Thursday, January 3, 2019

So much weight to go, how do you stay motivated? Maybe we can all help each other

I love this subreddit, and I'm learning more each day. I looked at my BMI and I'm obese... ick. I'm 6' even and 275.6 lbs at the start of Sunday evening. I found out just to get to over weight status I need to lose 55.6 lbs and to get to normal I need to drop an additional 40.I have a workout, diet and exercise plan,but that's 95.6 lbs to go. So here I am thinking to my self.... how in the world will I keep this up. I will try my damnedest to eat the healthy meals I made, and stick to my work out regimen. But then I thought about work out buddies or accountability buddies. Does anyone trade messaging apps, or is there a group of people that update their photos and weight loss, or even have fun weight loss competitions? I feel like if it's a game or i get to show my progress it will make it so much easier. If not I'd love to start a group. Please let me know via pm or level a comment. I'm really excited to drop these lbs with you guys.

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Motivation is at an all time high right now

I love New Years resolutions. Last year my resolutions are what helped me lose most of my weight so far. After I lost it, I lost motivation to continue. Well, we have a new year, new resolutions, and my motivation couldn’t get any higher. Just came here to say that all it takes is for you to succeed one time. Everyone else has also failed every attempt at weight loss/ living a healthier life... until they kept trying and succeeded once.

Also, my friend and I got our body scans for fat and muscle comp. let’s just say I’ve turned it into a competition to see who can gain the most muscle/lose the most fat 😆 (nothing like a good competition for motivation)

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After losing 34lbs I noticed I was comfortable enough to randomly hug my best friend. My confidence is returning!

6 months ago I was at my highest weight, 34lbs from where I am now. I spent a weekend with two of my good friends, one of whom I’ve been close with for almost a decade. It was awesome to see both of them before I moved across the country, but I honestly felt so embarrassed to be seen by them. I had ballooned up to 220lbs (I’m 5’1) and felt so ashamed and physically I was unwell—reflux, digestive issues, and awful snore-filled sleep.

I traveled back east for the holidays and visited them for a weekend. We were out somewhere and I got the urge to hug my long time friend because I was just SO happy to be with her again and so grateful for being alive in that moment.

So, I squeezed her! and suddenly I realized...WTF? I can’t believe I just did that! If I had done that 6 months ago I would’ve had all these anxious, self-punishing thoughts in my head like “You’re so creepy, you’re so desperate for attention,” etc.

Without even being conscious of it, I have been letting go of SO many “I’m a disturbing alien creature” feelings and coming back to feeling like an actual human who can give affection. I feel so much more like I “belong” and I feel confident again, like I trust that people want me around and aren’t disgusted by me because I’m not disgusted by myself anymore.

In retrospect it’s so devastating to me how much my weight contributed to my self-imposed isolation and feelings of loneliness. I would flake on social events all the time because I didn’t want to be seen in that state, as it was such painfully visible evidence of how much I was suffering internally.

While I’m still definitely struggling extremely hard with anxiety and depression, finding agency in my body & weight has been so healing. I’ve always been an affectionate and super social person and losing weight has me feeling like I can come back to my natural disposition without all the self-doubt and loathing.

So, all of this to say, if you’re in a similar place to where I was 6 months ago—isolated, lonely, and desperate for human connection but too full of self-doubt to let it in—honestly, I believe weight loss can be so incredibly helpful. Like I mentioned, I’m still dealing with mental health stuff (in therapy etc.) so weight loss is not a cure all by any means. But taking charge of your habits and health is confidence-boosting, and that ripples out to every single part of your life. Stick to the journey and you’ll be amazed at the small-but-huge changes you notice not just in clothing fit, but psychologically!! Good luck to you!!!

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"Skinny Fat" F in early 30s who can't lose belly flab. Keep getting mistaken for being pregnant and it triggers my tokophobia and makes me very upset. Can't lift (old shoulder injury). What the hell can I do? It won't go anywhere.

I'm really intimidated by weight loss and fitness subs because they are full of people who are super into fitness and I am really......not (working out is a necessary evil for me, not something I enjoy), but I did get some suggestions to post here.

So long story short, I am in my early 30s and with a big case of "skinny fat". I look thin in clothes and have very toned legs/arms but all my weight goes to my torso and I have big boobs (yay) but also a big gut (boo).

What is awful about this is that strangers keep assuming I am pregnant because I look like I am 4-5 months pregnant because of my stomach flab. I am very tokophobic and have anxiety, so being assumed to be pregnant is actually.....triggering of my tokophobia. And the other week I was having a glass of wine with dinner and someone shamed me for drinking while pregnant :/

Everywhere seems to say GET LIFTING, which ok, but I have had a major shoulder surgery which means it is not easy to lift, and I am also embarrassingly unfit at the moment.

My New Year's Resolution is to try and flatten down my stomach so people stop offering me their seat on public transport and triggering my tokophobia. However, I don't want to go on a diet where all I eat is celery either. I still want to be able to eat food haha. And I am naturally one of those people who has a bit of a big appetite and am struggling with hunger if I try to cut down calories too much.

Is anyone able to give me some tips or support or advice or......anything, I am just so sick of this problem.

I know I can not spot reduce but I am terrified of ending up skinny and losing all my boobs and still having the huge belly :(

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Maybe losing weigh won't solve ALL of my problems... But it's a start, right?

<VENT ALERT>

I'm relatively new to this forum but I am not new to the way of the diet..

This will be the third time that I've lost the same amount of weight in 10 years. I realize now why I wasn't able to keep it off before.. The first time I lost the weight, I was eating way too few calories with no plan for maintenance. The second time was due to the fact that I had nothing but gym time to my disposal and after getting into a new relationship I switched ships and settled into the comfortable life with my new boyfriend. Now, I know I need to find a nice middle ground to keep myself at my goal weight. I need to acquire cooking skills as well as learn to make time for light daily exercise. But, that's not really why I'm writing this. I'm writing this because I have always had this ideal for my life. The 'if i looked like Barbie then I could also have the dream house' fantasy, and it seems to have gotten worse now that I can conveniently compare myself to people *that I would have otherwise forgot about* through social media. I'm constantly comparing my life to that of my thinner friends and acquaintances. I realize that I am only seeing a very distorted version of their lives but it still makes me feel like I am inadequate- and as bad as it sounds it's one of my main motivations for losing weight. I want to be a better me. If I had the Disney princess body then I could marry the prince and all of my problems would be solved. Not realistic, I know... but I have no idea how to train myself to think of other positive reasons to lose the weight.

This journey seems to be so much more than just cocooning. It's only been a few weeks of dieting so far- but there is so much emotion wrapped into it. Anyways down to the meat of this word vomit-- I have a few questions for you all:

Q1: What has been the most challenging problem you've personally faced on your weight loss journey? How did you (or plan to) overcome it?

Q2: What motivates you to continue losing weight or maintain?

Q3: How do you become body positive when you don't like yourself very much?

Q4: What problems did losing weight solve for you?

Q5: What problems did losing weight not solve?

Q6: What was the greatest skill you learned while on your journey?

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[Study] Metastudy of 60 Research Studies Once Again Finds Diet More Important than Exercise in Weight Loss

I always make note of those times we find actual science that valiantly tries to stand up against all of the fads, paid pieces, and pure hogwash that exists in the diet and weight loss space. Today, I came across a great piece in Vox that summarizes a large number of those papers. There's also a much more in depth review that piece is simplifying. For those of you who like really getting into the science and mechanics, I hope you find these as interesting as I do.

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Soup’s on: 16 Tasty Soup Recipes the Whole Family Will Love

Nothing warms your bones and fills your belly better on a chilly day than a piping hot bowl of tasty soup. These delicious recipes use a bounty of vegetables, lean meats and flavorful seasonings to create tasty soup to keep your taste buds happy and your diet on track.

Who doesn’t love a good bowl of tasty soup after a long day? It’s a classic dish that has the ability to warm the soul on those chilly evenings. What’s even better? Tasty soup can be packed with plenty of  healthy ingredients that allow you to be satisfied with comfort food, while being filled with vitamins and nutrients that help you stay on track with your weight loss! What more could you ask for?

Looking for some more classic comfort food? Click below to check out our Buffalo Mac and Cheese recipe!

Buffalo Mac and Cheese

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Here are 16 ideas for healthy, tasty and season-approved soup recipes:


1. Simple Pumpkin Soup >

Pumpkin soup

It lives up to its name in the prep department: bring broth, pumpkin puree, ground ginger, curry powder and other yummy seasonings to a boil, simmer for a little, stir in milk, simmer some more and done. With its rich pumpkin taste and creamy texture, this no-fuss recipe is the perfect pick when you’re craving the quintessential flavors of fall. For a version with a little extra kick, try Spicy Pumpkin Soup >which works peppers, onions and the Nutrisystem White Bean Chicken Chili into the recipe. Need to grab some of the Nutrisystem White Bean Chili? Get it here! >

2. Italian Chicken and Fall Veggie Soup > 

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Butternut squash and turnips—it’s in there. Carrots and kale—yup, those are in there, too—providing all their vitamins and minerals. You’ll also find shredded roasted chicken, tomato paste, red pepper flakes and tons of Italian seasoning. But wait, there’s more: whole-wheat gnocchi adds an extra Italian flair to this super healthy and hearty soup. Make this your flex lunch on a cool afternoon, and count it as one SmartCarb, one PowerFuel, one Vegetable and two Extras.

3. Zesty Tomato Soup >

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With a few cans of diced tomatoes, a few cups of veggie broth, onions and garlic, you can whip up a big pot of this all-time favorite to enjoy throughout the week or freeze and save for a busy day. Almond milk thickens up this soup, bay leaves enhance the flavor, and chopped basil on top serves as a tasty (and oh-so-pretty) garnish.

4. 5-Ingredient Chicken “Noodle” Soup >

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The “noodle” is actually spaghetti squash, cooked and scraped into pasta-like strands to save on carbs. Low-sodium broth helps cut salt. Chicken adds protein, carrots boost nutrients, and fresh thyme brings more flavor. Five simple ingredients make for the perfect side of soup to any Nutrisystem meal. For another slimmed-down take on this comfort classic, try the Skinny Chicken Noodle Soup. >

5. Veggie Lover’s Risotto Soup >

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A handful of extra veggies transforms the Nutrisystem Mushroom Risotto entrée into a delectable soup fit for fall. Zucchini, baby bell mushrooms, kale and a can of diced tomatoes mesh beautifully with the savory vegetarian sausage, shitake mushrooms, red bell peppers and pinch of parmesan to create a flavorful spin on a rice and vegetable dish. Need to grab the Nutrisystem Mushroom Risotto entrée? Grab it here! >

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6. Creamy Butternut Squash Soup >

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Plan to make an extra-large batch of this one: with its smooth texture and the rich, sweet flavor of squash, your family will sample this cold-weather favorite right out of the pot. It’s creamy (without any actual cream), and the carrots and onions add flavor without any bad fat, making this a healthy meal you can enjoy all winter long. 

7. Corned Beef and Cabbage Soup >

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It’s got the traditional ingredients right down to the potatoes, cabbage, carrots and celery which all pair nicely with lean beef; and the leeks, garlic and thyme season the broth into the perfect base for this hearty—but much healthier—version of Irish pub fare.

8. Sour Cream & Dill Chicken Noodle Soup >

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When you’re short on time but craving comfort food, Nutrisystem has you covered with its Chicken Noodle Soup. Thick noodles and chunks of tender chicken in a tasty soup broth are ready in minutes. Then stir in non-fat sour cream and top with a pinch of dill for a new flavor in no time. Need to order some Nutrisystem Chicken Noodle Soup? Grab it here! >

9. Veggie Summer Stew >

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Garden variety vegetables give it its name, but this stew can be enjoyed in the winter, spring and fall, too. Big chunks of zucchini and squash alongside diced carrots, tomatoes and red bell peppers give you pops of color and lots of nutrients in every spoonful. The fiber-filled white beans help satisfy your hungry belly, while onions and seasonings please your palate.

10. Cauliflower Sweet Potato Soup >

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Two powerhouse veggies join forces to bring you one satisfying soup that’s high in vitamin C, low in calories and loaded with health-boosting nutrients. The cauliflower and sweet potato combo simmer in a broth with garlic, onions, paprika, coriander, cumin and ginger to create a flavorful side to your lunch or dinner. Each one-cup serving is only 127 calories.

Broccoli Cheddar Quiche with Loaded Potato Crust

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11. Easy French Onion Soup >

French Onion Soup
All the classic flavors with much fewer calories makes this a perfect flex lunch. Vidalia onions and bay leaves flavor the broth, sourdough bread sits on top, covered in melted Swiss cheese—all for 129 calories per serving. Log this recipe one SmartCarb, one PowerFuel and one Extra.

12. Black Bean Quinoa Pumpkin Soup >

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Wonder how pumpkin soup could possibly get any better? Try this inspired recipe that tosses black beans, quinoa and kale into the mix. The added ingredients pump more than 12 grams of muscle-building protein into the soup, and chili powder and cayenne heat up the seasoning. Top it all with a generous sprinkle of shredded cheese and you’ve got a new, healthy twist on an autumn standard.

13. Loaded Potato Soup >

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It doesn’t get much easier than this: take a Nutrisystem Loaded Potato lunch, add some skim milk, chicken broth, spinach and spices and voila—potato soup for only 315 calories. If you’re Nutrisystem, a one-cup serving counts as one lunch, one PowerFuel and ½ Vegetable. Grab Nutrisystem Loaded Potato lunch right here! >

14. 5-Ingredient “Cheezy” Cauliflower Soup >

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Cauliflower is one of those all-around excellent vegetables. It’s got lots of potassium, vitamin C, vitamin K and folate; it’s less dense than potatoes and makes a great replacement for rice; and it’s an unlimited non-starchy vegetable on the Nutrisystem plan. In this tasty soup recipe, cauliflower cooks alongside leeks and garlic in chicken broth until tender; then it’s mixed with nutrient-packed nutritional yeast for a cheesy taste. Enjoy the soup with lean meat for a light flex lunch.

15. Kitchen Sink Veggie Soup >

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It’s got a little bit of everything, as the name implies—spinach and tomatoes, celery and carrots, onions and garlic. Also in there: pearl barley to add heartiness and Italian seasoning for extra flavor. Consider this comfort in a bowl.

16. Tropical Gazpacho Soup >

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The cold, tasty soup is so packed with fresh flavors, you’ll want to dive your spoon in—no matter the weather! Pineapple, mango and colorful peppers offer up lots of vitamins, and red onions, cilantro and lime enhance the taste of this season-less soup. Want to try another slurp-worthy Gazpacho? The Creamy Green Gazpacho with Grilled Shrimp > features healthy veggies blended with yogurt, avocado and a slew of seasonings, and topped with perfectly cooked shrimp. Delish!

 

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