year:

  • daily jumping exercises to maintain bone density
  • a structured weight lifting routine to build lean body mass

Finally: I know my changes aren't monumental. There are so many people in this sub who have made WAY bigger changes. But I've been gaining weight every year since I was 30, so the fact that I didn't GAIN weight this year was itself a big deal for me. Learning that I have insulin resistance has been the major catalyst for change for me. Implementing small changes and feeling 10 years younger after just the first week of eating differently has changed my life. I was eating myself to death, not just in quantity of food, but in type. Addressing my insulin resistance has helped in both ways, because now that I'm avoiding the glucose spike triggers, my cravings are regulated. I've had my favorite chocolates in the cupboard since May. I give myself permission to have one each night (strangely, refined sugar doesn't spike my glucose as much as white rice or bread)... yet... I haven't touched them. I just don't care to. I've lost my taste for the sugary desserts that put me where I am today, and I've also developed proper hunger signals. I used to still feel hungry after three plates of dinner... now I feel satisfied after one. Guys. I NEVER felt satisfied before, even when I was full to the point of bursting.

I'm hoping that I can share bigger results next year, but for now, thanks for motivating me to get my act together. :0) Diet feels sorted, now I need to build some muscle!

Here is a comparison of 2025 vs 2026 body composition scan: https://imgur.com/I7g6b55

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Monday, July 6, 2026

Weight Loss Advice

Hi All,

I wanted some advice from you all. I’ve had a really bad journey with weight and weight management. I’m finally going to an endocrinologist to see if they can help.

It’s a long story, however, anyone who could help, I would be grateful.

For context - my family hereditary doesn’t have lean people, my family is overweight and obese (mostly on my mom’s side and I’ve taken those genetics). I was really heavy when I was in college, my maximum weight was 75kgs and I had never worked out in my life. Short girl 5’2-3”, so I was really plump. Started weight training, in the beginning I had to do a lot. Bad trainer, so he was making me eat 600-1000 calories, and I was working out really heavy. I used to walk 10,000 steps, run almost everyday and workout for 1.5-2 hours in the gym. Did 6 months and lost like 15 kgs. Covid hit and I was home, so worked out with only 30kgs with a home gym, but met a new trainer who taught me nutrition, so I was eating human calories and lost more weight. I was 50kgs by the end of the cut and maintained that for 2 years. Then changed countries and couldn’t workout for a year. Had no time to workout, cook, or eat. Was trying to save money so ate only at a dining hall at school (got barely one meal a day) and hence crash diet.

Got mono, and metabolism, body everything took a hit and gained back a lot of weight. I was 63kgs when I started working out back again, and started eating properly. This was back in 2023 (was also in a bad relationship). So now worked out on and off in 2023, 2024, was eating decently, I don’t think any crash diet episodes happened. However, was eating 1200-1800 calories in the period. I started traveling for work in 2024, and travel for atleast a month at a time.

Weight increased to 67kgs by May 2025. So started losing weight. Walked 12-15k steps a day, eating really healthy, working out 4-5 days a week. Lost 4 kgs and was 63kgs again by September 2025. Then fell sick on a trip for 3 weeks and workout cycle broke. Weight started creeping up again (was still working out and walking) and I hit 68kgs. Then my trainer decided this is a bad and weird pattern and we need to go into maintenance for a bit. Did 2300 calories for 4 weeks (had to break to go on another trip). Didn’t gain any weight during maintenance. And then got food poisoning and weight crept up after to 70kgs.

Now I’ve been 4 weeks into a 6 day workout, walk as much as possible, eat 1600-1700 calories (140gm protein) a day diet. And I am maintaining my weight at 70kgs.

Good news is that I’ve packed more muscle than I ever had in my entire life. I have 53 lbs of muscle (inbody scan) and I’m lifting more than ever.

One of my goal is to keep lifting and build more muscle and keep eating the same for however long it takes to start seeing that dip in the scale just by metabolic shift. Eat a high protein diet and Whole Foods (clean eating) and just be consistent, eventually the body will succumb to it.
Once the workouts feel comfortable, adding more cardio to it.

What would you all suggest?

TL, DR: F (27), having a bad metabolic journey and gaining weight despite being active. Gained weight from 50kgs to 70kgs and isn’t reducing.

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Keeping motivation up during weight loss journey? - 5ft4 and 80kg, 4.2kg loss

I'm 24f, and have been on a weight loss journey since May. I started at 84.2kg but now it seems harder to cross the threshold into the 70s.

I've been eating 1360 net cal per day with the odd day where I ignore calorie counting. I have been upping my activity but not by much as by the end of the day after work I struggle with energy levels. I'm not sure why this is.

I feel like I can sense the motivation starting to waver which is scaring me...I don't want to go backwards on my journey. I feel like I've been here so many times, and I just need to keep going. I'm scared on the repercussions of not losing the weight.

I gained 20kg over 2 years (64--> 84kg) which has been really hard to process, and currently trying to eat in line with my hormone health. I'm aiming to get back down to my healthy weight of 65kg, and feel happy and fit and energised again. What kept you going in your journey - what's the best words of advice or mantra that stuck with you?

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Sunday, July 5, 2026

Overtraining? Blocked weight loss

Hello!

I'm a 30-year-old woman, 9 months postpartum, and I'm trying to lose 20 kg (about 44 lbs). I've always been very active. I danced extensively until I was 18, and for the past 12 years I've been into fitness.

I had a major weight loss in 2015, when I dropped to 55 kg (121 lbs) at 176 cm (5'9"). I lost about 20 kg (44 lbs) in total. However, over the following 11 years, I gained it all back, and then some. To be fair, 55 kg was nowhere near a healthy weight for me. I was way too thin, but I think it's worth mentioning because I feel like it probably messed up my metabolism.

Over those 11 years, I managed to maintain a more reasonable weight for my height and muscle mass, around 75 kg (165 lbs). However, there were periods where I did too much cardio, especially indoor cycling (SoulCycle-style classes). Right before COVID, I was doing a lot of it, and when lockdown forced me to stop, I gained 10 kg (22 lbs) incredibly quickly and never managed to lose it again. Again, I blamed my "broken" metabolism.

I got pregnant at the end of 2025, weighing 82 kg (181 lbs), which was already my highest weight ever. By the end of my pregnancy, I weighed 95 kg (209 lbs). Thanks to breastfeeding, I lost all of the pregnancy weight, and even a little more, very quickly, despite not exercising at all.

Then I stopped breastfeeding. I gradually got back into working out, but combined with sleep deprivation, the stress of moving, and a complete lifestyle change (I'm now much more sedentary and live in a smaller town where I drive everywhere, whereas I used to live in Paris and walk at least 5,000-6,000 steps a day just from taking the metro), I gained all the weight back. So here I am again at 95 kg.

At the end of April, I started a calorie deficit and lost 4 kg (9 lbs) in the first month. I've also kept the healthier habits I developed. However, I've now been stuck at 91 kg (201 lbs) for the past two months, and I'm starting to question my training routine.

I'm wondering if I might be overtraining. My daughter is finally sleeping through the night, so I'm getting decent sleep again. I've also been trying to walk much more and even bought a standing desk.

My current weekly training schedule looks like this:

\- Monday: 30 min lower-body strength training (Roxie Jones, Alo Moves)

\- Tuesday: 30 min upper-body strength training (Roxie Jones, Alo Moves)

\- Wednesday: Rest

\- Thursday: 45 min full-body strength training (Roxie Jones, Alo Moves)

\- Friday: 30–45 min intense Vinyasa Flow

\- Saturday: Restorative Flow yoga

\- Sunday: 20 min Bootcamp/HIIT circuit

Roxie's workouts on Alo are actually pretty cardio-heavy, so they feel more like bootcamp sessions than traditional strength training. I use dumbbells ranging from 2 to 9 kg (4.5 to 20 lbs) per hand.

I've gone through almost all of Roxie's workouts, so I'm now switching to other trainers like Sydney Cummings on YouTube.

I also want to mention that over the past few months, I've clearly gained muscle. I can feel the difference in my body, I look and feel more toned, but my weight hasn't moved despite staying in a calorie deficit.

What would you recommend to restructure my training plan and help me break through this plateau? I'm not looking for rapid weight loss, just a way to get past this stall.

P.S. I absolutely hate running, so anything but that please! 🤣

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Weight loss Frustrations

I have gained about 20 lbs in the past year and I’m so frustrated. Last August, I moved from a city to the suburbs. It was a big change in part because I had been living alone and due to unforeseen circumstances had to move back in with my family. I was trying to lose weight before the move and had lost around 5lbs in one month so I know I can do it.

In the city, I walked everywhere - work, grocery shopping, restaurants, etc — and now I don’t walk anywhere. I’ve been trying so hard to motivate myself but I just can’t get back into it. I’ve now been going to the gym for the past month 3x/week. I haven’t seen any changes but I do feel stronger so that is a positive.

Since moving home, I’ve also been tracking my calories and am struggling so much to stick to it. I did not have this problem before when I tried and successfully lost weight in the past. I know I just have to be strict with myself but it is so hard living with other people and just being in less control of what I eat.

What is really making me want to get disciplined with the calorie counting is I went to the doctor last week and when I noted I was struggling to lose weight, she asked if I would try a GLP 1. I’ve been spiralling since. I don’t think I’m huge (I wear a size M/L or 8-10) but apparently I’m obese. I’m also close to my highest weight ever and that is making me panic and feel bad so now I just really need to kick it into gear. I am going to cut to 1300 calories with only a 50 calorie margin of error. I know I can do it because I’ve done it before but it’s just so daunting!

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