Monday, November 9, 2020

More than halfway through!

25F, 5'10, SW: 172, CW: 150, GW: 132

I started counting calories back in March, when lockdown first started in my country. I lost around 12lbs, then stopped counting during the summer but managed to maintain, and now I'm down another 10lbs. I know that the number the scale showed me this morning could be due to fluctuations and stuff, and tomorrow it may be gone, but damn it feels good.

I haven't started exercising yet, that's why my GW may seem a little low, but I plan on building muscles (the ones I once had!) from there since I still have a huge percentage of body fat right now.

This for me is more than the weight loss. Due to my fear of failure, I was never able to stick to a routine where I couldn't' see the results right away, in any aspect of my life. I'd quit even before I started, rather than facing the possibility that I could make mistakes and still be worthy, because it felt impossible.

But as this community has taught me, there's no such thing as a quick and sustainable weight loss. It's either one or the other. I fell off track many times, but every time I jumped back on and even if it's a small result compared to the amazing ones I see every day on this sub, today feels like a victory.

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It’s frustrating and I become full of self-loathing when I cheat

Hi guys, this is my first time here and I have been on sort of a fitness journey since March of this year. I had gained about 20 kgs since the past couple of years reaching an unhealthy 116 kgs from my slightly less unhealthy 96 kgs earlier. I had this really bad habit of ordering and eating huge meals during the night which probably led me to this. It was a tough time as I was not enjoying anything, neither in my work nor my home (I used to live alone.) Which had let me to maybe eat my feelings.

I came to my hometown due to COVID and since then have been on a weight loss journey with the help of a dietician. At my peak, I had lost 15 kgs but then I strayed off and did not contact my dietician for a couple of weeks. Since then I have gained 7 kgs of the original 15 lost and I am really struggling here. I gained this back because I had started my habit of ordering again during the late night and it fills me with self-loathing. It makes me feel animal like who can’t control even the most basic of instincts. I wish it would have been easier but it isn’t and that sucks! I hate looking at myself and just hate everything about myself at this point. I have also started to do some physical exercises but keep spoiling it with late binges. It also undermines my family’s effort which they are putting up with respect to my diet and they also feel frustrated at me.

I hope I become a better person at controlling these needs and try and be consistent because I’m really struggling with it. I am strong but I understand I have to be stronger because I really really really really do not want to remain fat. I hate it!!

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Today is my first day

Hello everyone. I am currently once again starting a weight loss journey after failing numerous times before. The other day, my partner said they were losing attraction to me with the weight I was putting on, and I honestly don’t blame them. It’s time for me to make a change, not for them, but for me. A little about me. I am a 6’5 male, who currently weighs 306 lbs. my goal weight is 206 lbs for a total of 100 lbs weight loss. A big reason I put on weight (IMO) was a death in the family that hit me hard, and hitting the bottle every night after. I’m not quitting alcohol cold turkey, but I will only be drinking on special occasions. I will be exercising daily, and eating better and I really hope I can do this. I will be browsing this sub daily to hear about what everyone is going through and I look forward to making new friends on our journey!

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What’s something you didn’t expect to come out of weight loss?

I hope this is the right place to post this.

I’m 20f and about 200 pounds. Only 5’3. The thing is, I know I’m obese. It didn’t bother me that much, even though it should really should have. I used to be at a healthy weight up until 18, when I moved out and couldn’t afford healthy food or a gym membership. I’ve been told I don’t “look my weight”, as in I cover it up well I guess? My life is just spanx and tight jeans. During the pandemic I’ve gained more weight. Along with a big mental health hit and lack of money to buy proper healthy food, I just eat random snacks at odd times, rarely eating normal meals.

I’m asking this to convince myself to work on this. I feel disgusting. I look disgusting. I want to wake up feeling better about myself and just in general. People say exercise helps mental health too. All around me, my friends are having “quarantine glow ups”. I want one too.

So, what’s an unexpected outcome of weight loss for you? Other than the usual “clothes feeling bigger” and “having more energy”

Also if anyone has tips to lose weight at home without a gym or proper equipment, please PM me.

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Weight loss plateau

I (22F, 5’5) went from 154 to 140 lbs just over a year ago and have generally maintained since fluctuating between 138-140 lbs.

I want to lose a few more lbs and the past couple weeks I have been eating around 1200-1300 calories a day. I have found I am not losing any weight which is very frustrating, I’m not sure if my metabolism has slowed now as I have been eating better for the past year or so. I am also mostly sedentary and with coronavirus I haven’t got back to my gym yet to exercise and maybe only go on a walk once or twice a week.

My TDEE is estimated around 1160 calories a day - although I think I would find it very hard to eat below 1200 and don’t think 1160 would be sustainable.

Anyone any advice to help me kickstart this again? Currently I am thinking I just need to start properly exercising 2 or 3 times a week to see results.

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Night eating

Hey guys, I need help breaking a habit. I’ve got really good self control during the day...but every night (for the past almost 2 years or so) I will reliably get up about 90 minutes after falling asleep and go find something to eat, sometimes it’s a pretty big binge. I can even see how consistent it is cause I track my sleep, and there’s always a short wake period about 60-90 after falling asleep.

I have zero self control when this happens, and it’s really holding back any weight loss progress.

I’ve worked with a therapist and such, but can’t really pinpoint any mental health issue that is causing it. I just do it.

Has anyone been in a similar boat? What strategies did you us?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 09 November 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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