Sunday, December 5, 2021

yo-yoing -- how did you stop once and for all?

I've struggled with body image and eating since I was a kid. Was a thin, athletic kid, have just always thought I was fat which has led to a messed up relationship with food. For the past 4 years, my weight has shot up and down constantly, a range of 30lbs or so. It's so frustrating, not to mention probably really unhealthy for one's body. This past summer, I was borderline underweight. Started bingeing a lot once school began, now I'm back up close to my highest weight ever.

The clear answer is healing the relationship with food and my body, and I want to. I've been through countless disordered eating behaviours and I'm sick of it. And I'm sick of my weight changing all the time, because I feel like a totally different person depending if my weight is higher or lower. I just need some sort of constant in my life lol. I always seem to self-sabotage by bingeing, so I'm assuming sustainable weight loss is the answer, the problem is I just don't know how to do that anymore. My body has forgotten how to listen to itself.

So, if you've been able to stop yo-yoing, and lose a few pounds and finally keep it off, how did you do it?

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In Defense of Bread

This is going to be long, grab yourself a beverage of your choice and join me in this kind of disassociated rambling. This post is for me mainly, as a reminder of what I am doing and why I am doing it. First half is on bread second half is my "manifesto", a promise to myself, and this post is for my own accountability as I start my journey to change my way of eating.

Bread

This issue has been bothering me for a while. It seems when it comes to dietary changes or reforming our way of eating to weight loss the first thing many of us do -apart from coming to reddit for consultation of course- is to “cut out” certain food groups or only eating certain types of foods.

I want to address the habit of cutting out carbs, specifically bread and grain products. It seems the humble staples of many cultures is blamed as one of the main culprits of obesity, along with fat (which would need a separate post of its own).

Keto, paleo, Atkins, whole30, and a myriad of others are based on cutting out simple carbs. Many of us, when sharing out methods on here, start by saying “I cut out bread and pasta...”.

// To clarify, when I say “bread” I do not mean the sweet, light, ultra-processed abomination that can survive a nuclear blast and is so disgusting people can’t even bother eating the crust. I am talking about the fresh stuff you can get from bakeries or bake at home with a mixture of white and wholemeal flours, yeast, water and salt.\\

Bit of history

Bread was the cornerstone and foundation of many early societies. Bread is among the oldest human-made foods and it plays a role in history and religion.

The archaeological record suggests that wheat was first cultivated in the regions of the Fertile Crescent around 9600 BCE. To put this into perspective, the dawn of modern civilization is around 5000 BCE (ancient Mesopotamia). However, the oldest found remains of bread (made of wild wheat and barley) are over 11000 years old, found in the Black Desert in Jordan.

Bread is mentioned in the oldest available written records, has a central part in Christianity (maybe other religions as well, but I do not know them well enough), has a role in many countries’ history and culture (where I am from, we have the “day of the new bread” where the Bread of the Nation is baked every August 20th when we celebrate the founding of our nation)

History and diet

Modern humans are omnivores who thrive on carbs, fat and protein. Until the development of agriculture approximately 10,000 years ago, Homo sapiens employed a hunter-gatherer method as their sole means of food collection. This involved combining stationary food sources (such as fruits, grains, tubers, and mushrooms, insect larvae and aquatic mollusks) with wild game, which must be hunted and killed in order to be consumed. It has been proposed that humans have used fire to prepare and cook food since the time of Homo erectus. As you might imagine, this kind of diet was rich in complex and simple carbs and the hardest come by food groups were animal protein and simple sugars (honey was guarded by bees who don’t like to share, non-cultivated fruits were a lot smaller and sourer than today’s juicy-sweet ones, and animals had to be stalked for days on end, then hunted down, processed, cooked, preserved so sometimes it simply wasn't worth the effort).

Evolution takes thousands of years to make significant changes to one’s biology. The hunter-gatherer ancestors, or the ancient Mesopotamians were the people of yesterday in an evolutional scale. Their diet could be summed up something like “Eat little, mostly plants and grains, eat fat and meat when the opportunity arises” The issue with how to eat and what to eat came with the industrial revolution and the mass industrialization of food production.

Personal opinion and promise to self

I refuse to believe that cutting out any food group is the magical solution for our problems. How about the fact that dinner plates are getting bigger and bigger or that we have no idea what is a proper portion of food? How about the ultra-processed food that is carefully engineered to stimulate us to eat more than we need? How about the billion-dollar diet industry that is trying to sell us books on different diets and supplements and so-called secrets to weight loss?

A diet that requires you to use supplements to get adequate minerals and vitamins (eg modern veganism that relies heavily on processed food to imitate other non-vegan foods) or that has a chance of damaging your organs (eg keto can overwhelm your kidney and can clog arteries) is not sustainable or healthy. A diet that requires you to order ingredients online because it is not available locally is not sustainable.

In my opinion bread and pasta, and oil and fats and lard and red meats and all that is available in nature and you can make at home can be eaten to your heart’s content but in moderation and in a balanced way. Quality, not quantity.

I’ve decided to treat the cause not the symptom. I grew fat not because of bread and pasta, but because of eating easily available, highly-processed, high added sugar content foods and lead a sedentary lifestyle. I’m done with temporary solutions and gimmicks. I'm done with being sick.

I will not eat anything I could not make myself at home or that has ingredients not available in a natural state (eg meat substitutes, hydrogenated fats, processed sugars) and above all take control of my eating habits. Eat when I am hungry, not when I feel like it or think I should. Eat not until full but until I am no longer hungry. Eat a varied diet rich in fiber and minerals. Do not use food and specifically sugary food as pacifier when the stress gets the better of me. Walk, run, swim doesn't matter just do something on a daily basis. No smartphone apps, no subscriptions, use fist as measurement.

This is my pledge and as of today it is in force. I baked a loaf of bread for the first time in my life and will continue to bake and cook at home and I will eat well but in moderation. Hopefully you will see me being a lot healthier both mentally and physically next winter. I will follow this community all the way until the end. If you read this all the way, I hope this post helps you in some way .

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I've been exercising/dieting for 9 months, barely any weight loss

Like most people during COVID, I gained a bit of weight. I'm a 27 yo, 5'9'' female. Before COVID I was 68kg, then in March I found out I was 74kg. So since March of this year, I've been eating 1400 calories a day and exercising 3-4 hours a week, with a mix of cardio and weight lifting. I weighed myself yesterday, I'm 73kg, I only lost 1kg and not gonna lie feeling pretty disheartened. I'm very meticulous about calorie counting as well so I know I didn't slack on that end. Any tips or explanations as to why this is? Thanks

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Looking for snack ideas

I just realized I'm due to start my period tomorrow or the day after, and this is the first one since I've started counting calories and I'm worried. I usually binge chocolates, and have intense cravings for either salty foods like salt and vinegar fries from a fish shop or really sour sweets like sour worms. I'm not sure what to replace it with this time. I know I can't go buy any of my normal craving/comfort foods as I won't have any self control and really don't want to jeopardize my weight loss journey every three weeks. Please help with healthy suggestions or tips. 🙏

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Does anyone want to be accountability partners?

I’ve lost about 50 pounds since the beginning of lockdown and am newly not overweight for the first time in my life. I have decided to do a 50-day challenge to get back on track after the holidays. I’ve hit a plateau over the last few weeks and I’m readjusting my lifestyle to something sustainable for my goal weight and trying to establish healthy habits. I am also working towards less centering of weight loss and diet in my life.

I’m going to start tracking calories and consistently working towards meeting exercise goals in the form of counting steps. I’m also going to prioritize cooking at home and preparing more wholesome and nutritional meals, learn about macros, and start the transition into the gym. A really big goal of mine is to create more balance in my life and start fostering my future lifestyle maintenance as habits while staying in a good deficit. After this challenge, I will be embarking on the journey of lifting and building muscle!

I’m 4’10.5, 117 lbs and my TDEE is around 1200. My MFP limit is set to 1200 calories a day and I have my activity goal set for 20k steps a day (achievable for me but may lower to 15k if I can’t be consistent).

At the very least I’m going to start a blog documenting my goals met but having an accountability partner would be awesome!

I’m hoping to lose about 7 pounds in the 50 days but I really am just hoping to be consistent and create the balance in my life.

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Saturday, December 4, 2021

Weekly Goal

I feel like if I get too deep in my head about weight loss, I feel like I can never do it. So right now, I’m going to set myself a weekly goal.

My plan is: from tomorrow (1.5.21) to (1.12.21) I am going to eat 1300-1500 calories in a day, eat three times a day, and try to get some exercise in. If I can lose 0.5-1kg like this in the week, I’ll keep it up.

I binged a lot today, but I am going to move on and eat normally tomorrow. If I fast I will not exercise, and the goal is to eat and exercise. My starting weight is 59.2kg at 5’1 (155cm) 🥲 luckily I have some muscle mass.

Wish me luck!

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NSV/confession: the compliments never stop feeling great

Quick back story- since 2018 I’ve worked for a company headquartered over 1000 miles away. I came into that company obese and was still obese when a COVID-imposed freeze on all travel was put in place.

I lost 70 pounds during that travel freeze and this year I started flying back to the office. Without fail, every single time I go there, coworkers comment on the weight loss.

Last night I attended an office holiday party and again many coworkers, all the way up to the CEO and CTO, complimented me on the weight loss and appearance. And honestly, it felt just as good as when people back home started noticing a year and a half ago.

To clarify I did it for my health, both short and long term, much more than my appearance. But honestly the positive reactions from others have been so helpful in maintaining my goal weight.

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