Monday, March 11, 2019

I can finally fit into my favourite jeans again!!

I always tend to buy second hand/vintage jeans because they fit my body type better and last a lot longer than jeans I buy from stores nowadays. Last year I bought this pair of jeans vintage from the 80s that used to fit me so well. I got really really upset when I tried them on a couple months ago and I found out that I couldn't even button them up anymore.

Well last night I decided to try them on again, fully expecting them to still not fit at all. I didn't think that I lost any weight and I was prepared to be sad and disappointed and frustrated all over again. But surprisingly they fit me again! I'm so happy and this subreddit has helped me continue to have the motivation to lose weight and get in shape :)

I've been counting calories and working out 4 days a week for about a half a month now and honestly I wasn't expecting results just yet. I just wanted to say thank-you to everyone who shares their NSVs and I wanted to share mine. If anyone is starting their weight loss journey I hope that this gives you a little motivation to stick with it, because even if you think nothing is changing I guarantee you that something has and you just haven't noticed it yet.

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Is your mind fit enough weight loss?

I saw a thread about depression and motivation for weight loss and it made me think about my progress so far.

It is said that exercising has positive effects on mental health, and I won’t deny that since the best high I ever got was after a good exercise. But offering an easy answer for a complicated problem such as depression and other mental illnesses (which may sometimes present themselves simultaneously) isn’t a fix. I was fooled into falling for easy fixes for a decade but on the other hand trying and failing helped me to learn more about myself and which principles apply on my personal weight loss progress.

That’s the most essential thing about weight loss, personalization. Diets and exercise programs are nothing but tools, but the machine to put all that into work is the mind which should first undergo weight loss before anything.

For example; I don’t know how the gym classes are in other countries, but where I come from the gym classes were just humiliating competitions for those who weren’t as good at sports in general. Lucky for me, I was a bit over average and I thrived especially in team sports, so I never disliked exercising. Maybe I just had bad teachers, because only yesterday I learned the proper breathing technique for running or this is just common knowledge which I missed for 30 years.

Imagine being one of these kids who weren’t taught anything relevant so exercising would be more pleasant, getting rather anxious because of all those bad memories and discomfort caused by it. Not to mention if you were a fat kid and got discouraged by assholes who made fun of your attempts to get in better shape.

Now, combine all that with an apathetic feeling, a little voice inside your head telling everything you do is pointless, nothing will bring you happiness and the world would be better off without you. Hitting the bottom where you don’t even bother showering or eating and you’re fatigued constantly even though you’re not exactly doing anything.

How is it exactly going to help having someone telling you to go out and exercise because surely you’ll feel better after that? You might accept the challenge just to prove them wrong. And it’s very likely that you will prove them wrong, because for someone who’s been depressed for a long time, you’d lack the energy and strength to enjoy the exercise, especially if it’s tied to unpleasant memories of it.

I read a book about binge eating couple of years ago and even though I can’t say it helped me with my issue, it did give some food for thought, an insight for the underlying cause of my overeating. I was an emotional eater and it was always a vicious cycle of seeking for comfort through stuffing my face with food which resulted in guilt and shame, which gave a head start for the new round. The book gave me perhaps the best advice yet in order to solve this problem, I had to learn a way to cope with my emotional distress in another way.

After I went through a series of psychological tests, a psychoanalysis and got diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), my psychiatrist recommended Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). I never thought CBT as a solution for emotional eating since I prioritized other issues over that, but after awhile I felt less anxious and right now I don’t remember when was the last time I was as depressed as I was years ago. As a side effect I developed a healthier relationship with food.

So far in a half year I’ve lost over 30 kg and regained mobility to enjoy pushing my limits through exercising. There were no special tricks to it, just sticking with the healthier habits I had hard time keeping up before and not getting discouraged by “slip ups”, in fact I even allow myself giving into cravings around the time I’m PMSing (I discovered this late, that PMS could cause cravings). But most importantly, taking care of my mind through healthier ways of dealing with the rollercoaster that is my emotional life.

Just food for thought, think carefully how you want to encourage someone who deals with complex problems, offering easy answers for them could be just counterproductive.

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Kiss Me, I’m Healthy! 11 St. Patrick’s Day Treats You Don’t Have to Be Irish to Love

Nothing says St. Patrick’s Day like a table full of festive Irish-themed treats. And luckily, you can still indulge in all of the staple sweets and snacks inherent to this Irish holiday without worrying about falling off the weight loss wagon.

Check out these 11 delicious Irish-themed recipes and celebrate St. Patrick’s Day in slim-down style:

1. Pot of Gold St. Patrick’s Day Shake >

shamrock shake

Every St. Patrick’s Day, it begins: The commercials and advertisements for the season’s quintessential minty shake start flooding your TV, radio and social media channels. You know the shake we’re talking about: It’s got fat-packed vanilla soft serve blended with a super sugary syrup and topped with whipped topping. Tasty? Maybe. But it comes at a cost. A medium shake clocks in at calories and a whopping 78 grams of sugar. Not exactly diet-friendly. Skip the fat trap, and opt instead for our deliciously creamy shake that’s got all the minty flavor of the Irish-themed treat without all the calories and sugar. It’s a delicious way to celebrate the season without compromising your weight loss goals. Get the recipe here >

2. Irish “Potato” Pancakes >

Irish Potato Pancakes
This healthier take on a traditional Irish treat is so unbelievably tasty, you’re going to want to make it all year-long. The pancake batter consists of clean, whole ingredients like cottage cheese, eggs, oats, vanilla extract, cinnamon and baking powder, and the drool-worthy cream cheese drizzle is a creamy combination of Neufchatel cheese, Greek yogurt, skim milk and stevia extract. And, as if these flavorful combinations aren’t enough to satisfy your pancake itch, you’ll top your Irish “Potato” Pancakes with sweet shredded coconut. Seriously… yum.

3. Pot O’ Gold Fruit Tray >

Pot O' Gold
This festive, Irish-themed treat isn’t just completely adorable, it’s totally healthy, too! Featuring a colorful combo of strawberries, cantaloupe, pineapple, kiwi, blueberries and grapes, this flavorful favorite is made even sweeter thanks to the creamy fruit dip “cloud” comprised of Greek yogurt and light whipped topping. And, not to be forgotten, potassium-packed banana “coins” complete this beautiful fruit tray that makes a great dish to bring to parties and get-togethers this time of year (or any!).

4. Irish Soda Bread >
Irish Soda Bread

Thought carbs were a no-no when you’re trying to lose weight and eat healthy? Think again! Made with whole wheat flour, unsweetened vanilla almond milk and a few other easy ingredients you probably already have in your pantry, this soft and hearty Irish bread is so delicious, you’ll forget it’s also diet-friendly. Our favorite part? Biting into the soft and juicy raisins that pepper this carb-lovers’ favorite.

5. Irish Flag Fruit & Yogurt Parfait >

fruit and yogurt parfait

Pay homage to the Irish flag with this adorable little treat that’s packed with flavor thanks to sweet kiwis and mandarin oranges, plus plain Greek yogurt. This portable pick doesn’t just dish out a ton of tastiness and visual appeal, it’s also loaded with body-boosting nutrients like protein, fiber and vitamin C.

6. Skinny Irish Colcannon >
colcannon with kale

A staple Irish dish traditionally made by combining mashed potatoes and kale (or cabbage), with milk or cream, butter, salt and pepper, Colcannon isn’t exactly diet-friendly. But it’s so tasty and such a classic, that it wouldn’t be St. Patrick’s Day without it. So we concocted this skinny version, which replaces the potatoes with cauliflower (trust us, you won’t even notice!), and subs in fat-free milk for the full fat versions. It’s creamy, delicious and totally guilt-free!

7. Corned Beef & Cabbage Soup >
comfort food

This classic dish screams Irish comfort food. But unlike more conventional versions, which tend to be loaded with fat and calories, this version goes a little lighter by loading up the veggies and including super lean beef. Warm, hearty and full of flavor, it’s no wonder this delicious Irish staple is a favorite at St. Patrick’s Day celebrations.

8. Irish Potatoes >
Irish potatoes

One bite of these tasty treats and you’ll wonder why Irish Potatoes are only reserved for St. Patrick’s Day celebrations. Made with creamy Neufchatel cheese, Greek yogurt, coconut oil, liquid Stevia, shredded coconut, vanilla extract and cinnamon, these guilt-free gems are bursting with the classic flavors you expect from Irish Potatoes, but spare you the sugar, fat and calories that come with conventional options. Word to the wise: Whip up a big batch―the family is definitely going to want in on the delicious action.

9. Shamrockin’ Tea Sandwiches >
tea sandwiches

Trust us: These Irish Tea Sandwiches are going to sham-rock your world! Loaded with healthy ingredients and jam-packed with fabulous flavor, these adorable treats will have your taste buds dancing (an Irish jig!). Whip up a batch to share with the family this St. Patrick’s Day, but be sure to set a few aside for yourself since these delightful sandwiches will fly off the plate.

10. Skinny Mint Chocolate Brownie Bites >
skinny mint

The classic combo of chocolate and mint comes together in this mouthwatering snack that dishes out all the texture and flavor you expect from your sweet treats, without the excess calories, fat and sugar. The recipe makes 24 melt-in-your-mouth servings, which means you’ll have enough to share, But we promise not to tell if you opt to hide these in the back of your fridge so you can have them all to yourself… they’re just that tasty!

11. Spinach Dip With Shamrock Tortilla Chips >

Shamrock Chips with Spinach Dip

Enjoy  chips and dip on a healthy diet by making a few simple ingredient swaps that will leave this flex snack crispy, creamy and bursting with flavor. Spinach Dip With Shamrock Tortilla Chips gets a little help from spinach wraps to keep this snack as festive as possible! Your creativity can be tested in the kitchen (or you can just use a cookie cutter!) by shaping several shamrocks to create the tortilla chips. Bursts of flavor from garlic and dill give this creamy spinach dip the kick it needs. Enjoy this Nutrisystem-approved snack as you Irish dance your way to weight loss!

Did you tune in to our Facebook Live Saint Paddy’s Day Special? Here are the official rules for our Pot of Gold Giveaway >

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Small things can lead to big changes.

tldr: After years of abusing food and avoiding scales, I had to go to the doctor to clear up skin issue (perioral dermatitis). It led me on a weight loss journey and I have lost 50lbs in total, but I still feel the same from a mental perspective. My body has changed, but only I can tell. Feeling discouraged, but I will continue. I was feeling hungry... So, I wrote a novel to distract me until it's time to eat.

In June of 2018, I started developing weird bumps around my mouth. I did what any normal person would do, I started to Google. I found numerous diseases these bumps could have been, but I tried to treat them myself with over the counter creams. I dealt with this for 6 months. It was greatly affecting my life. I was so self conscious about them and would ice them and put cream, but nothing would help. Well, why didn't I just go to the doctor? Good question. I dreaded the weigh in. I didn't have a doctor. I had never been to the doctor in my adult life. The last time I went to a doctor was in 2002 at the age of 14 for a sports physical. I weight 339lbs. I didn't want to know what I weighed at 30. I knew it wasn't going to be good.

I finally had enough of these bumps. I found a doctor and made an appointment. I asked for a new patient physical and a complete blood work to see where I stood at the age of 30. I worried about the weigh in and what the doctor would tell me. I had no idea what I weighed and how bad my health would be once the blood work had came back. I feared diabetes because a lot of people in my family have it. The last time I stepped on a scale was in 2007. I was working at a tomato processing plant and they had an industrial scale to weight bins. I stepped on it and I was 415lbs. So, I knew I was over 400lbs. I thought I might be pushing 500lbs.

Well, the day comes and I have to step on the scale. I stand there feeling very vulnerable. I see the numbers finally stabilize... I was 424lbs. A sigh of relief came over me. I was happy I had only gained 9lbs in 11 years. I go though with the physical and then head out to get some food. On the way home I was thinking that I need to lose weight. I wasn't happy with my body and only gaining 9lbs in 11 years wasn't a good thing when you weigh over 400lbs. My weight has been holding me back. It took me a couple of weeks of procrastinating, but once my cousins decided they were going to work out and get into shape, I joined in. This was a big step for me. I had never show interest in losing weight to other people. My weight had been an elephant in the room we all ignored. Especially me. Fast forward two weeks and I had to go back for lab results. I weighed in at 408lbs. I had lost 16lbs. I was ecstatic. Walking 3 miles a day and cutting back on food was working. On top of that my labs came back in good standing. I only needed to take supplements to up my Vitamin D and good cholesterol intake. The only negative when it came to my health was my blood pressure (this was known during my physical), but that could easily be fixed by continuing what I had been doing for the three weeks previously.

Eventually, my cousins lost interest and I just focused on my diet. I dropped exercising and tried Keto. I did that for a month and I felt skinnier, but didn't have a way to weigh myself. In March I gave up. I just ate whatever and how much ever I wanted. I reverted back to my old ways. I felt defeated. March to July was a rough time. Eating helped me cope. In July I started a new job. It was seasonal and I wanted to save money to buy exercise equipment so I could work out at home. In October I was laid off. I was able to buy a stationary bike and scale with what money I didn't have to spend on bills. My plan was to work out at home and continue the success I had in January and February. I weighed myself and I was 408lbs. It was a good boost to help me get going. I didn't feel like I undid anything. I had only put it on hold. In a month I was down to 390.

Thanksgiving threw me off for a good month and a half, but in January I decided it was time to get back to it. I went up to 394lbs. Since January 14th, I have only missed 3 workouts (I workout M-F) and log my food everyday. I am down to 370lbs. My body feels different. I can feel my muscles in my arms and legs. My legs are thinner. My fat rolls around my midsection are getting tighter. My clothes fit much better and some much bigger. It's encouraging.

I feel good, but I do get discouraged when the scale is barely moving (lately). Although I notice the changes in my body, nobody else can and this also make me feel discouraged.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 11 March 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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People discouraging you and calling it body positivity.

Is anybody else experiencing this?

I'm finding that people, especially people who are also overweight, will start talking over me when I'm talking about my weight loss with things that are seemingly positive but are actually trying to discourage me from losing weight or calorie counting.

The other day at work I was trying to figure out if I had burnt enough to eat something and my coworker started by saying 'oh just have it' and then when I said that I needed to work out if I could fit if into my calorie goal she started talking about how 'a beach body is a body you take to the beach'.

I am so self conscious about my weight that I didn't wear a swimsuit once last summer because I was so uncomfortable. It was probably the nicest summer I've ever seen. I just want to be happy with my body but so often people tell me to 'love myself' 'listen to my body' 'eat it if you want to' 'wear whatever you like' 'it's okay to be fat' and so on. Often these comments come from self proclaimed body positive overweight people. I don't understand why people make these comments that obviously could derail my journey towards health, and not being overweight!

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Sunday, March 10, 2019

Now, let me tell you about my mom.

My mum has been struggling with weight all her life. She has been obese for many decades now.

She has an unhealthy relationship with food, like most of us here. I picked up a lot of food habits and associations from her.

She had let herself go in terms of hoping for a better body. Her sugar and blood pressure tests were never high and she used that to say to herself she was healthy.

She had terrible sleep patterns, joint pain, migranes and stamina.

Suddenly, she started playing a sport she liked and noticed some changes in her well being. She channeled her obsessive personality into the exercise. Obscene amounts of exercise everday slowly started the ball rolling.

From 202lb, the pounds SLOWLY started coming off

By then, I had reached my break point(for the second time in my life) and decided If my mum is working so hard , I should too.

I started my weight loss journey for the second time, I followed CICO and lost 37lbs.

Along the way, I learned a lot of easy "hacks".

When my mum asked me for advice. I sincerely gave it to her (I just brush off people with vague things like-exercising more now).

I made her a calorie chart of everything we cook at home.

I helped her with portion sizes.

I buy different protein powders for her.

When she is being harmful to her progress, I gently point it out(eg: It has been so long since I ate X!! But she would have eaten A,B,C recently, so I remind her that maybe X can wait a bit.)

I encourage her to put minimal oil in her cooking as the taste is probably not worth the days to work it off.

I go shopping with her for new clothes.

I tailor her clothes so they fit better on her body.

We celebrate every time she has a SV or a NSV.

I point out often about how she looks a lot healthier and happier now.

She is so much more active ans sleeps better now.

My mum has lost 31 lb ans is frikking 171 lb now with her exercise and eating out less.

I am so fucking proud of her.

I am so happy when she is excited about something she had given up on.

I am so happy when she is happily and excitedly working towards her goal.

To all of you trying to lose weight, and to those of you who have lost weight, I am rooting for you. Keep at it, do it healthily and mindfully, don't give up. :)

<3

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