Wednesday, November 21, 2018

[tip] A compilation of the eating habits of my naturally skinny friends

I personally know a number of consistently skinny people, and a lot of them believe they have a large appetite, that they love snacks, and that they will never gain weight no matter how much they eat. When I am with them, I do see them indulging in pizzas, fried chicken, and ice cream during outings. However over time, I have observed the following (peculiar) actions of theirs.

  1. If something is not nice, they would not touch it, AT ALL. We order curry chicken, turns out a bit dry. It is still well flavoured, so I continue to eat it, because wasting food and money right?! My skinny friend? Takes a bite, doesn't like it, never reaches for it again.
  2. Reaching satisfaction with actually palatable food. Our boss brings a tin of cookies and we all take one. It is so buttery and my pretentious healthy self thinks "This is sooo great but too fattening for another one." Skinny colleague? Takes two more happily and goes back to her desk. Me? Can not stop thinking about those cookies, buys a whole tin for myself the next day.
  3. Vigorous portion controlling 2am, room mate complains she's starving. She opens a pack of chips and offers us some. I refuse because eating at night is a sin!! She chews on two chips. two. Closes bag. Goes back to sleep. EXCUSE ME??? WEREN'T YOU HUNGRY??? I feel like this one might hit home for many. If i buy a medium bag I will eat it all, same if I buy a large bag. Closing it for next time is extremely difficult. Even if I closed it, I will continuously think about it until my hand involuntarily reaches for it again... I ordered the same thing with another skinny friend and we both really enjoyed it. The difference was that I stuffed my face while he left so much of it. His reason? That he felt like he had the right amount, and eating more would be detrimental to his desire to eat it another time, because he wants to eat it again in the future. What..... cannot relate but ok lol
  4. They really balance their total calories either intentionally or their body just naturally tells them to Another skinny friend really likes Asian bubble tea. If you're not familiar, the thing is PACKED with carbs! The milk, the sugar, and the starchy tapioca pearls. How does skinny friend drink this you may ask? She sips it. For a whole day. Then puts it in the fridge to finish the next day. Oh and did I mention she does not eat anything else for these two days? NOTHING. Like I mentioned before, we see skinny people eat unhealthy things, and possibly a lot of it. What we don't see is that they won't eat anything else at night or even the entire next day. Because they feel put off by all the grease they have ingested and need to recover.
  5. Eating speed is significantly lower I watched a skinny friend eat and noticed that they chewed at least 50 times before they swallowed. I tried this and the food disappeared from my mouth before I got to 20 ???? ... This gives time for satiety hormones to reach the brain and guide you on when to stop eating. Another skinny friend is an absolute sweetheart and she is such a chatterbox during mealtimes. Most of us have no problem eating while chatting, but skinny friend cannot seem to remember she has food in front of her when she's talking about something. By the time we are done she's eaten maybe 20% of it and no longer wants any.
  6. Might not care about food that much One skinny mate. Only eats to prevent dying. Thinks eating disturbs his flow, and calls it a chore. Would take it if he could live on an IV bag if it meant he didn't have to eat anymore.

A self reflection moment: I went to visit my skinny friend who was breastfeeding, and I asked her if her baby would feel bloated from drinking so much. She explained that the baby would stop when it gets full. This left such an impression on me because even babies know when to stop, it's just human nature, yet here I am, a mature adult, unable to grasp this simple concept!

TLDR; All/some skinny people -claim to eat a lot, most likely don't. -really listen to their body -don't really see eating as important -are living our "diets" as their LIFE

I'm not saying these people are necessarily healthy, a good half of them have gastric and absorption problems in fact which tortures them. Aren't we lucky to be able to go through basic food processing without pain? Thanks powerful digestive system! But anyway, the point of my post was just to let more of us know what is inside the heads of some skinny individuals, despite how much we may not be able to understand it. Everything has a reason. It's not just "fast metabolism". We may be programmed differently, but genetic makeup DOES NOT ACCOUNT FOR 100%. Never give up the weight loss journey!

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23 Tips for a Healthier Thanksgiving

Ready or not, here they come…

In case you’ve missed the glaring lights and blaring commercials, it’s official… the holidays are upon us. And Thanksgiving, with all of its food-based traditions, promises to put your weight loss willpower to the test.

According to research from the Calorie Control Council, a typical traditional Thanksgiving dinner can clock in at 3,000 calories. Add to that apps and drinks, and you’ve got yourself a 4,500 calorie meal—that’s more than two times the average daily intake. This same source reports that the average Thanksgiving enthusiast may fill up on close to 230 grams of fat—the fat equivalent of three sticks of butter.

But with a little planning, you can make it through Thanksgiving without putting on more stuffing. Check out these 23 simple strategies sure to help keep the “trim” in your turkey day:

1. Don’t skip breakfast
Don’t “save space” for dinner. We all know what happens when we don’t eat all day—we become ravenous and are more likely to gobble up everything in sight. Plus, when it comes to weight loss, the old adage that breakfast is the most important meal of the day may very well hold true. In a study in the journal Obesity, overweight people who were dieting and ate more calories for breakfast than dinner lost more weight compared with subjects who ate larger evening meals. Make sure to opt for a morning meal that’s high in protein like an egg white veggie omelet or non-fat Greek yogurt with fresh fruit—this will help keep you feeling fuller as you head into the potential diet dark hole that is Thanksgiving dinner.

2. Work in a workout
Be sure to get a good sweat session in before you dive in to dinner. A study published in 2009 in the American Journal of Physiology revealed that vigorous exercise may suppress a key hunger hormone for up to 30 minutes after workouts and can increase the levels of an appetite-suppressing hormone for as long as three hours after exercise. Not convinced? Get this: A 2013 study published in the journal Neuroreport revealed that participants who exercised craved healthier foods, like fiber-rich beans and veggies rather than those packed with refined sugar (think cookies and cakes). The researchers discovered that physical exercise may be linked to reduced activity in the food-responsive reward regions in the brain which, in turn, are linked to a reduced preference for unhealthy high-calorie foods.

3. Don’t pick as you prep
A tiny taste here, a tiny taste there. Before you know it, you’ve consumed a meal’s worth of calories. You don’t normally pick all day long, right? So don’t start now. Eat your regular meals at your regularly scheduled times and limit your splurges to small selections at dinner time. Your waistline will thank you.

4. Bring a helping of healthy
Volunteer to bring a side of roasted veggies, fresh salad or fruit tray, so that if all else fails, you’ve got one healthy option to pile on your plate! Try these delicious Brussels Sprouts with Apple—they’re simple to make and totally guilt-free.

5. Drink water before and during your meal
In a study published in 2015 in the journal Obesity (Silver Springs), participants who drank 500 milliliters of water 30 minutes before a meal lost more weight than those who did not drink up prior to chowing down. But don’t limit your liquids to the time before your meal. Sip water throughout your Thanksgiving meals to keep you feeling fuller and slow down your gobbling.

6. Nix the rolls
Pass on the bread bowl and you could save yourself anywhere from 100 to 200 calories, plus the 100 calories in the butter you would have slathered all over it. With so much food at your disposal, we doubt you’ll even miss it.

7. Use a smaller plate
A study published in 2015 in the Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews revealed that when people—even the health conscious—were given larger plates, they consistently consumed more food than those using smaller plates. The same held true for non-alcoholic beverages consumption—the larger the glass, the bigger the gulps. Opt for a smaller plate at dinner and chances are good you’ll stick to smaller portions.

8. Veg out

Time and again research confirms that high-fiber foods, which provide volume in the body and take longer to digest, help you feel full longer—on fewer calories. Help yourself to high-fiber foods like fruits and veggies, whole grains and bean dishes. Just don’t fall for dishes drenched in butter or creamy sauces, which can be loaded with calories and fat.

9. Fine-tune your turkey selection
For many, it just wouldn’t be Thanksgiving without the taste of turkey. Just make sure to opt for white meat, and don’t eat the skin. With this simple swap, you could save 7 grams of fat and over 50 calories (for a serving size that’s roughly equivalent to a deck of cards). Might not sound like a lot, but tiny trimmings like these can pile up quickly.

10. Put your fork down between bites
Based on a study published in 2014 in the Journal of Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, increasing the number of chews during meals can extend the duration of those meals, reduce the speed at which people eat, and lead to less food consumed. Make an effort to put down your fork and chew your food several times before diving in to your next bite. Bonus: You’ll actually taste all of those fabulous flavors when you slow down!

11. Be a ‘Chatty Cathy’
The more you talk, the slower you’ll eat. The slower you eat, the better the chances of your body signaling it is full before you overeat. See #10.

12. Be mindful of extras
Between the gravy, butter and creamy dressings, Thanksgiving add-ons can be total fat traps. Try seasoning your food with spices and herbs, and opt for vinegar-based dressings.

13. Don’t drink your calories
A 12-ounce bottle of pumpkin beer is somewhere in the 200 calorie range. A five ounce glass of spiced apple wine can clock in at 271 calories. Think you’ll save tons of calories avoiding alcohol? Not exactly. A 16-ounce glass of apple cider can cost you almost 230 calories. Wash down your meal with water (see #5), sparkling water, tea or coffee instead and your waistline will thank you.

14. Step away from the table
Once you’ve eaten a normal-sized dinner, kindly remove yourself from the table so you don’t start mindlessly munching. Head to another room in the house or better yet, engage in some good old fashioned family fun (see #15 and #16!).

15. Start an active tradition
Holidays are all about traditions, right? Start a new ritual, like a family football game or a group stroll around the neighborhood. Studies have shown that going for a walk instead of hitting the couch, about 15 minutes after a meal may improve digestion and blood sugar control, and will burn some extra calories. Plus, stepping away from the table for a bit may save you from diving into another pile of potatoes.

16. Focus on the fun
Take the focus off of food and put it back where it belongs—on spending quality time with your loved ones. Bring board games or DVDs. Share in a few rounds of post-dinner charades. Or gather up the troops and hit the local soup kitchen to help serve dinner to the less fortunate. Forget the food—there’s fun to be had!

17. Wait 20 minutes before even considering seconds
Stick to this rule of thumb: If you’re still hungry after 20 minutes (the commonly accepted amount of time it takes for your stomach to send your brain the “I’m stuffed” signal), you can go back for seconds.

18. Ask the hard questions before heading back for more
Before hitting the buffet for a second round, ask yourself if you’re really hungry. Sometimes just seeing a large spread can make us eat more. In fact, in a study published in 2005 in the Journal of Nutrition Education and Behavior, when moviegoers were provided stale popcorn in big buckets, they ate 34 percent more than those given the same stale popcorn in smaller tubs. In the case of fresh popcorn, those given large tubs ate almost 50 percent more than those given medium-sized buckets. If you aren’t just being thrown off by a sizable spread, ask yourself: If I could have seconds of just one dish, which would it be? Then opt for that option only.

19. Skip seconds if you plan on doing dessert
Survey the food scene before you dive in for seconds, and map out a strategy. If grandma’s rhubarb pie is on your radar, don’t stuff your face with more stuffing. If you yearn for candy yams year-round, don’t get chummy with the crumb cake. Decide on one or two indulgences you’d like to try ahead of time, and don’t eat everything in sight before you get to them.

20. Don’t be guilted into gobbling
While it’s nice that aunt so-and-so brought her world-famous pie, that doesn’t mean you have to eat it. If you’re going to enjoy foods you might normally avoid, make sure you do the picking. Feel uncomfortable refusing? Tell your aunt you’re too stuffed but you’ll take it to-go. If you’re lucky, she’ll forget, if you’re not so lucky and she piles on the pie, give a loved one your leftovers.

21. Fill up on fruit for dessert
Remember how we told you to bring healthier dishes (see #4)? A fruit tray is a great option. That way, when everyone else is pigging out on apple pie, you can enjoy some fresh apple slices with a sprinkle of cinnamon.

22. Leave the leftovers
If you can get away with it, leave the doggy bag for the other diners. While one day of indulging won’t destroy your diet, several in a row certainly can. Pass on the extra potatoes and remove all temptation tomorrow.

23. Don’t miss the point–family!
We bet that this time next year you won’t even be able to recall what exactly you ate at Thanksgiving this year. The taste of dessert is fleeting; memories with your family are forever. Take this time, when there is no work or school or real life to worry about, and enjoy the time you have with your loved ones. Cherish the company, not the food.

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Depression and weight loss

TLDR; tips on balancing depression and exercise? How to stay motivated?

It’s been a really bad two years for me. I’ve been extremely suicidal and depressed and feel I’m at the end of my wits - I’ve tried therapy and medication and I’m out of options beyond maintenance. The worst part about my depression is the weight gain - in the past two years I gained 70+ lbs. While I’ve maintained being 180-190, the 70 lbs weight gain actually happened over the course of three months. It has me really down. I always felt dysmorphic but I look at 120-130 lbs me and miss it. My weight gain has made me incredibly insecure, made me feel undesirable and above all ashamed. It’s my last year of school and I want to take pictures and be with friends but my weight makes me cancel plans and stay in the background.

I’m thinking exercise is something that may help. I walk everywhere but I want to try to go to the gym. I’m hoping that, in addition to helping with my depression, I’ll lose a bit of weight. I want to be healthier, I want to be happier.

With that in mind, the hardest part of my day is getting out of bed. I have a lot of back pain currently (I’m assuming due to my depression because I haven’t done anything to burden my back lately), and if I leave bed too quick in the morning I go to panic mode. If you have any words of encouragement or direct experience, I could really use it.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Wednesday, 21 November 2018? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Beaten cancer, but now can’t get my head in the weight loss game

The last three months have been a rollercoaster. In September I was diagnosed with Grade 4 Hodgkin Lymphoma cancer, and started intensive and aggressive chemotherapy.

I wasn’t/am not able to exercise as the cancer ate away much of my right hip bone and some of my pelvis, and I lost interest in tracking my calories, eating anything I wanted because ‘I have cancer and might die, so why should I stop myself enjoying things?’. I was also on a shit ton of steroids, which made me want to eat everything in sight.

Well, here we are three months later, and I’ve been told my cancer shows complete metabolic response. In other words, it has responded incredibly well to the chemo and there’s now no sign of it. I still have to undergo three or four more months of chemo but I’m not going to die (yay!). This morning I weighed myself and I’ve put on half a stone. More than that, I’ve lost all my fitness and strength. I’m so angry at myself and my body, even though I know I should be grateful and treating myself much more kindly after what I’ve been through.

I don’t know where to start again now. I picked up a cross trainer from Gumtree, and managed 10 minutes on it this morning, but I won’t be able to do any serious exercise until/unless my bone regrows.

My parents are kindly helping care for me during my treatment, but their cooking isn’t what I would want to eat to try and lose weight - but I don’t want to seem ungrateful and not eat what they have made.

It just feels like a lot at the moment.

I am 5ft4 and 151lbs, which I do understand isn’t huge but being chubby and bald and useless at right now is destroying my mental health.

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Weight loss should never be your main focus

I've had many ups and downs with weight loss including gaining everything back and starting again a few times. The times when I was the most successful were when I didn't care much about weight loss, followed the calorie deficit but didn't think too much about it.

The worst offenders were times when I was super excited about losing weight. I went to the gym every single day and wrote in a food journal every day. I spent the whole day planning my meals and what to get at the grocery store. Most of my downtime I spent being impatient to when I can to the next weight related thing. E.g. eat or prepare my super healthy foods, go to the gym, step on the scale etc. And I thought so much about the next meal I ended up giving in and eating early or more than I should. Or I was so excited about my weight loss I indulged in candy or high cal alcohol to 'celebrate'.

When I put weight loss and getting healthy on the back burner, even though that sounds like a bad idea, was when I was most successful. I spent less time planning and obsessing over my next meal. I took up doing more art, specifically drawing and sculpting. I get so into a sculpture I put off eating or forget it and I can enjoy a nice big meal at the end of the day. I fill my day with projects and things to do so I don't have the time to think about weight loss, it just happens.

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Tuesday, November 20, 2018

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Wednesday, 21 November 2018

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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