Tuesday, February 12, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 12 February 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Putting the amount I've lost into perspective - [SV] (ish)

So I managed to lose about 20lb four years ago, but have since gained it back plus more, and haven't managed to make any other weight loss attempts stick until this time. I started at the beginning of January and am officially 4.7kg / 10.3lb down!

Now, I know that isn't a huge amount in the grand scheme of things - I still have about 25kg / 55lb more that I want to lose. But I was doing some dumbbell exercises the other day and I couldn't figure out the weight of one of them (I knew how much the plates weighed but not the little bar in the middle), so I decided I would just go stand on a scale holding it and not holding it, and subtract.

Guys, when I stood on that scale holding the dumbbell and it told me basically my original weight from the start of January, I was shocked! Turns out the dumbbell is 5kg which is only a tiny bit more than I've lost, and it's surprisingly heavy! It's so weird and such an interesting way to put into perspective how much difference 5kg actually makes. I'm imagining that I've been carrying around a backpack with one of these dumbbells in it for months, and I've just been able to take it off.

Will definitely continue to use the weights I have as comparisons to how much I've lost!

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Monday, February 11, 2019

The Cognitive Dissonance of telling myself “I’ll wait until the weight is off before doing other things.”

Hello everybody. I’m mostly making this post as a note to myself, but I figure if it can help somebody else on their journey that would be cool.

I am down 34 pounds. I feel better. At the beginning of this whole thing I was a complete mess. 24 year old man with nothing going on. Didn’t take care of myself. Didn’t treat people well, and when I did it was at the expense of myself and my own feelings. A sudden epiphany, triggered by God knows what, occurred within me. I was wasting my life. I thought back to when I was 18 and 6 years had passed. 6 more and I’ll be 30. The clock is ticking. I started my weight loss battle that day. Much to my surprise, the eating has been the easiest part. I don’t really have a choice in that matter, that’s something I can’t and won’t fail. The struggle comes more on the mental and emotional side of the coin. I am impatient. I want results now. Except when it comes to improving other areas of my life. For some reason I’m pretty lax there. I refuse to be anymore.

“I’ll get a job when I can physically do it consistently.” “I can’t get my drivers license yet because I can’t pay for gas and insurance if I don’t have a job.” These were excuses I told myself, inconsistencies in my thought process that would have been perfectly at home in the brain of the old me. Waiting for the weight to come off is totally fine, just not for myself.I can’t wait. The early stages of weight loss have reignited my passions. I need to do more. This post serves also as a memo of accountability. I WILL have my liscence by Easter. I WILL have a job lined up in the same time frame. I have been getting better at self-love, and by proxy of that self-love, I will not allow myself to fall short.

We all have to deal with how we go about this process. For the first time in a long time, I’m putting myself in control.

Edit: I wrote this on my IPhone, and the autocorrect feature on this thing is out of control. Sorry for any errors due to that.

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Science tip: Your body freaks out when you think you have to 'lose' weight.

I swung between dieting, starving myself and then swinging the other way to full-blown overeating / bingeing for a longg time, before finally breaking free. Overeating would be anything for me, from all-day grazing to restricting calories massively and then later reacting with out-of-control binges. Sometimes my weight would look normal when on the inside I was suffering, sometimes I'd start getting a bit skinny and sometimes a bit on the fat side. Whatever weight however, I never felt in control. Even though from the outside I probably looked ok. There was always a battle happening inside my head. I know so many people dealing with weight issues also experience this inner disharmony between their conscious desire (to be slim, healthy weight) and the way their subconscious makes them act (struggle to be slim)

One thing that always got me was why on Earth do my diets keep leading back to overeating, and why did I use to be free of the cycle completely when I was a kid? How come some people have no issues with food at all and others suffer so much?

YOUR USE OF LANGUAGE IMPACTS RESULTS: PSYCHOLOGY OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND

Basically I became a practitioner of a specialist form of hypnotherapy, which enabled me to understand how the mind works more and then create a model that broke myself out and is now breaking many clients, even ones with pretty hardcore eating disorders ie. bulimia. I want to share one of the secrets I use with everyone because I know that just talking about it - beyond what I do in my practice - really helps people to understand their own behaviour a little better and how their use of language and mental programming affects outcomes.

We are more averse to loss than we are attracted to gains. If you're familiar with Daniel Kahnemann, then you'll know what I'm talking about. What I mean by this, is that humans fear loss and will do anything to prevent themselves from losing something. We fear it so much, as a general rule, we'd rather stop ourselves from losing something we already have over gaining anything. Just think about the word LOSS for a minute: loss of job, loss of house, family, friend, child, money, car, football game, possessions... loss completely sucks. There is only ONE example where the word 'loss' is used in a regular context in society (though if anybody here can come up with some other positive examples of loss, do tell!) and is meant to correlate positively .. with weight. " Weight Loss " :(

The subconscious mind (which runs at least 95% of your thoughts, actions, behaviours) is binary and can only process a concept as either positive (making it want you to move towards it, to gain) or negative (making you want to do anything you can to get away, avoid is). When you tell your self you need to LOSE weight, your mind starts freaking out. It cannot differentiate between one example of 'loss' being positive and one being negative. Through the course of growing up in childhood, most people's subconscious will have built an overall view that 'loss' is a very bad thing. This stacks your subconscious programming to have strong foundations to reason that it must avoid loss at all costs.

Bottom Line - when you use the word loss, your mind struggles to accept your desire - to lose weight - as a positive thing and does what it can to prevent you from doing it. You could be setting yourself up for more failures, and more struggle, that you can free yourself of simply by changing your language

Tip - reframe your weight goals to something undeniably positive and affirmative ie. "gain a great body" "get rid of excess fat" "release unwanted weight" "free body to be slim and healthy" "be a wonderful, healthy weight". You need to catch yourself out when you I think 'I need to lose weight', intervene with your thoughts, and start rephrasing the way you talk about your quest to drop the pounds!

PHYSIOLOGICAL FREAK OUT DUE TO EVOLUTIONARY WIRING

Throughout the majority of our evolution, millions of years, assuring food has been top of our priority list of things to do to survive each day. In fact if we didn't carry out this above task, the risk of dying of starvation was very real!!! In less than 100 years, it has become so easily accessible for developed countries, that getting food takes pretty little effort by contrast. However this has all happened in less than 0.01% of our evolution..

.. this means when your body - your subconscious mind - believes that it has to 'diet', meaning that food will be scarce and restricted, biological alarm bells start ringing. It thinks that it needs to store more calories and do whatever it can to force you to act upon the stresses and fears of having no food and eat what it can (often anything that is in sight). Even if you manage to control those urges for an amount of time, you enter a battle between your conscious mind's innocent wills and your subconscious mind's stubborn, fear-based reaction. These freaks out spike cortisol, nervousness, anxiety.. ..and if you also battle with emotional eating habits too.. you've just hooked, lined and sunk yourself out of your wonderful 'diet' intentions. Even if emotional eating isn't really you, well.. ..your body is going to go against the grain and try to keep more weight on than you might otherwise naturally drop-off without really 'thinking' so much about it.

Bottom Line - simply rephrase the words you use, the way you talk to yourself, to be more successful in reaching your goals. be aware of your subconscious mental programming and work to change your inner thoughts to align more, and be in greater harmony, with your own primal inclinations!

Hope this strikes a nerve with a few of y'all and you've gained something from these insights :)

As a practitioner w psychology/medical physiology background who applies this in RTT hypnotherapy all the time with big success and top popularity ratings in my city, feel free to ask me any questions about using your mind more to break out of these self-defeating cycles when it comes to weight. I'll do my best to answer any questions on the topic!

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Bouncing back!

I went out on the weekend. Had some (a lot of) drinks, definitely went over my calorie budget and didn’t go to the gym. In previous years I would get so down on myself that I would essentially give up and just continue to eat poorly.

Today (Monday) I bounced back, logged my calories and worked out and I don’t feel ashamed for having a cheat day.

The most growth I’ve experienced during my weight loss journey is mentally. My will power has increased, I’ve broken emotional eating habits and I’ve learned to not hate myself for indulging every once and a while. I feel not only healthier in my body but my mind!

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False Starts

After almost 3 years of false starts, self hatred, and broken resolutions, I'm finally going to dedicate myself to healthy, sustainable weight loss. I've tried just about everything else, from fad diets to starvation. I'm sick and tired of the anguish that follows each binge-eating session, and I'm ready to leave it all behind. This time, I'm not just shedding fat, I'm shedding all the self-esteem issues and self-deprication that came along with it. Today's finally the day that I will look back on and proudly say that I successfully began not just my weight loss journey, but also my mental betterment. This is it!

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Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!
The rant post is a /u/bladedada production.

Please consider saving your next rant for this weekly thread every Tuesday.

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