Thursday, December 2, 2021

I've failed enough on the "healthy" ways...

Hey, first of all, allthough I did not see it on the rules if this is inappropriate please delete it and inform me so I know in the future. I'll mark it nsfw just in case. But I have to vent a bit, and look for advise.

So... I've fucked up the "healthy" weight loss methods for years, and I am done. I'm going back to the only way that worked when I lost weight last time. That is reducing my eating to a small amount once a day. I want to kill myself enough without the constant fucking up on a diet, or failing to find energy for workouts after work. I don't feel sick when I reduce my eating radically so that is relatively easy, at least in comparison.

Stats: 20 years old, 130ish kg (about 285pounds).

Is there something I should keep in mind?

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How to decide goal weight?

To start off, I'm finally trying to be focused on losing weight. I'm 5'6" 26 years old female. I'm currently at ~339 pounds. My highest weight was 359.8 but I was steady at 320 for 5 years before that. Ideally, I'd like to be closer to the lower 200's but I know that's a far fetched idea right out of the gate.

So how does one figure out what their goal weight should be? I've been overweight since middle School, so I don't remember my body at different weights. I also know that loose skin can weigh a bit too, so I will have to keep that in mind as I lose the pounds.

I've seen my doctor recently, and she mentioned average weight loss is around 5% a year -- which for me would be 18 pounds (which I have done already so yay!) But I'm not here for a 7+ year journey just to lose weight.

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Losing weight is always going to suck ballz.

Why, do you ask?

Well, when you come to the end of your rope about that extra tub around your waist... whether its once, twice, or countless times over the past year... you have to magically develop a sense of self control out of nowhere... and that's called Day 1.

For anyone who's lost weight, you know the feeling. The week long cravings, the supermarket trips where you feel your salivary glands reacting to the chocolate cupcakes or the chips or the comforting oreos lining the shelves. Especially during this time of year where there are extra baked goods and candy canes, it is unpleasant and uncomfortable to have to say no when ALL you want to do is say yes, Yes, YES. This first week is the first hurdle and damn its a tough one to jump over. Many of us bash our shins a bit or face plant. But we limp on through it.

Once you get a week in, you think... alright, I can do this. I have eaten my body weight in carrots and green juice. Ive enjoyed some seasoned grilled chicken. I've rediscovered grapefruit. I'm getting the hang of this. You might even step on the scale and notice you've lost a few pounds and WOW does THAT feel good. Its suddenly easy to pick up an apple instead of cake, its easy to munch on some veggies and you have a renewed sense of energy in cooking your own meals and portioning them out instead of ordering in.

You are on a roll, except then you are in the midst of a family dinner and they ask you if you want a roll with your roast beef dinner... and you can feel your stomach almost growling at you angrily to say yes. Just one. Just one little bread roll. You eat it. But its ok, you just had one... one glorious, fluffy, carby roll... and thankfully its made no difference to the scale because you kept within your calorie limit. Good job team.

Then you have a bad day at work. A really bad day at work. Your boss is a prick, you knocked over your favourite plant and someone else got that promotion you wanted. So a little caramel macchiato on the way home won't hurt. In fact, it makes you feel better, its just self-care...right? Plus you've stayed within your calories so you're still good. But by 6pm you are starving and the drink contained more calories than you thought, and so you say "screw it" have a cheat day and order in, because if anything can salvage a bad day it's chicken chow mien and dumplings. Tomorrow you'll get back on the wagon... hopefully.

But tomorrow theres a company lunch, and cake, from that awesome bakery with the buttercream icing. You promise yourself just one treat... and just one slice of pizza. Damn, that pushes you to 800 calories, just for lunch... plus the yoghurt and berries you had for breakfast which was 300. That leaves 200 for dinner.

Soon you've lost enthusiasm, and you feel disillusioned. You ask yourself, "do i really want to lose weight THIS badly?", "is losing weight REALLY that important". You step on the scale, and see no changes, its been 4 weeks and technically you are probably losing weight at a normal rate now, unlike the 5lb water weight in the beginning. You conclude weight loss sucks, and that you'll try again in January.

and thus, the yo-yo of the diet continues on like a sad saga... one that we ALL relate to.

The thing is though, the fact you are trying and the fact you are buying yourself a ticket aboard the weight loss struggle bus, in pursuit of healthier pastures... is more than most of western society is doing for themselves. Weight loss is always going to suck, it just is. Its a suffer fest much like any other major accomplishment in life. Whether it be getting a degree, working your way up the corporate ladder, or even... hell, birthing and raising a child. These things require effort to achieve, and effort to maintain. You can opt out, but a good life is meant to be worked for.

So keep working. It's meant to hurt, and find some purpose that is stronger than the pain.

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How to Lose Weight Safely and Sustainably

There is no magical formula for losing weight. Fad diets and quick-fix solutions will not work. Despite the quackery pervasive on the internet, there has never been in the history of weight loss "medicine," a 100% proven product for losing weight and keeping it off. Shammers only capitalize on peoples' concern over their image as a means to make money, with no proven results or FDA backing. The dangers of crash dieting are ingrained in us, yet in our desperate attempt to lose weight fast, we ignore all risks, putting ourselves in harm. My advice to you is; save your money and pass the quacks by, because much of what you need to know about safe weight management is common sense, though admittedly, common sense seems to be at a premium these days.

Safe and slow: There is nothing wrong with losing weight quickly, as long as you do it safely. You may not drop 15-20 pounds a week, like some of "the Biggest Loser" contestants, unless you have trainers like Jillian or Bob, are severely obese, and are attending boot camp; but you can safely lose over 3 pounds a week, with the right amount of exercise and a well thought out eating plan. Studies have shown, that losing weight slowly - no more than 2 pounds a week, is the safest and most effective for maintaining that weight loss long term.

Readiness: Being successful in your goals depends on your motivation and readiness to make permanent changes to your lifestyle and health habits. Before you even think about a weight management program, you need to make sure that you are in the right mindset to take on this challenge. Knowing you need to lose weight for health reasons, and feeling ready to take this plunge, are two very different things.

Set realistic weight loss goals: Having a realistic weight goal is vital to your success, so if you are substantially overweight or obese, talk to your doctor first about how much weight you can safely lose. Know your ideal body weight based on your height and build, and what you need to lose to get to that goal. At a 2 pound loss a week, you can figure out how much you can lose in six months. If you are 100+ pounds overweight, then aim for a year from now. Being unrealistic in your goals serves no purpose and will only cause you to sabotage your efforts.

Motivation: Once you set these goals, you need to understand your motivation behind them. Do you have an event, a reunion, or a date? Those can be great motivators, as long as the weight loss plan you follow is one you can keep up with after that event is over and done with. Maybe you're just tired of double-digit sizes, and craving the new and improved single-digit you? Then use that as motivation, by hanging up a photo of the ideal body you crave, alongside a current photo of you. That should be motivation enough!

Weight is just a number: Your weight reflects many things; calorie consumption, the composition of the foods you eat, metabolic rate, and how much physical activity you get, but it doesn't tell the whole story - how much of that weight is muscle, fat, water, bones and organs. If you are going to see any real results, it is important that you understand your body composition and its' makeup, rather than obsessing about dropping pounds, which will only leave you frustrated and discouraged. After numerous trips to the gym and endless hours of cardio and strength training, you may consequently find yourself losing body fat and inches, but not necessarily dropping pounds.

It's okay - this is normal and logical. Initially, when you start exercising, your fat mass is converted to muscle mass, which is denser and weighs more, so your weight may not have dropped or you may have even gained a few. I know what you're thinking, but don't lose sight of what's important here; which is that you are changing your body composition, and converting fat into lean muscle, which gives you that toned and defined look. That is what you should be aiming for - doesn't everyone want a svelte figure?

Exercise and eat right: There are no shortcuts. Losing weight safely and sustainably requires a simple approach; burning more calories than you consume, setting realistic goals, committing to a lifetime of nutritional eating, a good grasp of moderation, and plenty of exercises. By combining a healthy diet of fewer calories and increasing your physical activity, you can expect to lose 2+ pounds weekly, which most importantly can be effectively maintained for the rest of your life.

The only way to be successful is to be smart and safe; so steer clear of any weight loss programs promoting diet pills, laxatives, supplements, colon cleansing, or fasting, as these are all potentially life-threatening methods of losing weight.

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Increased my steps and still no weight loss

I’m 27/F, 5’4, 210lbs. I gained ~16lbs over the duration of covid lockdowns. I was fighting to lose weight at 194 lbs in beginning of 2020….

I’ve always struggled with my weight. I was always heavier than my classmates even as a middle schooler.

All my life I’ve tried to lose. The only time I’ve ever been successful was in college because I wasn’t eating… I lost weight the first few weeks of school BC the food was so foul and I was struggling being away from home for the first time in my life.

Once I got comfortable at school the weight stayed off mostly because of all the walking I did around campus.

I graduated in 2016 and have only ever gained weight from there. I’ve had blood work done, nothing is ever wrong. My blood pressure is fine.

I exercise 4-6 days a week. Even during covid I used the equipment I had access to to workout. Lots of walks, lots of kettlebell training, jumprope, etc. but other than my hour long workouts I was sedentary.

I decided to cut the crap and watch what I was eating better. I cook 99% of my own food. I focus on lean meats, veggies, fruit, lowfat dairy, and colllex carbs with occasional drinks/treats.

I don’t drink alcohol during the week, but I’ll have a few drinks with friends on the weekends.

I lift for about an hour 4-5 days a week, and I just started a new job where I’m getting 8-10k steps a day 4 days of the week. This is a MAJOR increase from the barely 4K I was taking before.

TDEE calculators have me at 2500cals for maintenance because I’m moderately active.

I eat anywhere from 1700-2100 (depending on the day- I tend to sit around 1800 on average) Either way they’re both within my deficit range and I’ve had ZERO weight loss. I bounce between 208-212lbs consistently. Even if my maintenance was only 2000, eating at 1800 is a deficit along with my activity level …..

I cannot add any more activity, doing so would just be unsustainable for me. I want to be realistic in how much time I spend at the gym. But I’m getting frustrated.

I am really going to give up. If I only ate 1500 Cals a day I’d be STARVING. I don’t think weight loss is gonna happen for me

Edit: for anyone who will say I should cut the alcohol completely, I literally see my friends once a month. Being able to go out and have a few drinks is something everyone should be able to do in a balanced way. I’m not going to sit there drinking water because I want to lose weight that badly. My efforts the other 29 days of the month SHOULD be providing me some success

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Had a mini epiphany

So about mid-October I seriously committed to losing weight and bettering my health. Since then I’ve lost 20 lbs. so far, it’s been pretty easy. I mainly do CICO, with no major restriction of foods (I’ve been vegetarian for years and I cut out any beverages except coffee, tea, and water, but other than that I eat whatever I want within my calorie budget). It’s been surprisingly easy to stick to. I still eat delicious food and haven’t pressured myself to work out, so it feels doable and sustainable.

However, I noticed that this week for the first time I’ve been really struggling. When I got off work, despite having healthy meals prepped in my fridge, I’ve found myself ordering takeout and eating quite a bit more than I should. My mental health has also taken a hit this week, despite doing extremely well lately.

At first I thought it was just an inevitable pitfall of weight loss (it can’t always be a breeze, right? Lol). But suddenly today I realized something: my sleep schedule has been abysmal this week. I’ve gotten only about 5 hours each night. This is mainly due to staying up late to read a new book series I’ve gotten really into so it’s definitely my fault and easily correctable, fortunately.

I know they always talk about how important sleep is for weight loss, and I’ve certainly learned that firsthand this week.

Get enough sleep, everyone!

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Weight Loss Help

I was losing a little bit of weight here and there before Thanksgiving but I had fallen off the wagon a little bit and gained some weight back. I was mainly counting calories to lose weight. I’m trying to get back on track I was wondering if smoothies weren’t a good way to lose weight? If smoothies aren’t, I was wondering if there was any other drinks to substitute meals that would be good for weight loss.

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