Thursday, March 21, 2019

Coping with being "attractive"

I'll cut to the point because I have a habit of rambling.

I've really developed a love for weight lifting and going to the gym has now become the highlight of every day. Fitness is definitely my new hobby and I'm working towards entering a lifting competition in 2020. This love has led to me being the fittest I have ever been in my life.

The thing is that I've always been in the Obese to Obese I BMI range for my height (4'11) since I was... Born? Haha. I've been happily yet enviously invisible my entire life.

The issue I have right now is that I'm experiencing a lot of mixed emotions about my weight loss. I'm the happiest, healthiest, and most confident I have ever been. I also feel awkward and self-conscious about being "attractive" and scared of what that means for me and my role in the world.

I'll admit that I'm the stereotypical "ugly duckling turned swan" tale but even my boyfriend has commented on this. Last night he said verbatim: "I knew you were an investment but wow, I never thought you'd blossom like this. You're so sexy lately." Although I cringed including that last bit, the term 'sexy' in itself is what attributes to my mixed feelings. Its all just new and I'm not used to it. I just want to keep lifting while also being invisible.

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A guide to eating your best when away from home

When we’re in a hurry, trying to find healthy food options isn’t always convenient. Whether you’re in need of a quick snack or a healthy on-the-go meal, our hunger and cravings can get the best of us and sometimes give way to poor eating decisions.

No matter where you find yourself, remember that preparing or picking out healthier food options is possible – all you need is a sound strategy. As a general rule of thumb, our food selections should incorporate some type of lean protein, healthy fat and good-for-you carbohydrates so that we feel full, energized and less likely to succumb to cravings later on that may eventually lead to overeating.  



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Need some help/advice while I'm going through a weight loss plateau.

Looking to get some feedback on what I could be doing to push past this plateau, and continuing to lose more weight and get closer to my goal.

I'm a 32 year old male, 5'10", my starting weight was 265 Pounds, I'm currently down to 237 Pounds. I started this life change in early December after I got a reality check from my doctor about my overall health, which was very poor.

I've been losing weight consistently every week, since, but now I've been sitting around 237 for the past 2-3 weeks, and I'm getting so frustrated and those feelings of giving up keep popping in and out of my head.

Here's mostly what I've been doing.

So I got diagnosed with extremely high Triglycerides, a fatty liver, as well as high blood pressure, and high cholesterol. I've had my blood taken a few times since, and every thing has been dropping, and going into the green, so that's very good.

My Caloric intake per day is around 2-300 calories less then my allotted amount. Which right now says I'm allowed to have up to 1920 Cals a day.

I Walk 45 minutes every day to work, instead of taking the subway.

My Diet usually consist of a Banana for breakfast with some coffee and a little fat free milk.

For lunch, I usually eat 3 slices of home made Whole Wheat pizza. Sauce is homemade,no added sugar, and I've added the calories, it's about 130 cals per slice.

For Dinner most nights I'll eat brussel sprouts, with brown rice, and a Chicken Patty.

I don't consume added sugars, no sodas, juices, ice creams etc. No Processed foods, no white flours, or simple carbs.

I feel better than I have in almost a decade, and this is the least I've ever weighed since probably high school.

My Goal is get to about 186 pounds, and I'm super motivated, but since this Plateau i've been feeling down, and I'm still sticking to the same plan, but it's getting harder and harder to accept this stop in weight loss.

I've read that it's possible to kick start your metabolism by having a cheat day, eating well over my 1920 cals per day, and then going back to my normal diet.

And I'm aware if I exercised more of course this would help, but I'm really not looking to get into "shape", I just don't wanna be fat anymore.

Anyway, hope ya'll can help.

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Feeling defeated after an ugly comment from a "friend"

Hey everyone! I've been a lurker for a very long time and recently started my personal journey of weight loss. I always told myself I would never get heavier than 200lb but suddenly found myself weighing 236lb and realized it was time to make a change. I've cut out soda and am eating much healthier as well as going to the gym in the mornings before work. I've lost 21 pounds over the last 2 months so I'm currently at 215lb and am super excited about that. I felt stronger, more confident, more energized, and I was feeling great. Until yesterday.

I was speaking with someone I was briefly romantically involved with but then realized we were much better friends and have been so for about 4 years. He told me he had been thinking of me earlier in the day and said the following:

"I was imagining you being skinny and naked and how sexy that would be"

I feel crushed. I immediately felt the self loathing and insecurities come rushing back. I had just put together a chipotle chicken quinoa bowl and couldn't bring myself to eat it. My alarm went off this morning but I never made it out of bed for the gym so then I was late to work and I have no focus today. What gets you guys through comments or setbacks like this? Any tips on how to get back into the right mentality? I have a date scheduled for tomorrow and right now I'm not sure I can go through with it.

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Last day of my gyms 8-week weight loss challenge

8 weeks ago, my gyms weight loss challenge started. At the start of the weigh in I was 210.8 lbs, male, 5'10". My goal for the challenge was to lose 20 lbs. I weigh myself every day at the same time so I use my own scale as opposed to the official gym scale (don't plan to win anyway, last winner lost over 60 lbs). Today, I was 179.6 lbs, still male and still 5'10". Double checking my math, I beat my 20 lb goal by a little bit there. I feel good about my results.

as for NSVs, I have not bought take out or fast food for the entirety of the 8 week challenge, something that's really hard when you're a delivery driver who spends 12 hour days driving to fast food restaurants. I will admit, I had fast food once because a customer refused to come to the entrance of their locked apartment complex to pick up. Thinking about that, I'm pretty sure it was my only actual cheat day the entire 8 weeks. Meal prep and stubbornness against spending more money prevails I suppose. Only thing that came close to a cheat day was adding half a dozen each of shrimps and scallops to a 1400 calorie day.

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5 Zero-Calorie Ways to Add Flavor to Your Food

Spices are invaluable tools when you’re trying to lose excess weight. Garlic, cinnamon and other flavorings bring out the best in other ingredients, and they pump up the satisfaction of eating. Better yet, spices protect your health in many ways. Many spices count as Free Foods on the Nutrisystem program because they have few, if any, calories. That means you can enjoy as much of them as you want. With these five spices, you can add zing to breakfast, dinner and everything in between. We’re here to tell you which spices to keep in stock, what they’re benefits are, and how to use them.

Check out the top five spices to add to your food without adding a whole lot of calories:

1. Garlic

Garlic

What: Garlic’s zesty taste is essential to many of our favorite cuisines, from Italian to Mexican to Asian. Garlic is mildly hot and tingly, without burning your taste buds. Fresh garlic keeps for a few weeks, no refrigeration needed, before it begins to lose flavor. Garlic powder is convenient and easy to store—be sure to avoid garlic salt, which is high in sodium.

Why: Science is proving what herbalists and others have long known: Garlic has powerful antimicrobial properties, so it fights infections, and it helps ward off colds and other viruses. Eating garlic also helps reduce your bad (LDL) cholesterol level and reduces your risk of suffering from cardiovascular disease, according to a study published in The Journal of Nutrition.

How: Roast a whole garlic bulb, inside its papery skin, in your oven for about 15 minutes at 350 degrees F. It will fill your home with its rich aroma, while softening in flavor and texture. Spread the gooey insides on a slice of whole grain bread topped with sliced tomato. Minced garlic sparks the taste of pasta sauces, marinades and salad dressings. Click here to watch our genius hack for peeling garlic in seconds flat >

Try: Slow Cooker Garlic Herb Mashed Faux-tatoes > have the creamy texture you love and spunky flavor, plus you get a healthy serving of vegetables.

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2. Ginger

ginger

What: The knobby stems of ginger roots look woody, but their flavor is a subtle blend of warm and sweet. Ginger fits well in savory dishes, sweet desserts, even smoothies and fruit teas. Look for firm and shiny roots in the produce section—avoid any pieces with soft spots. You can store fresh ginger in your refrigerator for two to three weeks or longer in the freezer. Ground ginger, found in the spice aisle, is convenient, but avoid crystallized, candied or glace ginger—they come with lots of sugar and excess calories.

Why: If your mother gave you ginger ale when you had a stomach ache, you already know that ginger relieves nausea and other minor digestive disorders. It has anti-inflammatory properties, so it helps ease the symptoms of arthritis and improve blood circulation. Studies published in the International Journal of Food Sciences and Nutrition have found that consuming ginger keeps blood sugar levels in balance, especially beneficial for people with diabetes.

How: For a quick shot of ginger’s flavor and belly-soothing power, take a half-inch slice or two and boil them in two cups of water until the liquid turns gold. Add grated ginger to stir-fry dishes, fruit salads and glazes for grilled fish or poultry. Ginger’s mild heat provides a contrast to sweet fruit in smoothies and juices. Love ginger but hate peeling it? Click here to watch our quick video on how to peel it fast >

Try: Our Gingerbread Freezer Fudge > is easy to make—no cooking needed—and oh-so pleasing when you crave a treat. It starts with smooth and creamy cashew butter.

3. Cinnamon

cinnamon

What: A fragrant tree bark, cinnamon has a lightly sweet flavor with a flicker of heat. If kept in a closed plastic bag, cinnamon sticks keep for months and you can grate them as needed. Ground cinnamon from the spice aisle is easy to sprinkle, but its flavor tends to be milder.

Why: Even though cinnamon tastes sweet, it decreases glucose blood levels and insulin spikes. Research published on Cleveland Clinic also found that cinnamon reduces bad cholesterol (LDL) and increases the beneficial type (HDL).

How: A dusting of cinnamon in your cup of coffee turns it into a low calorie specialty drink. Add a dash to sweet potatoes. Mix it into whole grain pancake or waffle batter. Stir it into plain yogurt for an instant fruit dip.

Try: With a Nutrisystem Vanilla FreshStart Shake and sliced apples, you can make our quick and easy Creamy Apple Cinnamon Smoothie Bowl >, a balanced breakfast or post-workout recovery meal.

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4. Cayenne Pepper

cayenne pepper

What: A moderately hot type of chili peppers, cayennes are dried and ground into powder to make the spice. Just a few pinches are enough to get your taste buds buzzing and your belly warm. Chili powder contains cayenne pepper, but it also includes cumin, garlic and other seasonings.

Why: Capsaicin, a powerful component of cayenne pepper, boosts circulation (that’s the flush you feel when you eat it) and fights infections. Research conducted by Purdue University has shown that consuming cayenne pepper may also help boost your metabolism, helping to burn calories, and that it helps reduce your appetite, especially for fatty and salty foods.

How: Light up mild foods like eggs and whole grains with a few shakes of cayenne pepper. Stir it into plain yogurt to enjoy with raw vegetables. Sprinkle it on pork or chicken before grilling.

Try: Chicken Kebabs with Peanut Dipping Sauce > is a fun finger food that’s loaded with lip-smacking flavor. They’re easy to make on an outdoor grill or your stovetop.

5. Vanilla

vanilla

What: A hint of vanilla sweetens all kinds of food, though it contains no sugar and has just 38 calories per teaspoon. For the freshest flavor, get “vanilla beans,” the seedpods of tropical orchids. They last for up to six months, stored in a sealed plastic bag. Keep them at room temperature, not in the fridge, where they can get moldy. Vanilla extract, made by steeping the beans in alcohol, concentrates the taste and aroma so that you need to use only a few drops. Beware of artificial vanilla flavor, which can smell like vanilla extract but is less flavorful.

Why: The scent of vanilla decreases your craving for chocolate, according to a study published in the science journal, Appetite. Vanilla also has a rich supply of antioxidants, potent allies in preventing the inflammation that leads to a variety of ailments.

How: Vanilla puts the fun in every day hot cereal, plain yogurt and light desserts. It makes smoothies taste like a classic milkshake. Vanilla’s sweetness balances out acidic flavors like citrus in marinades and vinaigrette.

Try: Vanilla Berry Ricotta Mousse > treats you to creamy cheese and sweet berries, and the kiss of vanilla. It takes minutes to whip up and gives you nine filling grams of protein.

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How to Spring Clean Your Way to Weight Loss

You may not have crossed the line between “creeping clutter” and “hoarding,” but organization expert Peter Walsh, in his recent book, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight, cites a 2008 study at Ohio State University that found that hoarders were three times as likely to be overweight as were their family members.

Hoarding is clutter to the nth degree. What the two have in common: Stress. Studies have found that clutter can lead to stress and stress to weight gain. The premise of Walsh’s book is, of course, that removing stressful clutter may be just the motivation you need to also drop some pounds. At the very least, you might be better able to lay your hands on your workout gear.

You can gauge how serious your clutter problem is by going to the website of the Institute for Challenging Disorganization and answering 21 questions on its “Are You Chronically Disorganized” fact sheet.

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Meanwhile, here are six spring cleaning strategies that may help you:

1. Make a deal with yourself: One bag a week. That’s all. Fill a trash bag with items from your home you can donate or leave at the curb for the sanitation crew. It’s a small step, but it will add up to 52 bags a year.

2. Check your closet for forgotten clothes: That blouse you keep passing over, the pants that are too small or too big, the sweater the moths like better than you do. Keep only the clothes you like, that fit, and that you wear.

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3. Forget the yard sale. Be honest. If you know you’ll never get it organized, you’re just delaying the inevitable—and storing all those saleable items in your house instead of getting them out.

4. Rid yourself of temptations. Do you have an ice cream maker, deep fryer, or bread machine stashed somewhere? Somewhere, someone who isn’t trying to lose weight and get healthy could use it. You don’t need it anymore. Especially with such amazing, healthy alternatives like Nutrisystem’s Chocolate Brownie Sundae or the Leaf’s recipe for Air Fried Mozzarella Sticks.

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5. Give everything a “toss by” date. If you have a hard time giving anything up, pack it in a box and mark a date three months, six months, or a year away. When it comes due, if you haven’t opened the box to take something out, dispose of it.

6. Drowning in paper? Buy a cork board or a roll of cork that you can cut to fit. Stick all the papers that are piling up on counters and other flat surfaces to the board. Once a week, clean off anything that’s out of date.

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