Friday, May 3, 2019

Getting called out

I seen the recent post calling out lurkers and i figured I might as well post something because I actually have hit a bit of a wall recently and maybe engaging with a community with similar goals might help me break through.

I'm a Male, 24, 5'8", and started my weight loss January of last year at my heaviest weight of 250. I was a powerlifter in highschool, and at my healthiest I sat at 190. You can imagine my disappointment when I seen 250 on the scale after taking a break from powerlifting.

I didn't make much of a change right away, but between an active job and just slight adjustments to my diet and never checking my weight, I made it down to 220 when I finally hopped on a scale again in July. I was so excited i decided to take it seriously by quitting all sugar drinks and counting my calories a bit closer.

By November I hit my lowest weight since highschool of 185. However after that I moved, had a change in occupation, and my diet has been slipping a bit, but luckily I've been just holding steady at 195.

I think I lost since motivation since I thought a good goal weight was 190, but found out a better goal weight is probably in the 170's. Still working on it, but the progress has definitely slowed down since November.

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Has anyone tried psychological counseling along to help with weight loss goals?

Edit: Wish I had proof read title.

I’m 34 F and I’ve never been diagnosed with an eating disorder or anything like that, but I’ve definitely noticed the strong correlation between my mental health and my willingness to work out and eat right. In my adult life, I’ve noticed that sometimes in high stress times I will do something akin to binge eating.

I’ve been training for a race and trying to eat better and losing weight slowly. I’ve had a hard time cutting out alcohol because I live in Colorado and we have such a culture of “hike then go to a brewery” here.

I was slowly chipping away at my goal until this week happened.

I teach high school AP courses and as students prepare for their exams and finals there is a lot of grading and a lot of emotional conversations and everyone is stressed. I’ve been at work until 7pm most nights this week. I didn’t prepare well food prep wise and I’ve been eating a lot of fast food because it’s easy and I’m hungry. But now I don’t feel like I can turn it off. I ate Chik Fil A last night and thought “well if I’m going to cheat I might as well cheat hard” so I ordered the large meal. Then I ate a sugary cookie when I got home. Then I drank some wine. Then I ate a popsicle. Then I hated myself for all of it. I tried not to shame myself but it’s hard.

I woke up this morning with that terrible full stomach feeling like taking a nap after thanksgiving and still waking up full. I’m mad but I’m more worried that in my mind I’ve developed this “all or nothing” connection to healthy and unhealthy eating. I’m going to try to reset this weekend.

I wonder if talking to a counselor or someone would be helpful. Do many people do that? I don’t think I have an eating disorder but I’m pretty sure I use food as a coping mechanism and that seems bad.

Thanks for reading and for all the encouragement in this community.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 03 May 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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About a month ago I started losing weight with a starting weight of ~156Kg/~343.92Lb (1.87M/6.13Ft)

Hi, this is my first post here so if the font is weird then i'm sorry in advance :").

Well I'll start of with telling who I am, I'm an 24 year old guy living in the Netherlands being quite content with the weight I have/had until one month ago instead of a weight value my scale quite literally said no or to much weight.

This in combination of having to wear 4XL clothes and size 64 pants made me snap it made me realize how much I weigh and it was my first motivation on losing weight.

Besides that my whole father's side of the family has Diabetes type 1/2 and a number of Heart and Vein diseases, considering all these things I've decided to do something about it.

Currently It's may 3rd and starting off from last month I lost 15Kg / 33.0693Lbs my goal will eventually be 90Kg/198.41Lb.

The journey will be hard and I will definitely have some setbacks but because of the support of my friends and family I'll manage.

Currently I'm doing a combination of the old fashioned Less food and exercise more combined with a low carbs diet.

I eat yogurt with fresh fruit for breakfast another batch for lunch with maybe one sandwich tops, I eat a lot of chicken and salads for diner and I force myself not to give in to the feeling of hunger when I definitely don't need it.

My friends and family support me so much and it's super motivating to hear about people being proud it almost brought me to tears at some point because I was so done with being this fat.

I'll keep you guys posted on updates on my weight loss and will be happy to answer any questions.

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Thursday, May 2, 2019

[Daily Directory] Find your quests for the day here! - Friday, 03 May 2019

Welcome adventurer! Whether you're new on this quest or are towards the end of your journey there should be something below for you.

Daily journal.

Interested in some side quests?

Community bulletin board!

If you are new to the sub, click here for our posting guidelines


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Embarrassed of weight loss

Well kind of...does anyone else get embarrassed to say how much weight you’ve lost for fear of people knowing how fat you really were/are?

Let me start by saying the only time I’ve ever stated my weight (other than medical professionals knowing, which I avoided for quite a few years, only went when pregnant) is here on Reddit. I said it once. It was liberating bc no other person knows. My husband has asked me how much weight I’ve lost. I told him about 20 lbs and that I have another 15-20 to go. In reality I started my journey at 267 back in Nov/Dec. I’m down to 194 in about 6 months and my goal is 160 (I’m 5’9 so that will put me at a normal weight). If I actually tell him this he’ll know that I was over 100 lbs overweight. That’s mortifying!!! I wouldn’t even tell him my weight while pregnant (around 240-250)...I wrote it down in a notebook so I could tell the hospital upon admitting, just so I wouldn’t have to say it so he could hear me!! In these last few days I’ve had other people ask me how much weight I’ve lost, my parents, colleagues, friends, clients and I just can’t bring myself to do it. I’m embarrassed. I had a friend even get mad at me bc I wouldn’t tell her!!!

Am I alone feeling like this??

I should note, like many of you, I also don’t see it. I know so bc of the scale and the fact none of my clothes fit, but it seems my mind either never realized how fat I was, or how much healthier I look now.

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Struggling to lose last 5-10 lbs :(

Hey everyone!! I’m 5’7 & I weigh 130 lbs and while that’s not overweight or anything I feel most comfortable when I’m around 125-120! I feel like I just look the best and I’m happy with my body.

I’ve been counting my calories for about 5 months and I try to eat around 1300 a day. I lost like 10 lbs in a few months, but I’ve hit a plateau. I also just recently started hitting the gym again so I’m hoping that will kickstart more weight loss. But I haven’t lost any weight in ~2 months. I don’t know what to do :( If anyone could offer advice that would be amazing.

current progess

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