Saturday, February 29, 2020

So Angry

This week I set a goal to lose 2 pounds. 5 days out of the 7, I could not have been any better -- absolute lowest cal intake, 16:8 IF, 3 workouts. 2 days out of the week are special occasions, so I eat reasonable portions of the (only) high calorie foods available. What should have been 2 lbs of weight loss is now not even a pound.

I'm just so frustrated and angry -- in every other goal in my life, if I do even a small amount of work towards it, I am a little bit closer to my goal. There's no such thing as stepping backwards.

How the hell do I lose weight and not get discouraged when every mistake I make is a step back?? I worked so hard, lost it over two days of trying to just enjoy myself, and now I just feel miserable.

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What am i doing wrong?

Last year I Noticed I was 90kg and decided to do something about it. I've gotten much more active, walk the long way home from uni every day (about 30min) and an hour on my elliptical on the weekend. I've cut out all drinks apart from water and black coffee. And I've tried to cut out as much sugary foods as I can. I am kind of a retard when it comes to cooking, I've tried my best to learn new meals.
At the moment my days food looks like: a small tub of yoghurt in the morning 818kJ
and 2 tuna salad wraps, i don't know how to calaculate the kj on it but it's a low carb wrap, with a can of tuna, bunch of salad from those pre made bags and a tiny bit of mayonnaise. I do have a weight loss soup recipe which I did for a bit, but it just takes way too long make. I've been at it for about 5-6 months now and I'm still 90kg. I'm hungry all the time, and feel like I've been torturing myself for nothing.

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Life after massive weight loss (-150lbs).. Reevaluating goals and "remotivation."

Obligatory before and after

In July of 2017, I discovered /r/loseit and with the help of this community, I was able to go from a morbidly obese 345lbs down to 193lbs in just under a year and a half. With the holidays coming up, I decided to increase my calorie intake and eat at maintenance for a month. That month turned into a year and I fluctuated between 195 and 215 for the next 14 months. I was upset with myself, struggling to get back on my diet/healthy lifestyle and could not break the 200lbs mark once again.

It wasnt until the last few weeks where I reevaluated my position. Yes, I haven't lost any significant weight since Dec '18; however, without realizing it, I have been maintaining my massive weight loss for over a year. By changing my perspective, I quickly became motivated once again as I proved that I can keep this weight off. I took an hour, sat down, and started writing down the improvements to my life that I have observed over this past year.

No more sleep apnea

No more back pain

No loss of energy from simply walking up a flight of stairs

Dating is a lot easier

Clothes shopping is a lot more fun

I feel healthy, happy

With this list in mind, I thought to myself "What will this list look like after losing another 20 lbs and maintaining THAT for a year?" There are still many things that those final 20lbs will add to my list!

I have been working on returning mentally to the place I was at the start of my weight loss journey in the hopes of hitting my goal weight of 180lbs. Last week, I joined a new gym and have focused on a more nutritionally balanced CICO diet. With this renewed mindset and motivation, I am using my previous goals and the success of this subreddit as my foundation for my future weight loss.

Whether you've lost 15lbs or 150lbs, it is important to recognize your accomplishments and use them as valuable pieces of motivation for future goals. If you did it in the past, you KNOW you can continue doing it and apply the exact same mindset to future goals. You know you have the capability to accomplish weight loss, so keep it up!

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Should I stop calorie counting?

Sorry for the lenght! So I decided to lose weight five months ago but have had a lot of breaks meaning I probably have dieted about 3 months with some weeks not going too good. Well lately (about 2 months) I had been doing really good I had lost some more weight and I was very happy. I was never overweight I was on the bugger side of healthy and I have always been fine with my weight but I felt really uncomfortable with my body so I decided to lose some. I got to 47.6 kg (105) while I started from 55.3 (122.3) so I lost 8-7 kilos or about 16 pounds. So as I said was feeling excited but ..the weight loss started slowing down I tried real hard went ti the gym more and all but after a while it got so hard that it was hard to stay under my budget. I have always calorie counted I would reccomend it to everyone but it suddenly became very very hard to balance things out. I would eat a shit ton one day and nothing the next cause thats how my schedule is. Something happened with my bf and I got really sad and I also realized I didnt burn how much i thought I did and I was so crushed I officialy binged for the first time in over 2 or 3 months(third day now). I am not prone to binging at all! So clearly something is going wrong(could be because my budget is way to low but I honeslty think its having a budget in general) I am thinking of stopping the calorie counting and just trying to eat healthy and in good portions. I am also thinking of eating more times in a day as I tend to go about 23 or 24 hours without eating and I dont want to feel so hungry anymore. I do kind of become obsessed with calorie counting and I very much get a high from not eating do Id rather I do some fasting but eat normally most day and healthily. I know weight loss is very much calories in calories out thats why Im kinda hesitant. I love having control but I think its what ruined my diet Also I have probably gained some weight now and should be about 49kg or 108 pounds :((( I want to lose 10 more pounds ( I am short of course )

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 29 February 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Losing Weight on Bad Mental Health Days?

So, for a bit of context:

On the 1st January, I was 199.2lbs (5”6 19F), and today I weighed in at 186.8lbs. I had been trying to lose weight before that, but this is the first time I’ve seen any sort of success.

I’ve had issues with rocky mental health since I was young (14ish); very low mood, panic/anxiety attacks etc, but have never gotten an official diagnosis of any sort. I’ve been in and out of counselling for about the same amount of time, but this isn’t really a post about managing my mental health.

More, I need some help with what to do on my ‘down’ periods and the eating habits that come with those. On Wednesday I could barely get out of bed and I’m pretty sure I ate way above even my maintenance. On Friday, I went to work until 12 and then stayed in bed for the rest of the day because I was so anxious. I barely ate, and just let myself be hungry until around 9pm when I started getting a headache.

(It’s probably worth noting that at the moment there’s definitely stuff going on that’s triggering this, but I can’t do anything about it right now).

I’m just looking for some help with eating when I’m not doing good. It’s pretty rare that I have a day like yesterday where I barely eat, so I guess that’s fine, but it’s the overeating that gets me. It’s so difficult to care about anything, much less weight loss, when I’m in that state. If I don’t want to get up to cook, or to even put together something as basic as a sandwich, I’ll eat whatever crap is in my room. And if there’s nothing there, that’s when I won’t eat anything.

Any help?

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Friday, February 28, 2020

It’s hard to say “no”

I’ve been on my weight loss journey after I had my second baby this past September and I started at 150lbs with a GW of 120lbs. Well with exercise and eating right, I got down to 125lbs and I was just so proud of myself but I wasn’t finished. My mom has gone to rehab and she’ll be gone for a few months so I had to move in with my family at my parents’ house to take care of my little sisters. I do cook for myself and my family but my dad and brothers still buy fast food almost every day-and my favorite fast food! They always ask me if I want anything from where they’re going and as much as I say no, they just keep asking and asking until I say yes. Well this has been going on for about a month now and I’ve been getting lazier and not exercising as much because now I’m taking care of my sisters and MY own kids. My youngest sister has autism btw and it’s even more draining to take care of her, a 10-year old, my toddler, and my infant. I’m just so exhausted all the time and sometimes find relief when they order takeout because that means I don’t have to cook. Well I weighed myself today and noticed I’m back up to 132 lbs. It felt like a punch to the gut because I was SO close to my goal.. I did cry. I just look so bloated and I hate the way I look. I just feel so ashamed and unmotivated. When I tell my family I’m trying to lose weight they laugh because they say it doesn’t look like I need to (but I would consider myself “skinny fat”) I know they’re trying to sound nice but it just makes me feel worse. As much as I’m desperate to lose weight, it’s still so hard to say no to my favorite fast foods. I don’t know where I’m going with this.. but thank you so much for reading this far.

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