Sunday, August 9, 2020

So much is out of my control - my weight isn’t.

STAT: 5’7 SW:196; CW:157; GW:143

I’m new here. Also live in a country that uses the metric system so not used to pounds and feet and stuff.

Currently there are things in my life that have a major effect on me but I cannot change them. My husband’s income was slashed by 75% before COVID. The financial stress has been getting to me. I feel like crap for not earning enough. I have no control over my husband’s company. I can’t help him. The pandemic is another thing I have no control over.

Two months ago I took control of my health and weight. The world might be going to hell but I still have a choice about what I do with my body. I’d rather be poor and skinny than poor and fat. Kidding. Sort of.

I’m turning 30 later this year. I have been reflecting a lot about my the roller coaster that has been my weight loss journey.

2013: I weighed 161 lb at my sister’s wedding. I was disgusted with how I looked.

2014: 147 lb for my wedding. Was happy with my weight and got there without trying. I was just so happy during my engagement.

2015: back up to 160 lb. I was quite sick that year.

2016: 137 lb. but I lost weight because I had 6months of grueling medical treatment. Finished second degree.

2017+2018: 154 lb. Even though that’s not a bad weight I was very unhappy with my weight. I did my masters in this time.

2019: 196 lb at the end of my pregnancy. So I’m not sure how to count that. Obviously I’m supposed to gain weight but I did gain more than I should have.

2020: started the year on 174 lb now 157 lb. this time I am happy with my weight. Even if I’d like to lose some more.

Bottom line is my main goal right now is to figure out how to stop yo-yo ing. Time to get off the roller coaster and learn how to maintain weight.

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sugar - can you still get type 2 diabetes without being overweight? i would really appreciate some diet advice for weight loss since. tldr at bottom

i’m currently trying to lose weight (naturally small frame but a lot of body fat (my mum’s fancy scale says 38%) so my weight is higher end of ‘healthy’ but i look much bigger than that) and my biggest vice is sugar. i have an extremely strong family history of types 2 diabetes and before dieting my meal plan was this: • no breakfast • whatever was being served at college for lunch • two family bags of sweets for dinner, maybe some of my mums cooking if i liked it

i’m wondering if while still in a caloric deficit i’d be damaging my health a lot of the majority of my calories still came from sweets? sorry if it’s a stupid question, i just don’t think i can give them up. i’m never in the mood to eat normal foods despite being an okay cook and on days where i don’t eat sweets my diet looks something like this: • porridge w banana for breakfast • wrap/salad/instant soup for lunch • soup/dry brown pasta with mushroom/random veg (maybe with vegetarian sausage)/shirataki noodles for dinner

i never really feel like eating any regular foods, and the only regular foods i’m a big fan of are really unhealthy like mashed potato or potato waffles. i’m pescatarian due to hating the taste/smell of meat and also bc it’s better for the environment, but i rarely ever eat fish/seafood because i never really want it. smoked salmon or store bought mini sushi boxes are probably my only protein sources and i don’t like protein shakes, eggs, etc. i struggle with craving sugar really immensely every day and havent been able to lose weight over 1 and a half years of trying to diet because i keep binging on sweets. my longest clean streak without sugar is probably less than a week, my longest consecutive days of dieting without a binge was 13 days last year, 6 days this year.

tldr: don’t feel like eating normal food, am i still putting myself at risk of type 2 diabetes if i’m in a calorie deficit but eating mostly sweets and am currently at a ‘healthy’ weight?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Sunday, 09 August 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Losing weight to save my life

I saw u/_Suck_lT_Trebek_ 's post about going down in hat size, and wanted to share a similar experience i had recently.

Yesterday, I (F/18/165cm(5'4)/65kg(143lbs)) was going on a fishing trip with my dad like i do every summer. However, i made a fun discovery when i went to grab a lifevest. Usually i would use the one that's made for people 70kg-90kg, but then i realized... i'm not! My starting weight was 77kg (169lbs), and i've been around that weight for a long time. I haven't really been happy with the change i'm (not) seeing in the mirror, but this really helped me to see that this weight loss is real and i'm accomplishing my goals. So, yesterday i went down a size in lifevests.

I started this journey to better myself in all ways, and to really just feel my best. I've been doing IF, CICO and taking daily walks to get 10000 steps in. If anyone is feeling down about their progress and not seeing much change in the mirror, remember the little things!

Edit: got the wrong u/ three times lol

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Tips needed to help a post-lockdown bounce back please!

Two problems I need advice for:

1) So I've always been someone who can build muscle super easy so my legs are often muscular but still huge and the top of my thighs rub together so much they bleed in the summer 😭 has anyone got any advice to make my legs smaller? I don't mean like thigh gap thin as I'm not built for that I just wanna ease discomfort

2) I can lose fat off everywhere in my body except my lower belly! At my smallest (before lockdown) I even had slight definition at the top of my belly but it blends out to this roll at the bottom and I don't get it!

I mean I've gained a shit tonne of weight over lockdown (like I'm up a whole size and a half) so I wanna bounce back better than ever and these were my two biggest problems in my last big weight loss venture

Any help appreciated! Xx

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Saturday, August 8, 2020

Fundamental Weight Loss Rule | ONLY pertaining to weight loss

I want to go over the basic underlying rule of how to lose weight. To some it may seem very basic but I didn't know about any of this when I was younger so I hope this helps somebody looking to get started. Your dietary needs can be very complex and this is very simplified just around weight loss and is not meant to be a complete diet guide. A complete diet has many components like nutritional value and personal taste and you should consult a dietician if needed. However, no matter what works best for you the basic rule of weight loss is the same.

In – Out + Generation – Consumption = Accumulation

This is the equation for a mass and energy balance. Since energy is neither created nor destroyed, for any system this equation holds true. In this case, the system will be your body and we are interested in the energy we intake and consume. Energy is commonly referred to as calories. Calories are just a unit of energy like inches and meters are units for length. The human body doesn’t spontaneously generate calories and the consumption term is accounted for in the out so we can simplify the equation to the below.

Calories In – Calories Out = Calories Accumulation

This is where the Calories In Calories Out (CICO) term comes from.

The "calories in" term is made up of the food and drink you put in your body each day. The calories out can be accounted for in two broad categories. The first is your daily activity, like walking, exercising, moving your fingers to play video games, everything you do takes calories. However, this is actually a small part of the calories you burn. For most people, the bulk of calories burned are consumed in keeping your body alive. This is called the basal metabolic rate (BMR), and it’s the energy required to keep your body functioning at rest. If all you did was lay in bed and not move, your body would still consume calories to keep your heart beating and your organs functioning. These two terms are commonly referred to as your Total Daily Energy Expenditure(TDEE).

You can search for TDEE calculator online and input your age, weight, height, and activity level to get an estimate. I would select sedentary as the activity level to start.

So looking at the equation, we have 3 possibilities.

  1. Calories in > Calories Out ==> Accumulation is positive

  2. Calories in < Calories Out ==> Accumulation is Negative

  3. Calories in = Calories Out ==> Accumulation is zero

Here’s the main takeaway. Over time, Anyone in a caloric deficit will lose weight, and anyone who wants to lose weight has to be in a caloric deficit.

Let’s look at the first case, where Calories In > Calories Out ==> Positive Accumulation. If you intake more calories than your body needs, that accumulated surplus is stored as glycogen or fat for future use. Your body doesn’t know when it will eat next so it wants to keep any unused energy for the future rather than waste it.

Now let’s look at the second case, where Calories in < Calories Out ==> Negative Accumulation. If you eat less calories than your body needs, the difference has to come from somewhere. Remember the calories out term is composed of your physical activity and the BMR. You already spent the calories used for any physical activity and the BMR is the energy needed to keep you alive. If that difference isn’t made up, the result is death. Death is the last thing your body wants to happen so it pulls the energy needed from your surplus, which as stated above is your fat. So again, ANYONE in a caloric deficit will lose weight, and ANYONE who wants to lose weight has to be in a caloric deficit.

How you create that caloric deficit in a sustainable way is going to depend on your personal lifestyle and needs. Some popular ways are intermittent fasting, keto, or veganism. And if any of those work for you, that’s absolutely great. Keep doing what you are doing. Each of those styles have their unique benefits for each person, but it’s important to understand the underlying rule of weight loss because it is the same for everybody.

You can follow the rules of any of those methods and still gain weight. You can fast for 16 hours or 20 hours but if you’re eating a caloric surplus in those remaining hours you will still gain weight. If you keep to a 100% strict keto diet, but you are eating a caloric surplus of those keto foods you will gain weight. You can eat 100% vegan foods, but if you eat too much of them you will gain weight. You cannot eat in a caloric deficit and gain weight. One thing I do want to mention, is that your weight will fluctuate day to day. For me, I've seen it swing by 4-5 pounds easily depending on things like when you weigh yourself, what you last ate, bloating, or any number of reasons. Try not to dwell on those too much and focus on the long term trend. Losing weight is also not the only goal of nutrition. Also eat your vegetables and mind your nutrition but that's a whole other discussion.

Personally I use a food scale, MyFitnessPal, and a scale to measure my weight each day. I would highly suggest weighing your food especially if you never have before because most people tend to underestimate the calories they are taking in. It’s also much more consistent over a long period of time. Slow long term weight loss is healthier and more sustainable than crash dieting so you need to create a slight deficit over an extended period of time. Estimating how much you eat each day without a scale means the amount you intake will fluctuate much more leading to inconsistent results. You can use your calculated TDEE as a baseline and track a slight deficit in the calories you eat and see how your weight changes over time. The calories in a calorie tracker and TDEE calculation are estimates, so if you don’t see what you are expecting try adjusting the values as needed by a few hundred calories. Just remember it takes a few weeks to see the trend through the daily fluctuations. How to best create that deficit will vary from person to person but the underlying idea is the same for anyone who wants to lose weight. I understand this can be very complex and differ from person to person but this is just from my experience of what has worked. I did try to simplify it so if you want any further detail or if you have any questions, please let me know and I’ll try my best to help.

Thanks all

TLDR; ANYONE in a caloric deficit will lose weight, and ANYONE who wants to lose weight has to be in a caloric deficit.

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Addict tendencies

As they say at AA and NA, once an addict always an addict. Lately I’ve felt this way, like I’ll never be able to go back to not tracking calories. I’ve come a very long way and still food is always at the back of my mind. Every now and again I’ll “relapse” with a binge but I get back on the wagon because I know it’s what I have to do. There’s no real moral to this post, just wondering if anyone else can relate or has thought about weight loss this way before.

ALSO...don’t tell me that I have no idea what it’s like to be a drug addict or that I have no right to compare the two. You don’t know me and I’ll leave it at that.

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