Wednesday, November 28, 2018

Let That Shit Go

So I have done a lot of self reflection this past month. One of the reasons I was struggling so hard with losing the weight in the beginning of my journey was because I refused to let go of my past. I had failed countless times so what made this time different?

IN SCHOOL

Remember in school when you were given a sheet of study material, you were told to study it and that translated into memorizing and repeating it until you could recite it in your sleep? Then you would ace the exam because you memorized everything.

DON'T REPEAT THAT SHIT

You have become accustomed to memorizing a story about yourself and reciting it so much you could say it in your sleep again. It has nothing to do with who you are as a person.

You tell yourself stories every single day. You use "I am" statements to define who you are. How many times a day do you use "I am" statements and add something to the end like - fat, ugly, stupid, pathetic, useless, hopeless, powerless, stuck, annoyed, sad, depressed. You perpetuate these stories by constantly repeating them.

CHANGE THE STORY

Maybe your lack of motivation to change your life isn't a physical thing. There is a reason your weight loss or health journey keeps coming back to your mind. Maybe you lack the motivation to make the change because you have bombarded yourself with a story on how you can't do it anyway. Don't stand in your own way. Let go of what happened in the past. You are trying again for a reason. Don't let past failures convince you that you can't change.

I hope you use this as a sign to get back up if you have fallen. We all fall and we all have the ability to get back up. Just try one more time. Maybe this is the time that'll stick. Get out of your own way and don't hold yourself back. Let go of the other 30 times that you failed. Maybe for you the 31st time is a charm.

Much love to you. I wish you the best.

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Picking it up after putting it down, and also my diet needs help

Hi, I'm Allie! 24F, 5'3". I was 165 lbs at my heaviest, and today I am 132 lbs at my lowest (since 2013).

Okay so, I've been doing this "weight loss" (lifestyle change) thing since January of this year and I've lost a little over 30 lbs. Well, actually, the first 25 fell off in 4 months and I've had a "plateau" since then- but I keep chalking it back up to maintenance. Because I definitely ate a lot and can't call that a failure by the process lol. I'm at a point now where I'm back to restricting calories and doing cardio to drop quick weight. My goal is to get down to 115 then bulk/cut to 125 lbs. I think. As of right now, anyway. But another 15 lbs seems like it's very attainable.

All of this is great and I'm on a good track again for my goals but I'm having issues w/ one area- eating. I have zero system to maintain nutrition and the last 10 months of my weight loss have been so focused around calories that I don't get hungry all morning. I'll eat a Clif bar at noon, and then use my last 1000 calories for snacks later at home. Sometimes my appetite is so lost that I won't eat until 6PM. I know it's basically intermittent fasting, but I think I need some kind of idea for nutritional snacks/dinner. How do you get everything you need when you're really eating only once or twice a day??

I'm happy w/ my lifestyle now. Gym 3-5x a week, not eating garbage, watching how much I eat... It makes sense in my head! I just have to figure out how to do it while now considering nutrition.

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Monday was the first day of my weight loss journey

Monday I decided that I was tired of looking in the mirror and being disgusted by what I saw. I’m a 6’1” male with a SW of 295lbs with a GW of 225lbs. I’m a college student what often resorts to overeating when stress begins to pile up. I used the TDEE calculator in the compendium and subtracted 500 calories so I’d theoretically be losing a pound a week and am trying to keep to a diet within the parameters calculated for me. I’m new to reddit and the sub and am extremely inspired by everyone’s posts and accomplishments. Hopefully I can continue to post about my journey and share advice and motivation with others. Let’s get after it!

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How do you find motivation?

I've learned, that for myself, motivation is my key to weight loss. We had problems getting pregnant, and when I went to a new fertility doctor when trying for our second baby he told me I have PCOS and that I needed to lose weight to get pregnant again. I really wanted another baby, so that really motivated me. I lost around 25 lbs in 4 months, and after I got pregnant I made sure to only gain the recommended amount of weight, and they were treating me like I had gestational diabetes because of the PCOS, so my carbs were under control. After I had my baby, and the swelling went down I was at the lowest weight had been in my adult life (only 12lbs overweight). Breastfeeding helped to keep the weight off, but now that I'm done nursing, the weight is creeping back on.

I know I need to keep my weight under control. I'm at risk for type 2 diabetes (from the PCOS and my dad having it), I have multiple sclerosis (it hasn't affected my mobility yet), my LDL cholesterol is slightly high, and I just generally need to be healthy for myself and my kids. This doesn't seem to be motivating enough for me. I still binge eat, especially when I'm hungry. With 2 kids under 5, and finishing up grad school, I'm having difficulty finding the time to exercise. I know these are all excuses. We're done having kids, so that can't motivate me anymore. Any tips on finding my motivation?

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How can i lose weight without aggravating my eating disorder?

SW: 360 lbs CW: 340 lbs GW: idk human sized Stats: 23F, 5’5”

Hello my life is a mess, but i am trying to find small things that i can do that don’t aggravate a panic attack, an eating disorder binge or purge, or.. well, you know :)

Quick backstory: My relationship with food is pretty abusive, i would say. I’ve progressed enough in therapy to find that i use food as a weapon, a self pubishment, and comfort. I rarely eat because I’m actually hungry, because the cocktail of medication I use actually removes my sense of appetite till late at night.

(TW)Growing up, I didn’t really get to learn how a regular person eats. My therapist believes my mom had some kind of feeder thing, because every man she ever shacked up with gained 100+ lbs during their relationship. And when she was single, it was me. I wasn’t allowed to “diet” because food is so great, and she would hide the salads and stuff I’d try to buy growing up so that they would rot before i could eat them. She also forbade me from going outside and stuff, but long story short by the time i was 18 and leaving for college, i was 5’5”, 260 lbs.

Current: I am now 23. I tried learning how a person eats in college, but i was supporting myself through it and i was living on around $400-600/mo. So i used food as a luxury,reward,comfort and punishment system, again, but obviously that hasn’t help me.

I crept up to 360 at some point in the last couple of years. When things were good and i had a great care team and support group, I committed to losing weight. Calorie counting, all that. I dropped a steady 20 lbs, but after a certain point the calorie counting started to give me nightmares, and then i stopped eating enough to the point to where i could see the calorie input go down and i had more control over it. My therapist and then-bf ended up suggesting i delete it, and my PCP diagnosed me with aggressive PCOS, which explained the insulin and weight loss issues i was experiencing.

Now everything is bad. I have a new therapist, but we’re tackling bigger fish. But i notice how out of control my eating is. Sure, I stopped drinking soda, and stopped eating out everyday. But i also buy candy at least every other day. My job has non stop free hot chocolate, of which i get 3x a day. I don’t even fucking taste the food that i binge!

Anyways.. while my care team is trying to figure out what to do with me, I’m looking for small things i can do without calorie counting using an app. The last two times i tried calorie counting, i was almost pink slipped :) so my brain is a catastrophe.

So far here’s my ideas:

  • hot chocolates at work > tea w/ honey. I’m just cold when i get it, tbh.
  • at home binging > i like eating a lot of something. So far as far as snacks to stock, I’m thinking carrots? I also liked those veggie straw crisp things
  • meal replacements? My biggest problem is when i come home at the end of the day. I’m honestly considering trying that soylent stuff, because when i see slimfast i get nightmares.

Thanks for reading, and sorry

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How to restart the weight loss? New Mom edition..

Hey Folks!

I posted this about a year and a half ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/6qo2xy/a_love_letter_to_rloseit_and_my_95_lb_loss/

I had lost 95 lbs in order to be a candidate for IVF. AND I DID IT! I gained some weight through the IVF process, gained some weight while carrying the baby, then had a beautiful baby girl in June of this year. I'm really proud of myself but now I'm back to some of the old habits. I've gained back a good 20lbs since she was born. I had to take some of those "fat clothes" back out of the closet and boy was that a punch to the gut.

I know what it takes to "loseit" again (CICO) but I'm really struggling with the logistics and was hoping some of you guys can help me get back on the right track. A couple of questions:

- I find it SO HARD to stick to calorie restrictions while nursing and sleep deprived (little kiddo is adorable but fights sleep like it's the enemy). Any suggestions on how to deal with little sleep and a deficit? I'm also paranoid about losing my milk supply under calorie restrictions (or this is the excuse I give myself to over-eat) any guidance?

- I was super successful with IF in the past. Does anyone know if this is safe or an OK idea while nursing?

Thanks all for being such a great community. My goal is to get back here a lot more frequently now that I'm "back on the wagon".

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Fight the Flu: 6 Foods For a Stronger Immune System

Excitement is in the air for pumpkin spice lattes, knee-high boots and autumn leaves. Fall is here. But so is cold and flu season.

We’ve all heard recommendations from the Center of Disease Control (CDC): Wash your hands, don’t share food or drink, and don’t touch your face.

But did you know that what you put on your plate matters, too? That’s right: When it comes to cold and flu season, food really can be your secret weapon.

The Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics recommends the following nutrients for immune boosting benefits: Protein, vitamin A, vitamin C, vitamin E and zinc. Including adequate amounts of healthy fats and protein may also aid in cold prevention.

To make navigating immune-boosting nutrition easy, we’ve listed six foods to stock up on this winter to ensure you get important cold fighting nutrients:

1. Eggs
Eggs are nutritional powerhouses that are easy to incorporate into your daily routine. They’re chock full of protein, and protein is critical to the formation of bacteria and virus fighting antibodies, says Wesley Delbridge, R.D., a spokesperson for the Academy of Nutrition & Dietetics.

And it doesn’t stop there. Eggs are one of the few food sources of vitamin D. Research has shown that vitamin D benefits your immune system, muscle function, heart health, brain development and mood.

Hard boil a dozen eggs on Sunday. Pop them in your bag for a quick mid-morning snack, or slice atop your afternoon salad. One large egg counts as one PowerFuel for those following the Nutrisystem program.

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2. Citrus Fruits
Citrus fruits contain one of most well-known antioxidants, vitamin C. Vitamin C protects you from infection by increasing antibodies and boosting immunity. Studies have not confirmed that vitamin C will prevent colds, but recent research suggests the use of vitamin C may shorten the duration and severity.

Consume whole versions of citrus fruit to limit added sugar (think oranges instead of orange juice). The whole fruit contains loads of fiber that will keep you feeling fuller longer.

The options are colorful and fruitful. Two medium kiwi or mandarin oranges, one medium orange or one cup of papaya or pineapple are wonderful options for those on the Nutrisystem program. Each counts as one SmartCarb; dense in nutrients with a low to medium score on the Glycemic Index.

3. Yogurt
Listen to your gut. It may hold the key to avoiding sniffles and fevers as the snow comes rolling in. Your gut contains both good and bad bacteria, and is responsible for more than just digestion. It accounts for 50 percent of the body’s immune response. The good bacteria boosts immunity and decreases cold duration, keeping you healthier and in fighting shape if that cold does come knocking on your door.

Choosing yogurt with live and active cultures will boost gut health with its powerful probiotics. Greek yogurt works well too and adds some additional protein keeping you fuller, longer. Choose plain yogurt and add fresh fruit to limit added sugars. One cup of nonfat yogurt counts as one Powerfuel on the Nutrisystem program.

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4. Sunflower seeds
Sunflower seeds may be small but they are mighty. They pack a double punch with vitamin E and zinc. Vitamin E fights those filthy free radicals roaming around your body that will weaken your immune system leaving you more susceptible to colds and flu.

Zinc is rarely mentioned, but very important to your health. Zinc has the ability to function as an antioxidant and also prevents free radicals from injuring cells. In 2013, researchers found that zinc prevents the immune system from excess inflammation. This gives us some insight as to why zinc lessens the severity and duration of our colds.

Zinc is often found in over-the-counter lozenges, but its best to consume zinc in its food form. Too much zinc can have adverse health effects so don’t overdo it. Rosanne Rust, MS, RDN, LDN of Rust Nutrition recommends adding sunflower seeds to salads or rice dishes for both a zinc and vitamin E boost.

5. Sweet Potatoes
The delicious orange potato has gained popularity over the years. Sweet potato mash, fries, chips and noodles are appearing in recipes and on restaurant menus.

This is good news for cold and flu season since these little sweeties are chock full of vitamin A, a fat soluble vitamin that helps fight off infection. One medium sweet potato provides more than the daily recommendation for vitamin A.

It’s no surprise that most germs invade your body through your eyes, nose, and throat. Vitamin A helps keep these mucus membranes open and healthy, aiding in the fight against cold season. As most vitamins are multifunctional, vitamin A not only prevents germs from entering your body but increases your body’s immune response if they do.

A half cup serving counts as one SmartCarb on the Nutrisystem program.

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6. Tea
As far back as 2003, studies have confirmed tea’s immune-boosting effects. Researchers believe tea can fight against infection by priming the immune system for potential attacks.

A study published in 2011 by BMC Complimentary & Alternative medicine suggested green tea prevented healthcare workers from contracting the flu. The magic ingredient? Catechins, antioxidants found in green tea. As an extra bonus, catechins have been proven to fight prostate, colorectal and breast cancers.

Chamomile tea has been deemed an immune-boosting herbal tea. The Journal of Agriculture Food Chemistry published a study in 2005 suggesting that chamomile tea boosted antibacterial activity when participants consumed five cups a day.

Unsweetened is a free food for those on the Nutrisystem program. Add some flavor with squeezed lemon, peaches, mint or ginger for a warm treat. Sensitive to caffeine? Herbal teas are naturally caffeine free.

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