Monday, May 3, 2021

Losing weight on my period.

22 F, 5'8", SW: 177, CW: 167, GW: 150

I pretty often see people on here talking about how they don't lose weight on their period or even the week before as well. These weeks are when I lose the most weight. I lose barely any weight for the two weeks after my period but the week before and week of I drop weight. I dropped a pound a day for 3 days in a row this month in the previous week.

Anyway, this seems to deviate from what everyone else is experiencing. I know everyone's body is different and everyone's weight loss journey is different but it has my worried that my hormones are out of whack or something. Can any of y'all tell me if this is normal?

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What are the some good habits and thinking patterns to aid weight loss

Hi, I'm basically in a bit of an internal conflict. I struggle with calorie counting and any sort of strict regime because it brings out my obsessive tendencies and old eating disorder thoughts. I've accepted that these tactics aren't safe for me. Instead, I've started working on making room for good habits and positive experiences with exercise and healthy food. I'm losing weight slooooooowly, though in truth I'm not sure exactly since I've stopped weighting myself as well. That actually improved my mental well-being so much it's kind of depressing. I sew as a hobby so I'm constantly remeasuring myself and it seems I'm getting smaller, though.

To throw a wrench into the works, turns out that we'd like to have the wedding in about 6 months time and I just have this visceral desire to have the weight gone from my life by then. I've been thinking about using food substitutes to have precise control over my calories and I even started coming up with ways how to get away with not eating or making myself sick in a shared household. But I know it's not good and all it's going to achieve is another huge yoyo and another round of the self-hate cycle.

I think if I felt like I'm putting some extra effort, it would be enough to make me happy. Therefore I'd like to ask for tips on some further healthy habits that would make me feel like I'm doing something, but which I wouldn't be able to turn against myself as easily. Turns out this is a particular talent of mine. Many of the common suggestions I'm either doing (eg. not drinking my sugar) or aren't applicable (eg. I don't commute and the grocery store is basically next door), so I'm looking more for the little weird stuff that kind of stacks over time.

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Sunday, May 2, 2021

Re-starting my weight loss journey/Rant

Hello all,

As the title indicates, I am restarting my weight loss journey Monday 5/3. I know you can start any time. But after a series of starting, stopping, eating bad, not going to the gym when I should, I decided to hold myself accountable this time. One of the things I could think of was make a post. I've been inspired by so many of you all who have crushed your goals and have changed your lives. It makes me absolutely inspired to try this all over again. So I thought I'd post and see if anyone sees this or leaves a comment. I've always wanted to do the before/after picture thing but I've always felt embarrassed.

I managed to lose +/-35 lbs in 2018. I was doing so well. I was proud of myself. I started to feel so confident. People recognized it. But most importantly I just felt so proud of myself. I was so sad to leave 2018 and my progress behind. I plateaued for about 3 months, before Thanksgiving and the holidays and I just couldn't keep it off. I started at 208 lbs and got down to 170 lbs. No matter what I did, I just couldn't crack into the 60s. But I'm willing to try again.

I'm 5'7", 208lbs, male, 32 years old.

I just hope it clicks in me, that as I write this post, and maybe see feedback, that I'm serious this time. That my goal is still unfinished. I'm tired of beating myself up about gaining back every single pound I tried so hard to lose. I'm tired of disliking my reflection again. I'm tired of feeling uncomfortable about how I look when I go out. I'm absolutely gutted that I can't fit into my clothes anymore. I'm actually welling up right now. I've been a "fat" kid all my life. I'm sorry to use that term, but when it's literally been your identifier, you just become numb to its usage. I was 12 years old shopping with my mom when I couldn't fit into regular clothes so the sales lady derisively said I needed to try the husky section. I can still remember that. I remember filling my plate with food at a church picnic and having people eye it down like I was being disgusting. Hell even my doctor said I needed to lose weight. I get it. I really do. I'm unhappy about how am I. But the fact that I actually made progress but let it get back to the way it was, as if my weight loss in 2018 never happened, pains me so much. Hell, I couldn't even keep the weight off enough for my sister's wedding last year with Covid and all. I've just been so disappointed. But like the post said I'm just so tired of feeling this way. Of regretting all my bad food choices as soon as it goes in my mouth and down my belly. I'm sick of knowing that I actually know and can do better, but don't do it. I don't know why I do this. But I just know if I don't snap out of it and do something, nothing will ever change. I'll just watch my life pass by and all the things I want to do, I won't do it because of how I feel. Because of the limitations I put on myself. I know at my height and weight it may not seem like a lot, but when its calculated in a BMI calculator, I'm obese. I'm a statistic. I'm not knocking on anyone else, I just needed a place to vent. I want to do better. I want a change. My body doesn't feel great and I'm starting to have issues again. I don't want to feel like I'm close to a medical emergency anymore. I just don't want to lie in bed and have trouble breathing. I don't want to wonder if my heart is okay.

Anyways, I'm sorry for the long rant. I guess I just needed to let all this out in frustration. I don't know why I'm overweight. I understand the calories and unhealthy eating, and little exercise. I just don't know why I'm just prone to being overweight. But regardless, I'm just so ready to get back to my goals.

I hope all of you are doing well. And to those that are keeping up with your goals, I am amazed by you! Everyday. For those of you that are starting, you are my inspiration. I hope that I can just do what I need to get back on track. And I hope everyone accomplishes their goals!

Cheers!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 03 May 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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how do I lose weight as a short female?

Stats: 4’11”, Female, 15 Years, 150lbs

I would like to weigh about 115lbs. I’ve heard that this is around the healthy weight for girls my age/height.

I’ve been working out and watching what I eat for a little more than 3 weeks now. My weight hasn’t moved. In fact I think I gained a pound. I workout about 4-5 days a week switching between moderate and light exercise. I would try and eat about 1200-1500 calories a day. I have cut back on a lot of carbs, sugar, and dairy. I’ve been trying to drink more water and consume more foods high in protein and nutrients. Yesterday I started HIIT workouts and the 16:8 intermittent fasting. I want to try and stick to 3 meals around 1200 cals during my food window now. I’ve seen others drop about 1-2 pounds a week. I’d love to drop at least 1 a week but I’m not sure if this is realistic with my height and diet/exercise plan.

Are there any short girls out here struggling with the same thing? It’s so difficult and frustrating trying to drop the weight at this height. I’d appreciate any input anyone has that would be of some use to me. I’ll take any suggestions or feedback on my diet/exercise that will help speed my weight loss up. I’m getting pretty desperate at this point lol.

edit: I am also done growing for the most part. I started my cycle at 9 and usually girls stop growing two years after. It’s very unlikely I’ll grow anymore so I wouldn’t really worry about stunting my growth.

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How do you make yourself "care" about weight loss when you're very busy and have little energy left to give?

I hope this doesn't sound too silly, but I'm on my second weight loss journey and have been encountering much more difficulty this time around.

When I first lost weight I was 17 and had nothing else to do. I'd finished highschool, didn't have a job, and nobody around to bother me. I found weight loss to be easy and I suspect that is partially because I could put all of my energy towards that. I maintained for years with no difficulty either.

Now I am 25, but I developed a metabolic disorder when I was pregnant with my kid. It wasn't diagnosed for 4 years, and the change to my BMR, pregnancy, and the sheer exhaustion of life with that untreated illness contributed to a 40lb gain. Now I find myself a busy adult with a full time job, a child, and a household to manage and I've been struggling to maintain any ability to produce the discipline required for calorie counting. I tried intuitively eating for a month and ensuring the majority of my food choices were healthy, such as salads/tofu and greens/smoothies/etc, but that did not produce any weight loss. I struggle during the day, especially around shared meals, as food is cooked for the whole family and not always by me. It's as if I have no willpower left over for something I know I need.

So, in short, how do you stay disciplined during the day when you're so busy? I feel like I've just been fumbling at the start of this and never picking up steam. Any advice is welcome!

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I lost 180 pounds in 2.5 years!

https://imgur.com/a/RRexxoU

(I am not my starting weight in the picture as I was terrified of pictures before, so I am ~280 in the first picture)

2.5 years ago I started my weight loss. I was 320 pounds. I currently weigh 140. I remember at the time I thought I would be content with just getting out of the obese category because I thought I wouldn't have the discipline to do this for more than a few months. Turns out weight loss is actually shockingly easy. I ended up choosing to make it to the (very high end) normal weight bmi category. I owe most of my success to intermittent fasting and omad. I eat during the evening in a four hour timeframe. I was also very adamant about never eating over maintenance on any day, ever. I logged all my calories in myfitnesspal and let the app calculate my calorie limit for me. I never limited what kind of foods I ate.

My ADHD diagnosis also played a huge role in my success. Before medication, I was basically nonfunctional. I do not think I could have been successful if I was not medicated. Even something as simple as brushing my teeth used to be a daily struggle before medication.

I never incorporated exercise into my routine because ever since I got covid a little over a year ago I've had fainting spells whenever I get too warm or tired. Physically, I can't say I feel much better than I did before I lost the weight. I did eventually stop snoring and no longer have sleep apnea, so I am free of the cpap demon forever. That's probably the best physical aspect of the weight loss for me. I do have a decent amount of loose skin, mainly on my stomach and thighs. I can't wear shorts or short skirts anymore because of the sagging, which is a bummer. But I'll take being covered and thin over being exposed and fat any day.

I don't post a lot here but lurking around this community helped me a ton. On the periods where I wasn't doing so good on my diet I noticed myself consciously avoiding looking at posts here.

I'm still trying to lose a bit more weight, ten or twenty pounds I think, but it's a lot harder now! Being short and lazy means you have a depressing number of calories to work with. So it's slow going now. But I'm really grateful to this subreddit for helping me stick to my goals.

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