Tuesday, March 3, 2020

How do I control myself?

I started plant based diet for 2 months and it has gone well on Mondays - Thursdays only coz on Fridays - Sundays,I eat whatever. That’s because my mom’s cook nice meals on Fridays (kinda like a tradition) and weekends we eat out.

I go to gym 3 times a week. Nothing heavy just cardio and workouts with dumbbells. Trying to built consistency.

My weight loss has been on a halt cos of this. It was going smoothly in the beginning since I changed my diet but then it started to pile on the old weight.

First I was 103kg then I hit 99kg after 3 weeks then now I’m back 103kg. I’m going nowhere.

Anyone ever been in this situation and managed to overcome this?

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Many starts and stops through the years. Starting again.

I’ve been a lurker here for a long while, and in general don’t post to any subreddit. I feel like if I do my usual thing and just lurk on other people’s progress and struggles I won’t actually be challenging myself to change. I’ll be starting another round of weight loss with no real accountability so when I fail, I don’t have to answer to anyone but myself. (And lets be real, I’ve let myself down enough to not be that upset by it anymore.)

So. I want to actually change.

F/5’3”/32 Starting Weight: 180ish pounds. Last time I weighed myself it was around 176 and I’m pretty sure I’ve gone up since then.

This week I’m counting calories. Next week I’ll add a deficit. The week after that I’ll start walking/running/weight lifting again.

Wish me luck!

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[M28] A long-time-coming progress pic. 4 years, but I hit my goal weight. 6'1". 280+lbs to 199.6lbs.

So I'm not one to post pictures of myself online, but I promised myself when I hit my goal weight I would make this post.

This has been a journey that took much longer than I anticipated. I haven't been 100% with it all the time. But I'm very proud to have reached my goal I set when I started.

I said 280+ in the title because I honestly wasn't weighing myself back then as it was just depressing. The last time I weighed myself, months before deciding to lose weight, I was pushing 280lbs. So I know I was higher than that.

Since then I tried a number of different "lifestyle changes" to help change those more negative aspects of myself. 15+ inches of hair later and I'm still working on it.

Losing the first 40+ pounds was easy, but I always seemed to plateau or find my way back to ~240lbs.

Everyone commented on the weight loss and said I looked great, but I had set a goal and not reaching it was just as damaging to my mental state as every resource online telling me I was still obese.

In October, I was preparing for my wedding (which was Feb. 1st of this year. Yay!) and had grown complacent/stressed/lazy/etc. I'd regained some weight and was back once again to that dreaded 240.

So I bit the bullet and said if I don't do it right now before the wedding while I have this motivation then I never will. So I started keto which I had heard a lot about. I stuck to it. And 1 day before the wedding (Jan. 31) I climbed onto the scale and saw a 1 in the hundreds place for the first time since I was a kid.

I've maintained since then and am upping my weight/exercise so I'm not just skinny fat. Sorry for the long post, but I had promised myself I'd make this one.

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Happily surprised!

I’m sharing this here because I’m really happy and I don’t really have anyone in my life I can share this with - I’m closest to my mom and girlfriend, and both of them also have some problems with their weight and I can tell that it upsets them whenever I talk about my weight loss successes.

Anyways!! I’m 24F and 5’4” ft. Last January, I weighed 174 lbs and wore a size 12 jeans. I’m down to 135 lbs. I went to American Eagle because they were having a sale and my girlfriend had additional coupons. I picked up a size 8 to try on... and it was too big! So I got a size 6, and it was also too big! The 4 fit perfectly, which was shocking to me because the last time I wore a size 4 at American Eagle I was about 10 pounds lighter. I’ve been exercising and doing weight training for the last 8 months or so, so I guess either they’ve changed their sizing a bit or I’m just much more muscular than I was before! It was a happy surprise because I often see myself just as heavy as I was a year ago, and for a long time I’d pick up the wrong size and have to go up a size and not down sizes. It was awesome to have it go the other way for once!!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 03 March 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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After 10 years, the journey starts again... this time in the right direction (I hope) [MENTAL HEALTH]

TL;DR at the bottom.

Hello Everyone!

This will be my first post ever in this subreddit (and my second overall), despite following it for years.

Yesterday I made up my mind to re-embark on this journey of weight loss and weight management with the healthiest, and most well-rounded approach possible.

As many people in this subreddit I THOUGHT I was the king of weight-loss, but then I realized that this Mountain I climbed was more of a roller-coaster, with some very scary ups and downs. Here's my struggle in as brief a format as I can think:

  • Always had low self-esteem as a child, which materialised in the form of anger.
  • Entering High School it all went down the drain. Although I had my group of friends, by mid-high school my fear of rejection and incapacity to properly deal with criticism from my peers, led to me becoming a relative recluse, and I started binge-eating.
  • I went up from a healthy weight for my stature to weighing almost 30kg (66 lbs) OVER my healthy weight limit... I hit almost a total of 240 lbs!.
  • My health and my back got messed up from my overweight.
  • Took a kind of sabbatical, where I came to realize I HATED who I was.
  • I became Anorexic (for about a year) and OBSESSED with working out and running.
  • I (of course) dropped all my extra weight, and then some, in LESS THAN A YEAR. I can now tell you for sure that THE PRIZE WAS NOT WORTH THE COST.
  • While deluding myself all this time, I dropped Anorexia and practiced Bulimia sporadically but increasingly, always after binge eating and HATING myself for what I ate (it took me a WHILE to admit to myself this was bulimia, too).
  • Throughout College I FINALLY had the lean, buff body I wanted to have... all while keeping on with the self hate, and the eating disorders, (oh yeah, in case you're curious, I'm a dude).
  • I thought nobody knew about my eating disorders, but it's just that nobody said anything to me, not family, not friends.
  • I went through several girlfriends during college and after graduating, all the while keeping my bulimia "in check" (thinking I wasn't doing it often enough for it to be a problem)... but feeling as empty inside as always, and secretly – even for me somehow – hating myself .
  • Met a woman who really shook my reality, and helped me start understanding self-love, self-soothing. This woman (who is now my wife) made me realize a lot of things about myself and my own perception, which detonated a dramatic shift in how I see the world myself.
  • Started doing a lot of introspection, started meditating some, went to see a Psychiatrist, learned about my personality and my personality disorders.
  • Gradually my eating disorders started fading away, almost disappearing. I'm no longer obsessed with exercise, but try to find a "sweet spot", and try to do it more for my health...
  • EXCEPT for the fact that I still do Binge-Eating, and when its not food, drugs, or work, or even binge-watching series binge-do something.
  • EXCEPT for the fact that – now that I gained some weight back – I sometimes look at those fatty bits in the mirror and for moments I hate myself again... and when that happens I have to re-ground myself, and remind myself to love my own persona, for ALL that it is.

SO:

  1. I have learned that (at least in my case) gaining weight due to binge eating is just a symptom of a some underlying mental problem(s).
  2. Binge eating is just like alcoholism and other addictions. They are coping mechanisms, you're trying to distract yourself from something, sometimes it is something deep under the surface.
  3. Although I am in a WAY better place than in the past, I still struggle with my addictions, mostly Binge Eating.
  4. I'm still learning to really love myself and love my life and really live, not just for immediate pleasure/distraction, but for the sake of a more profound experience.

I want to go back to my ideal weight, admittedly both for health reasons, as well as for feeling comfortable with my body. BUT this time I think the best approach for me is focusing on the 4 points above, therefore I will promise the following:

  1. I promise myself to do things with moderation, always listening to my body.
  2. I promise myself to look at myself with love and compassion.
  3. I promise myself to take the time to appreciate the world, my life, and all the things that surround me.
  4. I promise myself to stop using food, alcohol or other means of distraction to get away from myself or from ugly situations.
  5. Finally, I promise myself that if I ever fail with any of the above promises, it will be okay, I will have self-compassion, and I will not kick myself down, but rather shake it off, and get "back in the saddle".

Any tips that you might have for me will be very much appreciated.

I will also be glad to answer any questions as best as I can.

TL;DR: I have struggled all my life with mental issues, that have manifested through eating disorders. I now plan to take care of my mind first, and have my body follow, instead of skipping the mind and "forcing" my body to be how I think it "should" be.

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