Saturday, December 22, 2018

Do you keep a weight loss journal? (not just a calorie log)

I have a journal but when you're depressed and pretty much every single entry is about "Today's the day! Today I'm gonna change my life! Today will be different!" yet your situation is not improving it gets really frustrating, like you're just running in circles. So no, keeping a weight loss journal did not help me but maybe I'm doing something wrong? Do you have any journal prompt suggestions that help you stay on track or even improve your mental health?

Btw on a different note, what's your opinion on journaling as an act of "self-love/care"? I find the term "self-care" so cringey and corny :S It just sounds so stupid to me, like a cheesy commercial promoting female consumerism. From a psychological point of view I'm sure it's beneficial but labeling it as self-care/love has been overdone in my opinion and these cheesy YouTube videos or Instagram posts kinda ruined it for me, like I can't take it seriously lol.

Do you see weight loss as self-care? I'm especially interested in male redditors' responses, because I feel like the notion of "self-care" is really gendered. (PS I don't mean to offend anyone!)

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How to diet to lose fat without setting off binges?

F, Age 21. 5 ft 5, SW: 145 CW: 130 GW: 125

Weight loss history: Dropped 15+ lbs January - March 2018 by over-restricting through CICO. Definite signs of ED. Some binging habits in there but was also restricting enough and exercising enough that it still didn't make a difference. Felt terrible - all signs of being underfed. End of March 2018 went on vacation, ate everything in sight, felt slightly better. After vacation, restricted some, but on a healthier level. Had definitely plateaued.

Anyway, now I've been eating in a mostly healthier caloric range (sometimes hard to break the over-restriction habit) and focusing on a balance of dietary restriction and exercise.

BUT, even though my eating habits are better, I do have major binges after even restricting to a reasonable range. Today was one. Yesterday, I restricted to about 1600 cal... today I probably ate around 3000, or more in a series of binges. There are definite underlying emotional triggers, but this wasn't always a problem (binging wasn't a problem until I was about 19) . Today seemed like every meal-time was one binge after another... It's discouraging since my overall mentality is better, but I'd still like to lose the last 5 lbs of fat (doing more bodyweight exercises and increasing muscle mass so this may be a challenge numerically, anyway). Binging is embarrassing, makes me feel out of control, and diminishes the progress I have made.

TL;DR: Restriction leads to me binging. Restriction leads to fat loss. Looking for tips on how to restrict for fat loss without bringing on binges.

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It's 3am and for the first time in my life I am serious about no longer being obese and being able to live a healthy life style. Looking for a accountability partner to help me with this process. Amsterdam m/Western Europe

I woke up to use the bathroom and saw myself in the mirror and realized that being 24 M and 125 kilos is not okay. What I eat is not okay and my lack of exercise is not okay. I need a change in my life and am looking for help. I just went into the kitchen and threw out all my junk food. My heaviest has been 134kilos and lighted has been 115 kilos. I'm starting too really feel the effects of being obese and honestly it's scary. I have always started diets and weight loss plans but never stuck to them. Finding motivation is hard but seeing myself so unhealthy is even harder.

Holding myself accountable is difficult but other people holding me accountable makes me motivated. If you are also feeling like me don't hesitate to contact me. Let's go on the journey together. All pms welcome.

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From 418 lbs to 171 lbs! Reached my goal weight this week! No surgery, just CICO and exercise.

https://imgur.com/a/9VE5lHC

On April 1st of, 2017 I weighed in at 418 lbs., after much hard work and dedication on December 18th, of 2018 I dropped below my goal weight of 173 lbs. hitting 171.4 lbs. I am 5'10''.

I used to wear a size 68 portly suit jacket, size 68' waist dress pants, size 24' neck 37/38' sleeve dress shirts, and size 7XLT tee shirts. Today I rock a 42 R slim fit suit jacket, size 32'-34' waist dress pants, size 15' neck 34/35'' sleeve dress shirts, and size XS-M tee shirts depending on the cut and manufacturer.

I didn’t have any weight loss surgery, I have not had any loose skin removed yet (yes there is a lot of loose skin), I didn't follow some crazy fad diet. I utilized CICO (calories in, calories out), and exercise.

Some other statistics for those who LOVE math; Year 1: Daily average calories1408.46, weekly average calories consumed 9847.53, calories burned via exercise per week 7639.64, average lost per week 4.9 lbs. Year 2: Daily average calories1509.13, weekly average calories consumed 10,567, calories burned via exercise per week 5628.08, average lost per week 2.19 lbs.

It wasn't always easy, I tried to stay positive for a majority of the weight loss journey, I stumbled a few times, but now I have crossed the finish line and begin a new chapter in my life by maintaining what I have achieved.

I hope that others in this sub who are about to give up, or who just need a little push to help them across their own finish line can take some motivation from this post. If I can do it at age 44, just about anyone can do it!

The last time I posted on this sub I got a lot of questions so just to recap from that previous post:

TL; DR: Calories in, calories out, exercise, tracking.

First, I use quite a few apps:

  1. MyFitnessPal for calorie, nutrition, and exercise tracking.
  2. C25K, to learn to run over an eight-week period.
  3. Map My Run, to track my running calories burned and distance.
  4. Map My Ride, to track my biking distance and calorie burn.

I made a spreadsheet in Excel. Once a week, on weigh-in day (which is typically Monday or Tuesday) I enter data from my apps to track trends including: Starting weight, current weight, amount of weight lost or gained for the week, daily calorie average for the week, weekly calorie total, weekly total of calories burned via exercise, starting BMI, current BMI, current weight BMR, and weekly calorie deficit.

With formulas in place it is a snap to enter data and see trends so that I can make adjustments to CICO (calorie in and calories out), to ensure I am on the right path.

Since I do a lot of VR based cardio on the Oculus Rift, I use data from the VR institute of Health to calculate calorie burn when playing certain exercise-based games such as Beat Saber, Thrill of the Fight, Holopoint, Audio Shield, Gorn, Fruit Ninja VR, Space Pirate Trainer, etc.

My current favorite Oculus game for cardio is Sound Boxing, I typically do 60-90-minute straight sessions on Sound Boxing a few days a week.

Last, I use a website called WebMD which has calculators to determine calorie burn for other activities, such as doing squats, swimming, playing an instrument while standing etc.

With all of this data available to me, I was able to start making smarter choices every week and it shows in my overall trends.

Final bits of advice are learning what an actual serving size is by utilizing a digital scale to record the food you eat down to the gram so that you have accurate data on CICO, you will be shocked at how small a serving size really is once you start weighing food out.

Another thing you can do is learn to read labels. Look for things like serving size, calories per serving, servings per container. If you have certain nutrition goals in mind read the labels for that info, I personally like to limit salt intake as it makes my weight spike due to water retention and I previously had high blood pressure (which is now cured via weight loss).

I do all of my own meal prep and will typically go to a restaurant supply store and buy disposable microwave food trays that have three sections (protein, veggie, and veggie is what I put into them), and will normally make two meals for myself and my girl at a time so that we can just come home and reheat the trays while I prepare our evening salads.

A typical dinner for me is: 150 grams of spring mix salad (30 calories), with Greek yogurt blue cheese dressing (60 calories), a diced plum tomato (11 calories), and 3 oz. of radish coins (12 calories), seasoned with Nu-Salt, and crushed red pepper flakes.

8 oz of Shady brook farms boneless turkey breast cutlets baked in a 375-degree oven for 12-15 minutes (220 calories and 50 grams of protein)

2 cups of steamed broccoli florets (40 calories). 1 3/4 serving of steamed ShopRite brand baby carrots 61 calories.

After dinner, I peel and dice up a Fuji Apple (63 calories), and combine it with 15 red seedless grapes (34 calories) a light and fit Greek yogurt (80 calories 12 grams of protein) and a serving of pumpkin spice Cheerios dry cereal for crunch (110 calories).

For dessert, I will have a pint of Bryers Delight chocolate ice cream (270 calories 21 grams of protein)

Later after dinner, I will have a toasted Best Pita 80 calories with 16 grams of Smucker’s natural peanut butter (95 calories 4 grams of protein).

That’s a total of 1116 calories for a pretty substantial meal and leaves me with around 400 calories to play around with for the rest of the day (I still typically only eat dinner and my evening snack).

I might use those calories to have oatmeal or eggs before work 100-143 calories or broil up an entire sliced and peeled eggplant for lunch (454 grams 115 calories) drizzled with wasabi sauce (15-30 calories).

I hope this information can help others in their weight loss journey.

TL; DR: Calories in, calories out, exercise, tracking.

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Body image issues after weight loss?

For context, I stepped on the scale around a year ago, and my jaw dropped. I weighed 330. I had always knew I was big but not THAT big. I didn't particularly think about my weight that much, and it didn't really bother me. I could tolerate myself in photos, I could stand myself in the mirror. I just wanted to lose weight to maybe look a little better, but mostly just to get healthy. I started on a pretty hard diet that consisted of intermittent fasting combined with a points based system, like Weight Watchers, and started working out multiple times a week. Fast forward to today, and it's gone fairly well. I'm down around 80 pounds, my blood pressure, triglycerides and LDL are down to normal levels, I constantly get compliments from people I know that I look good, how I look like I've lost so weight, so on and so forth. Strangely enough however, I seem to have lost all image of myself.

Now when I look in the mirror, I hate how I look and I think I look much worse than when I started. I constantly try to find reasons to not take photos when others want to take pictures with me. Overall, my image, view of myself and self-confidence have gone down across the board the more weight I lose. Can anyone give me any advice? This is kind of uncharted territory for me, I wanted to see if anyone else has felt like this.

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Christmas offer Part 2-TIPS, TRICKS AND THOUGHTS from fit friend

First I want to wish everyone and their famiies a Happy Holidays. I would also like to thank everyone who has responded to the previous thread or messaged me in private. If I haven't responded yet I will please be patient with me I didn't expect such a huge outpouring of love from the community.. Also thanks to the wonderful person who gave the reddit gold!

So on with the tips, tricks and thoughts.

BLAME- I see this alot. Numerous posts regarding coworkers who brought in food, spouses, parents, the random person on the street. It seems to always be someone else's fault for the extra food, the reason you didn't go to the gym. I would like to say it's no one else fault but your own. You can take that as a negative or you can use that knowledge and cause massive change in your life. Think of this next time you think its someone's fault.. There is some food your spouse eats that you don't and nothing will make you eat that food, there is a cookie or donut you just don't like and no matter how much a coworker pushes you won't eat it. So the things you do indulge it's because you want to not because a parent, spouse, coworker or random stranger offered it to you. BLAME OF PARENTS - if your parents fed you bad food, you blamed them for not teaching you how to eat well, If the parents held back treats you blamed them for not exposing you to things so you wouldnt binge later, No matter what they do or we do as parents we will get blamed. If you are older than 2 and even 2 years olds throw away things they DON'T LIKE then your eating is not your parents fault. IT IS YOUR'S!! They may have set the framework but you are the one still following it.

DEMONS- This is a big one- The journey to reform myself from overweight and I can't run to save my life to eating well, fit has thought me that my biggest fight is with myself! Doesn't matter what the coworker said, my mom who told me I was too skinny I should stop now, the random stranger in the supermarket who commented on my arms, the guy who asked me if I was born male because muscles, the co worker who brought all the food that I'm weak in the knees and can't pass up. The sign from Mcdonalds just luring me to buy the egg mcgriddle. The fight is inside myself, it's my own demons making me binge eat when my boss says something to me- It could be a compliment or a critisim the result was all the same- the need to stuff myself with food or not go work out. All the food scales and workout programs in the world will not help until you start facing your own demons in the mirror and working on them slowly.

GADGETS- Despite what instagram, facebook and commericals tell you- You don't need the watch that calculates heart rate and the lululemons and the $150 running shoe and the dishes with perfect portion or even a food scale to start to lose weight or get fit.. ALL DIETS WORK, ALL FITNESS PROGRAMS WORK.. EVERY SINGLE LAST ONE OF THEM.. Don't believe me- pick one, don't change it. Do it for a year no variation and ta dah you've lost weight and gotten fitter.. They all do the same basic things- restrict food doesn't matter if it's paleo or keto or IF - they all restrict food which causes weight loss and all workout programs cause movement. If you research you will find tons of people who have used every single method to lose weight or get fit.. they all have one thing in common they didn't stop using it. A torn teeshirt and shoes with holes running around the block work just as well as the $150 shoe - barefoot even works. Throwing away some food off your plate or dropping the first bite in the trash, throwing away left overs works just as well as any diet.

MARATHON- This journey is a marathon it is not a sprint! That doens't matter if you are 10 years into the journey or the first day.. BE THE TORTOISE NOT THE HARE! Doesn't matter if people are judging you for only running to your car- I remember my coworker laughing the first time I said I ran from my house to my car, I didn't hear much laughter when that grew to a mile and then 8 miles... My coworker is stil not running. Everyone wants to hurry up so the journey and the pain can be over but there is value in the tortoise approach- the value is in the TIME.

Losing 100lbs in 5 months might be amazing but losing it in 3 years helps you to go thru alot of scenerios - it helps you to deal with alot of mental drama, it helps you to learn how to be better next christmas, it helps you to anticipate the coworker who pushed food in your face every day for 2 years. TIME will help you run in the cold, in the sun, in the heat, in the rain. It will help you go to the gym when its cold, dark and when it's nice and sunny.. Time will help you fight the brain saying its cold - well we've run in the cold many times before so lets get our shoes and get going. There is value in the slow journey. USE IT.

FEAR- It seems most new people are always forward projection how they will stick to the diet. How they will eat well for 1 year and the results will be amazing.. I am the opposite-I'M SCARED OF MYSELF BECAUSE I KNOW MYSELF. I know if I let myself I will not go run so I keep a constant tab on myself to make sure I'm doing what I need to do . I think fear is good - I know that if I feel weak I might want to go eat a cookies which will make me sick and derail my progress. So I don't trust myself to make good decisions when I'm weak.

REGRESSION- You will regress, you will regress hard, expect it, plan for it and KEEP MOVING FORWARD. Emotions are strong and when you start to lose weight that emotion will make you run a marathon with 3 weeks running practice, it will make you eat well and stick to the diet but with all things the brain realizes at some point THIS IS WORK AND IT'S HARD AND IT SUCKS! You will go from running a mile in record time to barely being able to run 30 seconds again.. You will go fromn sticking to your diet to barely being able to make it one day without eating badly.. It is fine- it is part of the process- do not become depressed and give up.. Do not think I used to do so well but now I suck at this.. JUST KEEP MOVING FORWARD.. If you could run a mile last week but now you can only run 30 second say no problem- I will be back out here running my 30 seconds tomorrow and the next day till I build back up to a mile.. If you ate well for 3 months but now you can't go a meal without eating badly say okay.. I will be back next meal and the one after that until I am eating well again.. Get used to the failure- get used to taking tiny steps when in the begining you took huge leaps.. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

ANTICIPATE YOURSELF - Before you binge eat, before you miss the workout, before you have 20 days straight of cheat meals you feel it coming. You will start to mentally talk to yourself hours before you decide not to go work out.. Listen next time how your brain will tell you that you deserve a cheat meal 3 hours before lunch and will keep telling you all the way to lunch. It will tell you how its cold the night before a run, it will tell you how gym people are judging you before you decide to not go today.. ANTICIPATE YOURSELF AND TAKE ACTION.. if you find that you run after work- put our your clothes before work, get home get dressed immediate leave no room for your mind to sabotage. Do you find that you don't meal prep then eat mcdonalds- Stop the rerun of friends and go make the food, put it beside your purse so you pick it up on the way to the car. Do you drive by starbucks and feel the need for a calorie filled drink- look up a new route and decide to drive diffrently and save the calories tomorrow. You are predictable- YOU HAVE DONE THE SAME ACTIONS REPEATEDLY.. USE THE INFORMATION TO YOUR ADVANTAGE TO GET THE RESULTS YOU WANT.

MY FINAL THOUGHTS- life isn't fair, you will be alone in the journey, it will suck, it will take a long time if you are overweight, if you are regular weight maintaince is forever, if you are fit or unfit- the battle will never be over. No one will care, no one will accomodate you or understand. Noone will stop living or eating badly because you have decided to change. You will get teased, you will be mocked for being "HEALTHY", you will be sabotaged, you will lose friends, you will fail alot. You will have to navigate a world praying for you to fail with candy and chips at the checkout isle and piles of food in the lunchroom. The spouse, coworker, family, friends will all keep eating badly, they will all keep offering you the foods you are struggling so hard to stop eating. They will not come to workout with you despite the promises and they will be the first telling you to stop going after the one thing you want most. You will spend alot of time thinking everyone is enjoying life but you.. You will think some people have it easier like the naturally thin, athletic types (There is no such thing- we all know the jock who got fat after high school or the cheerleader who packed it on) you will spend days, nights in tears and frustration about how something as simple as EAT LESS MOVE MORE can be so hard but there is strength on the other side- it will get eaiser. YOU WILL GET STRONGER AND YOU CAN DO THIS!

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Christmas Tree Cheese Platter–Easy Appetizer and Centerpiece with Real California Dairy

Being born and raised in Southern California I’ve never experienced a ‘white Christmas.’ But I’m a warm weather girl through and through, so I’ll happily miss out on that experience. I just can’t relate to someone blissfully standing outside looking up at snow gingerly falling down… they often do a slow spin, smiling up at the tiny white dusting. Not for me… wait, not for me unless those little white flakes are actually CHEESE.

Yes. These are the kind of things I think about – I imagine cheese raining down from the sky and I dance around. It’s silly because snow can’t be cheese… right?

Well… it’s Christmas time and miracles do happen… so maybe it can! If you believe – anything is possible!

And I believe.

So, I made a Christmas Tree Cheese Platter with Real California Dairy. And even though it doesn’t snow in my lil’ corner of California – I found a way to make some ‘snow’ out of one of my favorite cheeses!

How to Make a Christmas Tree Cheese Plate

Note – this can be a small appetizer or huge centerpiece. Make it according to your needs and the number of guests you’re serving. These are the ingredients you’ll need – but amounts are up to you.

Ingredients:

Broccoli – chopped

Real California Sharp Cheddar – cut into small cubes

Real California Monterey Jack – cut into small cubes

Real California Cotija cheese (may be located near the refrigerated Hispanic foods)

Crackers or chips

Grape Tomatoes, Carrots or Bell Peppers

Directions:

  1. On a large platter – arrange broccoli in a large tree shape. Leave 2 sections a little sparse – these will be for the cheese cubes.
  2. Fill in the 2 open sections with the cheese.
  3. Add extra veggies as ‘ornaments’ – grape tomatoes, sliced carrots, bell peppers slices as garland. Spread crackers around the bottom.
  4. Crumble Cotija cheese and sprinkle it all around the tree completely covering the platter.

Enjoy!

Tip: Get extra so you can refill the tree as your guests start chopping away at it.

California is home to more than 1,300 dairy farms and 99% of those are family owned.  Remember to look for the Real California Milk seal when shopping for holiday recipes for your family and friends.

Question:  Would you rather dance around in snow or cheese?

RER: On second thought… I’m a little worried about getting it out of my hair…

 

This post is sponsored by Real California Dairy. All opinions are my own. #savortheseason #CADairy #Holidairy

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