Friday, December 11, 2020

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 11 December 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Thursday, December 10, 2020

Slow and steady wins the race

Im a 5'5 25 year old female. Like a lot of people I've gone through stages of weightloss and gain where I start a diet and then gain all the weight back and repeat. I commonly workout but not enough to burn how much I eat.

2020 has been particularly bad for my weight. I started the year around 135ish thinking I would go down to about 130 and since then I went up to about 152 lbs. Between not having to see anyone and being snuggled up with my man all year I was too comfortable to notice my weight.

The week I saw the scale in the 150s I knew I was at a point of no return and I was officially undeniably over weight. I didn't feel too bad about my appearance until I realized none of my clothes were fitting anymore and my arms looked exceptionally fat in photos.

The next morning I woke up I started to count my calories and did my usual workout. That week was Nov 25th.

I've been following a zipper diet where one day I eat 1100 calories and the next day I eat around 1300- 1500. I alternate back and forth everyday so I'm not going into starvation mode and I can still enjoy a few treats especially with the holidays.

Since Nov 25th I am now down to 147 lbs today bringing me down 5lbs in 2 and a halfish weeks. It's not a fast weight loss or a dramatic one, but one that is easy to maintain and doesn't leave me craving the end.

My end goal is 125 lbs so on this trajectory I should get to my goal in 11 weeks or 2 and half months.

To everyone on the same journey as I am good luck! We can do it!

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NSV - My neighbor noticed my weight loss! ("WOAH you've lost a lot of weight!")

Hey, y'all! Before I get into the bulk of the post, here are some stats:

  • 5'3 trans man
  • HW 265 / SW 256.8 / CW 205 (51.8lbs lost) / GW 170-180ish?
  • Size changes: XL -> M shirt / 44 -> 38 pants / 10.5 -> 8 shoe
  • Normally I work out (run + lift) regularly, but I've been on my butt due to surgery. Recently began feeling good enough to start walking around my neighborhood, still not comfortable with running/lifting yet.
  • Eat ~1500-1800 calories/day. Increased my calories to increase my metabolism (it was wayyy too low to be able to continue losing safely), maintained my weight for a little while, but was still losing inches. Recently started losing weight naturally again, w/o decreasing calories.
  • My diet varies, but it's mostly higher-protein, lower-carb. I eat a lot of eggs and various meats and I eat a fair amount of groceries. My staples are:
    • High-protein frozen waffles + Brown n Serve sausages (for quick breakfasts)
    • Eggs
    • In-season vegetables
    • Various meats (including deli meats and fresh meat and dino nuggets)
    • Low-carb bread (this is new)
    • Almonds + Quest protein chips + Babybels for snacks
    • Two Good yogurt
    • Sugar-free creamer
    • Diet sodas + diet energy drinks (+ coffee and tea)

Okay, the actual post:

I haven't been going around my neighborhood a lot lately. About 5 or 6 weeks ago I had an emergency appendectomy, and that recovery lasted way longer than I anticipated. Not only that but as soon as I started feeling good enough to start walking I got slammed with work for class. I didn't really have time to exercise. I was still following my diet, but I just wasn't getting any exercise.

Well, this week is finals, and I actually have time to go walk around my neighborhood! My study schedule is flexible enough that I can take time out of my day to de-stress.

I was enjoying my walk, and on the way back I saw my neighbor. We waved, and she stopped and turned around.

She looked at me, her eyes kind of widened, and she said, "WOAH! You've lost a lot of weight! You look GOOD! How do you feel???"

Not knowing how exactly I should respond to that, I laughed and said thank you, I'm feeling great. She said she hadn't seen me around lately, but she normally sees me working out and going for runs around the neighborhood.

We chatted for a bit, and she said, "It looks like you've done the opposite of the COVID weight gain!"

And I'm just so happy! I'm really surprised she noticed it because I'm wearing a big sweater and a tee-shirt underneath. I've also been feeling kind of down because I haven't been able to work out, and even though I'm losing again it's been slower.

But I'm so happy she noticed! Even in a giant sweater and in the dark somebody noticed my weight loss! And that feels good!

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[Century Club] December 10, 2020 - Have you lost or need to lose 100 lbs or more? Here’s a thread just for you!

I have often welcomed those who have lost 100+ lbs (~ 50 kg , ~7 stone) to “the club” and joked that club meetings were on Thursdays. I recently suggested that we try out having a regular weekly thread to talk about issues that are particular to those who have lost 100+ lbs, those who are well on their way and those who are just at the beginning of a journey this big.

Welcome back to the Century Club! Each week I will provide a topic of the day that has been on my mind or inspired by previous posts. However you are free to talk about any topics you think might be relevant to current and prospective club members.

Previous topics: The Unthinkable - Giving Thanks - Visualization - Eating Out - Top Concern - Holidays - 2020 - Changes - Weakness - What did you miss? - seasons - Funny Stories - Schedules - Fun - Health - Exercise - Denial - Headwinds - Streaks - Other People - Toolkit - Breaks - Support - Clothing - The Unexpected - Self-image - How do you end your journey? - What made it click? - Loose Skin


Today's Topic: Secondary Goals

There was a post yesterday about goals. This is somewhat related to last week's topic, but from the opposite angle. When you set out on your journey, was there some goal that provided inspiration and motivation for your weight loss? Such as being able to ride on a roller coaster.

Of course, everyone has primary goals to reach a certain weight or to wear a particular size clothing. I started my journey with a rough idea that I wanted to reach Onederland (<200 lbs) and wear clothing in a US men's large. After all, I was a "big guy", reaching a normal BMI at 170 lbs and wearing men's medium was unthinkable! (Even by the time I was down to 195 and knew I could keep going, I still had this vision of myself staying there for at least a few months...)

As a frequent traveler (pre-pandemic) a big secondary goal was to be able to sit comfortably in airline seats in Economy class and not end up needing a seatbelt extender or having the table rest on my belly making it harder to eat or work while on a plane.... Thankfully I never needed the seatbelt extender (even though on some planes I would stretch the belt to its fullest extent at my heaviest) and in many cases I usually don't feel too claustrophobic with the table down anymore. (Of course I have not flown since March).

What about you Centurion? What were your secondary goals that helped motivate your weight loss? Rollercoasters? Zip-lines? Bungee jumping?

Of course feel free to talk about anything else that's on your mind...

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Under 200 pounds for the first time in my adult life!!!

5'8 Male over 330 lbs early in this year, if you told me on January 1st of this year that I would be under 200 lbs before the end of the year, I would have been more likely to believe that the lives of the entire world would be upended by a global pandemic than me losing over 130 pounds in a year. This was the year where I was able to find the secret ingredient to basically have a "perfect" time with weight loss and lose 2-3 lbs/week on average with a BMI in the high 40's to low 50's for most of my late teen to adult life. Motivation is key, and it's something that can't be taught. I've always known what it takes to have successful weight loss, but always lacked the drive to steer away from the instant gratification that eating too much and drinking too much brought. I've always been a social eater/drinker and I was able to use the changes the pandemic brought to my advantage and my wife and I now make almost all of our meals at home. I've been able to make healthy lifestyle changes to be able to still eat and drink everything that I enjoy, much more in moderation, and stick to a 1200-2500 calorie/day range, with an average daily calorie target of 1700-1800 calories. It's worked and it has paid off.

Fad diets and restrictive diets that may work well for some people have historically never worked well for me, so I stuck with my calorie counting and have logged over 250 days on MFP, and it's paying off. This won't work for everyone, but it worked for me. The key is to still enjoy what you want to enjoy and have the diet just be something that will come more naturally over time, everyone is different.

I am now within 15 lbs of my father who was never obese in his adult life, and weigh much less than my mother who has had a weight problem her whole life, and through whom I developed unhealthy eating habits as a kid. My mom is somewhat motivated, and I hope she sticks with it, but motivation is something that can't be taught. Some words of advice that I saw from someone on this sub (in the century club thread) that I shall paraphrase "It takes a long time to get good at something, losing weight is a skill like any other that needs to be developed."

My wife got me a fitbit for my birthday in mid April in order to keep me motivated, and I think it worked, considering I'm down 102 lbs since getting it . I am now imminently about to be out of the obese range for my height, so I think that goal was accomplished! From a 3/4xl to a large (even the large is a tad loose now), from a size 50 pants/jeans to a size 36 (I was a size 40 in 6th grade!!), I have blown my own goals (to be down 100 lbs by March 2021) out of the water.

For those of you struggling, I've been there. Don't be discouraged, just keep searching to find what works for you. Losing weight will be a difficult challenge, but it can and should be fun and enriching. If it doesn't feel that way for you, make some changes. And do not make changes just because they worked for someone else. Do what works for you. Stay safe out there friends, and Happy Holidays.

EDIT: Thank you sooooo much for the gold!!!

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SV: Lost 40 pounds from HW (and still going strong!) NSV: I’ve lost INCHES around my body and gained some actual real self love for the first time ever.

F/28/5’4. SW/HW 225. CW 184.8. GW 150?

Started getting serious about losing in late May 2020. Didn’t take a single progress picture until July 2020. I wish I had taken one sooner!

Progress pic (NSFW): left picture is 12/5 (184.8), right picture is 7/16 (206.2). https://imgur.com/a/L7rM2A0

Tape measurements: Since August, I have been recording tape measurements to record some additional info. This has been amazing progress to see, and is definitely way more motivating than my weight. 8/2020: Neck: 14.5. Thigh: 27. Arm: 13. Waist: 37.5. Hips: 44.5. Bellybutton: 40.5. 12/2020: Neck: 14. Thigh: 24. Arm: 12.5. Waist: 34.5. Hips: 41.5. Bellybutton: 36. FOUR AND A HALF INCHES AROUND MY TUMMY!!!! And it feels so good.

Exercise: I’ve been running 1-3 miles, 3 times/week. And I follow the minimalist bodyweight fitness routines 3 times/week. Fitness is definitely not the most important part of my weight loss, CICO is my main focus.

Food: I follow CICO without too much regard for macros. I need to be lenient with myself and kind of go with the flow or I end up binging from feeling too restricted. I’m on maintenance right now for a month (my reward for 40 pounds loss since starting) of 1800-1900. When cutting, I eat 1300-1450 depending on exercise schedule, mental health, etc.

Mental: I’ve been overweight/obese for nearly 2 decades. I’ve tried losing weight more times than I can ever count, and I’ve never been nearly this successful with any attempt. Taking my mental health more seriously, I believe, is the key to my success thus far. I’ve been in weekly CBT since February 2020 and I would not be here without my amazing therapist!

My wholly unsolicited advice... TAKE FREQUENT PROGRESS PICS!!! Especially at the beginning even if it doesn’t feel good to see them. It feels so good to see the changes after you’ve made them.

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100lb loss celebration photo shoot

Has anyone done a photo shoot to celebrate a huge weight loss? DIY or professional?

Does anyone plan to?

I am sooooooo close and I think I might want to but feel stuck on ideas.

Thinking of an 100 balloon, pant size comparison but thats it. It would just be me and a tripod, nothing professional just for fun to document my success in a creative way.

I have no other places to celebrate really, these photos would basically be just for me, maybe added to my private social media but thats it. I suppose those two ideas are enough, just looking to see if other have done anything.

Any thoughts, plans?

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