Thursday, February 3, 2022

Starting weight loss journey

I’m 18f i just started my weight loss journey and I already lost around 5 pounds starting at 225 I’m now 220 (5’4). My measurements are 41-36-51

I have pcos and thyroid problems but I’m done blaming my weight on them. I’m taking accountability for my weight and I’m ready to look good for the first time in my life and feel good about myself.

My goal weight Is 170-180 as of right now.

Any meal/workout/motivation tips would be appreciated !

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I was at my all-time heaviest a little over 2 months ago at 203 lbs (26/F/5'8). Yesterday I broke into the 170s and I recreated my starting weight photo! [NSFW for visible midriff]

Before/After Comparison from 203 lbs (11/30/2021) to 178 lbs (2/2/2022).

I'm 25 pounds down and 8lbs away from my initial goal! A goal that I thought was a reach when I started.

Since I was a kid, I figured I'd always be the chubby one. I was a thickset adolescent from the jump. Thick legs, round face, fat arms, never had a flat stomach. And my extended non-American family would comment on it a fair amount. It wasn't mean-spirited, but they'd call me chubby or fat like they were saying the sky was blue. It's cultural—they do that to everyone. But growing up as a girl in the US, it stuck with me. Even when I was thin, I didn't feel thin. I had sort of internalized "I am chubby. That is what I am."

In my late teens and early 20s, that went a lot of directions. From "I'm chubby and that makes me a bad person" to "I'm chubby and I'm goddamn beautiful" to "I'm chubby and that's a completely neutral statement." But I never actually thought of myself as in control of my body weight. It just seemed like something that happened to you. Like a button God pressed. Sometimes I'd have a flare of inspiration when I saw a friend lose weight. Or a person on TV. But the "if they can do it, I can do it too" would burn out right around the time I discovered juice cleanses are joyless soul-sucking enterprises, or that intermittent fasting is a gateway to disordered eating for me. I'd give up and say, "I tried! But I'm just chubby."

Then I broke 200lbs for the first time in my life. At that moment on the scale (something I had stepped on out of curiosity), I realized that I had been avoiding looking at myself in the mirror for months. I wasn't exercising, I was binge eating to cope with stress, and I felt listless and unmoored. At 200lbs, I'm not just chubby: I am a deeply unhappy person. And I realized that if the scale could move up, then it could go down too. I sat down and did a bunch of research and swore off all the stupid crash diet literature I read before.

I want to specifically thank this subreddit for what it does. Because CICO not only works, but it's accessible. I felt informed, data-driven, and better equipped to actually commit to weight loss. And when it felt like my calorie deficit wasn't doing anything and the little voice crept back in with the "I'm just chubby" line, I saw all of your update posts proving that people CAN and DO change their physiques and stay that way.

So, if you're feeling frustrated right now and are scrolling for motivation, I hope this helps. Stick with it! Keep counting and trust the process! You are not "just chubby" or "just fat". You have control and you can do it.

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Wednesday, February 2, 2022

Unsure of what gender to put down on calorie counters/calculators

Hi all. This question seems a bit silly to ask, but I haven't found the answers on google, so I'm asking here. I've been going down a weight loss journey and stumbled upon this sub, which influenced me to start counting calories again. However, I am unsure of how much I should be eating, because I don't know what gender to put down on MyPlate app. I was assigned female at birth, however I do not identify as such, and have been on male hormones for a little over 7 months. I know that this changes your body in many ways, however I am unsure if I should be eating male suggested amounts or female suggested amounts. Any advice would be appreciated :) Thanks very much.

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Obsessive weight loss thoughts are driving me crazy

Wondering if anyone is also going through this or has advice on how to calm the F down.

I'm counting my calories and I'm working out. I got a peloton and I LOVE it. I am being creative with my cooking and I don't feel deprived. The basics of weight loss- I have it down. This is not the issue for me.

The issue is that all I think about, all the time, is weight loss. It feels like time has slowed down. Every free moment I have is spent looking at results pics on IG. Analyzing my calories. Should I eat less? What if I'm not eating enough? if I lost 8 pounds this month and 6 pounds in Feb and 4 pounds in march what will I look like in April? I was supposed to have dinner with a friend tonight and I canceled because the idea of going to a restaurant and potentially eating more calories than I know literally made me panic to the point of feeling sick.

This is why I can't lose weight. because I lose my frigging mind every time. The exact thing happened to me last year. I was working out with a trainer- I was lifting, I was doing amazing. and then she kept changing how I should eat and it stressed me out so much I just spiraled and started to binge. The one time in my life I lost a large amount of weight was when I was in my late 20's and I started going to spin with my friends as a social activity. I ate healthier by default but I wasn't on a specific diet. To be honest I don't even know how much I lost- or how much I weighed. I just know it was the thinnest I ever was.

I want these thoughts to stop. it borders on an obsession. I just want to be healthy and feel good in my skin. I'm never going to be a model, I know that. I just want the weight gone. I want to know I can do this. and I want it to be July when 6 months have passed and I can see some results. But then I am just wishing my life away.

help =(

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took my shirt off in front of the doctor with no fear :)

Today I had a follow up from a cyst surgery. I had a big apple size one and it took more surgery to get that out than I thought. I had a complicated surgy with that too as I was bleeding post surgery. But Stitches are out now!

IDK, between the weight loss and the cyst gone, I didn't feel embarrassed today to have my shirt off. I don't remember it ever being like that as I was either fat or when I was younger had bad flare ups from my armpit acne flare up condition(that went away thankfully lol). IDK when i get to South Korea for my new job, i might hit up the beaches and not feel like i have to wear a shirt for once! feels a bit liberating, even if i have a lot of scars and some loose skin :)

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My experience with the relationship between exercise and weight loss.

TL:DR I've lost about 20-25lbs over the last six months, and I've gone from running at most 1.5 miles before having to stop due to knee pain, to having just run 8.8mi before having to stop only because of blisters.

I'm gonna give all sorts of details here in a big layout of my past, largely for my own benefit to have written out.

I've (26M) always been a very active person, played soccer growing up, ran cross country in high school, have always enjoyed road and mountain biking, hiking, etc etc. Never particularly fast or 'talented' at any of those activities, but I enjoyed them. Was also in pretty good shape and at a healthy weight at this point. Then I dislocated my patella (kneecap) in April 2010, partially tore the MCL, had surgery to fix. Didn't completely fix the problem, had a few very brief dislocations in the following years while playing soccer, in gym class, wrestling around with my little brother, etc etc.

Went to college in 2013, and being on my own for the first time, and being in charge of what I ate, and having the freedom to buy whatever junk food was not good for me. I was still running and staying active, so my weight didn't totally explode, but I absolutely creeped into somewhat overweight category, developing lots of bad habits along the way and a sugar addiction I'm still struggling to kick to this day.

Then in February 2017, while finishing up school, had another serious dislocation, required a second surgery. Was a bit more involved, used cadaver tendon to support the MCL, fun stuff like that. In short, it worked a lot better, knee was feeling stronger than ever! I ran a half marathon at some point following recovery, and set a PR mile time in March of 2018. Setting that mile PR definitely tweaked something though, and I would start getting weird pains in the knee during future activity. My other joints have mild problems of their own, and between the hips, knees, and ankles, my running became pretty limited from 2018 onward (I'd still bike a lot to get exercise). I would go out once in a while, but not wanting to lead to worse injuries, I'd stop after something would start to hurt, usually about a mile, maybe one and a half. During this time, I hit my weight high, probably around 220lb. I don't have an exact number, I was weighing myself very very rarely, mostly getting that info from the occasional physical checkup.

Last summer was when I started to dig myself out of the depression hole I spent most of the last decade in. There wasn't a defining moment I started to change things or to lose weight or anything. I've just made a lot of changes in the past six months to improve my life, weight loss being one of those. One thing early in this time was my little brother convincing me to do a triathlon with him. I had to do some preparation to make sure I could swim 400m without drowning, but I can easily bike 16mi, and I figured I'd just run a mile or so, then walk the rest of the 5km when the inevitable pain started. Imagine my surprise when that never happened and I wound up running about three fourths of it (walking just cause I was very out of breath from using most of my energy on the bike section). After that I was curious how future runs would go as I really started eating better and very slowly lost some weight. Now I'm down about 25lbs to 195. A few weeks ago, I just kept on going, since I kept feeling good, and wound up running 6.4 miles. I hadn't done more than a 5k in at least four years. Had to stop cause my feet didn't like that, and had some nasty blisters. So I went and got non-cotton socks, since no one at any point in my life ever told me that cotton socks are terrible to run in and will give you blisters very easily! Last night I went out and did 8.8 miles, again stopping only due to blisters, not joint pain (the socks were better, but apparently not quite enough).

So while I'm sure a variety of factors are at play, I have to think that losing about 25 pounds really helped my ability to run long distance again. It's a lot of extra weight to have on the joints during impact activities. I see a lot of discussion about how exercise is obviously critical to weight loss, but not as much about how losing weight makes future exercise easier and more enjoyable. The level of joy I was getting last night from a long run was incredible, realizing that I wasn't being limited in the ways I previously was. If someone could have told me I would feel this way as a side effect of losing some weight, I'd probably have put far more effort into it from a much earlier age.

Now to keep it up, targeting 180lb for now

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Gained again after losing 80 lbs - reframing my mentality (motivation post)

I lost about 80 lbs (250 -> 170) in 2018-19, and after lockdowns, working a job with longer hours, gyms being closed for months, food delivery being easier and cheaper than ever, I slowly crept back up to 210 lbs. I’m a 29 y.o. guy by the way.

I noticed a huge difference in my mental health that I never thought was related to my physical health before. When I’m overweight and eating without any regard to my health I feel more depressed, less in control, and more prone to mood swings. This could be due to the chemical reactions in my brain from all the sugar, fat, carbs, etc., but I think it is pyschological - how can I respect myself if I don’t even respect my own physical body? By choosing to not care about what I’m doing to myself, I’m subconciously telling myself that I’m not worthy of care. This just reinforces my depressive thoughts and keeps me in a downward spiral of binge eating to satiate the sad feelings and then feeling worse because I binged. Rinse and repeat.

I remember how good I felt when I was at my physical peak - lots of energy, positive, more outgoing, able to deal with stresses easier, and not obsessing over negative feelings. Setting goals and achieving them and then setting new goals, like a 7-min mile, or doing 15 pull-ups. I think more than losing the belly fat I’d like to get back to that state of mind, where I am treating myself with respect by not stuffing it with donuts, ice cream, etc (plus, now that I am getting older those foods wreck havoc on my digestion).

I initially lost weight for more superficial reasons; wanting to look better and receive more positive attention from people. Then I realized the benefits of good health, but I never saw it as an act of self-love. I got complacent with where I was and thought I could maintain without consciously trying. I was wrong. Now that I’m getting back on track I want to stay focused on this idea. Every time I go to the gym, every time I cook a healthy meal, every time I say no to junk food, every time I come back from a run sweaty and tired - I’m subliminally telling myself that I am worthy.

I hope maybe this speaks to you too and your weight loss journey. I think reframing getting physically healthy as a way of improving mental, emotional, spiritual health will be how I finally stay committed.

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