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Under 100kg for the first time in 3 years!!

I weighed myself today and I was 99.8KG! The last time I weighed 99 was around the middle of 2015. My beginning weight was 130Kg, being that big/obese at only 15 years old was honestly ruining my self esteem and also future health. So I started eating 500 calories a day which was a big mistake since my arms are a now bit saggy/ I guess maybe loose skin or it could be genetics since I was very big? But I just wanted this fat off of me because I hated it so much. I know there’s no short cut to weight loss and it’s my fault for letting myself get that heavy. I’m now eating around 1400 and walking 3-4 times a weeks. I can now wrap a towel around myself, my bust is now 45inches instead of 49. I’ve also gone from size AU22 in clothes to a 18/20. I feel so happy I’m finally double digits not triple! I still have a long way to go but just wanted to share this with someone!!! Since I don’t really wanna tell my family because it might sound like I’m bragging or something.

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Alternatives to comfort eating

Hi all,

I was wondering if anyone had any advice about developing non-eating habits for comfort. My job has me moving to a new place where I don’t know anyone roughly every year or so. I made a move a few weeks ago, and every day has been a struggle so far. I’m feeling lonely and isolated and a little bored, and I’ve found myself having small to medium binge episodes almost every night. Even with the binges, I’m only ending up slightly above maintenance, but I can see this escalating soon if things don’t get better.

I want to stop and figure out a way to deal with my emotions better, particularly if this is something I’m just going to go through once a year for the next few years.

For reference, I’ve developed a pretty complicated relationship with food over the last 4 years, mostly due to an endless pursuit of weight loss. I feel a lot of shame about my food control issues.

I wish I had the money for therapy, but I don’t. Hoping some of you might have some words of wisdom.

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For those of you on the dark end of your weight loss journey. I’m ready to change but I can’t do it alone

I’m a FTM with a 7 month old. I gained 60 lbs during pregnancy. Yeah, that’s right 60. Don’t feel sorry for me, I used my pregnancy as an excuse to do what I wanted. Did the hormones make that decision to eat everything easier? Yes. Could I have been different? Also yes. Now I’m 7 months postpartum the only time I come out of sweats is on force and I have to wear my maternity clothes.

I’ve lost 20 of it. But I’m gaining again. It has to stop. I’m a miserable mess and constantly feel terrible. All I think about is how uncomfortable I am and how my clothes don’t fit as my pants and bra and underwear constantly cut into my skin. Yes I bought bigger. It doesn’t matter it still happens. I let it effect who I am to my husband. I let it make me depressed. I let MY weakness make me depressed.

The only way to change is eating different. I can not squeeze in gym time. Ok literally I can, but I won’t. Not yet.

Here’s my deal. I’m a full time student in a Biochemistry major, in class from 8am to 8pm on Tuesday and Thursdays. From 5-7 each morning i work my second job. My first job is 40 hours including weekend. (Do the math.. 40 hours in 5 days since the other two I’m at school = no days off). And did you forget I have a 7 month old? And when I am home and she’s sleeping I am studying because I’m paying for school so failing is not an option. And I sleep 4 hours a night to make it work, IF the baby sleeps. Haha, that’s funny to say.

I meal prep- but I also get too tired to be consistent. On those days I fail. I eat everything I shouldn’t. So much that it offsets all the work I’m doing. I eat so much and so poorly. It has to stop. I cannot go on looking, feeling and being so miserable because I am too weak to change.

So I’m trying something new. I’m telling my story to reddit in hopes I find solace in people who get it. My husband is tiny and eats what he wants and doesn’t understand my struggle, doesn’t have input or words of support or advice. Just straight up says i can’t help you I don’t get what you’re going through.

I will chronicle my journey. For anyone who cares or doesn’t, I hope one person can be impacted positively by someone who is GOING through the struggle now, on the dark side with no results yet.

Yay for those of you that have results! I want to be there, but right now your stories just make me hate Myself more.

So here we go. Thanks for listening.

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Food addiction randomly disappeared

I've been going to therapy for around 8 months to try to treat this issue, so it may be what helped, but I'm not fully sure.

It must have been psychological though. Quite often if I felt any negative emotion I would just hurry up and eat 2500-4000+ calories of food and then go into basically a food coma. Last Monday was the first time I just honestly cried instead (over something really stupid too lol). I cried for probably an hour and after that, I felt a lot better, didn't need to use food to calm me down. Since then I've felt so much happier overall. It sounds so pseudoscientific and almost supernatural that it worries me that the problem will eventually come back. I think what happened is I realized experiencing negative emotions without using food to cover it up wasn't so bad and actually it feels much -better- when you just let the emotions happen.

As for the physical hunger itself, I don't know really. I've always had issues with hunger. I'm on the autism spectrum, which is probably why I don't feel hunger very often. When the 'psychological hunger' went away it probably took me back to my 'normal' state which is to never be hungry. I remember when I was younger I would never get hungry and then I'd smell food and throw up because I hadn't eaten all day.

Now I barely want to eat at all. I've eaten less in the past week than I have in probably 10 years. The only thing I can do to maintain this is to not eat fast food, since it's addictive, and try not to eat too many carbs, since they're addictive too. I've lost around 10 pounds already (I'm sure some of it is water weight, but I was nearly 400 lbs so fast weight loss is to be expected) just because I haven't been eating in such a ridiculous way.

It's like my depression was suddenly severely lessened (although I still experience negative emotions of course). Has anyone had this kind of experience at all? It's still hard to believe, it's like a miracle almost. I already feel physically better too. I wonder if my brain is just tricking me... i didn't even really do any work to make this go away. I was thinking constantly about food one day, unable to resist it, and another day I don't care that much (I still like eating though obviously).

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How getting a new Job changed my life

I've been jobless for a good amount of time. - Then i finally got a new job, and what a surprise: there was a gym right next to it. So I signed up right when I started my new job. (December 2017)
In April 2018 I found out what tracking calories is about and started doing that.
In 9 months I lost 20kgs. I went running, lifted a little bit on the machines. nothing serious. I think it was the end of October, where I finally hit my goal.

Starting weight of 85 kg. Made it to 65kg.

In November I started weight lifting/powerlifting. Trying to hit my protein every day and building muscle.

https://imgur.com/gallery/k2Jus4u - Here you can see in the second picture my actual weight loss and in the first picture my progress from becoming skinny fat to hitting my protein goals and working on gaining muscles.

Sorry for the wrong order.

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I'm always happy to help. :) (Since I went through a lot of crap with diet pills, shakes and stupid programs)

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[M25] 282 --> 194: Slow and steady progress 3+ years, with tons of ups and downs. Slowly crawling to my goal weight of 180.

https://imgur.com/a/frGX2kS

Like many of you, I've been a heavy guy my whole life. I consistently gained weight from childhood until I was around 21 years old. Before then, I told myself countless times "today is the day I begin my weight loss journey", followed by maybe a day or two of good eating, and then falling back into bad habits. The heaviest I ever weighed myself at was 282, but I'm pretty sure my heaviest was probably closer to 300, but at that time I wouldn't even weight myself because I had a crippling fear of seeing a number that started with "3" on the scale

I managed to get myself down to around 250lbs from the age of 21-24 through sporadic diets, some calorie counting, and exercise. Finally, in August 2017, I managed to get focused, started weighing myself almost daily, and managed to get to around 200lbs by April 2018. Life happens, and I slowly lost the drive I had for those successful months of weight loss. I have been bouncing around the 200-215 mark, until these past couple months, where I've managed to get back some of the motivation I had in that first big burst of weight loss. I'm posting this to provide some insight to people that may be in a similar situation to me when I started, and also to kind of kick myself in the ass to finish what I've started.

My number one tip to anybody that wants to lose weight is to build an environment around you that is conducive to overall health, and the weight loss will follow. For me this mostly meant removing unhealthy, high calorie food from home. I have always been both a stress and binge eater, and its natural to go towards the lowest effort, most comforting food possible. In the past, this would be things like sugar cereal with milk, baked goods, pasta, bread, etc... (Im a big carb binger). So what I did is stop buying these things, and instead having things like fruit, oatmeal, peanutbutter, deli meat. I always thought my cravings were for delicious food, turns out all my binging brain wants is to shove food in my mouth. By having these as my only option, I was immediately cutting huge amounts of calories without even trying.

I originally started counting calories, weighing my portions, the whole deal, and this was absolutely essential for me in gaining an understanding of portion sizes, calorie density of different foods, etc. However, for me this was unsustainable. I only managed to keep this up for a month or two, but eventually found my groove, and managed to lose most of the weight, and have maintained my weight, without this.

Another big change I made was moving in with a health conscious room mate, that had a ton of good habits that I could replicate. I truly believe you are a product of your environment, and by spending time with people with good habits, it helped reinforce the changes I was working on. Obviously this isn't an option for everyone, but I guess I would recommend trying to spend time with people you hope to be like(this works for muchmuch more than weight loss!!). I think its important to realize the massive effect the people you associate with have on your life.

There are a million other little changes I've made that have helped, and its the combination of all these changes that have led to success. I'd be willing to answer any questions and go into more details if people want to hear more. One thing I will say is it gets easier as you go. Start cutting out some unhealthy food, take the stairs, if you can find the time do some exercise, and get the number on the scale dropping. Once you see the number going down, it will start a feedback loop that will help drive and reinforce the good habits you are building. Don't expect to make all the changes at once either, take one little step at a time. At least in my experience, there wasnt the one day where I suddenly decided to change and then changed, it was more about having an understanding and acceptance of my weight problem, and using this to help drive decisions in my life.

Good luck to all of you on your journey

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