Friday, July 5, 2019

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 05 July 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Never ever ever stop feeling hungry

A variant of this probably gets asked a lot but I haven't found any advice that's worked and I'm getting really desperate. I've been trying to lose weight for 5 or 6 years now, and I keep losing about 10 lbs, maybe 15, and then eventually just totally losing any willpower/discipline/motivation and gain it all back pretty quickly. The core of the problem is that, regardless of how much I eat, unless I eat like 3000 calories, I just feel really fucking hungry. I can just power through at first, but after months of constant hunger every day that never lets up at all, I just can't take it.

I've been doing keto for about 4 months now, because I heard that it helped a lot of people with hunger, but it hasn't done anything for me. I'm currently eating 1500 calories a day, <20 g carbs, >100 g protein, and am careful to meet vitamin and electrolyte levels. (For reference I'm 20, male, 6', 195 lbs.) Even after months of keto I'm still just miserable and tired all the time. And it's not the size of the deficit; I've tried eating maintenance with keto for several weeks and I'm still painfully hungry. I've talked to my doctor about this and he basically just shrugged and scratched his head and said he couldn't figure it out (after he did some bloodwork).

Does anyone have any advice? I don't think I have any chance of significant weight loss until I get this figured out, but I'm getting very desperate--my weight and my unhappiness with it is damaging just about every part of my life, and the idea of not being able to be happy with how I look in the near future is destroying my motivation for everything. Thanks!

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People are complimenting a part of my body I used to hate

As of this morning I have lost over 6 stone from when I started my weight loss journey 7ish years ago. Had a wobble here and there after having kids but I have been able to maintain fairly well.

One of the side affects from the weight loss was bingo wings and stretch marks at the top of my arms. This meant I never wore vests or really short sleeved T-shirt’s. I hated my arms. When I joked around with my friends about what plastic surgery we would get if we could, without hesitation I always said my arms.

Over the past 4 months I have started to do weights and working on building a bit of muscle. This has resulted in definition in my arms and shoulders. I have started to get people commenting on my arms and that they are looking really good. This has really boosted my confidence and I am now wearing vests and short sleeves without thinking about it.

What really amazed me was for the first time a few weeks ago I actually looked at my arms in the mirror and was happy with what I saw. My bingo wings haven’t completely disappeared and I still have stretch marks but I am just bloody proud of how much I have achieved.

I just wanted to share my proud moment with you all. I don’t post very often but I am always reading other people’s stories and it gives me the push to keep going!

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Thursday, July 4, 2019

Sharing my story and coming clean about my weight to strangers on the internet, because that's about all I can handle right now.

No one but my doctor and I know my actual weight. I haven't told my mom, or my brother, or my live-in girlfriend. I'm too afraid to. I don't know why I am, because i know they love me no matter what. I guess it's because I feel like i would be letting them down, especially my mom - who has had complications with diabetes for the last few years and would probably breakdown and cry knowing I weighed as much as I do. I want to be honest with them, but it's so difficult. I've been lurking on this subreddit for a while and decided maybe this is a good place to start. I've seen so many honest posts and supportive comments that I think maybe i can handle it here.

I'm 6'7'', 475 pounds.

There, I said it.

I have been fat my entire life. And like a lot of you, I was bullied for it. But when i read your stories I realize how priveleged I am in my adult life, because I'm the "big guy," not the "fat guy."

There's a cheat that comes with losing weight if you're male, tall, and athletic. You just kind of start playing sports and start lifting weights and everyone just leaves you alone. I can't ever say, at least in my adult life, that I've ever had people ridicule me for exercising in public. I can't even tell you the last time anyone ever concerned trolled me, or even brought up my weight in a public setting.

But, thinking about it late tonight, I realized that the reason I got this fat was because of that privelege; I can so easily deny what I know is a major health problem that I need to fix as I move into my late 30s. Allow me to explain: about a month ago, once summer break rolled around (I'm a teacher), I decided I was going to seriously hit the gym after 3 years of stress eating and not exercising. Despite 3 years of little physical activity, I can still bench press 385 and squat and deadlift well over 500. From a functional strength standpoint, given my weight, that means I'm severely out of shape. But that still make me the strongest guy at my gym by a hefty (no pun intended) margin. It also means I have a general amount of flexibility and range of motion that I know most other people at my weight do not have.

Sitting here now, I realize that this ability has left me with plenty of excuses.

I can sit at a restaurant and size up someone pretty well weight-wise. I can look at someone who I know weighs as much as me and play mental gymnastics in my head. At least I carry my weight better than that guy. Or I see another fat person at the gym struggling to do basic exercises, and I can say to myself "could be worse."

I hate myself for thinking this way because it's arrogant and elitist. I also hate thinking this way because I can use it to deny all I want that my weight isn't a problem, but in the small hours of the night (such as this one), I know i'm full of shit.

I can remember being 150-175 pounds lighter and being able to just run...run without stopping for miles. I remember being able to surf and run my fingertips through the water when I caught a wave. Those things, I know, are impossible for me at this current moment. Shit, I remember going to visit my brother when he was in grad school in Boston, and climbing all the stairs to Bunker Hill without stopping. Just a month ago, I climbed 4 flights of stairs to get to my seat at Sun Trust park, and I felt like my heart was about to leap from my chest. Most of all, I remember being able to eat and feel full and not have just this constant hunger that I can never satiate.

I get a free pass from society because of how I carry my weight and what I can do athletically. But it's not just that. I always make sure to never eat in public as much as I do in private. I try to limit the amount of times i feel physically vulnerable around other people because of my size and physical fitness for fear they WOULD say something to me. These are all things that an addict does. Because if I never say my weight out loud to anybody, and if I never look like I'm having a hard time doing normal things normal people do, then my weight isn't a problem.

I'm hoping this post helps. People of Reddit, how did you learn to be vulnerable and honest in not just your starting weight, but your weight loss goals? If you're a food addict (which I think I am), how did you learn to deal with it, or how did you seek treatment?

I've lurked here long enough. And I really want to be honest and open about my weight loss struggles. I'm here if you guys will have me.

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[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Friday, 05 July 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.


Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

Need some questing buddies?


If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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I binged, and now I feel like i'm slipping.

F // SW: 210 // GW: 140 // CW: 191

I feel like hell.... I've been losing weight since March, and vacations from Uni have started this week, but it felt like a dumpster fire, food-wise... yesterday I stayed up late and ate three whole portions of stuffed pizza at 5 am. Woke up with a hell of a stomach ache and a lot of guilt. Today I had "breakfast" of leftovers. I haven't been drinking water and I've been waking up at 3pm every day.

Only good thing I've been doing? Going to the gym (this is my 3rd week!) and honestly I think it's the only pillar left that is keeping my weight loss mentality together (those pillars being Food, Water, and Exercise).

I'm scared of stepping into the scale. But I'll do it. I HAVE to. I'm grabbing my 32oz water bottle again (shoutout to /r/HydroHomies) and I'm hydrating myself because I deserve it god dammit. I'm leaving that pizza in the box and throwing it into the freezer. And even though it's winter, and tomorrow will be another cold, coooold morning, you bet I'll be waiting on that bus to get to my gym.

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[SV] Measured my weight for the first time in over two years and was actually happy!

Yesterday, I was out for a morning jog (I do those now!). On my cool-down walk back home, I passed a neighborhood gym and decided to go in and ask if I could use the scale. The last time I had done so was over a year ago, sometime in 2017, and I weighed in at 78kg. It stung, to say the least.

I began getting healthier in June of 2018, the summer before my high school senior year, because I wanted to build healthy habits before moving on to college. If I could keep pretty healthy during my stressful senior year, I felt I would have the will for it in college.

Before, I used to know I was losing because my size 14 US pants were too large to even wear with a belt and my face became ovular from round. Then, yesterday, I stepped into the gym and weighed myself again. I was 68kg!!! I had been feeling particularly down on myself, especially because seeing a difference in my body is hard for me, but this kicked a whole lot of motivation right into me!!

It’s not as much of a weight loss in the amount of time as many of you, but I am so glad to finally share my victory with you all. You’re all such amazing inspirations for me. Thank you <3

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