Wednesday, April 17, 2019

NSV--went to a restaurant and didn't binge!!!!

I have always--ALWAYS--struggled with restaurants. They're my kryptonite. I've never been able to order the healthy option or practice portion control. It's like once I'm through the restaurant doors, all bets are off.

It's such a problem that during my weight loss, the only solution was to just not go. So we just didn't go. 99% of the time, food came from home. And it worked!! I lost ~80 lbs after my last pregnancy. I've been maintaining for a year and a half now but still struggle with restaurants so we usually stay away.

But sometimes you have to go to a restaurant. For social events, a loved one, etc. In my family, we do a favorite meal for birthdays. For my birthday, I usually choose a fancy meal to cook, for example. One of my kids had a bday yesterday, and they chose Chili's for their favorite meal. Chili's is one of the worst for me because I'm a burger and fries fiend.

I was nervous all day. Looked up low cal options that I knew I wasn't gonna really order (because burger). Went running just in case. And then the moment of truth came. Y'all. I ordered the 6 oz sirloin, loaded mashed potatoes, and steamed broccoli. Ate every bit. The fried onions appetizer--usually a weak spot for me--didn't even appeal to me. I didn't touch it. I didn't steal a single fry from my husband or kids. Dessert came and I took a few bites of the warm cookie.

And that was it. I was done. Full but not grossly full. No aching stomach from eating a huge burger and all the fries. My calorie count came in at 935, which is high, but I still finished the day with a ~200 cal deficit.

Y'all. I am so freaking proud of myself. And so relieved. It's like now I know I can do this in the future now. I'm not a slave to fatty, greasy foods.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 17 April 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Tuesday, April 16, 2019

Who else is definitely not skinny, but also not really that fat either?

Hey, all!

I see a lot of posts here that are really awesome and inspiring, but I have a hard time relating. I'm 20F, 5'3" and weigh 140 pounds. I have been this weight since I was probably a freshman in high school. I wouldn't say I look unhealthy or bad by any means, but I definitely don't carry my weight super well. I often see/hear of these amazing transformations, and while I love seeing them and am so happy for these people, I simply can't apply the logic to my own weight loss journey. It's hard to stay motivated with goals I can't even imagine, and probably won't notice such a large change in day-to-day life because of said weight loss.

So, average size friends, what is your mindset? You goals? How do you stay motivated when you have a bit of weight to lose, but not all that much?

Thank you!

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How do you stop using food as an anti depressant?

I imagine there are a few people on here that would understand this.

I started my weight loss journey in January. For a few months, maintaining my deficit wasn’t too bad. There were certainly moments where I resented my roommate for being able to eat Doritos or I felt hungry/missed being able to eat indiscriminately, but I was feeling more energetic and I felt determined. The idea of getting to my goal weight by the end of the year motivated me.

But I have (and always have had) trouble with depression. It just never quite goes away for me, and it loves to stick it’s head up and say hello. I am seeing a psychiatrist so I’m not going it alone. But when the depression hits my motivation is zero and I also have such a tendency to eat to compensate for how little energy I have. It’s not even a purely emotional choice, I’m so tired and unable to do anything that my body seems to crave hits of sugar to get me going.

I feel guilty for eating above my deficit and I know I’m slipping, but then I also feel like there’s no point, I’m tired, I’m sad etc. I don’t even have the energy to think about eating better today, and that’s scary.

Anyone relate?

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Tasty numbers! Hit all my CICO goals yesterday for the first time!

My weight loss plan is pretty simple. Every day, I set several number goals for myself. As long as I hit those goals, idgaf what I eat, when, how I workout, when...

I must eat anything below 1500 calories. I must burn anything over 2000 calories. (My sedentary TDEE is 1750 so this requires just a little exercise... I mostly do walking) I must get at least 50g of protein. And I must have at least a 500 calorie deficit! I record all the numbers in a little notebook to help me visualise it (I use Cronometer to record what I eat though.)

It doesn't sound that hard, but I've been having trouble hitting those numbers (mostly protein and Calories Out.) Yesterday I got them all!

What are your daily numbers and have you been hitting them all lately?

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[NSV] My weight isn't something I'm subjected to.

My weight has always felt like something that just happened to me. Something that I was subjected to. Get sick, lose 30 lbs, take steroids, gain 50, get depressed lose 10, stay depressed gain 25, get stressed etc etc. It has never been something in my control & a subject I avoided thinking about. Life just happens - find joy elsewhere - you'll never like your body anyway. But my dissatisfaction with my body has always persisted at the back of my mind (I want to rock-climb, I want to feel comfortable around my partner, I want to go on that hike, I want to...)

I'm on Day 21 (this is the 'habit threshold'... right)? I make the food at home, I weigh it (fl.oz.? g? lb.oz? I always feel like I'll pick the wrong thing), I scan the barcode, I eat it. I repeat this process for 90% of what goes into my mouth. I calculated my TDEE - I have been managing to stay near my goals (not exactly, but far over 3,500 calories below maintenance per week). I run 4 times a week, weights once (I don't log my exercise in MFP). And the scale... crept down 5 pounds? (And then back up near my period... and back down when it ended).

As I was weighing my chicken breast today, it all just kind of hit me. I feel better. I am putting more effort into my appearance. I'm jogging around my neighborhood and getting to know my neighbors. I'm going to work, going to class, meeting deadlines, saving money, going to the doctor, cleaning my home... And all because I finally put my foot down, bought a food scale, started honestly weighing what I eat and exercising. I'm being honest with myself.

But something in the back of my mind (I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this way) keeps telling me that I'm not going to make it, it's not going to work, and even if I weigh everything I eat to the nearest 10th place decimal & run everyday I will never feel at home with body.

But today I realized... that's not true, is it? If I just keep on like this - it'll be tough - but something has got to give, and I can't run everyday and simply not get stronger. I can't weigh everything I eat & keep over eating. So I will, and if I keep taking everyday one at a time, focus on myself, and take each motion we all have to go through in order to achieve sustainable weight loss - I will and life will happen but this time I'll be ok.

Because I realized my weight isn't something that just happens to me, it's not something I'm subjected to. My weight is a part of me (a part, not everything, but still important) that I can be in control of & have a relationship with.

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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Wednesday, 17 April 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

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