Tuesday, July 14, 2020

And so we begin again...

About 8 years ago, I hit my high weight, 285. A few things happened, creating the 'perfect storm' for weight loss. My mom had triple bypass that year, I had a neurological event that closely resembled a small stroke (from which I recovered 98%), I was facing my 40th birthday, and my oldest child was getting married. It took a while, but over time, I lost 133 pounds. I stayed at 152 for a while, was running every day and felt fabulous. Technically, I was 7 pounds over the top for my height, but it was ok. I felt good,and I felt like I looked good!

Then the divorce.....

I injured myself (broke my butt bone when I fell in my kitchen), and couldn't run. Then through the emotions of my divorce after a 24 year marriage, I ate my feelings, so to speak. I'm now in a much better place, happily re-married to someone who treats me with kindness rather than emotional abuse. However, I have regained almost 100 pounds of the 133 I lost. (Yes, I know-- Please don't judge me. God knows I judge myself enough.)

I'm trying hard to find that girl I was when I was losing all that weight, but try as I might, I'm having a tough time. I've tried cutting out sugar again, and I do great all day until my husband gets home and then all bets are off. (He is a serious sugar-fiend! He is not responsible for what I eat, but I have a hard time not joining him when he's drinking soda and eating poorly. ) This morning, I weigh 249 pounds at 5'4". I feel embarrassed and ashamed. I feel like I deserve to feel better, like my new husband deserves a healthy me, and like if I don't shed this weight, I won't live long enough to grow old with him. FWIW, I don't have any known medical issues, and I'm not on any daily meds.

I guess this is my restart post, a way of publicly stating my intention. Any advice on finding that motivation again?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 14 July 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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First 10 pounds down!

I posted about 2 weeks ago about how scared I was to start my weight loss journey.

Since then I’ve been doing CICO and light exercise (HIIT every other day, Chloe Ting abs every day, and a 3 mile walk everyday) for about a week now and I lost 10 pounds! I also drink a TON of water a day, but I’ve had that habit ever since I was younger. Cutting out sugar has been a bit hard so I give myself a cheat day and eat one Hershey’s Kiss to take the edge off lmaoooo. I’m so excited to continue working out because I genuinely feel healthier and more confident in myself.

It’s mostly water weight but it still feels really good seeing the numbers on the scale go down. :)) This subreddit always gives me motivation every time I scroll through! Thank you!

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TDEE/ BMR/ Understanding what a healthy, realistic calorie deficit looks like..?

Hello! I’m new to Reddit but not new to trying to achieve a healthy lifestyle. A friend recommended this subreddit as a great place for information and support for weight loss.

I’m just trying to clarify- I calculated my TDEE and BMR with the links provided in the information section. Some questions popped into my head.. Is the TDEE equate with my daily caloric needs? What is a sustainable calorie deficit? I’ve gained and lost 30 pounds, three different times in the last ten years so is my metabolism affected or decreased with the weight fluctuations? (Or is this a rumor?)

TDEE: 2109 BMR: 1757

Female, 30yo, 5’6”, 225, sedentary

Thank you for all of your help!

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Monday, July 13, 2020

Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!
The rant post is a /u/bladedada production.

Please consider saving your next rant for this weekly thread every Tuesday.

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[tip] [NSV] [SV] Set calorie benchmarks for meal flexibility without giving up

I wanted to share something that is working for me right now in case it helps someone else. It’s a green/yellow/red approach to help me budget calories, give me flexibility on hungrier days, and help me avoid falling off the wagon/bingeing.

Here’s how I do it (approx 2000 calorie BMR; exercise calories don’t get added in)

1200 is green. This is the amount of calories I want to eat each day. As long as I meet this number, that’s all I need to eat.

1500 is yellow. This is the amount of calories I am ok eating if need be on a daily basis to maintain a slow and steady weight loss. If I can come in under this, all the better.

2000 is red. This is the really important one for me, as it sets the high full-stop intake ceiling at net zero gain/loss for a day but gives me the flexibility to enjoy something extra without feeling horrible about myself and/or saying eff it and eating everything. It’s comforting to have that wiggle room for some reason for me.

Any calories between green and red are considered extra carefully.

So far, I’m down almost 20 lbs from my highest non-pregnancy weight, my acid reflux is gone, I’m not waking up in pain every day, I’m not getting tired as easy and my joints feel better.

Here’s hoping I can follow up in a few months and update the total lost!

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An update, some advice, and a couple of questions

19M 6’0” SW:350 CW:290 GW:175

An update on my journey so far!

I went to my primary care doctor and he recommended the keto diet to me. I started 6 weeks ago, and the results have been really good so far. In May, I weighed 350 lbs, and as of today I’m at 290! This is the first time since middle school I weighted below 300, and let me tell you I cried when the scale said 290 for the first time in so long.

It’s been such a struggle to keep with my diet because I'm stuck at home until college starts back next month, and my family’s diet is much worse than I realized. They have done their best to support me and are fully behind me on my weight loss, which is the most important thing for a teen trying to lose weight IMO, but it can still be a struggle for them to understand my diet or weight loss issues. This advice may not help everyone, but if your family can’t really understand the whole Idea of carbs, fibers, sugars, etc. because of how they have eaten throughout the years, giving them a basic list of foods that are ok really help smooth things out while they "relearn" their food habits. It's worked wonders for me.

I’ve also been going to my park’s walking track as much as I can. I’m up to 2 miles in 40 mins. I can’t do much because I'm so out of shape but I figure I have to start somewhere. I’m going to start with weights when I get back to campus. I did have some questions for the wonderful people on here though.

Since I’m losing nearly 200 pounds, given my age, do you think I’ll have much loose skin? Any tips to help prevent it would also be appreciated! I’m worried because most of my weight is in my abdomen and I really don’t want to have a lot of loose skin if I can help it.

And since I’ve started this diet, I’ve noticed a major drop in my appetite. I really only eat like one meal a day, which may be a hamburger patty or something similar with no sides. Is this ok if I'm taking a once a day multi-vitamin? Probably not lol.

If anyone has any questions for me as to what I’ve learned through this journey so far, please DM me. Also, if you just want to talk or vent about your troubles so far I’m here. I’m new to Reddit and would love to make some new friends along the road to better health!

Thanks for taking the time to read and I wish you the best of luck on your journey. Stay strong!

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