Friday, March 1, 2019

Final goal troubles and figuring out a goal weight after super morbid obesity

My only goal when I first began my weight loss journey was "stop eating myself to death." I'm far beyond that goal now as I no longer abuse my body with food and haven't binged in months. Other goals involved things like not waking up choking for breath, walking without getting winded, being able to shop in a regular store's plus size section, and fitting in the bathtub again. When I recommitted to my weight loss after my Dad died, I had a highly motivating goal of becoming eligible to be a potential bone marrow donor. Another goal was to fit fine on a plane without an extender (and start traveling again). Check, check, check. My current weight isn't holding me back from doing anything (I want to do) now, so I can't come up with anything else meaningful or life improving. I just recently hit the last goal I had which was to lose half of my body weight. I erased it from my board and now the bottom of my board where I write my current goal is blank. The general goal of my entire journey is to be a permanently active person with a healthy relationship with food. I will always actively work on that until the day I die. But I'm still obese. I still need to lose more weight. I want to lose more weight.

Is it time for me to figure out a goal weight? Will I find motivation in it after focusing on life improvement rather than weight and numbers? I have never had a goal weight in mind because I wasn't sure what would be realistic and sustainable for me as a formerly 440+ pound person. Plus, I don't know how to come up with one in consideration of the weight of my excess skin. I've been told it would only be a few pounds but I recently read about people who got 15 and 20 pounds of skin removed, respectively. Would it be worth my while to get a DEXA scan to help figure out a reasonable goal weight?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 01 March 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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I changed my birth control and suddenly everything is going fine.

I used to frequent this sub a few years ago, lost my weight, navigated the difficulties of transitioning to maintenance and was comfortable.

Then I decided to change up my birth control, I knew an increased appetite was a side effect but was confident that I could handle it. I had done so well with the weight loss after all.

It was a slow insidious gain. Took a while but I eventually crept back up to teetering on overweight again. The other side effect I wasn't prepared for was the fact that it made me not care. About anything, I'm just getting myself back on track with not just food but keeping my house clean, regular day to day chores actually getting done again etc. I have to admit that I was in a state but finally getting myself back together. And the weight is coming off again.

It's so nice to care, and also to not just feel empty and hungry all of the time. Not having to fight it is such a weight off my shoulders (and looking forward to getting the actual weight off again too!)

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Happy Surprise

This is short but sweet!

About a month and a half ago I started my journey, having lost around a stone at this point I'm pretty happy!

However things have got tough at home due to my dad being ill etc and i defaulted on the standard comfort eating. I am now getting back into the weight loss again, after a week or so of eating my feelings away.

I weighed myself this morning, expecting the worst, but my weight was exactly the same as it was before.

I am proud, surprised, but mostly motivated to keep going!

I don't know why I am posting this, but I feel like I have to concentrate on the small things right now.

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It's the first of the month....

.. but that's not why it's time to start. So many "firsts of the month," or "this monday"s have come and gone. Basically two years worth. Yet here I am. I have the resources. I have the support. I have the knowledge. Yet here I am. Still unhappy with my weight and how I got here. Eating my feelings.

Life is full of stress. I can't wait for it to be gone (because it never will be) or for the time to be right (whatever that means). I need to prove to myself, once and for all, that I am capable of making the right choices and changes. Now. Not later. Not after one last cheat meal. Not after I can arrange my schedule better.

Sorry this is a little rambling. But I wanted to put this out there. Starting right now, inconveniently on a Friday (I kid), I am going to do the following:

  • Stop drinking diet sodas and energy drinks. I pretend they're harmless because they're zero calories. But in reality, the fact that I wake up in the morning and want to drink a soda is pretty gross. I think it is contributing to my cravings for junk. I've given it up before, but somewhere along the line I thought I could moderate it. And maybe compared to some people, I do. But I hate that craving for it.

  • Relatedly, cut way back (if not completely) other artificial sweeteners and added sugars. Again - I find these trigger my desire for more sweets. It's time I learn to drink my coffee black. And if I am cutting the obvious added sugars (candy, chocolate, desserts), I will be greatly improving my health.

  • Make every day a nonzero day in terms of exercise. I know many of you will tell me weight loss comes from the food you eat. And I agree. However, I personally find it easier to eat better when I am active. Lazy me skips a workout and then says fuck it, let's get wings. If I am active, I want to fuel myself in a way that makes my body feel better. By aiming for nonzero days instead of perfection, I hope this helps my all-or-nothing mentality. If I can only muster five pushups, that still counts. If I go to yoga, that counts. A short walk, counts. Sure, I have plans for certain amounts of cardio and weightlifting, but life getting in the way won't derail me this time. I can do ten bodyweight squats before I get in bed and call my day a win.

  • Really try to do intermittent fasting. (12:00pm - 6:30/7:00pm) I am naturally not hungry in the morning, and the bulk of my emotional eating comes at night. (When I am alone.) If I can stop eating after dinner, I will be more successful. Even if it means giving in to the food I want, but only during my eating window, I will be pleased with my progress. (Note: I do not mean free for all bingeing during eating hours, but rather if at night I feel like digging in to some chips/sweets, I put it off until next day when I break my fast - chances are I'll have forgotten/the craving will have passed.)

I want to feel fit again. I want to feel confident. I want to achieve something and be a good role model for my young daughter. If anyone can relate, has advice, etc., please let me know.

Also, if anyone wants to accountability buddy, that would be cool.

I don't know how to do flair, but here's my stats:

F/29/just under 5'4 / CW: 146lbs / GW: 120lbs

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Thursday, February 28, 2019

My journey so far and the Lessons I've Learned

Hey everyone! New member of the r/loseit community here. Just wanted to share a bit of what I've worked on over the last four months with regards to (what else) fitness and weight loss.

First, a little backstory. In high school, I was a two sport athlete on the swim team and water polo teams at my school and I probably weighed around 210 at my lightest weight sophomore year. At that time I was probably around 6'1". Fast forward to November of last year. I had basically no training plan and was in a definite rut- I'd just graduated college but hadn't found a job after a few months of searching and turned to food to fill the lack of daily interaction with people. I'd skip breakfast, eat a big lunch of a large sandwich and pretzels, eat a large dinner of ground beef/tacos/burritos, and go out for a fourth meal at Taco Bell around midnight, where I'd eat another ~1200 calories.

I got on the scale one morning and it read 264.

I looked at recent photos of myself and noticed that my chest was starting to become more and more visible. I shouted "Enough is enough!" in the mirror and decided to meet with a dietician. We came up with a calorie plan and I promised myself I'd be more active. I started out at 2600 calories a day and over the weeks slowly decreased my calorie intake to 2200, 2000, and 1800. I'm proud to say that with 30-45 minutes of brisk walking 3 times a week and a big change in my diet (Cut way down on sugars, stopped eating after 8:30 pm, drinking around 40 oz more water/day), I've lost about 20 pounds since November. I'm nearing the 230's weight range that I was in during college. I'll be the first to say that sometimes I slip up and have cheat meals but I just log it in MyFitnessPal and move on to the next day. I've made a lot of good progress and there's still a lot of work to be done, but I'm confident about the future and know that I'm not just dieting- I'm making a lifestyle change.

For all my tall fellas out there packing on some extra weight, you got this!

Thanks for reading and good luck on your journey! Go get it!

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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Friday, 01 March 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

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