Tuesday, April 14, 2020

Do any of you struggle to feel accomplished because you've "been there before"?

I'm F/25/5'11" and currently 212.8 lbs, down from 219lbs a few weeks ago. The thing is, this is not my first weight loss journey. About 7 years ago I went from 225>154 over the course of 2 years. Since then my weight has slowly been creeping up, and I've yoyo dieted a few times, losing and gaining 20 or so lbs several times. Now, I've been sticking to under 1400 Cal per day for about two weeks and been consistent with exercise (jogging), and the scale has steadily gone down. But every time I lose weight, not just with this attempt but with previous ones as well, I struggle to feel accomplished or even happy with the weight I've lost, because I've seen that number on the scale before, it's nothing new. I actually get disheartened sometimes, like why SHOULD I feel happy at 212 lbs when five months ago I was at 191. If any of you have been here before, I'd love to hear some advice on how to move past this. Thanks!

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[TIP] Try thinking of calorie counting as paying off a debt (ft. a spreadsheet to help)!

TW: If you have an eating disorder or any tendencies towards disordered eating, especially in relation to numbers, using the method I've laid out below could be potentially harmful. This tool should only be used by people for whom access to lots of numbers is safe.

TL;DR ($YOUR_CURRENT_WEIGHT - $YOUR_GOAL_WEIGHT) x 3500 = the amount of "caloric debt" (excess calories you'll have to burn off) in order to reach your goal. There's a spreadsheet to help you keep track as you chip away at this number!

Recently I read a post about how it might be helpful for some people to think of their weight loss as a debt that needs to be paid off. This comment by /u/Whack-a-med in particular really resonated with me--so much so, that I decided to actually see what the numbers might look like!

We know that a pound of fat is equivalent to 3500 calories. In other words, in order to lose a pound, you'd have to burn off 3500 more calories than you've consumed. Thus, you can calculate the total number of excess calories you will have to burn off by finding the delta between your current weight and your target weight, and then multiplying that by 3500. Then, if you subtract your calories consumed for the day from your TDEE, you can see how much you've chipped away at that sum for that day.

In order to play around with the numbers a little bit more, I decided to create a spreadsheet where you input your stats and goal weight, and then you can log your daily weight and calories. From there the spreadsheet will calculate your TDEE and subtract your calories from any given day, giving you the number of calories you've "paid back" to your caloric debt balance.

Instructions for use

You can access a public copy of this spreadsheet template here (Imperial units) and here (metric units). From there you can create your own private copy of the spreadsheet ("File" --> "Make a copy") and input your data. You'll notice that the sheet is prefilled with some starter data--that data is simply an example for demonstrative purposes; you will be overwriting it with your own.

On your private copy, go to the tab at the bottom titled "Information (fill this out first)". Fill out each of the fields on that tab. (Note: it asks for gender as "M" or "F"--though this doesn't encompass all identities, it's what I saw the BMR formulas were based off of. Pick whichever label suits your needs best.) Then return to the main tab (labeled "Chart"), and fill in your data in the yellow columns! (When you add your weight for the day, the rest of the row should appear.)

Try not to mess with columns D through H unless it's on purpose, as it could mess up the formulas. If your numbers suddenly start getting wonky or you get errors, check and make sure you haven't accidentally overwritten any of the cells.

You can fill in your data starting from today, or if you have your calories and weight from previous days already logged somewhere else, you can backfill a few days in order to get a sense for how it works.

If you fill up the spreadsheet to the point where you're sick of scrolling, you can either make a copy of your private spreadsheet or return to the template and make a copy of that. You'll have to update the dates, but don't worry about messing up formatting or anything (the dates don't factor into any of the calculations, anyway).

Why I like this method

To be honest, on most tracking applications, I struggle to find meaning in the numbers. Yes, I log my 1200 a day (sigh life as a short girl), but when the scale fluctuates each morning for seemingly random reasons, especially during a plateau, it can feel like my work is meaningless and amounting to nothing. Sometimes I want more immediate gratification than my scale is able to offer me.

That's where this technique becomes handy--it lays down in hard numbers the reality of the efforts you're making. Even if the scale doesn't budge (that fickle asshole), you can know that you are still making progress. For me at least, this gives an encouraging dopamine burst.

Furthermore, it's fun to watch the "remaining balance" number go down each day. It's fun in the same way paying off actual debt is fun--it almost turns it into a game. It can become really satisfying to see how much you can bring it down! (Having said that, please be careful to not let it become a game of how low you can go each day--remember to check in with yourself to make sure you're not sliding in to risky behaviors.)

I will admit that it can seem a little daunting if your remaining balance is quite high--that's why the "1st goal weight" is also on the spreadsheet. I recommend making that goal weight something within immediate sight--something you could achieve in a month or so. Breaking up the big number into smaller chunks helps with seeing progress. You can even hide the "Ultimate Remaining Balance" column and just focus on the immediate one.

This method isn't perfect--TDEE and BMR calculations aren't an exact science, and it might feel disheartening if the numbers you see here don't match up with the numbers you see on the scale. However, hopefully this still is helpful to some people--it's not for everyone, but if you're a numbers-oriented person like I am, then it might be of some use for you.

I hope this is helpful. Please feel free to give this a try and let me know what you think! If you notice any bugs or anything, please also let me know and I can try to fix them. I'm excited to see what you all think!

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weight loss

hey everyone,

I’m 17, female, 5”6 and really fucking obese. like I’m morbidly obese according to my bmi + I’m sick of it.

my list of reasons to lose weight: - I’m always ‘the fat friend’ - I have to make jokes about myself before anyone else can - guys are completely repulsed by me - I love fashion but I don’t have the body to wear any of the clothes that fit my aesthetic - I’m probably gonna have a heart attack in like 2 years if I keep going like this - I just want to feel good about myself

I’m not too big on numbers but I weigh roughly 250lbs. I’m big on how my body looks. My belly, back, arms and thighs are major problems for me. I have an apple shaped body and it SHOWS. I have a good 60 - 100lbs to lose, and I’m very sedentary bc I’m severely depressed (lol we love that) so I thought I’d do CICO and see how it works out for me.

I’m eating at 1342 calories a day, and so far I’ve been sticking to it. I haven’t noticed any difference in my body yet but so many people have gotten results, so I’m holding onto hope (though it’s really hard).

Do you guys have any tips you can offer? I’d love to know :)

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Quarantine lessons and first successful weight loss in years!

I have been lurking here for a while but never actually taken any concrete steps to losing weight. I have been in quarantine for five weeks now and have been weighing myself weekly. I try to log the numbers to have back data — for when I “really start trying” I tell myself — but don’t really look at them or think about them. Except for today, when my curiosity got the better of me. To my great surprise, I have consistently lost every week I’ve been in isolation and am down just shy of ten lbs. What!!??

After a mental review of the past five weeks, my only thought is that my stress has been wayyyy down these weeks. Strange to say seeing as there’s a virus eating its way through the world at present, but I have been working from home and that has lowered my day to day stress tenfold. No spontaneous calls from angry clients, no boss randomly walking into my office and commandeering my day, no gossipy coworkers, more leeway in response times, no long and miserable commute. All while having the security of a full time paycheck and benefits during the current uncertainty. And a stimulus check and no student loan payments..... you see the pattern.

I have not consciously been changing my eating and I’m not exercising at all (beyond walking the dog, which hasn’t changed since Before). I’m in good health overall (y’know, except for being obese). I’ve always cooked for myself and eaten whatever I fancy in the moment/had on hand. But I had noticed that I’d been dealing with more leftovers than usual and running out of containers. I’m cooking the same amount, so I must be eating less. I’m going to start tracking my meals to see if this is actually true (I have some data from about two months ago to compare to).

I just had to share. This is so crazy! My first weight loss in five years and all I had to do was have a less shitty job for a few weeks...

Tl;dr apparently stress eating large portions has been my problem all along, and now I’m down 10 lbs in 5 weeks.

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Is it dangerous to only eat 800 calories a day?

I’m currently losing weight and my calorie goal is anywhere between 1100 and 1350 calories on MFP. Some days I’m just not massively hungry and the past 3 days I’ve only been on track to eat 800 calories a day. Obviously the MFP app doesn’t let you complete a day until you’ve eaten over 1000 calories so I’ve found myself forcing something else in on a night to get my calories over 1000. It’s definitely not every day. Some days I can easily eat 1500-1600.

Just wanting to know if this is going to hinder my weight loss? Is it better to eat less when I’m not hungry? It feels counterproductive to be snacking when I’m not hungry but I don’t want to send my body into starvation. Tia

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Losing weight without calorie counting?

I'm a 21(F), 5'5 and 143lbs, my GW is 125lbs. As a teenager i discovered calorie counting websites and apps at 15/16 and abused it to feed an eating disorder. (They did really work for me at the time with regards to weight loss).

Ive read a lot into intuitive eating and i obviously think the whole philosophy is great if you are happy with your current weight (unlike myself) and its a lifestyle/not a diet i would like to participate in, in the future. Ive used a number of calorie counting apps over the past year. However, i find that I'm eating less healthy, skipping meals all in order to stay within my goal. Or I'll be within my goal and the next day i will eat drastically over my calories. I have not lost weight.

Seeking advice, has anyone not counted calories or macros and still sucessfully lost weight?

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Hi! 33/f with a 73 lb weight loss so far. I’m looking to transition from losing to maintaining/toning and would love some advice!

Hey everyone!

Like my title said I’m a 33 yo female, 5’2 and have lost 73 lbs so far, which brought me down to 137. I started January 2019 and did my best to stick to 1200 calories a day/ spinning 2x a week at a minimum. I also did intermittent fast and prefer to exercise fasted.

I’d like to transition into a more comprehensive exercise routine but I’ll admit I’m a little lost. I know calorie counting isn’t for everyone- but it works for me. I would like to start eating more, and exercising more as well. Ideally, I’d spin 3x a week and incorporate yoga/strength training into the mix at least twice a week.

I don’t have a goal weight, but right now I’d categorize myself as skinny-fat (at least SKINNIER-fat) and I’d like to be less...floppy. I know I do still have a few pounds to lose to get to a healthier weight, but how do I transition from straight losing to continuing to lose while also gaining muscle?

My question for yous is...all the questions. For those of you who have got to this point- what worked for you? What didn’t? how did you get over the mental block of eating more? I’ve struggled with weight my whole life and for the first time I don’t feel like I’m in a jail when it comes to food. I’d like to keep that mentality going and I’d love some help with the transition.

Sending positive vibes out there to all my losing buddies!

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