Friday, June 13, 2025

Strategies needed! Failing at lowering calories mid-weightloss

I am female, 5'5", 54 with treated hashimotos and in perimenopause. I have gone from 185 to 166 over the past 8 or 9 months on about 1500 calories per day. GW is 140-145.

I am a slow loser, and I am mostly OK with that, though sometimes it gets frustrating. I am active. I walk an average of 1200 steps daily. I lift heavy things at work. My fitness watch says I currently burn about 2200-2400 calories per day, though it is probably somewhat inaccurate due to my metabolic issues. I aim for an insulin balancing diet of high fiber and protein with lots of veggies and moderate whole carbs. What I am doing is working (slowly) and I feel good. And yes, I weigh and measure everything. I follow 16:8 intermittent fasting.

My conundrum is this: I use the Loseit app, and now that I have lost almost 20 pounds, it has dropped me to an average of 1300 calories per day.

I am not adapting well to this.

Psychologically I am having a hard time, and deprivation thinking has kicked in. I keep "sneaking" small handfuls of nuts or other little snacks which is obviously counter productive and erasing whatever extra deficit there was and then some. I am hungry again in the late afternoon, a time I find particularly challenging. It is mostly mental, though I am hungrier, too. Weight loss has not surprisingly, stalled out the past couple of weeks.

Obviously I don't have to do what the app suggests and can re-calibrate my calorie goals and still stay in a deficit.

What should I do? Try to eat slightly less (1400 cals)? Try to figure out how to stick to 1300? Go back to 1500 but try to burn more every day? I could add intentional strength training, for example.

How have you all dealt with this mostly mental hurdle of eating less after you have lost some weight?

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No one tells you how different people treat you after losing weight

I went from almost 80 kgs/176 pounds to 59 kgs/130 pounds (im 170 cm/5'6 inches) as a teenage girl who was harassed in school. I was ignored by classmates and teachers. Kids made fun of me cuz of the way I looked, even my parents were constantly insulting me and not caring about all of the things i was going trough with my mental health. I became so depressed i lost all my apetite. I also started hitting 10k steps a day and stopped starving myself. Didnt hit the gym at all. Everyday i tought about my revenge over everyone who made fun of me because of my weight.

I lost all of the weight in aproximately 6 months. When i came back from school from summer break, the bullies stopped with the agression and started "befriending me". The same people who were ignoring me started giving me compliments over "how good i looked". People who didnt want to go out with me before now want so. My parents brag to their friends or relatives about my weight loss and started taking me more seriously.

What was wrong with the old me? I was still the same person. Turns out everyone in my life only cared about looks.

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How long does it realistically take to lose 10 kg? (20F, 168cm)

Hi everyone,

I’m a 20-year-old female, 168 cm tall, currently weighing 60 kg (132 lbs), and I’ve recently decided to take weight loss more seriously. My goal is to reach about 50 kg (110 lbs), so I’m aiming to lose 10 kilograms (about 22 pounds) in a healthy and sustainable way.

I know weight loss depends on many factors like diet, exercise, sleep, and consistency, but I’m curious:
How long did it take you to lose 10 kg, and what kind of routine did you follow?
Also, is there a healthy or recommended timeframe for this amount of weight loss?

I'm not looking for any crash diets or extreme plans—just something sustainable and healthy. Any tips or encouragement would also be really appreciated!

Also, if anyone is on a similar journey and would like to be weight loss buddies (to check in, motivate, or just share progress), feel free to reach out! I'd love to support and be supported.

Thanks in advance 🌟

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Thursday, June 12, 2025

tiny non scale victory ♥️

I've only lost 15 pounds, I have 25 to go.... so I hadn't really looked for any noticable changes yet. just keep on trucking ya know. but this morning I was packing to move, came across a pair of jeans in the closet that I forgot to return for being too small. receipt still in the pocket, I tried them on fully expecting to not even get them above my thighs like last time.... but they freaking fit! that was such a surprise and a great feeling that made my day.

good luck to anyone continuing their weight loss journey this week 🤍 keep going!

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Higher metabolism after exercise - fades with age?

I am 63 and I have been exercising vigorously (600-1200 kcal) for 25 years 3-6 times a week. I've noticed just recently that right after exercise my metabolism is clearly faster as I don't need warm clothing on a cold (60°) night in California. But starting at age 60 after only 2 hours I suddenly start freezing! I have to run for a hoodie - my metabolic slowdown is very sudden! I think my body used to run at a higher metabolic rate for up to 24 hours after exercise! It is well known that this "after-burning" of calories is a key source of weight loss after exercise!!

Is this another reason why weight loss gets harder with ge?

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Wednesday, June 11, 2025

Has anyone had to get lipo or any type of surgery to remove excess flab after their weight loss adventure?

I don't know if this question belongs here. I'm searching for some non-Google feedback about this topic. I do know that when people tend to lose weight and at a rapid pace, there's excess skin that sometimes can't be fixed with working out. I'm suffering from the nasty bat wings; even when I have a lot more weight to lose, my arm flabs are really upsetting me, and I have a feeling I may turn to lipo to get them removed. It would sadden me to go through all this work and I still have fat bags hanging from my arms.

Has anyone decided to go this route after their weight loss?

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Lack of self control makes it impossible to lose weight

I have technically lost some weight in the past, going from my highest weight of 235 pounds to 215-220. That was over the course of about 6 months, not very impressive but I lost the weight regardless. Now a year and a half later I sit at around 215-210, sometimes I’ll maybe get to 209 but that’s it. You could say I’ve hit a weight loss plateau but realistically I’ve hit a self control plateau, at the very least I haven’t gained weight, but that doesn’t change the fact that I absolutely still need to lose it which is why I’m reaching out. I’m at my wills end now when it comes to losing weight, it feels genuinely impossible to have any sort of self control, I don’t get it. Most days I’ll wake up, tell myself that I’m going to stay under 1800 calories today, but by noon I’ve already consumed half of that, and then ill have something else to eat which i know will leave me no calories for the end of the day but that’s something for future me to deal with right? And I’m 15 so I obviously live with my family and we’ll usually have dinner, and of course I’ll have that leaving me at around 2500 calories which gives me no progress the next day.

I just really need to figure it out, compared to some my goal weight of 170 pounds seems so attainable, and with consistency could be done in under a year, but my complete lack of self control holds me back. And living with my family where I don’t get to decide what sort of food and snacks we get, it’s double bad. Most of the time that I do eat and try to control my portions it’s like I can’t stop myself (I know I can and I shouldn’t give food that power over me, but seriously I don’t know how to not let it). Maybe I need to see some sort of weight loss therapist about this? I don’t know but I just need some sort of help or guidance.

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