Tuesday, March 23, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 24 March 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Stopping the Day 1 starts tomorrow mentality

Long time Reddit lurker, first time poster since I'm hoping spitting this all out will help Day 1 actually happen.

As background, I'm 5'3" and was around 130 in college and 140 after college/before kids. I didn't gain a lot of weight (15-20 lb?) with my first kid and lost a lot of weight in the year after without trying (guessing a combination of breastfeeding and post partum depression). I got down to 118 at one point and was buying a size 4 pair of shorts. By the time I was getting back to my pre-baby weight of 130-140, I was pregnant again. Gained a normal amount of weight (25 lb?) but didn't have the big weight loss afterwards the second time around. For the last 5 years I've been around 155 (overweight BMI) but did have some success with intermittent fasting 3 years ago. Then COVID hit and I've gained 20 lbs to get to my highest weight ever, 175 lb, with an obese BMI.

I can tell the difference in my body with the extra 20 lb and I always say "this is it" but I end up having a frappucino, pop, or ice cream (or all 3 in a day aka the trifecta). I "know" I need better habits for myself and my family. I "know" I'm overweight/obese and would feel much better losing 40 lb. I "know" lifestyle change is the way to go with making deliberate choices. But then the other thoughts creep in: "I'm a grown person and can do what I want," "I deserve this," "it's only 1,"... the worst is thinking I can flip the switch whenever I want and drop the weight easily: I'll just start tomorrow.

The other worst thought is looking at myself and thinking I'm not really obese, I'm not like my mom. She's been overweight her entire life and has everything that goes with it: diabetes, neuropathy, colitis, sleep apnea, also depression. I know my opinion on what obese looks like is skewed because so many Americans are overweight/obese, but I think it's not that bad, so I grab that one last ice cream.

Thanks for reading if you made it this far. I know I can't be the only one in this obese gray area (even if the gray area is in my head since numbers don't lie). Maybe putting this out there will help Day 1 start tomorrow, for real.

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I think I’m ready to do this.

I’ve always been “overweight”, but when I look back to photos of myself in high school, I think I looked good.

My mom is 5’0 and always talked about her “goal weight” being 115 pounds (She never weighed more than 130 max). I’m a solid 5’8. I weighed around 150lbs as a teen. I was a competitive swimmer and trained in martial arts. I didn’t get a driver’s license until college, so I rode a 3 speed bike all around town, at least 5 miles most days. But at the back of my head, I always thought about how I weighed 150 and a woman should weigh 115. I “needed” to lose 35 pounds.

I remember watching one of those dramatic weight loss commercials. I always thought those were for “really” fat people, not for me. It has that loud voice saying, “Are you 100 pounds overweight? Do you have 50? 40? Or 30 Pounds to lose?”

My heart dropped. I had 35 pounds to lose. I was the target audience for dramatic weight loss measures!

After high school, I no longer did sports or rode a bike, and started slowly gaining weight. It didn’t get bad until my brother died. Then I just started eating more and more.

Senior year of college, I did a formal internship and none of my formal clothes fit. I had to go shopping. Around this time, my best friend was getting married. We picked out bridesmaids dresses. I needed a size 18, and the store only carried up to 16. It needed to be special ordered and came with a $50 surcharge. It was embarrassing. My friend was kind and lovely about it and never made me feel bad intentionally. I stepped on the scale for the first time in a long time and was shocked to see it read 217 pounds.

I basically stopped eating from May- August. I totaled my car and was back to the bike, riding 10 miles each way to my summer job, 5 days a week. At the end of that summer, I weighed 160 lbs. I was starving myself though, so it wasn’t sustainable.

I slowly gained weight over the next two years, back to 185 lbs. I started a fitness program and got back down to 150lbs over the course of a year. The weight loss was slow and I felt good about myself, but I was dedicating quite a bit of time to exercise.

From that fitness program, I was featured on the Today show weight loss segment. It showed photos of me from back at 217 lbs.

I gained some of that weight back, but was maiming around 165 when I got married. This felt like a healthy weight for that stage of my life. I got pregnant, had my first son, and hovered around 175. I stayed active and lifted weights so I looked pretty good (in retrospect) even though my weight was higher.

When I got pregnant with my second son, after that, everything started to get out of control. I developed severe postpartum depression. My anxiety was through the roof. My two kids were only 18 months apart so things were insane. My husband had lost his job when I found out I was pregnant and going through major depression after the job loss.We got a good amount of food stamps, so it seemed to be the only “pleasure” I could afford. We went through a grueling time of relocating to a new state (July 2019), away from family, so my husband could get established in a new industry. My anxiety was insane, and we didn’t have health insurance. Then, just as I was beginning to adjust, my husband was much happier and we had a stable, solid income, covid hit. Gyms closed. Anxiety soared.

2020 forced me to deal with my anxiety, and I feel like my mental health has improved dramatically. The major drama of job loss and moving is over.

I’m sitting here now at 30 weighing 255 pounds. My best friend, the same one who I was a bridesmaid for and needed the bigger dress, just sent our group of friends care packages. We are planning a girls’ trip this summer, and she sent us matching PJs to wear when we are together. Mine, XXL, don’t fit.

My goal is to fit into them- loose and cozy- by July.

Thank you for reading my novel.

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Does anyone else struggle to stick to a diet for even one day?

This is embarrassing to ask, but I feel so alone in the issue. I always read about people struggling to stick to their weight loss commitments for more than a few weeks or months but I honestly would be happy if I lasted a whole week.

It’s as though my brain goes into fight or flight mode the second I decide to even mildly restrict my overeating. I have tried calorie counting, clean eating, intermittent fasting and other diets but every time it is the same.

I wake up with the intention of sticking to the plan I made, then almost immediately start having thoughts of quitting. I always rationalise it, like “No, calorie counting is too difficult. Just eat 3 meals a day and no snacks. Now we can eat what we want today and start tomorrow” or “No, intermittent fasting is too hard. Just count calories, it’s the most reliable. Let’s start tomorrow.”

I honestly don’t care what I do, as long as it’s consistent. But I’m battling with myself every second of the day.

Does anyone else experience these intrusive thoughts and how can I fix it? I feel like an addict.

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Advice for how to get your old body back and to stop thinking about food when full? The more I diet, the more “hungry” I am when I’ve eaten enough.

Current weight: 128+, Goal weight: 107, Height: 5’1”, Age: 24, Female

I’m miserable. I was about 120-128 freshman year of college (2015-16) but randomly and unintentionally lost weight going down to about 108-112 for sophomore and junior year, about 115-118 for senior year (2018-19). I always make smart choices (I.e salad with light dressing over a cheese burger with fries at the diner) but I never restrained myself - I also traveled and went out locally a lot (and drank as college students do) so I was consuming calories but staying active. When I wasn’t traveling or going out, I was still walking around campus, shopping etc. all things I don’t do since quarantine. Once I stopped going out I definitely put on weight but not enough to cry over, and the last time I weighed myself in March 2020 was 124. During the pandemic I lost a lot of weight because I was depressed over a family member having a 7 week battle with covid, but it all came back, and then some. Since February of 2020 I’ve also been insanely bloated - it went partially down when I did a 2 week diet for Halloween, and there have been a couple mornings that it was pretty flat but the second I ate something, it puffed up to the size of 5+ months pregnant.

None of my work clothes from 2-3 years ago fit. All of my pants barely buckle and give me a big muffin top, so wearing cropped shirts is out of the question. I was a size 0, and now the size 4 jeans that I bought in summer 2020 that were too big fit tightly. I’m too embarrassed to see friends, especially with summer approaching. It even effects my intimacy with my boyfriend which is not fair to him. I don’t move at all - I go from my bedroom, bathroom, kitchen, family room, office room, and that’s about it. I never worked out, but now I don’t move period, and I have 0 motivation or willpower to go on the treadmill/bike. I HATE working out.

What is wrong with me? How do I fix any of this? I just want my old body back while eating the same way. I get as we get older our body changes, but I can’t imagine my body just crapped out on me at 24 when all of my friends are still in he same. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I’m not counting calories because it makes me sick in the head to know I can only eat 523 calories a day to lose 2 pounds a week, 1223 to lose half a pound a week and 1500 to maintain. There’s meals at restaurants that are more than 1200 calories, I don’t understand how people can eat that and not gain weight and I can’t even look at a slice of pizza. So I’m basically eating healthy - fruits and vegetables, chicken and fish, 0% fat Greek yogurt, light plain popcorn, etc. and I’m still extremely bloated and don’t feel thinner. I tried consuming minimal calories the past 2 weeks and wasn’t seeing any weight loss (which is the same method that I lost a few pounds for Halloween) so now I’m just anxious that I’m never going to lose weight and that I’m hopeless. How do I stay positive and motivated?

Lastly I can’t stop thinking of food - I’ll have a whole meal of tons of vegetables and fish (no carbs), I’ll feel full so I stop eating and within minutes I feel starving as if I’m going to die of hunger. I try to fight it off but I’ll sometimes get fruit or carrots with a little hummus as a snack, but I’m never content. Food is the only thing I think about and I’m never like this when I’m not dieting. How do I stop thinking of food all the time and teach my brain to know I’m full?

Thanks for all the advice. I’m a mess lol.

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How do you feel good about your body while you’re losing weight?

hello everyone, let me start off by saying that i’ve always had a very bad relationship with my body and with food. the environment i grew up is wasn’t the best when it came to body positivity. i’ve had a lot of ups and downs in my weight loss journey. i’m 21(f) and 5’2 and the least i’ve weighed is 160 lbs in 2019, which was very close to my goal weight but i still didn’t feel happy in my body. over these two years, i’ve gained a lot of weight and am close to about 190 lbs and am well aware of the factors that have caused this. this time i want to lose weight successfully without any fad diets, extreme weight loss methods, etc. since i developed eating disorders due to this in the past. i am currently eating everything in moderation, trying to stay away from sugary and oily for the sake of my skin too and doing a mix of various exercises ranging from running on the treadmill, going for walks, swimming, weight training, etc.

in spite of doing all this, i don’t see a change in my body or even in the way i view myself. i have developed a lot of stretch marks on my stomach and it has been making me feel very sad and insecure. my question is: how do i change the way i view my body? no matter how much weight i gain or lose?

sorry if this was too long and/or is the wrong sub for this question thank you!

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*SV* Finally reached Onederland!!!

Hey everyone!

Long time lurker of the forum and love the motivational and sometimes down to earth posts here. I finally hit under 200 pounds and thought I'd share it with you as it's taken me almost a year with on and off dieting. Scale Photo

Im a 27M 6'1 started at 229lbs back in February 2020 which is the heaviest I've ever been to be honest I probably weighed more than that in January of that year but couldn't get the courage to weigh myself.

Weight Loss Chart My weight chart from when I started as you can see I literally stayed the same weight for 6 months as I wasn't really focused some weeks I'd binge then I'd go clean eating again.

My real problem was alcohol... I mean I use to drink ALOT. Sometimes could polish crates of lager a week and then go for the bottles of JD so I've cut most of that out.

Also a little bonus I've cut out smoking which I'm now heres the app screenshotI use .

The main technique I've used that works for me is low carb OMAD. I'm not a big fan of cooking in the first place so me only cooking once a day is a major plus for me.

So yeah thanks for reading apologies if the post got too long. I'll post my progress pics when I hit 190!

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