Thursday, November 6, 2025

What is your “why” when it comes to weight loss?

I’ll go first.

1) I love thrifting. I do find plus size clothes but everytime I go thrifting I find so many options that matches my vibe and Pinterest board inspos that aren’t my size! I want to fit into any clothing I desire to. I also find better deals on clothes that aren’t my size.

2) I want to dress up as my desired character on Halloween. Dont get me wrong I can still dress up being a plus sized woman but I don’t have the confidence. For the past few years I haven’t dressed up at all due to my weight.

3) I want to wear anything else besides black graphic tees. I avoid tees in any colour besides black like a plague even if it is oversized.

4) I want to get rid of my insulin resistance. I believe I have hyperpigmentation in my body especially around my mouth, neck, armpits due to this. I want my skin to be even.

5) I want skinny fingers. This sounds weird but I haven’t found any rings that I like in my size… I want to have skinny fingers to create my everyday jewelry stack

These are just some of my whys.. What is your “why”?

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Some thoughts after posting here a while back — especially for anyone dealing with chronic illness, disordered eating, or weight concerns

Hey everyone. I posted here a couple of months ago while I was recovering from surgery for endometriosis. I shared that I was around 130lbs (actually 124, but I rounded up because of ED stuff), that I was on a restricted diet due to my condition, struggling to eat more than 1000 calories a day, and exercising multiple times daily — burning about 300 calories. I also mentioned I wasn’t seeing weight loss, even though I wasn’t weighing myself regularly.

The responses were… mixed.

Some people were kind and supportive — thank you. But a lot of replies were honestly alarming. I was told to eat even less, skip meals, and that I must be lying about being in a calorie deficit. People dismissed the idea that inflammation or my health condition could be affecting my weight.

Turns out, it was inflammation. And I was losing weight — because of being in a calorie deficit, exersie but ALSO because the surgery had removed a huge cyst in my side and my inflamation had gone down. I won’t go into the details because that’s not really the point. What concerns me is how normalized some really harmful advice is here.

So here’s what I’ve learned — as someone with diagnosed eating disorders and a chronic condition that affects how I eat and move:

1) Skipping meals isn’t healthy. Especially breakfast. It messes with your mood, energy, and focus. You’re more likely to overeat later, and it’s not a sustainable way to lose weight.

2) Calories aren’t everything. An apple and a biscuit might have similar calories, but the apple gives you fiber, nutrients, and keeps you full. The biscuit? Mostly sugar and fat. Quality matters.

3) Exercise helps — even if it’s not burning tons of calories. It builds strength, improves mood, and shapes a healthier leaner looking body.

4) The scale doesn’t tell the whole story. Muscle weighs more than fat. You might gain weight while getting leaner. That’s not failure — that’s progress.

5) Your motivation matters. If you’re doing this for your health, digestion, or energy — amazing. But if it’s driven by insecurity or trying to meet someone else’s standard, it’s easy to fall into unhealthy patterns.

Just wanted to share this in case anyone else is feeling confused or discouraged. Be kind to yourself. Your body deserves care, not punishment.

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68lb 18 months, still going!

So I posted a couple months ago about my weight loss journey I thought I might want to update it, about 18 months back I decided to quit alcohol. I noticed the weight was slowly coming off, and I have for the last 20 years been dedicated to daily exercise (a incline walk lasting 1-2 hours daily).

I believe this is why I was able to keep the weight down, but I also didn't eat the best. I was about 24 years back, around 300lb. I went to my doctor, and he put me on high blood pressure pills, but instead I said, what If I start walking uphill. He was totally into it, and from there I got myself down to about 220 lb in about 2-3 years. Then got in a nasty divorce, and started drinking and got back up to about 245lb....

So I decided to quit alcohol about 18 months ago, I went cold turkey, I saw it wasn't doing me any favors, I noticed my body didn't like it. So ... I stopped. It wasn't good, was very hard, and I struggled with the loss of calories. But I kept going! Then about five months back, I decided that I wanted to quit sugar, but instead, I went even harder, and decided to quit fast food and what I consider crap food.

So I've been doing this now for about five months, and in that time, I've easily lost 50+ lb. It's insane to watch your body change, you can literally feel your bones, and not flab. Like my ribcage is now exposed, I can feel the bones in my chest, ass, etc. Sadly I have a lot of loose skin around my belly, ass, and such.

How do I lose so much? Well instead of these crash diets, or crazy diets like carnivore, etc, I do this: I eat only whole foods -- -for lunch I'm actually having chicken tacos, simple, one chicken breast, two good size tomatoes, and green onions. I'm having them with whole wheat tortillas, and even some hard ones. Sure, those aren't the best (and I understand moderately processed) but... still ok, for dinner, I'll have my usual, a chicken breast , potatoes (a good helping), zuchinni, and some green pepper. I dip it in a no-sugar bbq sauce (thanks to walmart) and lap it up. I eat these meals daily, it's boring, but --- to me sustainable.

I will then do my exercise routine, which I have upped again, I'm now doing a 6.5km hike daily, that consists of a 500m vertical gain. It takes me about a hour twenty to do, I don't even really sweat anymore, and I'm able to maintain a low heart rate the whole time. It's now not really a chore, even though the last 150m is pure vertical. I also force myself to wear a 10lb pack filled with water for extra weight. I have not missed this hike in over 70 days now daily.

How is my body?!?!? better than ever, you see when I was around 200+lb, every time I would come home I was exhausted, my body sore, my muscles in pain, now I come home, and I don't even feel it, even if I stretch to 10km -- I come home feeling like I didn't even exercise. I believe this is from the reduced sugar intake, inflammation, and much lower weight on my bodies joints.

I'm writing this because, I want people who are trapped in the weight cycle, eating crap, trying to exercise and feeling bad because it hurts, there is a end. I guarantee the more you lose, the better you'll feel. Don't let the food addiction get to you, get out, start a routine and stop living with the weight and burden.

I have not included my height until now but I'm Six foot Three (6' 3"), I'm in the lower middle BMI now for my size. I probably have 10lb of calf, glutes, and lower muscle mass, I'm putting my end weight to around 170lb, not sure if this is a good goal or not, todays weigh in was 177.6lb. I hope my story inspires people to get out and exercise, look at what they eat, and have a little inspiration.

Good luck everyone on their weight loss journey.

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Wednesday, November 5, 2025

Is it likely my boobs will be as perky as they were before I gained weight, when I lose weight?

I used to have perky d cup sized boobs, I then gained 25kg and they’re not as perky as they were. They aren’t SUPER saggy but they definitely hang lower than they did. I’m an E cup now. Although my band size has remained the same (32). FYI, I’m 22. I want to lose weight and get back to being 50kg. I’m now 75. Is there any chance my boobs will return to how they were at 50kg, and be perkier and more lifted, or are they just going to sag and deflate? Has anyone been lucky and didn’t have saggy boobs after weight loss and they’re in fact perkier? it’s not like my boobs haven’t been perky before.

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Does anyone else not like it when others bring up their weight loss?

I 27f 5'6 gave lost approx 75lbs over the last two years. The last 30 lbs came off pretty fast and I noticed a drastic change in my physical appearance then. Since then many people, friends, acquaintances, family ect. have all congratulated me or mentioned my weightloss in some positive manner. And I dont like it. It makes me uncomfortable. I love being complimented on my hair, eyes or literally anything else. Just not my body. I think this is paired with the fact that ive noticed a pretty big difference in how people treat me. Strangers are nicer, im no longer invisible. And I dont like it, it actually pisses me off. Im still me, literally NOTHING has changed other than im now in a more socially acceptable package. I get it, im hot now. But I personally always found myself hot. I lost weight for health reasons. Thats not shaming anyone who lost weight for vanity reasons, genuinely I wholeheartedly love that for you. But I dont like when people point it out. Im not exactly sure why it bothers me so much but it does. I saw a friend who I hadn't seen in awhile recently and lovingly said "youre so skinny!!" Multiple times and I just stared at her. Didnt know what to say. I ended up snapping out of it and joking about it but I hated the interaction. I know people mean well but I wish nobody would comment on my body good or bad. Unless im in bed with someone lmao.

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i don't feel like it's ever helped me to get 'excited' or 'really into' weight loss

motivation is one thing, and if you're pumped to start losing weight, then that's great. for me, that's never been so helpful because, most of the time i find weight loss is boring and sucks. i'd really rather not think of it and often if i do, it's not excitement, it's obsession and that doesn't help. it feels like a 'magic bullet' kind of thing when i'm excited for it and the reality is anything but. it's mostly about being practical.

i'm not saying nobody should get excited for it. sometimes putting in some kind of financial investment can keep you going or be motivational. buying workout clothes, a new cookbook, whatever other accessories. that is fun. the actual weight loss, though, for me is still a 'meh' experience that's not very exciting.

the exciting part for me, though, is the results. that is really really nice. having your clothing start to fit looser, finding it easier to move around and feeling stronger, that is worth getting excited over. for me, the process still sucks and i'd rather not get too involved and, ideally, i don't even want to think about it.

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Am I plateauing or should I trust the averages?

Cross posted!

I lost weight slow and steady with remarkable consistency at the rate of one pound a week for over a year. I’m now 69.5 pounds down but have appeared to be stagnating for the last month. Day 1 of October to day 1 of November was the exact same weight (which has never happened to me). HOWEVER my averages tell a different story. According to my averages I lost an average of 3.7 pounds in October (which is essentially the same rate of weight loss as any other month!).

Is this one of those instances where the scale isn’t telling the whole story and I should trust the averages or should I make some changes? I did start mild strength training (1x per week until I build up some more tolerance- I have some physical disabilities). I worry that my appetite has revved up more than my metabolic rate has gone up. I also don’t want to undereat in this new phase of building strength!

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