Wednesday, September 23, 2026

weight loss help plssss

i am a 18yr old female who weighs 182lbs and 5ft5 who needs help on weight loss tips. I struggle sticking to calorie deficits due to sometimes eating too little calories causing me to eat over my deficit. However when add more calories i feel guilty almost like i am eating too many and overall just struggle with a calorie deficit.

I have struggled for years with my body image and feel as-if this time in my life is the worst i have felt and want to make a change but the motivation and discipline are hard to keep up with. I no longer want to let my weight consume me as all that is on my mind all day every day is the way i look and it becomes draining. I decide to starve myself but then become soo hungry and i binge and it’s just a vicious cycle.

please can somebody help out with their tips as it is all really starting to take a toll on me and my mental health.

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Low Fat Diet

currently, i’m on a low fat diet due to being diagnosed with gallstones from rapid weight loss.

all im eating at the moment is plain pasta, plain chicken breasts and apples also ketchup to make things taste ok lol. but it’s just so boring and i would like to expand what i consume since i literally have to go out shopping every 3 days because i only eat 3 things.

also to mention im not the best cook, so if possible could you guys help me with low fat meal/snack options. around 5g fat meals and then 1-2g fat snack options. i know that might sound low or maybe it is im not sure ive never really dieted until now, ive just had eating disorders all my life lol. anyways i just dont want pain, its excruciating. i tried adding a chocolate protein drink into my diet the other day and it just made my tummy really uncomfortable every time i drank half of it. damn it was so good though, but 5g fat in a full bottle.

ANYWAYS, any help is appreciated! i go to see my surgeon on the 1st of october so hopefully after my surgery i can eat normally. also if i didnt mention already… im very picky and have sensory issues with mushy/gritty food. dont know how to explain it but i just dont like certain weird textures. i know it doesnt matter saying that since everyone’s mouths are different and what i might find mushy u might find normal or something. but yeah just wanted to put that out there. ok thank you!1!1!1!!!

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Is it supposed to feel this hard?

So for context, I've been at a average 500 cal deficit, this is week 5.

I made an assumption that my maintenance is 2500 (5"5, 160lbs)

I've had 2 binge episodes so far, driving my average intake to 2100.

My average protein: 145g

My average step count is 9000, because I don't have as much activity in the weekends, my weekday count is more like 12,000.

I weight train 4 times a week, train grapppling 4-5 times a week (1hr 30min ish)

My weight progression so far has been very fluctuating, I started off at 161, I've seen 153, 157, 163, 158, my average weekly weight loss is around 0.7 pounds. (I know scale weight =/= fat loss)

I adhere to high volume diets and whole foods to keep my calorie counting accurate.

My carb sources: potatoes, squash, oatmeal

Protein (I avoid any super fatty meats to ensure accuracy): canned tuna, egg (mostly egg whites), chicken breasts, greek yogurt.

Fats: yolks, omega 3s, fats from oats.

Fiber: oats, onions, carrots, cucumbers, tomatos, strawberries.

Overall I feel absolutely horrible.

My sleep quality is non-existant, I keep waking up in the middle of the night and struggle to fall asleep (I take omega 3, melatonin, magnesium to help)

Everytime I eat I'm trembling physically a little bit from fear the meal won't make me feel full, and after I eat often times I enter in a "trance" where my body is screaming at me to binge.

I'm losing a lot of hair and eyebrow hair weirdly enough.

I often get the advice to up my fat intake, and which I experimented with, which just drives my appetite through the roof and makes my cut harder triggers my binges harder and any hormonal problems don't get resolved.

I try to go high volume - did a lot of soups, oats, veggie stirfry but doesn't seem to help much.

It's getting worse I can't concentrate on anything I do.

I just have to ask is it always this hard? Does it get any better from here? I don't understand how some people adhere to this. Any advice I'm open to, thanks.

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Tuesday, September 22, 2026

My 11‑Year Weight Loss Journey

In 2015, my life changed in a way I never expected. A ruptured appendix landed me in the hospital, scared, exhausted, and weighing 352.8 pounds. Standing there in that gown, hooked up to machines, I felt like my body was shutting down and my denial was finally catching up with me. That moment became the dividing line between the life I had been living and the life I knew I needed to fight for.

What followed wasn’t a straight line. It wasn’t a dramatic transformation montage. It was eleven years of ups and downs, victories and setbacks, and more frustration than I ever thought I could handle. I tried everything, diets, programs, routines, promises. I showed up with commitment, discipline, and hope. And still, there were long stretches where nothing worked. The scale didn’t move. My body felt stuck. I felt stuck.

Those were the hardest moments. Not because I wasn’t trying, but because I was, fully, honestly, desperately. And it still felt like my body was fighting me every step of the way.

But I kept going.

There were times I made progress and felt lighter, stronger, and more connected to myself. And there were times I slipped backward, regained weight, lost motivation, or felt like I was starting from scratch. It wasn’t pretty. It wasn’t perfect. But it was real.

And I didn’t do it alone.

If it weren’t for the love of my family, my friends, and my incredible husband, I don’t think I would have made it to where I am today. They didn’t judge me. They didn’t push me. They didn’t love the “after” more than the “before.” They loved me, through every version, every setback, every restart. Their support kept me standing when I felt like collapsing. Their belief in me carried me through the moments when I didn’t believe in myself.

Today, in 2026, I stand at 190.2 pounds. That number represents far more than weight. It represents survival. It represents every tear, every restart, every morning I chose to try again. It represents the man who walked into a hospital in 2015 and decided, maybe without even realizing it, that he wasn’t done yet.

This journey wasn’t about perfection. It was about persistence. It was about love. It was about refusing to give up on myself, even when the world felt heavy.

And now, I finally get to live in the body I fought so hard for.

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5 weeks in, 18.4 lbs down. Proud of myself and just getting started!

28M | 6’1” | SW: 346 lbs | CW: 327.6 lbs
Just wanted to share a little milestone because I’m genuinely proud of myself and the progress I’ve made so far.
I’m officially 5 weeks into my weight loss journey and down 18.4 pounds!
I’ve been using ChatGPT to help organize my workouts, track my weight increases at the gym, and come up with recipes so I’m not eating the same boring meals every day. I’ve also been using MyFitnessPal religiously to track everything I eat.
Currently averaging around 1,800–1,900 calories a day and hitting the gym 5 days a week. I’m focusing on losing fat while building muscle and getting stronger along the way.
I know 5 weeks isn’t a long time in the grand scheme of things, and I’ve still got a LONG way to go, but I’m really proud of what I’ve managed to accomplish in such a short period of time.
The biggest thing for me has been finding a routine I can actually stick to rather than trying to change everything overnight. Seeing the number on the scale go down while watching the weights I lift go up has been incredibly motivating.
Still a long road ahead, but for the first time in a while, I’m genuinely excited to see where I’ll be in another 5 weeks, 3 months, or even a year.
Just wanted to share a little win with people who understand the journey. Here’s to staying consistent!

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Loose skin after moderate weight loss?

Hello! When speaking about loose skin, it’s almost always about people who were on the heavier side. It’s hard for me to find someone who had moderate fat loss to see how their skin behaved. For people who lost 25-35 kg, what were your results? Have you ever needed or wanted surgery?

I'm a bit anxious about it. I know I probably won't end up with a heavy apron belly, and even if I do, it'll be infinitely better than being overweight, especially at a young age when you usually care more about your body.

My stats: 24M, 190 cm (6'2-6'3), starting at 108 kg (240 lbs). CW:104kg GW:80-85 kg. People also say it's important how long the weight has been carried. I've been over 200 lbs for about 3 years now.

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why does it seem like i defy the laws of thermodynamics

I am F:28 Height:5’7 (170cm) and my starting weight was 138kg (302lbs) now I am down 4-5 kg. I started my calorie deficit September 10 and I lost 6kg the first six days. I know it was mostly water weight but I was delighted to see the extreme weight loss on the scale and seeing that my efforts are working. Well, ever since September 16, my weight went back up to 134kg and the past 6 days it hasn’t been budging. It doesnt go up or down, it’s at 134 and it’s discouraging me from my weight loss journey. I am not on glp medications because my insurance doesn’t cover it so I am trying to do this on my own and I am showing immense resistance towards fast food and simple carbs and heavy amount of cheese like I was addicted to in my binge eating days, and it’s especially infuriating being away from my addiction and not even seeing results from it. The reason why my diets have always failed is because I get to this phase of the scale not budging and I have a fuck it mindset and start binging again because it angers me to be away from food I like but not reaping the benefits from it. On top of that I am insulin resistant and have pcos, so my body shape is hideous with weight on it because I don’t have fat “in all the right places” I have a big apron belly, fat neck and no butt. Some people are bigger than me but they accumulate the fat in a way where it looks flattering but it looks BAD on me and so that’s why I’m in a panic mode trying to change things but not being able to reap the benefits of my efforts. It is RIDICULOUS how I’m eating 1300-1600 calories a day and walking and seeing the number go up, or not move. I am angered right now and thinking of binging.

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Monday, September 21, 2026

My new weight loss plan!! 2026-2027.

F31, SW: 320. CW: 256. GW: 210/200.

So my first goal weights would be to get down to 210/200 lbs!!

Then I would like to get under 200 lbs NEXT year!! Definitely. I would even like to be at 180/160 lbs before next summer as well. Then eventually 150-120 lbs. I don’t necessarily want to be too underweight, But is the main goal here. I’m so tired of being this fat. I really don’t like myself just yet for letting myself go this far. I know that it’s not entirely my fault though, Nobody was there to say “That’s enough.” But it’s also no one’s at fault, Either. If you know what I mean.

I just really want to lose all of this weight and I really feel like the end of this year towards 2027 will be my year!!

So, I plan to start working out more in my bedroom, To workout more on the gym machines downstairs, As we do have an at home treadmill and a bike, I also try to go for daily walks but I would like to start doing that on my own again as well. I also plan to go to the YMCA gym twice a week, Until they can approve of my going 4 times a week again, I’m still working on that and I got a meeting coming up soon so I will definitely be mentioning that as well.

I mostly do my workouts on YouTube, For now. I just really need to start waking up earlier in the morning and every morning to do them.

I’m also trying to do other healthy habits such as reading daily again, & Maybe more journaling & Drinking more water.

That’s all. Wish me luck & Positive vibes only! Happy Monday! ☕️🍵

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What do you do to keep things fun?

Hey!

So I just met with my wellness coach and we came up with a few ways to keep things "fun." Examples include:

  • Listen to a podcast and run
  • Listen to a podcast and stretch
  • Walk and read
  • Read outside on my lunch break instead of circle the vending machine at work
  • meditate and stretch
  • come up with realistic goals. Right now, I have "do one pull up or dip before January first."

We came up with this after talking about how weight loss should not be "miserable" and things should be "fun."

Question: What do you do to keep things fun?

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Finally down to 60kgs, after being stuck at 64kilos for several months 🥹

41F, SW- 76, Cw-60, GW: 58.
Medical history: Hypothyroidism
Insulin Resistance, PCOS.

I finally reached 60 Kgs in just two months. While I don’t track calories, I maintain a detailed list of factors that contribute to bloating, weight gain, and other issues. I occasionally walk, but my weight loss primarily stems from my low carb, high protein diet.

I hit a plateau between 64 and kgs for over 5 to 6 months, and I was curious about the reasons behind it. Then, I incorporated intermittent fasting into my routine. I finish dinner by 7 p.m. and break my fast the next day at around 11 a.m. Occasionally, if I’m feeling particularly hungry, I have a cup of tea and a fiber rich, low glycemic fruit early in the morning and then head straight to lunch. I also indulge in a few cashews and dried grapes when I feel like snacking, but that’s only once a day.
I drink two cups of tea a day. No sweets whatsoever.

It’s funny how you have to devise different strategies, essentially tricking your body by making minor adjustments to your routine. For instance, I’ve increased my afternoon intake since I skip breakfast, but that empty stomach in the morning was all my body needed to cause the scale to move.

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Sunday, September 20, 2026

Scale Stuck at 150; Help!

Hi all! I (20F) started my weight loss journey this year. I started at 188lbs in January, and am currently down to 150lbs. I'm super happy about the weight I've lost, but I would be overjoyed if I could be around 130lbs by the end of this year.

Since June, I've been in a calorie deficit, and not a small one. Most days, I'm usually at -1000 to -800 calories; I track my food very closely by doing about 90% of my cooking at home, and I track my calories burned with my Garmin (I have a Lily 2.) I've been making steady progress since June (170 --> 150) by tracking and going to the gym, and for the month of August, took a break from working out/lifting since I came back to college. I was still losing weight, and decided to go back to working out.

I've been working out consistently since the start of September, consistently going 6x a week; I acknowledge that some people may say that's too much, but I genuinely love going to the gym and it's usually the highlight of my day. I don't just go to lose weight. I've found it's impacted my mental health more positively than anything else I've tried (I've struggled with depression for the last several years), I like being able to go and get stronger, and overall I enjoy feeling healthier. However, since going, the scale hasn't tipped at all-- in fact, it's gone up, from 147lbs on the 1st of September to 151 today. I love going, but it's so frustrating (and confusing) to not see the number budge despite the extra effort I'm putting in.

Some extra things to note: I've been taking creatine lately, which I know can affect weight. For working out, I generally do light cardio, 4-5 lifts, and I tend to hit 10K steps a day. I know weight loss is a long haul, not a short trek, but before this month, I was seeing my weight go down at least 1-2 pounds a week.

Does anyone have advice, words of solace, or anything in between? Thank you!

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Feeling dizzy and nauseous during my calorie deficit

I’m currently trying to lose ~10 kg and I’m a little unsure whether I’m doing something wrong with my calorie deficit.

I was on vacation for a week about two weeks ago. After coming home, I started my diet on September 9th. I had quite a lot of water retention from the vacation, especially in my feet, so I know that some of the weight loss is probably just water.
Since starting my deficit, I’ve lost around 2.5 kg in total. I currently weigh 79.9 kg at 1.69 m.

I’m not completely sure about my maintenance calories, but I would estimate that my normal daily expenditure is somewhere around 2,300–2,400 calories. Over the last two weeks it was probably even lower because I’ve still been off work and spending most of my time at home.

For activity, I currently:
● Go to the gym 3x per week and do strength training
● Average around 4,000 steps per day

The thing I’m concerned about is that since around Tuesday this week, I’ve been feeling really bad. I’m constantly nauseous and have basically no appetite. Whenever I stand up, my vision goes completely black for a moment and I feel really strange/dizzy.
I also currently can’t really be a passenger in a car because I get extremely nauseous and feel really weird while riding.

I’m wondering if this could be related to my calorie deficit. Maybe I’m not drinking enough, maybe my deficit is too large, or maybe I’m missing something else.

Has anyone experienced something similar while dieting? I’d especially appreciate advice on whether these symptoms could be caused by an aggressive deficit, dehydration, electrolytes, etc., and whether I should increase my calories for a while.

I know the initial 2.5 kg loss is probably partly water weight, so I’m not expecting that rate of loss to continue.

Edit:
Current macros are mostly around 1800-2000 cal, 100g protein and 70g fat

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Saturday, September 19, 2026

I think it's maintenance time

We're coming up on the year anniversary of starting my serious weight loss journey.

I've been eating between 1200 and 1300 calories a day for nearly a year, but I'm at my goal size, just a few pounds shy of my goal weight. And today I treated myself, ate nearly 1600 calories. I'm half terrified that I've opened a door that I can't close, and half excited that I might be able to ease up on such an extreme CICO.

Anyone who is in maintenance, how do you transfer safely from losing to maintaining? Without accidentally going too far and gaining again? Right now I weigh myself in the morning before I leave or in the evening when I come home, trying to find my normal or average weight range now. I know it fluctuates a bit.

For context, I'm 33F 146lbs and mostly sedentary but I do pilates 3x a week for strength and mobility.

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Question about rules :)

Hey everyone, I myself am currently on a weight loss journey after years of eating disordered weight gain. I’ve gotten much further than I had anticipated before, but I’ve noticed that my motivation is dwindling and my will to keep going is getting smaller

I’ve had the idea of posting weekly weight updates to a public space to keep me motivated. Somehow the thought of others getting to judge me if I don’t continue on my journey will surely motivate me.

I am, however, unsure if such a thing is permitted in this subreddit. If anyone knows the rules better than me (English isn’t my first language so I often misinterpret written language more frequently) and is reading this then I would appreciate a nice response

Thank you in advantage and a good evening tk anyone reading :)

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Friday, September 18, 2026

Help & Advice? - 5'6F, 150lbs to 125lbs

Hello,
I'm currently fluctuating 148-152lbs, but I am hoping to lose 25lbs before my sister's wedding. I've always been on the heavier side, and although I know it is largely self image, all of the other bridesmaids are extremely skinny so I do not want to be standing out as I'm sure these photos I'll continue to see throughout my life. Before the summer I had been able to get down to 145lbs, but unfortunately due to summer activities such as a cruise I am back where I started. Food has always been a reward or emotional comfort tool for me, I remember within my childhood often if I was sad the answer was here's a nice homecooked meal and sugar.

For those who love food is there any recipes you suggest/how do you overcome this? Any general weight loss advice for this would be greatly appreciated. In addition any suggestions on incoporating exercise would be amazing, as I struggle to find exercise I enjoy & stick to--I have an open basketball on fridays, but outside of that I'm very inactive.

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WEIGHT LOSS-95KG,165CM

hlo im a 16 year old boy. I am 95.50kgs and 165cm in weight and height. I want to lose weight cuz im tired of being bullied and i want to make a healthy body. i have a bad habit of eating chips and cold drinks everyday since like 4-5 years and since last 1-2 years ive consumed a lot of maggi and fastfoods like pizza,noodles,fried rice,manchurian etc.

Now i wanna lose weight. Im from india btw and im too shy to go to the gym. havent filled out the form yet cuz exams are going on and im gonna go to gym since 1st october when exams end. i want yall to gimme some suggestions and i want to know how much time will it take to lets say reach 70kgs and body? also im insecure about my chest like its soft and i often get bullied for that too so will it get good if i loose weight? also the skin at my belly is tearing and new skin is appearing and i think its a bad sign. if i lose weight fastly does it lead to a surgery for removal of extra skin?

please pour in all the knowledge and motivation im gonna need it. Im doing it so that my family dont have to suffer from me being ill and the hospital bills along with the taunts they get from toxic neighbours and relatives.

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Thursday, September 17, 2026

20lbs down

I (34 5’5” 258lbs) have a long history of weight loss and weight gain. At 16 I weight between 220/230, by 19 I was 130, so a total loss of 100lbs in three years. I developed an eating disorder at the 130 mark and worked to normalize at a healthy weight range of 160-75, I have a muscular and curvy build and was unhealthy at 130.

For years I managed the healthy range, sometimes dipping a little higher but mostly keeping it off and progressing my exercise. For health/medication reason I ended up gaining a fair amount of weight after age 30.

Fast forward, I just had a baby. I conceived of my daughter at 225, but a very healthy and muscular 225. Still, too high. By the time I was nursing her, my weight crept to 278, an unfathomably difficult and high number for me to reconcile.

I have finally lost 20lbs from there due in most part to diet and exercise. I’m so happy to have finally achieved this and am hoping I can make it back to 200. I can’t imagine I’ll ever get back to 160/75 but if I did that would be an incredible accomplishment. Excited and motivated to keep going!

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I just gotta complain about this stupid weight loss.

So some boring but somewhat important stuff: Male, 30, 5'10 (178cm) going for a more feminine appearance and thus trying to get to 150 (68kg) pounds.

I started at 200 pounds (90kg)

Currently at 170. (77kg)

Now, I was more focused on getting my diet right with a nutritionist, way more than weight because I knew I'd take it too far. (body image issues, you all know how it is.) We worked out a good diet and I'm the type of guy who works well with a "Eat this, this, and this, and nothing but." type of diet. So two protein shakes, a high fiber cereal, two yogurts, some chia seeds, some fish oil pills, a good mixed salad, and occasionally a fiber bar to round it all at out and I was hitting like, 1500 calories eaten a day. Great! Not the point but great!

Months passed, got down to 170 pounds. I was overjoyed. All I needed was 20 more pounds to get to my goal and then really start the refinement process of turning my body into a more athletic feminine build.

Then the progress stalled out, hard. No more going down. In fact, I noticed it even went up a pound or two (in a more permanent way).

Then I did mathhhhh. Fucking mathhh. So according to the TDEE calculator, at 200 pounds, I was burning 2200 calories by breathing. Accordingly, at 170, apparently, I'm burning 1700 calories by breathing. Which means with my daily calorie intake of 1500 or so, went from a 700 deficit, to a 200 deficit. Except of course, some days I eat that 600 calorie burrito on top of my diet... which sets me back three days in total. Awesome.

Then I did so much more math. It takes, according to some general science, roughly 3500 calories of burn to equal 1 pound of permanent loss. That means it would take me 18 days (roughly) to loss 1 pound if I never cheated on my diet or 360 days (basically a year) to lose 20 pounds. Awesome. Unacceptable.

So then I of course, figured out a workout routine. I like walking. Walking is fine. Walking to the local gym and back takes roughly 3 hours total. My plan was, and is, to walk from here to gym, 4 days out of the week. (The other three days I have prior obligations so I can't do it every day). Okay sure. Ah, but wait, I did more math. After calculating my walking speed, distance, time, age, height, and all that nonsense in a calculator, it spat out that I burned roughly 600 calories from walking 3 hours. Times 4, thats 2400 calories for a week. Times 4, thats (roughly), 9600. Add in the 200 per day being burnt from diet and you get 15,600 burn. Divided by 3500 and you get 4.4 pounds per month. Or roughly 1 pound a week of fat loss. Or 5 months to lose 20 pounds if I walk 12 hours a week, 48 hours a month, and never cheat on my diet. Ughhhhh.

And before anyone is like "ah man, what about [this exercise instead]" I like walking. I can't guarantee I'll do [insert exercise] 4 times a week for even an hour but I can guarantee I can at least theoretically do the walking through a trail or in the woods for three a day.

Then comes the worry post my weight target. Like at 150, I'll be burning like 1650. The plan was always to stick to this diet permanently considering it A. tastes good and B. hits a lot of my nutrition and then add another meal on top. Because 'Everyone burns 2000 calories a day'. How foolish I was to think so. So if I do that, I'll suddenly undo all the progress I spent working towards my athletic goal. Which means I can either A. Really take up exercise as a hobby, like, really really take it up as a hobby or B. Get really used to eating my current diet and not anything else ever again if I want to maintain my ideal aesthetic figure.

What an annoyance.

(Yes I know all the math could be wrong, the calculators seem to want to give me different information for no reason, but it really painted a picture to me that this is going to take forever.)

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Have I been too severe with my weight loss?

Hey all,

Just hoping to get some outsider perspective on what I’ve been doing and whether my progress has been healthy. Sorry if the title isn’t great, I wasn’t sure what to put. I’ve gotten a lot of conflicting information from different sources throughout the process so far, and I figure people on this sub might have a more concrete answer.

Stats:
23 year old male
6’2
Currently 195lbs
“Lightly Active” lifestyle — 50-60 hours of work per week requiring light activity, as well as strength training when I can fit it in, typically 2 hours per week. The core of my strength training is high weight low reps, so short bursts.

Progress so far:
I have been seriously dieting for just about 2 months now. I did not have a scale until 6 weeks ago, and at that point I was ~210. This puts me at 15 lbs lost in 6 weeks, above the “healthy limit”.

Now that I’ve written out all that info, my absolute biggest issue is that I think I may be taking it too aggressively. I practice a 21:3 fast as it is suitable to my lifestyle, and I have also found that I have a persistent hunger craving between meals if I eat multiple smaller ones throughout the day. I eat the bulk of my calories at the beginning of the window, and then I consume a protein shake at the end of the window.

My daily caloric intake is ~1800. This is where I think I may have gone wrong. For whatever reason I was under the impression that my maintenance calories were ~2300, and as such was maintaining a 500 calorie deficit. Today I used the Mayo Clinic calorie calculator to see if I needed to slightly lower my intake to account for the 15 lbs lost, and was shocked to see that the estimate for my current stats is 2750 calories per day maintenance? This would seem to suggest that I have been maintaining a deficit of 1000 calories every day for 2 months.

If this is true, I would say that I have been fine on the deficit. My energy has been fine, my hunger cravings have been extremely limited (possibly hidden by an unrelated medication), and I haven’t had any issues until now.

My biggest concern at this point is that I haven’t lost any meaningful weight in a week. I have bounced +/- 0.5 lbs, which is unusual for me. During the journey I have been able to see consistent weight loss throughout the week. I do not know enough about weight loss to assess this, but I am worried I may have accidentally overdone it and ended up plummeting my metabolism. The only other major change has been that my biceps and triceps suddenly got wayyyy bigger, so maybe the water retention in my muscles has skyrocketed? Not sure what that would indicate.

I’m sorry for the long post, but to summarize my questions into a TLDR of sorts:
- What seems to be the accurate maintenance calories?
- Was my deficit too aggressive up to this point?
- Why has my weight loss seemingly stopped, even while maintaining the same diet?
- Is my metabolism shot? If so, what are the steps to repair it?
- Why are my biceps suddenly way bigger and firmer?

Thank you all so much for your time and consideration. If there is any other information I can give that would help, please let me know :)

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Update!

I made a post a while back (Maybe a month or two) about getting into a calorie deficit and cutting out meat. Since then I've lost 13 pounds!

I did have a week in there where I started over eating again, but I got myself back on track. I've avoided meat almost entirely since I last posted!

I'm so so so proud of myself and I've learned a few things as well:

1: The current cultural obsession with protein is kind of unnecessary.

The fact that every product has little text bubbles on it bragging about how much protein it has, led me to believe that it must be REALLY hard to get enough protein. I was super worried about how I was going to get enough protein without meat. Well it turns out that nearly everything has at least a little protein in it (avocados, pasta, ect.) and I only really need like 70 grams a day based on body weight. As long as I remember to a eat a good amount of eggs, beans, or a fake burger I'm usually fine. I was counting grams of protein for probably the first two weeks or so but now that I know how much protein is in most of the foods I eat I just eyeball it.

2: Eating a big breakfast because it's the most important meal of the day is such a scam lol.

Ok so this one is my opinion and it probably doesn't apply to everyone BUT I find that I'm much more hungry after like 4pm. Eating a bunch before that leaves me with very few calories for dinner or dessert, which is when I want to eat the most.

3: Giving up on the whole day because you over ate is a trap.

I know this one will be obvious to a lot of people but I when I tried to lose weight in the past I had a horrible issue with overeating and then just giving up and eating whatever I wanted for the rest of the day. I heard someone online explain weight loss in terms of weekly deficits rather than daily and it really helped me. Essentially what matters is generally eating less, one day won't have that big of an effect on your weekly weight loss. However if you eat like 4000 calories that day it probably will throw you off lol, so just set a different goal for that day (like 2000 instead of 1700) and just move on with your life. All is not lost, one day of overeating won't ruin your week, but binging will.

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