Sunday, November 25, 2018

How to shut up people who tell you to stop losing weight?

Stats for reference: F / 32 / 5'8 / SW 320 / CW 183 / GW 160

I work in retail in a small town do for months now I've had people comment on my weight loss. That I don't mind. But more recently I've had people ask if I'm finished losing now and I always reply "just a little more to go" and their answers are always the same...

"You look fine as you are"

"Be careful not to lose too much"

Or the most annoying and kind of rude "You'll look sick if you lose any more!"

I usually just give a little laugh and tell them I'm still overweight.

But it's just so frustrating. I get its because its such a drastic change. And probably partly because a lot of us aren't used to seeing what people look like at healthy weights etc. Maybe it's insecurity for some people... That I'll be smaller than them? Or if they get me to stop losing weight then they won't feel bad that they can't lose weight?

But I just don't know how to end the conversation without being rude? Maybe I should be rude because they are being kind of rude! But when it's friends who are adamant that BMI means nothing I don't really want to risk losing a friendship because they can't understand that I want to be at a healthy weight for the first time in my whole life. I even tell them I'm not aiming to be skinny, just the very top end of healthy.

(And I absolutely understand the number on the scale isn't everything and BMI isn't 100%, but as I'm not a tiny person, a giant or overly muscular I think it's a good guide)

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 25 November 2018? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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I don't have to wear plus size clothes any more!

I took the excuse of Black Friday to buy some new clothes as all mine are getting ridiculously baggy, and decided to take the risk of buying from the 'normal' collection rather than the plus size range that I've been wearing for about the last six years. I thought I'd still have to slim into them, but now I'm 67lbs down, I also thought it would be nice to have a goal sitting in my wardrobe waiting for me!

When the clothes arrived, I was looking at them thinking "Oh my god, I know they're still a size 18 but they're tiny! They'll never fit me." But I gave it a go, just to see how far off I was.

Everything fit me. Everything. I could have cried - I felt so proud of myself. I didn't cry though, I just pegged it around the house shouting about how I was a size 18 instead of a 24 (that really I was struggling to get into sometimes).

I've been doing CICO, but have found that OMAD works best for me (Monday to Friday, I don't do it at the weekend) and weighing myself every day has been enormously helpful to stay on track, compared to other attempts I've made to lose weight. I've also chosen to treat this weight loss as a set of rules rather than seeing it as a constant willpower exercise (for example it is a rule that I must drink a pint of water before a meal). Doing this has made it feel easier because I don't have to think about it, I just follow the rules. The biggest thing for me though has been not hating myself as I do it - I want to change but this time I'm not cussing myself out of I get on the scales and I've not seen the move I want. I'm working hard, I will continue to work hard and I will see the change I want to see and I don't deserve to be called a fat, lazy bitch by myself! It's all felt more positive.

Did anyone else have that weird moment of thinking clothes look teeny-tiny and not realising you would be able to fit into them?

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Saturday, November 24, 2018

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Sunday, 25 November 2018

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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5'8 260 lbs to 207 lbs in a year

Just want to encourage everyone that weight loss can happen and is real. It takes determination, willpower and passion. You have to get out of the mentality of a fitness journey and rather embrace a healthy life. I feel great. I know I added years to my life and it feels good...did I mention that. To all stuck at a plateau or feeling mentally drained by lack of success remember that there is no destination. Stick to what got you where you are and continue and in due time you will notice changes. This sub is really inspiring me and I love seeing the success stories. Thank you.

Left was 260 lbs a year ago right is 207 lbs as of right now https://imgur.com/a/UfbvQFt

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What was your biggest misconception about weight loss?

I don't think I had any real idea of how the human body worked in this regard until I finally decided to lose weight. I mostly had random and strange ideas about weight loss floating around my head.

This is embarrassing, but there was one moment I recall when I was eating some spicy Doritos, and drinking a lot of water with them because they made my mouth hurt. I thought to myself that, "Wow, I'm really going to lose a lot of weight by eating these, since I'm drinking so much water with them!". This was a few years before I started to lose weight, I was definitely at or close to my highest weight when I thought this. I have no idea what my reasoning for more water = more weight loss was.

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Does dark skin from chafing go away?

Hi all! I started my weight loss journey in June, and I’ve since lost about 55 pounds - about 25 pounds until my goal weight! I’ve been overweight/obese since I can remember, and I carried a lot of it in my thighs. Due to a lifetime of thighs rubbing together, my inner thigh skin has become significantly darker and more rough than the rest of my skin. As I’ve lost weight and they’re rubbing less, I’ve noticed that it’s become softer. However, I haven’t noticed any change in color. If any of you have reached your goal or are close and have/had the same issue, does it go away over time? Is there anything I can do to help it? Any advice is appreciated!

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