Friday, March 13, 2020

Getting unmotivated and discouraged, need advice!

[Incoming long text] 17 year old female here. Am getting unmotivated due to not seeing results. Here's some background info about me.

The last time I checked, I am 169cm tall, weighing at 71kg. Ever since then, I have never weighed myself, nor did measurements( I don't have a weighing scale nor a measuring tape at home).

Started my weight loss journey 20 days ago. I have quite the sedentary lifestyle, and I would workout every day with a few days as rest days. I quitted sugar, focused on eating good foods(vegetables, changed white rice to brown rice, white bread to wholemeal bread, cut down on my food intake, doing intermittent fasting, etc) I have been drinking matcha without sugar. I drink lots of water too.

I have been relying only on the mirror for results. 20 days have passed. I compared myself to a before photo I took more than 20 days ago. I felt that I didn't change at all. My stomach didn't shrink the slightest bit, nor did my thighs and legs get smaller, same goes with my arms, face, etc. I just felt that nothing absolutely changed after 20 days of dieting and exercise. And believe me, my diet before that was horrendous. I would eat kfc, and late night meals. So I would expect myself to at least change slightly physically due to my change in lifestyle.

Ofcourse, not saying that I only planned my diet to be 20 days. I planned it to be more of a lifetime practice actually. I am just really bummed by me not changing physically since I have a event to go to in April.

I am getting unmotivated, and whenever I look down, I will still see the fats that are still unchanged. Constructive criticism are welcome!! I am in desperate need to change myself for the better.

Tldr:I didn't see myself change physically after 20 days of diet, felt unmotivated and discouraged.

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It's been a long and hard journey, but I am healing...

Hello guys!

I just really want to share my "story" about my disfunctional relationship with food and how I am slowly but surely healing it and taking steps every day to learn and better myself)

At this exact time 3 months ago, I was visiting my parents back in my home country just as I am right now, but apart from that one similarity, things couldn't be more different. When I arrived home 3 months ago, I was suffering. I had starved myself for months to lose weight and my body was at its absolute limit, to the point where I would pass out randomly from exhaustion and freeze my butt off under the hot shower that almost cooked my skin. When I arrived home, something snapped and I went from complete starvation to eating all day, every day and oh how much I ate...

As a result, I felt terrible. Lots of throwing up, my body not being able to cope with this sudden change etc. This time, it's all different. I think the suffering and pain I went trough three months ago really helped me to find a healthy middle ground. When I returned to my current country of residence after my visit, I used everything I had learned to heal. It was hard, extremely hard. There were set backs, breakdowns and so on, but I think I made it. I am at a point now, where I eat in a way that makes my body feel good and I actually listen to what my body tells me.

I was on my way home yesterday which included an almost 30 hour train ride and then a flight, so I brought along cookies and chocolate since there was no way to take any sort of fresh food and keep it cool. I replaced my normal meals with cookies and oh boy, I'm sure it will be a few days until I can eat another chocolate chip cookie x) I listened to how my body felt throughout and noticed the small boost that the chocolate provided, the following crash and the lack of satiation I get from that kind of food. I am really proud of myself and treated my body to a nice hearty sandwich with salad, cucumber and tomatoes this morning, it deserved it :D

Surprisingly, throughout all this happening, my weight only changed by around +/- 5kg, which really isn't that much. Obviously, throughout my recovery my weight shot up as my body adapted back from complete starvation to a regular supply of food, but now that I am eating mindfully, that weight is very slowly coming off and I couldn't be happier. I am not looking for any sort of fast weight loss, in fact, even if I stopped losing today I probably wouldn't be too dissapointed)

My current motto is: I eat the way I want to eat for the forseeable future, a way that makes me feel good and nurishes my body. Wherever that takes my weight, I am fine with it.

Thank you guys for reading trough this, I just really needed to get it off my chest. Good luck to all of you on your individual journeys towards health and a happier life, we've got this!))

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Alternative Weight loss activities

So I’ve recently started my weight loss journey, been on top of my food and exercising at my gym (mainly strength training) and have really been enjoying it and seeing results! It’s also really been a big help to my mental health !

However I’ve had to stop going gym because of the Coronavirus. I currently have a weak immune system due to health etc and while I could keep my self clean and clean the equipment I’d rather not risk it as it would put me at greater risk of catching the virus and being able to fight it.

I really don’t want to ruin the routine I have now I’ve tried so many times to change my lifestyle and weight and this the first time it’s working and I’ve enjoyed it. Any alternative things I could do especially for the strength training side!?

Thanks in advance

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 13 March 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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South Asian people, how do yall eat healthy in a desi household? pls help

im 18F and live with my parents. ive started losing weight through intermittent fasting and have already seen some progress. i wanted to know, how do yall eat healthy when our primary source of food is rice, roti, naan, spicy oily curries etc? how do you say no to food and still be polite about it with relatives? i feel like people in our countries are very uneducated when it comes to nutrition and weight loss. how do i combat that when i have to eat whatever desi food is cooked for the day? my parents mostly rely on carbs, and completely ignore the fact that a high protein low carb diet is the best for me right now. my mom literally said chicken will make me fat when i took more than one piece of chicken. LOL. im a bit tired of all this false nutrition my parents and relatives believe. im tired of everyone constantly telling me to eat and "educating" me on food when none of them have done any reserch on it whatsoever. no wonder every member of my family deal with diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, ect by the time they reach 40. im trying to change, im trying to tell myself this high carb low protein diet that my culture has instilled in me is bad for my health, but its so hard fixing myself when everyone around me is forcing me to eat and i already have a hard time saying no to food.

sorry for this rant, would love some advise or tips on how to make this journey easier. thanks.

also, i try my best to cook my own food. but im busy and our family is one where everyone eats the same thing at the same time. so its hard to maneuver through that.

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What big goals did you tackle successfully in small steps? Breaking down my goal and will update!

Have you tackled anything big by taking small steps? Weightloss or otherwise? If so, I'd love to know.

A while back I made a rather depressing post about being frustrated with my weightloss, which has been going in the wrong direction for 2 years. It felt like this massive thing that I kept failing at, and I'd been feeling really hopeless about it.

But I had a revelation today: If I break down my goal, its not so scary and impossible-seeming! Therefore, I've decided to post my goal here, in "bite-size" chunks (lol), then update when I manage one of my milestones. They're calculated to about 2.3kg or 5lbs per step. My aim is to lose weight for the last time, get fitter, and finally get into happy maintenance.
Height: 160cm/5ft 3. Age 28. F. small frame.

Current Weight: 65.5 (144 lbs)

GOALS
Weight loss goal 1 - 63.2 kg (139 lbs)
Weight loss goal 2 - 60.9 kg (134 lbs)
Weight loss goal 3 - 58.6 kg (129 lbs)
Weight loss goal 4 - 56.3 kg (124 lbs)
Ultimate weight loss goal - 54 kg (119 lbs)
Maintain forever!: between 50 kg and 54 kg (110 - 119 lbs)

My TDEE is about 1600, so I will be going slow, aiming for about 1300 per day. Also aiming to:- not snack 90% of the time- sleep more- some form of exercise 30 mins on most days (weights/running)- drink way more water- Pause when I feel a craving and ask myself if I really need it.- track everything until I'm well on my way

Good luck with your goals!Will update as I go! Please tell me things you've overcome by taking small steps too :)

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Thursday, March 12, 2020

Am I eating enough calories (CICO)? Feeling very hungry after dinner :/

Hey everyone, I’ve been lurking on the thread for a while but finally decided on the 1st of March of this year to take my weight loss seriously after reading about everyone’s successes and journeys.

CONTEXT: I’m a 22 year old female, 5’6” and I weigh 92kg. I had a brief stint with keto last summer and whilst it was effective, I’ve realised it’s not something that I can maintain for the long-term. Would much rather make changes I can stick to. So I’ve decided to try CICO. Also - I strength train in the gym for an hour, once a week. This is currently my only form of exercise.

CICO: After tracking my regular eating habits on MFP for about a week or so, I realised that I eat around 2050 calories per day. I’ve decided to cut down by 500 calories per day, as it seemed most sustainable. I’ve been at this for a few days and I can’t help but notice how hungry I get. Like, an hour or two after dinner I’m so hungry, sometimes to the point where I get a headache. I’ve been trying to stay hydrated, so I know that it’s not simply just dehydration.

Maybe because I’m new to this etc, but I’m also finding it a bit hard? I suppose that comes with anything new, but I’m finding it a bit restricting and challenging having to constantly think about the next meal and whether or not it’ll fit into my calorie allowance.

I’ve always thought that 1500 calories was enough, but I just feel really hungry. I’m not eating smaller quantities of calorie dense food, but I’ve (maybe too quickly) changed my diet over to dishes like stirfry or naked burrito bowls (no rice). I don’t know what to do and the feeling of hunger and headaches that I’m experiencing is worrying me a little. I don’t want to crash.

If anybody could give me any advice on this or point out where I’m going wrong, I would be eternally grateful.

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