Friday, April 3, 2026

Meal prep fatigue making me want to quit weight loss completely

Everyone says meal prep is key, and I really wanted it to work for me. On paper it sounds perfect cook once, eat all week, save time, stay consistent. But in reality, I keep running into the same problem. By the third or fourth day of eating the exact same lunch, I’m completely over it. It’s not even about the food being bad I just get bored. Opening the same container every day starts to feel like a chore, and instead of looking forward to eating, I’m already thinking about ordering takeout just to have something different. At that point, the whole system kind of defeats itself. I’ve tried solving that by adding more variety, but then it turns into a completely different issue. Instead of making one or two things, I’m suddenly planning multiple meals, buying a ton of ingredients, cooking for hours, and then cleaning everything up. It ends up taking a huge chunk of my weekend, and I just don’t have the time or energy for that every week. By the end of it, I don’t feel “prepared,” I just feel drained. So I feel stuck between two extremes. Either I keep it simple and get bored out of my mind eating the same thing every day, or I try to make things interesting and end up burning myself out before the week even starts. Neither of those feels sustainable, which is frustrating because I do want some kind of structure. I don’t want to be deciding what to eat from scratch every single day either that gets exhausting in its own way. I guess what I’m really looking for is a middle ground. Something that gives a bit of consistency without locking me into identical meals all week, and without turning my weekends into a full-time cooking job. Right now, both “strict meal prep” and “just wing it daily” feel equally exhausting in different ways, and I’m trying to figure out if there’s a more realistic balance people actually stick to.

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Thursday, April 2, 2026

How did perceptions change specifically?

M, 255lbs, 5’11 and half, 26

Basically rn I’m quite frustrated as I’ve improved SO much about myself so far tbh.

I’m running way more, hitting gym, wearing some better clothes, skincare, good hygiene, keeping room clean, better organised, got a good conventions but nice hair and good beard, all well maintained and trimmed and so on. Even dating a bit/trying to.

I’m becoming less pathetic/goofy in my own eyes, but that doesn’t change anyone else’s. I feel better about myself a bit, but I still feel GOOFY.

That’s the right word. I HOPE it’s my weight. Like I’ve always hoped losing that would conclude feeling big and goofy and clownish, but idk anymore.

I see people sometimes who just look hot/respectable. They are cleaner, better dressed still, better bodies ofc, but just sharper as a whole.

I feel like I stumble about and get mocked/looked down upon. Like my physicality is laughable. My weight loss is going okay. 20lbs lost, but that’s over a fair amount of time now and I’ve maintained at this current weight for a while even with the increased exercise. I get it’s all diet but idk, it’s frustrating.

I just want to know if people did 180’s. I want to be that attractive sharp guy. My family are all big and broad and we all have big heads and stuff, and I feel very much that way. Like I like being my height (not even tall but it’s fine) and I don’t hate being broad (could be good with body recomp and muscles, and weight loss ofc) but it just makes me feel so goofy Christ. I feel like Jimmy for GTA 5 (cringe reference) or some other type like that when I want to be more Matt Bomer from white collar or something. Not those references exactly but the difference between goofy and suave.

I used to be prodded in the stomach in school and it still feels like that could be done to me. Or verbally even, like my stomachs so big and I’m so out there in public anyone could do that.

Anyway, feel like I said the same thing over and over there for a bit. Would appreciate advice if people felt the same way.

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Seeking weight loss partner!

Hello all~ I’m a 29F, 5’6”, 315 lb and I’m ready to lose this weight for good! I’ve been fat my whole life and actually got down to 155 lb a couple of years ago but gained it all back once I got on psychiatric meds. This time it’s coming off once and for all and I need a friend on the same journey!

I’m planning on doing a calorie deficit of 1,800 to start off and then tapering down to 1,500 where I’ll stay until I reach goal weight. I’ll also be going to the gym 2-3 times a week.

Hopefully I can find people who have a significant amount to lose like me so we can support each other on this similar journey! All I ask is to not message me if you’re a bigot or conservative.

[Here’s a picture of me now](https://imgur.com/a/cWYboZa)

[Here’s a bonus pic of when I was 155, can’t wait to get back to that spot](https://imgur.com/a/nuowFA3)

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Weight loss and gain

For context I have been “thin” all my life. A few years ago I went through a rough time and gained nearly 50 pounds. I have lost all the weight and have returned to my previous weight that I had been all my life before the weight gain. I had a guy (who has known me before the weight gain and also saw me during the weight gain and now after) say to me that “you worked really hard to lose that weight”. So my question is, do people worry that their partner will regain weight that they previously lost or does it not cross their mind?

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Wednesday, April 1, 2026

Little Tip!

Hey y’all I wanted to share a little tip that has been working for me. So I’m 21 and a college student I have been on my weight loss journey and I mainly only have breakfast and then dinner.

But I have found during dinner that if I eat well doing homework I pace myself a lot more and feel much more full. I can’t even finish a chipotle bowl anymore and I used too easily! So if you’re struggling with pacing or like you don’t feel full maybe do work or homework or something proactive well you eat I may help.

Just wanted to share in case it does help anyone.

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Calorie deficit question

Hi everyone.

I recently started a weight loss journey including taking Phentermine to aide with energy and as an appetite suppressant. I am also getting active and hitting 8-10000 steps a day as well.

I have lost 5 pounds total since starting but realized now I am not eating nearly enough food daily for healthy weight loss. I calculated my deficit amount and it comes to 2200 but I am barely making it to 1500 calories a day.

What can I do to get my calories up with healthy foods. Will I immediately gain the 5 pounds I already lost switching now?

Thanks.

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Tuesday, March 31, 2026

Clothing

Hey guys so I’m in a little bit of a pickle. So I am currently working on my weight loss journey. The problem is I really wanna refresh my closet but I’m not in the best financial place for that and I also don’t wanna buy clothing just for it to not fit as well once I do lose weight. I’m also 6’3” so that doesn’t help haha. I guess I’m just curious for anyone who has successfully lost weight at least a decent amount of it how much did it truly change your clothing size.

As of right now I’m an XXL pretty much but I can’t tell if I will end up being closer to an XL once I lose weight as I fit into an L but it’s too short same with XL. I just feel a little stuck

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