Friday, July 19, 2019

Lost over 20lbs down to lowest weight in 10 years

Over the past 6 months I’ve gone from 183.2 to 163.6. I’m 5’9 and 29 years old.

I’ve always been active but went went through some personal and health problems and ballooned up. At one point over 190. Although I was never considered traditionally fat, I was made fun of for my large stomach.

Here’s how I did it:

  • eat 1500-1700 calories a day

  • no food restrictions. I ate everything I wanted and normally did just far less. Example: 2-3 slices of pizza instead of full pie

  • diligently tracked everything I ate and still do

  • took phentermine 37.5mg

-4-6 hours a week of prone paddleboarding

Honestly there is no secret to weight loss except hard work and motivation. People can say I cheated using phen and oh you’re a guy you lose weight easily it’s not true. I worked hard tracking food and limiting my intake daily. Weight loss drugs make it easier but no pill makes you lose weight without cutting calories

I feel much healthier and most of tummy is gone.

Wish everyone else great luck with their weight loss journey and happy to help anyone who wants to make changes

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Social Media and Self-Esteem: What You Need to Know

If your daily routine includes a scroll through your favorite social media feed, you’re not alone: According to pewresearch.org, approximately 70 percent of U.S. adults use YouTube and Facebook, 37 percent use Pinterest, and more than 20 percent use Linkedin, Snapchat and/or Twitter. The same source reports that nearly 75 percent of Facebook users visit the site every day, and the majority of Snapchat and Instagram users do the same.

These stats aren’t surprising, given that social media can be a great source of information, inspiration and connection. But research suggests that there are downsides to these popular online platforms. In fact, a growing body of evidence suggests that the more time people spend on social media, the worse they feel about themselves.

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But why? As it turns out, people are using social media for more than just socializing. They’re also using it to draw comparisons between themselves and others which, in some cases, is wreaking havoc on their self-esteem.

The Social Media, Self-Esteem Connection

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According to a study published in Psychology of Popular Media Culture, participants use social media to make what they call “upward social comparisons”–they compare themselves to others they perceive to be better off. The result? They end up feeling worse about themselves.

Multiple studies suggest that social media users are comparing how they look to others as well. Research out of the Florida House Experience, a mental health and addiction treatment facility, reveals that women’s opinions of their bodies are more heavily influenced by social media than by TV, movies, even their significant others.

Unfortunately, this is leaving many woman dissatisfied. Research out of York University in Toronto suggests that young women felt worse about their own appearance after viewing the social media pages of someone they perceived to be more attractive than themselves.

The “Highlight Reel Effect”

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One of the most interesting findings to come out of recent research on social platforms and self-esteem is that users report feeling the worst when comparing themselves to distant peers–those they are connected to online but have little to no interaction with outside the social media tunnel.

Researchers attribute this to what’s been deemed the “highlight reel effect.” Social media, they say, enables users to share only the best aspects of their lives. And unlike family and close friends, with whom users interact outside of the online world, distant peers can hide the negative or imperfect aspects of their lives and choose what to share–perfect images of beautiful vacations, toned bodies, stylish clothes, countless friends, etc.

This theory is supported by the York University study, which revealed that although scrolling through images of celebrities and distant peers made users feel negatively about themselves, scrolling through family member’s feeds did not. Given that users are likely close enough to family members to have a bigger picture view than what they see on social media, this makes sense.

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The Takeaway

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Before you close all of your social media accounts, know this: It isn’t all doom and gloom. How you use social media can have a sizable impact on your experience. Here are some tips for making sure your experience is a positive one:

1. Pick your friends and followers wisely.

By following only close friends and family members, you’ll keep the social connection element without falling victim to the Highlight Reel Effect. And if you do choose to follow distant acquaintances or celebrities, keep in mind that what they are sharing online is only a small piece of the bigger, real life picture.

2. Be choosy about inspirational accounts.

In a study out of the University of West England, Bristol, 160 female undergrads viewed either #fitspo images (pictures of attractive people exercising), self compassion quotes (like “You’re perfect just the way you are”), or a mix of both, from real accounts on Instagram. Those who viewed only #fitspo images scored lower on self-compassion; those who viewed the compassionate quotes were nicer to themselves and felt better about their bodies.

Another study of 195 young women who were shown either body-positive content, photos showing thin women in bikinis or fitness gear, or neutral images of nature, the women viewing the body-positive content reported feeling more satisfied with their own bodies.

These findings suggest that by being selective about the content you follow on social, you can create a positive environment that’s actually great for your self-esteem.

3. Take a step back.
Although multiple studies have established a correlation between social platform usage and low self-esteem, it’s something of a “chicken or the egg” situation. While some researchers theorize that engaging with social media can lead users to have lower self-esteem, others speculate that people who already have low self-esteem are most drawn to social media since they can obtain approval and positive reinforcement from others via likes, comments and shares.

Understanding why and how you use social media may help you shape a more positive experience. If scrolling through your feed makes you feel worse about yourself, your time might be better spent engaging in a different hobby–one that makes you feel good and reinforces the things you like about yourself.

On the other hand, if a daily scroll through your feed brings you joy and makes you feel more positive, there is no reason to cut social media out of your life.

Looking for some positivity? Check out Nutrisystem’s Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Pinterest pages!

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The weirdness of handling comments about weight loss

I'm on my second serious weight loss journey.

First time around, I lost about 80 pounds that had amassed after leaving a sport training regimen and simultaneously falling in love with cooking and baking, eating and drinking.

I maintained happily for about 6 years until I broke my neck in an accident and was forced to be truly sedentary. On top of that, a bad reaction to a prescription medication caused crazy-fast weight gain and seemed to wreck my metabolism. And, I turned 40. "Everyone knows" its hard to lose weight after 40 - or so people kept telling me. I was overwhelmed and simply quit trying to manage my weight.

There was a breaking point when I knew I needed to get things back under control. I'm 33 pounds down today and want to lose at least that much more, but I'm here to tell you it can be done. It's going slower this time around, but it is going.

I'm curious to notice how my attitude about weight loss has shifted the second time around. The first time, it made me anxious if others brought it up. I found compliments uncomfortable - like backhanded insults - and I was really private about everything. My weight loss felt like nobody's business.

This time around, it feels totally different. I care a lot less what other people think. I don't go out of my way to share, but if someone compliments me, it brightens my day. I say thanks and tell them I'm working hard on it. If they genuinely want to know what that means, I tell them. If someone offers unsolicited advice, I thank them even if I'm rolling my eyes on the inside - and then change the subject. I remind myself that at least their intent was probably positive. I feel OK articulating my goals and needs to colleagues and family in a light, matter-of-fact way.

I'm not sure what shifted or why, but this feels so much less stressful.

Has anyone else experienced a shift like this?

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Question Regarding a Weight Loss Method

Heyo guys: I'm pretty fat. I think I need to lose well over 50 pounds in order to be at a healthy body weight. I've been trying to lose it for a long time, but I think the problem is that I just don't like healthy food.

My question is; would I actually lose weight if I exclusively ate cantaloupe, apples, oatmeal and turkey? I'm thinking that a diet of this simplicity combined with a good amount of running everyday will get me to a steady and stable amount of weight loss. I have heard that diets that have you consuming under 1200 calories are extremely unhealthy, but what I aim to do is pick a small selection of fruits and meat that I like, that I can choose to eat a sh*t ton of, and not have to worry.

If you think that this is a bad way to lose weight, what should I change or think about differently? Thoughts?

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 19 July 2019? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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The Beginning

Hello, Reddit.

My name's Lys, and I'm a 30 year old from the UK. Nice to meet you!

Weight has always been 'a thing' for me. My obsession first started when I was 10, which was when I first started realising I was a little chubbier than my peers - not massively fat, just chunky. I asked my mother and her friend how to lose weight, at which point they laughed (kindly) and told me I shouldn't be worrying about it at my age.

Naturally I ignored the shit out of that, and became obsessed. I didn't really do anything to try and change it, but comparing myself to others became nothing short of addictive; my friends were thinner, prettier, healthier. I would stare discreetly - discreetly for a kid, which I now realise was probably obvious as fuck - at them when they were running around, in shorts, whatever, just seeing how different they looked to me.

Got worse as I got older. I could never stop comparing, and at 12 I started the long fall into stop-and-start bulimia. That went on until I was about 22 (alongside laxatives), but with no consistency I can't really say it made much of a difference. Thank god.

At 16, I finally did something about it. I took up tap dancing, and was - naturally, with my personality - obsessive about it. I'd ignore my girlfriend of the time and just dance, using the spare studios whenever there was space. I lost some weight, was genuinely gorgeous - because despite being a UK size 14 even with the weight loss, my face was slim and pretty and my body has always been in great proportions. I wish I'd seen it back then, rather than continuously still comparing myself to others and loathing myself.

I moved schools for sixth form, got into another relationship and got lazy. Stopped dancing, ate a shit ton, and steadily gained weight. That never really changed. In 2014 (at 25) I was diagnosed with Bipolar and BPD and had a breakdown - I didn't go out, ate and ate and then starved myself, then ate and ate. Cut off all of my hair. Tried to kill myself. Ended up in hospital. Continued my breakdown, just in a quieter way.

Ah, memories.

Eventually I moved back in with my parents, and in 2016 I met someone new and started losing weight. Was eating less, walking more, got a new job and things started looking up - I felt GREAT! I'd got up to 20st (280 pounds) whilst during my breakdown phase, and got down to about 16st (224) whilst back at home. I finally felt good about myself, and life was on a good path.

Unfortunately, my relationship ended up being an emotionally abusive one and I ended up wrecked and unhappy - but, hey, whatever. I had some time with myself, maintained my weight.

Met someone new. Was happy. So I ate. XD

Now I'm at a weight I'm not happy with - not quite as severe my highest, but still not good - and I need to sort this shit out. I'm 30, my body is not as forgiving and I want to feel beautiful again. I'm counting calories, and I thought I'd been doing well, but fuck me if I haven't somehow gained a little of the 8 pounds I'd lost already!

So, I need to lock it down. Need to do it. Need to show myself I can do it. And I need to know I've put this somewhere that I can be held accountable.

My gorgeous boyfriend is also losing weight, so I'm not doing this alone. I guess I'll catch up with you soon, Reddit, and let you know how I'm doing, but just... wish me well, even silently. Because I feel like I owe it to my inconsistent, ridiculous self to actually achieve this.

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I’m going to attempt and start my weight loss journey

I think I’m going to do. I had a revelation today, that if I’m ever going to have kids, I can’t be this fat. Just walking to work is a struggle. For reference, I’m around 420lbs, 6’1”, 26 y/o. Got my wedding in March of next year. I want to slim down as much as I can before then, as we’re flying to get there and I want to make sure I can fit in one seat.

I think my first step will be to cut out soda. That’ll be hard, I’m so addicted to it. Major exercise would be too much of a struggle, maybe starting with some light walking is good enough?

Thing is, I actually don’t hate being big. I kinda like being chunky, and my SO likes big guys so there’s no tension there. I’m just not a confident guy at all. I feel like my face is too fat, and people are staring at me wherever I go. Doesn’t help that I’m from a generally fit and skinny country.

I just had to write all this. Don’t even know if I have the willpower to actually start this.

But I need to try.

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