Thursday, December 2, 2021

I lost 115lbs in about two years, and have been maintaining for 6+ months. Tomorrow morning, I go in for skin removal surgery and breast reconstruction.

Starting weight: 270 lbs / Current weight + Goal weight: 155 lbs.

5'4'', 30yo female

I wrote and edited a super long post about my whole journey (and maybe I'll post it at some point, though it felt really good to get down on paper anyway), but really all I want to say right now is that I cannot believe I am here. in the depths of my binge eating disorder and worst moments of depression, i did not see a future for myself. now i know i have one. tomorrow i get the surgeries that will make me feel like my truest self again: skin removal on my stomach / hips, breast lift and reconstruction.

I couldn't have done it without this sub; r/loseit (and r/1200isplenty ) was such a critical source of education, support, commiseration, and solidarity. if you're here, keep going. if you're struggling, keep reading. if you're losing, keep at it. like so many others on this sub have said: if i can do it, anyone can.

I'm definitely scared and really really nervous, but also excited. If anyone reading this has had post-weight loss surgeries, please – tell me it's gonna be okay!!!

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To the person who broke community rules because they think they should eat one "small" meal a day. This was my comment I was afraid you might not see.

One small meal a day means that you're following the route of "fasting", which means you have to be accountable for the fact that your insulin levels are going to be entirely dependent on whatever your eating the second that first bit hits your body. If you want to try ONE meal a day, I would focus on the QUALITY of that meal, otherwise your signing yourself up for a risk of diabetes, ED or both. It should be at least 1200 calories of quality foods. It's not the easy way out, if you want to be safe. You're 20 years old. You can seriously screw up for metabolism for decades to come if you go about this unsafely.

Some people do extremely well on the "one great meal a day" but it needs to be GREAT. It needs to encompass protein, nutrients, essential vitamins and a lack of sugar, otherwise you WILL set yourself up for failure and end up in a BIG "yoyo" effect where you will gain weight or develop a disease.

As someone whos had ED and has bounced back and forth the same 60 lbs for a decade I HIGHLY recommend going the route of patience and plain old calorie deficit. TRUST ME, even if it takes two years to reach your ideal body, it's much better than turning 30 and having to learn that these desperate methods of weight loss just lead to a higher weight, the same bad habits and emotional exhaustion.

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Is this loss too much too fast? Help

I’ve been working on losing weight for about 6ish months now, since June 1st 2021. I’ve recently visited with my doctor, and described my weight loss timeline to him, after I had been discussing the bruising and hair loss I’ve had, sure there was a connection. He said the weight loss is not the cause, and checked my thyroid and said it was perfectly functioning. He also congratulated me, and told me I was doing very good. My family has also been very proud of me. People elsewhere (mostly internet friends) have been telling me I’m losing too quickly and could have very severe problems later on, and I’m not sure anymore. It’s my doctor’s and family’s words against people I’m not sure about.

My start weight was 335, my current weight is 240. Current date is Dec. 2, 2021.

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I've failed enough on the "healthy" ways...

Hey, first of all, allthough I did not see it on the rules if this is inappropriate please delete it and inform me so I know in the future. I'll mark it nsfw just in case. But I have to vent a bit, and look for advise.

So... I've fucked up the "healthy" weight loss methods for years, and I am done. I'm going back to the only way that worked when I lost weight last time. That is reducing my eating to a small amount once a day. I want to kill myself enough without the constant fucking up on a diet, or failing to find energy for workouts after work. I don't feel sick when I reduce my eating radically so that is relatively easy, at least in comparison.

Stats: 20 years old, 130ish kg (about 285pounds).

Is there something I should keep in mind?

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How to decide goal weight?

To start off, I'm finally trying to be focused on losing weight. I'm 5'6" 26 years old female. I'm currently at ~339 pounds. My highest weight was 359.8 but I was steady at 320 for 5 years before that. Ideally, I'd like to be closer to the lower 200's but I know that's a far fetched idea right out of the gate.

So how does one figure out what their goal weight should be? I've been overweight since middle School, so I don't remember my body at different weights. I also know that loose skin can weigh a bit too, so I will have to keep that in mind as I lose the pounds.

I've seen my doctor recently, and she mentioned average weight loss is around 5% a year -- which for me would be 18 pounds (which I have done already so yay!) But I'm not here for a 7+ year journey just to lose weight.

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Losing weight is always going to suck ballz.

Why, do you ask?

Well, when you come to the end of your rope about that extra tub around your waist... whether its once, twice, or countless times over the past year... you have to magically develop a sense of self control out of nowhere... and that's called Day 1.

For anyone who's lost weight, you know the feeling. The week long cravings, the supermarket trips where you feel your salivary glands reacting to the chocolate cupcakes or the chips or the comforting oreos lining the shelves. Especially during this time of year where there are extra baked goods and candy canes, it is unpleasant and uncomfortable to have to say no when ALL you want to do is say yes, Yes, YES. This first week is the first hurdle and damn its a tough one to jump over. Many of us bash our shins a bit or face plant. But we limp on through it.

Once you get a week in, you think... alright, I can do this. I have eaten my body weight in carrots and green juice. Ive enjoyed some seasoned grilled chicken. I've rediscovered grapefruit. I'm getting the hang of this. You might even step on the scale and notice you've lost a few pounds and WOW does THAT feel good. Its suddenly easy to pick up an apple instead of cake, its easy to munch on some veggies and you have a renewed sense of energy in cooking your own meals and portioning them out instead of ordering in.

You are on a roll, except then you are in the midst of a family dinner and they ask you if you want a roll with your roast beef dinner... and you can feel your stomach almost growling at you angrily to say yes. Just one. Just one little bread roll. You eat it. But its ok, you just had one... one glorious, fluffy, carby roll... and thankfully its made no difference to the scale because you kept within your calorie limit. Good job team.

Then you have a bad day at work. A really bad day at work. Your boss is a prick, you knocked over your favourite plant and someone else got that promotion you wanted. So a little caramel macchiato on the way home won't hurt. In fact, it makes you feel better, its just self-care...right? Plus you've stayed within your calories so you're still good. But by 6pm you are starving and the drink contained more calories than you thought, and so you say "screw it" have a cheat day and order in, because if anything can salvage a bad day it's chicken chow mien and dumplings. Tomorrow you'll get back on the wagon... hopefully.

But tomorrow theres a company lunch, and cake, from that awesome bakery with the buttercream icing. You promise yourself just one treat... and just one slice of pizza. Damn, that pushes you to 800 calories, just for lunch... plus the yoghurt and berries you had for breakfast which was 300. That leaves 200 for dinner.

Soon you've lost enthusiasm, and you feel disillusioned. You ask yourself, "do i really want to lose weight THIS badly?", "is losing weight REALLY that important". You step on the scale, and see no changes, its been 4 weeks and technically you are probably losing weight at a normal rate now, unlike the 5lb water weight in the beginning. You conclude weight loss sucks, and that you'll try again in January.

and thus, the yo-yo of the diet continues on like a sad saga... one that we ALL relate to.

The thing is though, the fact you are trying and the fact you are buying yourself a ticket aboard the weight loss struggle bus, in pursuit of healthier pastures... is more than most of western society is doing for themselves. Weight loss is always going to suck, it just is. Its a suffer fest much like any other major accomplishment in life. Whether it be getting a degree, working your way up the corporate ladder, or even... hell, birthing and raising a child. These things require effort to achieve, and effort to maintain. You can opt out, but a good life is meant to be worked for.

So keep working. It's meant to hurt, and find some purpose that is stronger than the pain.

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How to Lose Weight Safely and Sustainably

There is no magical formula for losing weight. Fad diets and quick-fix solutions will not work. Despite the quackery pervasive on the internet, there has never been in the history of weight loss "medicine," a 100% proven product for losing weight and keeping it off. Shammers only capitalize on peoples' concern over their image as a means to make money, with no proven results or FDA backing. The dangers of crash dieting are ingrained in us, yet in our desperate attempt to lose weight fast, we ignore all risks, putting ourselves in harm. My advice to you is; save your money and pass the quacks by, because much of what you need to know about safe weight management is common sense, though admittedly, common sense seems to be at a premium these days.

Safe and slow: There is nothing wrong with losing weight quickly, as long as you do it safely. You may not drop 15-20 pounds a week, like some of "the Biggest Loser" contestants, unless you have trainers like Jillian or Bob, are severely obese, and are attending boot camp; but you can safely lose over 3 pounds a week, with the right amount of exercise and a well thought out eating plan. Studies have shown, that losing weight slowly - no more than 2 pounds a week, is the safest and most effective for maintaining that weight loss long term.

Readiness: Being successful in your goals depends on your motivation and readiness to make permanent changes to your lifestyle and health habits. Before you even think about a weight management program, you need to make sure that you are in the right mindset to take on this challenge. Knowing you need to lose weight for health reasons, and feeling ready to take this plunge, are two very different things.

Set realistic weight loss goals: Having a realistic weight goal is vital to your success, so if you are substantially overweight or obese, talk to your doctor first about how much weight you can safely lose. Know your ideal body weight based on your height and build, and what you need to lose to get to that goal. At a 2 pound loss a week, you can figure out how much you can lose in six months. If you are 100+ pounds overweight, then aim for a year from now. Being unrealistic in your goals serves no purpose and will only cause you to sabotage your efforts.

Motivation: Once you set these goals, you need to understand your motivation behind them. Do you have an event, a reunion, or a date? Those can be great motivators, as long as the weight loss plan you follow is one you can keep up with after that event is over and done with. Maybe you're just tired of double-digit sizes, and craving the new and improved single-digit you? Then use that as motivation, by hanging up a photo of the ideal body you crave, alongside a current photo of you. That should be motivation enough!

Weight is just a number: Your weight reflects many things; calorie consumption, the composition of the foods you eat, metabolic rate, and how much physical activity you get, but it doesn't tell the whole story - how much of that weight is muscle, fat, water, bones and organs. If you are going to see any real results, it is important that you understand your body composition and its' makeup, rather than obsessing about dropping pounds, which will only leave you frustrated and discouraged. After numerous trips to the gym and endless hours of cardio and strength training, you may consequently find yourself losing body fat and inches, but not necessarily dropping pounds.

It's okay - this is normal and logical. Initially, when you start exercising, your fat mass is converted to muscle mass, which is denser and weighs more, so your weight may not have dropped or you may have even gained a few. I know what you're thinking, but don't lose sight of what's important here; which is that you are changing your body composition, and converting fat into lean muscle, which gives you that toned and defined look. That is what you should be aiming for - doesn't everyone want a svelte figure?

Exercise and eat right: There are no shortcuts. Losing weight safely and sustainably requires a simple approach; burning more calories than you consume, setting realistic goals, committing to a lifetime of nutritional eating, a good grasp of moderation, and plenty of exercises. By combining a healthy diet of fewer calories and increasing your physical activity, you can expect to lose 2+ pounds weekly, which most importantly can be effectively maintained for the rest of your life.

The only way to be successful is to be smart and safe; so steer clear of any weight loss programs promoting diet pills, laxatives, supplements, colon cleansing, or fasting, as these are all potentially life-threatening methods of losing weight.

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