Friday, July 19, 2019

40 pounds in 2 months!

Never posted here yet but I am 40 pounds down after 2 months. Starting weight was at least 410 not entirely sure because the scale was only to 400 (M,21). I'm down under 370 now and I thought I would share a few things about my experience so far for anyone struggling to lose weight.

Firstly, I have struggled when I travel for my activities as a coach and competitor in debate having to eat out a bunch is super tough to deal with, and my family inviting me out has been difficult too, as a poor college kid of course I want the free meal lol. I use myfitnesspal app to track calories, and it's helped a lot, especially when you plan on drinking or eating out then. If you track calories it allows me to see where I am roughly at calorie-wise, and I almost always overestimate portions and calories to ensure I stay under.

Secondly, my workout schedule is usually very good beyond traveling, I love lifting weights and challenging myself from beforehand. To anyone trying to lift better, always remember to challenge yourself from the last session or last week. Try going up 5 or so pounds on heavy lifts every time, and every week the same on things with dumbells and stuff. Always see if you can do more, it's worth the set trust me. Don't just play it by feel of the current set, as that has led to me staying near the same weight for weeks and barely increasing, versus overloading more every session where I see huge gains in lifting. My chest flies, for example, were at 20 to start, only got them to 30 in the first month and a week but I've really focused hard on going heavier every session if I can do 8 reps in more than 1 set of that weight. Did 45 for 7 reps 2 days ago and I plan on doing 2 sets next chest day. I've done more on other things too, but I just wanted to give one example I was really happy with improvements in.

Thirdly, I write down everything I do in the gym in my notes section on my phone. I am somewhat flexible on my workout, switching off between muscles to let the other rest. Back and bi day is usually rows, curls, side lat pulldowns, EZ bar curls, face pulls, lat pulldowns. I am starting to do core a lot more, going to work up to every day, and cardio is essential (will talk about it below). I can check my progress from almost the very start when I started writing it down, to now, and it amazes me how far I have already come.

The last thing, cardio is super important even if you are lifting. If you struggle with weight like I do cardio feels terrible. And it still won't feel good, but there are ways around all the stress on joints. My favorite is a stationary bike, I'm big so the sitting down one is what I use. I have been doing a circuit of resistance, doing 10 out of 25 resistance total as my low, medium being 15, and high being 20. I started with doing 4 circuits, 3 mins of easy, 2 minutes of medium, and 1 minute of hard. the great thing about this is you can go hard for 3 minutes and get a bit of a rest for 3 minutes. I've been able to work my way up to more sets and more calories burned per minute. When I didn't do cardio for a week or so my progress stopped almost completely, doing both lifting and cardio has seen great benefits to weight loss so far and my cardio levels are significantly better than before. If you are overweight, don't stress your body with bodyweight stuff too much, working hard on a bike still gives good results.

Hope this was some good incite for people. My method isn't perfect for sure, but thought I would share some thoughts of me getting back in the gym for the first time for more than a week since my football injuries 5 years ago

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Had my first splurge day yesterday

July 1 I decided I was tired of how I felt so I buckled down to start my weight loss. Yesterday I hopped on the scale and had officially lost 15 lbs so I decided to treat myself with a less controlled day! I was still mindful but I did have a bun on my burger and enjoyed an ice cream! It was a nice reward and I knew the scale would reflect it but I felt rejuvenated and ready to keep working!

Until night came.

Around 11 my stomach ached and growled at me, cussing me out. I broke out in an awful sweat and ran for shelter in the bathroom on shakey legs. My body and my dignity were left curled around the porcelain throne all night, wondering why me?

Silver lining: my weight is down this morning (but definitely NOT worth the agony).

So is this normal for splurge days? Is my body rebelling? Any advice would be nice!

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My Fitness Pal versus RP Diet App

Hello All! Would appreciate some feedback & guidance.

25 y.o./ 235 lbs/ 5'6" F

Some history for y'all to understand my frustrations: July 2018- 248 lbs Oct 2018- 225 lbs Jan 2019- 233 lbs July 2019- 235 lbs

I lost 20 lbs once and I know I can do it again to get to my goal of 199. I just need to focus on diet and nutrition since being active and working out is absolutely enjoyable for me and I'm as active as possible. But I know I can't outrun my calories.

I know tracking my food/ nutrition is a huge element of my weight loss/ body recomp. I am familiar with tracking and I've been using My Fitness Pal for over a year. I have a good scale, I can edit everything in the app. It even allows me to track restaurant food and is a solid resource to choose better quality meals while I'm out.

Instagram and a lot of athletes I know personally are heavily recommending the RP Strength Diet templates or the other product, the RP Diet App. It calculates your ideal macros for fat loss and gives you a selection of foods to choose from. After that, you select the foods and it tells you the portions/ weights for each food item to hit those macros perfectly. Takes a lot of guessing out of the equation, which is cool. It even generates a shopping list.

So it's all macro based, but it doesn't let me add in anything not in the app already (like snacks I eat here and there, or restaurant food.) It doesn't show calories at all, so I don't know if I'm in a caloric deficit. It has me eating 4 meals a day, with 45g to 55g of protein PER MEAL. 200g of protein is a FUCK TON and I struggle as it is to get my usual 100g+ per day. 😭

I have 2 weeks of a free trial with the app before it charges me the $15/month. I'm cool with paying for the service, but my question is really: what do I go with?

Can the RP Diet app really be the key if it hides the calories from me, has me eating 2x my usual protein allotment and is limiting what I can eat so drastically that I can't actually log everything I eat?

I'm leaning toward MFP, and just booting the RP Diet App, but I didn't know if anyone else had luck with it or if I'm just not seeing something crucial.

Thanks for all of your guidance and feedback!

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"Your body looks so weird." A story from after my weight loss.

The summer after my weight loss didn't pan out exactly how I hoped it would.

I'm a 16 year old male, down to 160 from roughly 300. I got to my goal weight of 170 back in January and went down a little bit more from there.

Last fall and throughout the winter I began lifting, looking forward to summer where I could show off not amount of weight I had lost, but also just show off what would (ideally) be my attractive, muscular, not-at-all-fat body. Maybe I'd get a girlfriend, even.

So, the weight was lost, and my body certainly looked better. Sure, I have loose skin all over, and there's so much on my stomach that it looks wrinkled, but at least it doesn't look fat. My arms and shoulders definitely have some muscular definition.

But then there's my chest.

Everyone has their problem areas, right? I mean, I hated my stomach and my arms, but I don't think I can really describe the emotional pain my fat, ugly, feminine-looking chest caused me. It seemed to be the most stubborn part of my body. I noticed my stomach getting distinctly smaller, but my chest seemed to be making progress much more slowly. I always thought it would come last and I just had to keep losing weight.

But now, at 160lbs with a healthy BMI and a BF% that can't possibly be higher than 15, I'm still here with my disgusting, stubborn, ugly, and, worst of all, feminine chest. The top portion of it is firm and muscular, but down the bottom towards my nipples and it feels soft. If you pull on it, like any part of my body, it extends. Again, I have loose skin everywhere. The difference with my chest, however, is that it's just so incredibly bulky.

Normally when you're skinnyfat you can look good in clothing and hide your lack of definition. But my disgusting chest pushes through my shirt like a pair of tits. I even look at photos of other men on this subreddit sometimes who are fatter than I am, yet their chests don't even seem to stick out as much as mine do. Yeah, the top portion of my chest feels firm, but the bottom portion is so disgustingly soft. I'm not muscular enough to have a chest that sticks out because I have pecs.

Maybe it's all in my head. Everyone has problem areas that stick with them, right? They always think that their problem area is wrong, while no one else actually agrees.

Except, no. People do agree with me.

I was hanging out with some of my friends from school at a pool yesterday, and like I've been all summer when swimming, I was shirtless and anxious. I keep telling myself that I can actually be shirtless now in public, and that I'm muscular now, not fat. I have nothing to worry about.

Now, this group of friends tends to be kind of honest with themselves about how they look. One of them is very tall and skinny (actually underweight) while most of them are normal, another is kinda fat, and then there's me, the "'muscuslar" guy who lost the weight. If they make a comment about someone's body (particular the tall, skinny one) it's not an insult. It's just what they think.

So when the tall, skinny friend walked up to me and made the comment, "Your body is so weird. You're arms are really muscular, but you've got a little bit of chub right here [pointing to my chest] and then at your stomach you look like me," I knew he wasn't lying to hurt me. He was telling the truth. That's what he, and, consequently, others, think of me. It's what they think of the one part of my body that I can't hide behind my shirt because it bulges so much that it sticks out. My problem area isn't really a problem area as much as an actual problem.

I go between periods of loving and hating my body. Sometimes my chest sticks out because it's muscular, and sometimes it's because I'm fat and disgusting. It doesn't ever really change, but my perspective does. So I went home and obsessed over my body yet again. I felt my chest, pulled on it where you shouldn't be able to, desperately felt for firmness where there wasn't any, and hoped that maybe, just maybe, I was normal. I'm not. I don't know why my chest is so goddamn big. I'm not fat. I even have abs, for fuck's sake, but my chest sticks out through my shirt in an unflattering way. I hate this disgusting sack of skin, muscle, and fat that makes up each of my... Manboobs? Pecs? I don't know.

I hate myself.

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Advice for someone at the start of the journey?

Hello redditors! This is my first post in this thread and indeed on reddit altogether. I apologise if this is a long ass post, but I was hoping I could tap into the collective knowledge of everyone here to help me overcome various challenges I'll face on my weight loss journey. First, a little about me. I'll try be as detailed as possible.

I am a 5"7, 23 year old male who currently weighs in at 106KG. My goal weight is 82KGish. I'm a care worker (with fairly self-sufficient clients so I have a pretty non-active workday). I play rugby, although I haven't played much for a few years now, I'm just getting back into it seriously. I suffer from developmental dyspraxia which affects my hand-eye co-ordination, exercise induced asthma (recently diagnosed) and long standing (but steadily improving) mental health issues, primarily depression and anxiety. I drank a lot and used recreational drugs when I was younger, but I hardly drink now (once a month maybe, although it's usually a fairly substantial amount). I smoked for about 4 years, vaped for 1 and then quit, I haven't looked back since.

My weight problems began when I was 17/18. I moved from my small highland town to Glasgow to go to university, and my weight just skyrocketed. I discovered extremely regular drinking and takeaways and pretty much ever since, I have failed to manage my diet and exercise regime despite still being a keen rugby player for much of my life. Being someone who is broad/thick to start with thanks to rugby probably allowed me to believe my weight gain wasn't as bad as it actually was. I live in ignorance no longer.

I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety in 2014 (after I had already piled on a substantial bit of weight, probably about 9 or 10 kilos). Whether one caused the other or not, being in a poor state of mind did not help my already poor health habits, and I kept eating whilst simultaneously sitting on my fat ass all day. I've made a couple of attempts at losing weight over the past 6 years to varying degrees of success (with the highlight being a 6 kilo loss a few years ago) but something feels different now. I need to protect my health, get the best out of my youth and improve my mental state (meds haven't done it for me for a long time, I believe that however hard it may be I have to do this the old fashioned way e.g. through self improvement).

My various ailments and personality traits give me challenges to overcome, and I'm hoping that anyone reading this can help me. Firstly, a symptom of my dyspraxia (for me at least) has been picky eating, specifically in relation to most vegetables. It could be a sensory thing I guess, it's hard to describe as I have discovered recently I do like the taste of some vegetables/vegetable based dishes, but I still have a certain anxiety about it. If anyone has experienced this and knows of ways to tackle/overcome it, I would appreciate it.

Secondly, I have pizza tooth. Big time. I get cravings for takeaway/fatty foods like you wouldn't believe. My just eat/ubereats history is scary reading. I guess I never got to have takeaway when I was growing up as my mum is a healthnut and was very scolding about even the prospect of eating unhealthy food (an approach that kept me healthy/fit when I was younger I suppose) so when I got to uni, it was a rebellion thing? Idk. All I know is, I just crave it so bad sometimes. I could not care less about sugary foods, but fatty stuff like pizza I just can't get over.

Lastly, organisation is a big problem for me in account of my dyspraxia. I do of course plan things as much as I can but ultimately day-to-day changes of habit will be the focus of my weight loss, I think. My attitude has changed, I just have to execute it. Looser, more generalised tips will be appreciated.

Part of getting to this point has involved admitting my weaknesses and now I can understand the challenges in my way, I am ready to face them. Any advice of any kind will be much appreciated. Have a good day redditors, and thanks for reading :)

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How do you deal with lunch while traveling?

My job is on the road. I do not have a lunch or break room. I do not have access to a refrigerator or microwave.

Part of my weight loss success has been to avoid fast food as much as possible. It is still necessary some days and I have leaned how to make better choices. Subway chopped salads are excellent! I gave up all soda and rarely drink coffee ( I need cream and sugar).

Days that I am in town, I pack my lunch in a small ice chest and eat in my car. Some locations have a place I can eat inside, which is nice for those really hot days.

How do all of you who work on the road or in non traditional workplaces handle lunches? I get tired of eating the same things every day and am always looking for new lunch ideas. I think sharing information like this can open up new ideas for others also struggling with this type of situation. And cutting out fast food due to limited food options is a great first step in weight loss.

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Life changing mindset switch - I'm just mentally fat. lol

I've been struggling to lose and maintain healthy weight for YEARS. I can't stop thinking about food, constantly falling into binge eating episodes. I've recently stumbled upon this youtube vid https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l3xFLux8FfE and it made me wonder - why am I out here counting macros, calories, tracking my steps, forcing myself to go the gym, constantly depriving myself of treats, planning every single meeting in a restaurant waay ahead of time ("will I cut my calories the day before? do extra cardio? or maybe order the lowest calorie option?") etc and still being nowhere near my goal weight meanwhile my slim friends just dont care about food?

Then I realized.

I've been struggling with eating for years not because I'm unlucky or I lack will power. It's just that I will never be able to change my body and maintain as long as my mind isn't in the right place. I won't lose weight because my fat mindset will keep trying to hold me back lol. I have a lot of knowledge about food and nutrition but I'm secretly mentally fat. I will give you some examples of my habits:

  1. We all have that one skinny friend that can open a pack of cookies, take one or two, close the pack and move on with life. Well, obviously my fat ass wouldn't be able to do that but the thing is, I wouldn't even buy the pack of cookies. Why? Because I always instantly look at the calorie label and do the math how much calories is in the ENTIRE pack. Like, I don't even consider something like portion size - I count how much is in the entire thing and if I don't feel like it's worth it then I won't buy it.
  2. I can easily down a pound or two of low-kcal high volume things like strawberries, veggies, low fat yoghurt, melon etc. It sounds healthy, filling yourself on low kcal but it's actually a binge-eater habit. Because VOLUME VOLUME VOLUME. I have to eat eat eat. Stuff my face. If I can't portion control these types of food then how am I supposed to control the portions of high calorie/junk food? Whenever I cut up strawberries I'm always like "it's low calorie, why won't I add more and more, it won't do harm...?". And yeah, it doesn't affect my body or my health but just the mindset and the urge to have as much food as possible - that's not good.
  3. It's not that much of a "fat habit" but it kinda counts - whenever I make a meal I have to make the most out of it. Like, for example - I can't just take an apple and bite into it. No, I will slice it, put it on a nice plate, dip it in peanut butter, sprinkle chocolate chips and drizzle over some honey. Oatmeal with banana? No, I have to top it with every single type of nuts and seeds I have, add the honey, flax seeds, granola etc. And when I allow myself to have a treat then I won't just have a cookie - I'm going to "offset it" by crumbling the cookie on a yogurt, adding fruits and every single topping option I own making a 100 kcal treat into a 400 kcal meal where I can't even taste the cookie anymore lol. It's not a bad thing to make your healthy meals pleasant and spice them up but sometimes it adds up so many calories and just the habit of having to enjoy every single bite of food and having to add up as much volume as possible is not something that I feel like person who eats to live not lives to eat would do.
  4. Overdosing on aspartame. Lol. Obviously a lot of people consume diet soda and coffee but I can't sit on my ass just sipping on water - I always need a diet soda, coffee or tea next to me. I need to have the flavor. I'm constantly thinking about food so I need to curb it with calorie-free flavors all day long.

After realizing these things I started to work on creating new habits (obviously this will take a while since I've been developing this "fat mindset" for years but I'm pretty sure it's doable!) and I feel so much better and more positive on my weight loss journey. If I'm craving a toast with pb then I will get a toast, put the pb on it and eat. Not putting the banana, nuts and a side of giant fruit salad with it just because "gotta make it filling". I guess this does conflict with the overall idea of eating for weight loss but I do feel like for someone with unhealthy relationship with food and struggles with binge eating realizing those habits and trying to remove them might help. By fulfilling my cravings and working on my satisfaction cues, eating slower, embracing every bite of food instead of stuffing my face with tasteless VOLUME VOLUME VOLUME etc I do end up eating less calories throughout the day! That's my "small" rant.

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