Tuesday, August 20, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 20 August 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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My family see the difference in me, but I dont

Ok so for a couple of months I've been trying to lose weight and it worked! I started at about 130lbs, now I'm about 125lbs and it's not a lot, but in the future I hope to be 100lbs. Please bare in mind I'm small at 4 ft 11" and am turning 16 in about a week. This small victory has made me happy, as I'm no longer 'overweight' on the bmi scale.

A couple of days ago, my aunt visited me from down south, and she says it looks like I've lost weight. But I dont see it. My parents also agree with my aunt, but I look just as fat as I was before. Is this normal? It may just because I've only lost 5 lbs and that it needs to be more significant, although now in clothing I'm a 10/12 whereas before I was more of a 12/14 person? Maybe it's just because I see myself multiple times a day so i dont recognise any visual signs of weight loss, or maybe my family are lying to me? I dont think its the last option as my overthinking makes me think that everyone is lying to me all the time.

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I ate a lot last week and that's ok

This past week of my weight loss journey felt a little extra indulgent, so I’m here to process it with you, r/loseit.

I love food. I love to cook. I love to eat. That’s never going to change, and I don’t think it ever has to. You know what doesn’t feel good? Getting down on myself for doing something I love to do (spoiler: it’s eating). So, I’m not going to do that. Instead I’m going to celebrate and reflect on my past week. Here are some highlights and reflections:

I shared some amazing nachos with a friend who I hadn’t seen in a while. But I was hungry like 2 hours after I ate them, and that felt frustrating. Maybe I can pick something more nourishing and nutrient dense next time. Will I have nachos again? Hell yes, they’re delicious. But next time? No, thanks.

I went wine tasting on Saturday night. I then proceeded to munch on salty bar snacks and go out for ice cream. It was all so delightful and it felt like a night of taking care of my social health. Do I need to have another night that has wine AND snacks AND ice cream again soon? No. Will I do it again? Absolutely, but it doesn’t need to be my normal.

I had Chinese food with my mom tonight. Did I eat more than I told myself I would? Yes – I love dumplings. But I didn’t eat until I was stuffed to the brim which is honestly a step in the right direction.

In truth, I’m going to have weeks, maybe even months at a time where I’m not eating at my best. That doesn’t mean I’m a bad person or that I’m weak or lazy or unhealthy or unlovable. It probably just means that I have something other than food and how much I weigh on my mind for once, which is so refreshing because I’ve been thinking about it constantly for probably the last 10 years.

But once I have the time and capacity to start feeding myself well again, I’ll just pick up where I left off. No need to “cleanse” or “work off” what I ate. I refuse to punish myself, mentally or physically, for eating. I’ll just go back to what normal looks like for me.

What is my normal? Well, I guess I get to be the one to decide that, and that’s part of what this whole journey is. My normal definitely includes weeks like the one I just had. But I think more often than not my normal is going to look like thoughtfully planned, veggie-packed, well portioned meals.

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Starting weight loss journey

Back story, I am 23 and I played college football, when I quit football I got up to 330 and for a year I lifted as hard as I could and ate as clean as I could and got down to 250. Then we had our first child, during this time I was in school full time, working full time, and learning to be a dad. I lost all progress I made. I am not saying I regret any of it because my daughter is the light of my world, but that being said it is time to get back on track, the night before I start my healthy lifestyle again, I weigh in at 320. Let’s go.

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Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!
The rant post is a /u/bladedada production.

Please consider saving your next rant for this weekly thread every Tuesday.

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Monday, August 19, 2019

Is eating under BMR dangerous?

When I do a TDEE calculator with my current stats: 18 y/o, 5'7, 126 lbs, 9.2% bf, calculated at sedentary (I think moderate exercise 3-5 days a week is more accurate to me, but I hear it's best to calculate at sedentary, not sure why) I get 1792, in order to get a 500 calorie deficit as recommended I'd need to eat around 1300 a day, which is about 200 below my BMR of 1500, but I hear eating below BMR is very dangerous, is this just a myth? The supposed "starvation mode" doesn't make sense to me but I wouldn't want to do anything potentially dangerous without getting the opinions of random internet strangers first 8)

Ideally I'd like to get down to 125 lbs flat, 9% body fat, then work towards recompositioning my body rather than continued weight loss, but I'm afraid the extra daily calories will lead me to putting it all back on as fat again, so if you guys could point me in the right direction, it'd be very much appreciated.

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Advice for losing with ADHD?

So I'm kind of in a bad, binging space right now. But I recently had a lightbulb moment and could really lose some advice.

So I have known for about 10 years (since college) that I have ADHD. I have never taken medication for it, and instead managed with LOTS of exercise, being a gifted student, and allowing the pressure of deadlines to crank me into gear (led to a lot of good grades and all-nighters in HS and college). I would really rather stay away from medication for a variety of reasons, but also now in my adult life, I actually have a decent handle on things with routines and coffee as a morning stimulant when I need to focus the most.

Anyways, on with my lightbulb. So I have been doing the challenge, and the first few weeks went FANTASTIC. I was losing the weight on schedule (I have about 25 lbs total to lose) and I was feeling great.

Then a few weeks ago, I had family in town and I didn't track as closely. I thought I was still doing fine-- I generally track intermittently (my longest streak was 4 or 5 days of recording everything in MFP-- thanks ADHD!). My only real change was that I had a small container of honey that I had gotten for the guests' breakfasts. After they left, I was adding this honey to my plain greek yogurt, etc. Yes, I was eating too much of it-- but I typically eat around a 350 cal deficit of 1200. I figured that the worst that might have happened was I was eating at maintenance. But instead, I gained 3 lbs. Clearly either a) I was eating more than I realized, which gives me a sense of despair that I will ever be able to manage good eating habits without MFP and given that I can't seem to stick with tracking EVERYTHING, I feel myself losing hope or b) my body reacts weirdly to sugar, which since I like it so much, also makes me despair....

I tried to keep up my motivation, but it just went sprawling. Every craving for sugar and carbs has come roaring back and the candied nuts, chocolate, and GF granola in the house has taken a serious hit. There is not a doubt in my mind that I have gained everything back at this point, and I got really depressed.

Then I was doing some reading on ADHD and I realized that ADHD has actually been shown to make it more difficult to lose weight because a) we have trouble sticking with things (hence my trouble with MFP) and b) our dopamine deficiency enhances our cravings for sugar and carbs. It was a total HOLY CRAP moment for me when I realized that my 'lack of willpower' actually aligned perfectly with even more ADHD symptoms.

I tried researching some tips for ADHD last night and the best I found was eating small meals to maintain stimulation for the brain. Ummm, that didn't work today. My one small bowl of granola turned into 3.

SO! Is there anyone else out there with ADHD who can supply some weight loss tips?

Also-- anyone with experience with ADHD-- how do I separate out what is me really just not trying hard enough vs. what is actually the ADHD?

Please be kind, I hope this didn't sound too much like I am trying to pass off responsibility. IRL, I actually rarely blame anything on ADHD, I am just trying to figure out a way to take better care of my body while also working with my body, if that makes sense.

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