Friday, December 21, 2018

I didn't think they would fit...

NSV

I have been a US size 16 basically my entire adult life (26F). In August I started my weight loss journey and I've bought maybe 1 or 2 shirts in the entire time I've been losing. I haven't even touched pants, because I've been wearing stretch pants since I became too uncomfortable in jeans, and, well, they stretch, so even my biggest leggings still fit (though some of them are becoming a bit loose around the knees).

Well, yesterday, my mom and sister went out holiday shopping and went home with a variety of pants in 2 or 3 different sizes (they're losing weight right now as well, and wanted to work down to the smallest sizes they bought). They told me they'd bought a size 12 and wanted me to try them on. My sister said "Your thighs are definitely smaller than mine, I'm sure they'll fit!"

I didn't think they would fit... But, I listened to my sister and I tried them on.

They fit. They effing fit.

I haven't been anything smaller than a 14-16 since I was 17 years old, and now I fit into a size 12?!

That means I'm soon to be completely OUT of "plus" sized clothes. I never thought I would be in this place. I thought I'd be fat forever, and that I could never be successful with any weight loss program.

Those are the first words of mine I've ever been happy to eat.

I still can't believe they fit.

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Thanks for taking the time folks

So let me begin by thanking everyone out there for being supportive to those out there trying to shed those extra pounds/kg. And to those of you who are posting your success stories to help show everyone that it can be done.

This is my mildly successful story, as its on going, and not a huge thing at the moment.

I decided i wanted to drop some weight about 3 weeks ago, i have a full gym and shower set up here at work, and every morning i use the shower facilities here because i get to work early to avoid traffic and get an early start on my day. When i first started here 2 years ago, i went to the gym almost every morning for about 6 months or so, but didn't really lose anything. At the time, i saw the gym as a means to allow myself to continue with my terrible eating habits, a red bull and some form of king size chocolate in the morning, some form of deli sandwich in the afternoon, generally a buffalo chicken sandwich with bacon tomato and blue cheese, and then whatever fat nasty struck a chord for dinner. I work part time at a pizzeria in the evenings and it being a family place, and having a great relationship with the owners and the cooks, i got free, HUGE portions for free every night. So pizza, steak and cheeses, chicken tenders, you name it, i ate it.

i stopped going to the gym around my 6 month mark, I'm sure something mildly inconvenient came up that disrupted my gym schedule, and its just a huge pain in the ass to start getting back up at 5am when you are getting home from work at 10 almost every night.

well, 3 weeks ago, i got on the scale every morning like i do before my shower, and for a week straight i saw the numbers increase by almost a pound and a half each day. by Friday it was 198. I'm 6'0", so that isn't obese or anything, but i am overweight, mostly in the stomach. Typical dad bod really. But i did not like how fast it went up. Not sure what other than that struck me, but i decided that was that and i was going to drop some of this weight. I have 2 kids, and i wanted to have kids early in life, i did, first at 24, second at 26. The idea being, ill be a relatively young man when they have kids and ill actually be able to hang out with my kids in their 20s, and be more than an old man who cant do much for my grand kids.

well that's a fine and dandy age wise right now, but not if i treat myself like a food dumpster for the next 20 or so years. Being alive during the time isn't the only part of that goal, actually interacting in a way more than sitting around in the chair is what i want.

As it stands, I've hit the gym every day aside from 2, due to needing to work at another location those days that doesn't have a gym. I've changed my diet as well, since i learned early on from experience, that working out, unless its stupid intense, is not enough to actually lose the weight. I know its everywhere on the internet that weight loss is more about diet than exercise, but some of us learn from experience more than words.

to begin, i haven't started eating all great foods, but i have cut out some of the crappier things in my life, no more candy and red bull for breakfast, its now a yogurt and a banana, lunch is general some form of meat, same with dinner. I might have a slice every week, but that's mostly cut out. And my portions are in control. I'm not eating until i feel like bursting. and water, I've been pounding it, and cut soda out of my life at this point. Which i think was a huge factor, since i could drink it free from the fountain at the pizzeria.

I feel different for sure, not sure i feel "good", because I've been in a near constant state of mild hunger, but I'm pretty sure that's sugar withdrawal. but i also don't feel bad, or drained or anything.

It gets easier daily to wake up for the gym.

Sorry for the long rant, I wanted to get it out there, but I'm not really talking about it with my family because i don't want to jinx it really. I'm just taking it day by day.

SW: 198 lbs CW: 189.8 lbs GW: 175 lbs

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I’ve never been so motivated to lose weight. really, it’s out of spite.

My bff is getting married. I’m her bridesmaid. She picked a dress that comes in a limited number of sizes. Prom dresses come in limited sizes while bridesmaid dresses have every size. She picked prom, I don’t fit. So instead of her changing dresses and picking a dress that has every size... I have to wear a different dress. Everyone will be wearing the same dress except me. So yes I’m pissed she won’t just find a bridesmaids dress. I’ve gained a lot of weight since having a baby and of course I want to lose it...but now I want to just because I’m pissed about the situation. What makes me more mad is my friend used to be bigger but she has lost weight. So she should know how it feels. Rant over. Give me tips from your weight loss!

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High protein diet for a month, but not losing weight!

I am 190lb/ 5'8"/ 32 yr old F, trying to lose weight! I have been trying to change my body composition by having about 130 - 150 gms of protein everyday. Macros - 40 - 50% protein and the rest is split almost equally between carbs and fats. I also try having complex carbs like sweet potatoes, brown rice, multigrain bread, quinoa, etc. I weight train at least 5 x a week , and play an hour of badminton at least 4x / week.

Although i feel some inch loss, and definition on my triceps, back and abs (i have a naturally tiny waist and wide hips) i am not seeing ANY weight loss at all. I understand I may have gained muscle mass but so much so that I havent lost ANY weight? How is that possible? I also have psyllium husk and drink a gallon of water everyday. I even have substituted stevia for sugar.

I have absolutely no idea what i am doing wrong! Pls help me!

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Losing Motivation

Hi All! 29(F) 5’7” I started my weight loss journey 7 weeks ago at 231 today I am 206. So close to onederland, the problem is that 6 days ago I was 204. I was prescribed adipex when I started and continue to take it 37.5 mg daily. I have adhered to a low calorie (600-1000 cal) diet with increased physical activity since then. I consider myself an intermittent faster with 24 hours between meals most days. I am beyond happy with my results in such a short amount of time, but cannot accept that I have gained over the last week. I have so far not faltered in my plan, but am really sad about my progress this week and may not be able to keep going if I do not see better results. Does anyone have any advice?

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"I truly got the hint now. I'm going to start taking my weight loss much more seriously." FIRST UPDATE

Hey all!

I originally posted here a year ago, right https://reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/7l7vgo/i_truly_got_the_hint_now_im_going_to_start_taking/

TL;DR I said that if I didn't lose forty pounds by the 1 year mark then I'd literally eat my own shit.

Because of that, I saw an interesting mix of support and concern from so many of you in the comments, and even some really helpful and encouraging PMs from some of you.

So I wanted to start by saying that I started this at exactly 368.2 pounds.

I had to start by admitting a few things this year that I had done:

1) I did a poor job for many months of holding myself to my diet. I was driving over 80 miles a day in shit traffic, and I sacrificed working out for lazy relaxing choices. It was a really hard start, and having an exhausting schedule like that made it worse. I own my poor decision, and while I've moved forward, I can't justify not exercising before.

2) After finally moving within 10 miles of work and drastically reducing my commute time, I noticed significant amount of energy and time I had. I started swimming and walking. I developed a closer relationship to my dog because we both explored the area around us together as we walk around. I noticed a better set of emotions when I was talking to anyone (work, family, etc.). And most importantly.. I just had a slightly happier existence. I emphasize slightly because I'm now realizing the other issues that make me unhappy. I don't want to get into super personal stuff on this thread, but basically my weight isn't the only thing holding me back from trusting and pushing myself.

3) As I got to a healthier state of mind, I noticed the pep in my step would be grander. I realized that I had less pessimistic expectations out of my loved ones. I felt more connected with many of the closer people in my life. I always thought the self image thing was bs, but I was wrong. Having a better feeling about your health really do show in your appearance and charisma. I noticed that I was better at getting attention and approval from people because my attitude reveled in my confidence and acceptance of who I am and what I can become.

With these three notes, I want to answer the big question: Am I going to eat my own shit?

So with the whole experience mentioned above, I didn't lose 40 pounds.

I LOST 43.7 POUNDS BABYYYYYY. 368.2 DOWN TO 324.5 AND I FEEL FUCKING FANTASTIC.

I promise that this isn't the end and I'm going to keep pushing forward.

Thank you all so much for your words of encouragement! I am so excited to see what's next!

TL;DR I AIN'T EATING SHIT TODAY BABYYYYYYYYYYY

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 21 December 2018? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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