Saturday, October 30, 2021

How to deal with the weird "emptiness" when you're not eating?

I'm doing a very strict diet to lose weight quickly (meeting ex girlfriend and I don't want her to see me fat.) And honestly the worst thing about it isn't hunger, it's that feeling of I don't know what to do with myself ??

I usually end up smoking weed, which sometimes makes me hungrier, so then I take a couple ritalin (I'm prescribed) and that makes the hunger go away but then I have to smoke more weed again to fall asleep.

I'm taking a lot of ritalin right now and just trying to get through all the projects I need to do. I feel this weird disassociation and disconnection from reality. Kinda light headed and not really bothered by anything. I've been doing this diet for a month, happy with my weight loss, but I need to keep it up for another couple months. I'd like some tactics to distract myself, if anyone knows what I'm talking about. I do exercise sometimes but I get dizzy easily because of the low amount of food.

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I ruined my relationship because of my weight insecurities.

I still don’t know what to do with myself. Tonight I ruined what could have been a great relationship because of one stupid comment. I had gone on four dates with this guy and things were going pretty well. Tonight I had him over for dinner, I had prepared sushi and baked salmon and had worked really hard to make a nice dinner.

Things were going well until after dinner he made a small comment and I took it personally. I have lost 50lbs at this point so I am not close to my goal of 100lbs lost but I have made significant progress. I am still slightly overweight but I still think I have an overall medium figure. I honestly forget what his comment was but it was thoughtless and I should have been more forgiving, but instead I took it very personally. After talking for a bit about my insecurities he was honest with me and said that he thinks I’m overweight but hasn’t minded up until now. I was hurt by this, I know I’m still working towards my goal but hearing it so blatantly from someone I really liked just stung. After this, he said he was put off by my reaction and didn’t feel he could see this continuing in the future. I really liked him and am absolutely heartbroken. I have no good photos of myself which makes it annoying to find matches on dating apps much less someone actually interested in a relationship.

I don’t know what to do. I’m in a place now mentally where I don’t ever want to look at food again and just work myself to the bone until I finish losing the weight. I’m never going to be happy or attractive until I reach my goal weight. Tonight feels like all my deepest insecurities about myself have come to life. I honestly don’t know what to do with myself now because I know that weight loss takes time but I’m absolutely miserable in the state that I am now.

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Friday, October 29, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 30 October 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Weight loss on a budget in college?

Does anyone have any tips for losing weight and getting in shape while in college?

I'm 5'6" and (as of the last time I weighed myself) around 220-230 lbs. I'm a trans man, about 4 months on T (he/him pronouns only please, don't be a dick). I'm in school from about 8:30 am to 5:30 pm two days a week, 8:30 am to 1:30 pm on Fridays. On the rest of the days of the week, I work 9-hour shifts, but with commute, I'm out of the house for about 12 hours, except on Sundays.

I know the key to weight loss is dieting, counting your calories, eating plenty of protein and low carbs/sugar (at least that is what has helped me lose some weight in the past), and exercise. I don't have the time to exercise, and I barely have the time to cook. My current diet mostly consists of pancakes, popcorn, eggs, peanut butter, tortillas, toast, and fast food. As you can see, not the best. Far from it, actually. Any tips on losing weight and/or eating right on a budget? I'll probably try to work out more in the summer since I'll have more days off then without needing to worry about school.

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I have to get serious about weight loss. Like now. Advice?

I went to the doctor today to review my blood work. I have known I have diabetes T2 for over a year, but I've never gotten serious about it. Still eating bread, soda, cookies, candy and cakes. I am also morbidly obese. I got a scary wake up call today. My legs are starting to numb and my A1C was 8.1. I don't take my sugar often, but when I do it's up in the 200's. She said I need to check it first thing in the morning and an hour after lunch. It is always high in the morning for some reason. I need some help and advice with a workout and diet to get my sugar and blood pressure down and to lose weight. She put me on Trulicity once a week, Glipizide everyday, and I am still on my Metformin twice a day. I am going to start going to the free gym tomorrow. I have a bad problem with fast food and have been addicted to food since my teens. Sometimes I even binge and purge. I will post some info about me below and I will welcome any advice. Thank you so much.

I am also needing advice on what to do when I go to the gym. I am simply tired of living like this and being addicted to food.

Male

White

6'5 467lbs.

Hypertension,Depression,T2 Diabetes.

Amlodopine,Metformin,Glipizide,Pantaprazole,Lisinopril,Citalopram,HCTZ. (All daily.)

Trulicity Shot (Once a week.)

35 Years old.

WFH Sedentary job.

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Is abdominoplasty worth it?

Hey all, i really dont know if this is the right place to post a question like this but i am a M/20 and i went from 116kg/256lbs to 64kg/140lbs, unsurprisingly this has led me to having some loose skin (not alot thankfully) on my abdominal area and some around my thigh areas, i have been going to the gym and they have been getting better, and my mentality about them has gotten better (went from beating myself over them to seeing them as a showcase of what i accomplished), but i am still very self conscious about them, so my question to you guys is if anyone of you has gotten abdominoplasty, how was it? How long did it take to recover and go back into the gym? Was the pain tolerable? How are the scars? And are you just overrall happy with the results?

I also plan on getting lasers to tighten my arms (not loose skin, but i do become reed richards when i pull them)

And idk if this sounds stupid, but i am also afraid of people seeing my surgery scars and then thinking that i didnt work hard for my weight loss and all i did was get surgery, its stupid and probably just me overthinking stuff, but did that thought ever cross your minds?

Thanks in advance!

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I finally downloaded MFP

I've been putting it off for so so long because I simply did not want to see how many calories I was eating. I finally did it today and on what I would consider a relatively low eating day, I was shocked to find that I logged in 2500 calories.

No wonder I've been packing on the pounds.

I am the heaviest I've ever been and I feel ugly, fat and heavy... and I wanted to meet up with a person I've been in an LDR with in a month and can't fathom him even seeing me like this.

I have a 100 pounds to lose, I weigh a whopping 244 lbs. I know how it happened but I am still in shock.

I need to keep telling myself that this is not irreversible. That I might have loose skin but that I can lose this weight. It is not impossible.

One step today, I really hope I have the strength to accept that it is on me to make this weight loss happen.

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