Yesterday I weighed in at my lowest weight in 4 years. Yep, 4 years. I have a big family event coming up in August that I’ve been trying very hard to prepare for, so it’s been helping to have more motivation and finally breaking the never-ending binge cycle. I was so worried I’d never be able to stop but I did.
Now I have a couple of problems: my goal weight before this big family event is another 5-10 pound loss. It begins in seven weeks. If I average out my weight loss, if I can lose one pound per week, I can reach my goal. I’m so prepared for it.
However, between now and then:
- I have a friend visiting me for 4 days
- I go on vacation with more family and friends for two weeks
Then I get 3 weeks of pure preparation for the big family event, before the pre-activities begin about a week beforehand.
I am already embarrassed that my weight loss and body recomp has been very slow. I binged so much this past year and didn’t work out enough. I feel embarrassed to tell family and friends that I am still dieting for the event. I don’t want to be a party pooper and I don’t want to feel ashamed. But I don’t want to be eating heavy meals and desserts that I know will put me in a caloric surplus, I want to exercise and workout and eat as I have been, and I don’t know how much I am capable. What if I get judged for not losing enough beforehand and then asking to eat better now so I can lose the rest of this weight? I say ask not because I need permission but my family and friends love to have our meals together, it’s part of how we bond and show we care for each other. I’m already feeling bad about declining foods. But I think most of the shame is coming from not being as lean as I hoped to be at this point.
But if I try to communicate and I do exercise as much as I hope and have been, do you think it’s still possible to reach my goal despite all of these “hurdles?” I’ve been so stressed and having anxiety about this unfortunately.
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