Monday, January 13, 2020

Maintenance Monday: New Year, New You?

Maintenance is mostly trying to stay within a weight range and continue with your established dietary and activity habits, so it can feel pretty same old, same old. But people move away from family, change jobs, make new friends etc., and what's boring and habitual for you might still be a surprise to someone else! With the holidays behind us, I thought it might be interesting to think about whether your 'same old, same old' self came as a surprise to anyone in your life. Did you see family, extended or otherwise, who hadn't seen you since before or during your weight loss? Have your current colleagues always known you at your current weight, or did they see some or all of your weight loss? Have any particular comments - positive or negative - stuck with you from people who either saw your gradual weight loss that became more apparent toward the end, or who experienced a dramatic before and after? On the flip-side, has anyone been surprised to learn that you used to be heavier if they've always known you at your maintenance weight?

Are there any other topics you want to cover in a future maintenance Monday? Let me know below!


Anything else on your mind pertaining to maintenance? Is your diet going effortlessly, or have the last few weeks been more of a struggle? All questions, remarks and worries are welcome topics of conversation!

Previous Maintenance Monday threads can be found here.

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[Challenge] Loseit Enters the Roaring 20's: Week 0 - SIGNUPS STILL OPEN!!

Hey Everybody. Welcome to Week 0 of our Challenge: Loseit Enters the Roaring 20's. This week will focus on setting your goal for the challenge and beginning our activity tracking.

Loseit Challenges are a team-based competition that last for 8 weeks during which you set a weight-loss goal and then weigh in weekly, working to be at or beyond that goal by the end of the challenge. There will be a new post every Friday with Links/Instructions for each week's activities. The challenge subreddit and your team's discord channel will also have all the information you need.

Your hosts continue to be u/jameson1780 u/sevboarder u/kpinky1029 and u/notsofastsloth

IF YOU HAVE ALREADY SIGNED UP, GO TO STEP 4

NEW SIGNUPS COMPLETE ALL STEPS

Step 1: Sign up for the Challenge

Sign Up Here

Step 2 - Visit the Challenge Tracker to find your team!

Challenge Tracker Here!

NOTE: Newest signups are at the bottom of the list. The team assigner runs every 5 minutes. If your team is blank, just wait a moment. It will refresh in real time on desktop, but you may have to refresh the spreadsheet on mobile to see the changes.

Note 2: Do not request edit access to the tracker. Please contact one of your captains with any errors that need to be corrected

Step 3 - Join our new subreddit to find your team's discord

Please join our new subreddit r/LoseitChallenges to find your team’s discord.

Step 4 - Weigh in and set your goal for the challenge

Weigh in and set your goal here

This is where you will choose your challenge goal weight as well. If you sign up today, you also need to weigh-in for week 0 sometime before January 16th.

Please try to choose a reasonable goal! The goal of these challenges is to set up sustainable weight loss habits. If you gain one or two weeks, keep pushing and do not give up! There are no penalties for struggling, only for giving up.

Step 5 - Submit Steps and Activity Minutes Optional

Submit activity and/or step count here

This week is a BATTLE ROYALE! Every team vs Every Team. Next week will begin our head to head challenges.

All steps count. Intentional minutes count.

note: We define activity minutes as "intentional additional activity to meet your health goals". This may include things like weight lifting, running, yoga, walking to work instead of driving, etc. Things that are not already a part of your normal day.

Timeline

NOTE: Each week begins on a Friday, so you will have until the following Friday at 9am EST (when the next week is posted) to complete your weigh-in. You can weigh in multiple times during the week but only your most recent entry will be recorded on the tracker.

  • January 3rd - Signups open
  • January 10th - Week 0, Establish challenge goals, signups open through end of week
  • January 17th - Week 1, Head to Head battles begin, Signups are closed
  • January 24th - Week 2
  • January 31st - Week 3
  • February 7th - Week 4
  • February 14th - Week 5
  • February 21st - Week 6
  • February 28th - Week 7, Last Head to Head Battle
  • March 6th - Results and next challenge announcement

If you have any questions, problems, concerns, ideas, or just want to drop us all a line, please use the message the challenge admin feature, which you can find in the r/loseit sidebar or by clicking here. Responding to this thread is great, but ultimately if you want to make sure all of us read it, the message the challenge admin feature is the way to go.

Please also note that we are not the r/loseit moderators. We’re volunteers and everyday users who run a specific aspect of one of the many interactive community elements of r/loseit. If you have questions about r/loseit that aren’t specific to the challenge, please take a look at the sidebar.

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What a 50lb loss looks like on a 5'4" person

https://imgur.com/a/5gDSROB

I have been on a mission to lose weight since mid October 2018. I used CICO with MFP and did simple home workouts. I went to the gym maybe 3-4 times total, extremely inconsistently. In April 2019, I started a new job in a busy ER and my weight loss totally came to a standstill. I'd gain 2-3 lbs here and there, and then be more mindful and bring the weight back down. I let my home workouts slip and ended up maintaining my weight loss until November 2019. Right now, I have a 70 day streak on MFP and have had a few interesting experiences lately that I thought I'd share.

I went to my best friend's wedding and her mom didn't recognize me. We've met a few times. When I reminded her that we've met, she was like, "Oh my god, wow! I don't remember you looking this tiny!" Tiny? Me? A few days later at work, I wore a size L scrub top to work. I felt kind of sick about it. My XLs are loose and comfortable and, in my mind, hide my imperfections. I felt it was too clingy and would definitely make me look chubby. I asked my husband three times before I left if I looked bad. No, he said, I looked great. So I got to work and one of the ER technicians was like, "DAMN, what did you do different? You look good!" I could feel my anxiety lower a little bit. Later that night, one of the paramedics asked my co-workers if I was single. I'm not, but hey, that's super flattering! So later that night I snapped this picture of me in my large top and compared it to my "before" photo. I didn't realize my body looked that different! I went from a XXL top to a L top. XXL bottoms to XL bottoms.

I've recently started doing a stronglift program at the gym and am starting to shift my goals away from weight loss and more towards fitness. I never thought I would get here. I'm a mom of 3 kids, my youngest is almost 2. I'm in graduate school getting my Master's degree to become an advanced practice nurse (1 year left until graduation!). I have a lot going on in life, but this is the longest I've ever kept weight off. I eat around 1500 calories a day and go to the gym 2-3 days a week now. I thought I'd post to give all the shorties like me out there some idea as to what a 50lb loss looks. Happy Monday, everyone!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 13 January 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Sunday, January 12, 2020

Wife and I are down almost 300 pounds in just under a year and a half. This pic doesnt seem real to me. Everything in life isnt magically better now, but I no longer wake up wondering if I'm about to die.

Yup. My wife jumped on the weight loss train after I dropped 50 pounds. She said, " ok just make my meals too". It's at the point now where past students dont recognize me. Facebook AI no longer auto tags me or tags the wrong person in my photos. Craziness. It feels like such a long climb up this weight loss mountain, but I will get to the top.

I'm so proud of my wife for doing this with me. Just tonight I went to eat some junk and she smiled at me which was all I needed to stay strong and not eat the 29 pieces of carrot cake that was calling my name. But I know if I eat it, I might not fall off the cliff entirely, but I definitely will back slide a bit.

It's still hard. I still want to eat my weight in pizza and twinkies. I still make mistakes and give in to temptation occasionally. But I bounce back these days much quicker. One day doesnt have to be a week of binging and even a week doesnt have to be a month. Even if we lose our footing on the climb up the mountain, that'scwhat our safety harness is for.

I trust the process these days. I don't worry after 3 months of stalling. I know I'm at a deficit and I refuse to go beyond a 1000 calorie deficit or 1600 calories, so it'll drop off when it's ready. In the meantime I stick to the plan and keep getting stronger. Sometimes it seems like I'm stuck on this mountain and not going anywhere, but then I look down and realize just how far I've come.

I hope I can inspire just one more person with this post. Please, join the journey. It's not always fun, but the view from the top is majestic, and I can't wait to look over the top with as many of you by my side as possible when I get there.

18 month progress pic

https://m.imgur.com/a/krvcb5d

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My Friend Doesn't Want Me to Lose Weight

So I (19F) began documenting my weight loss at the beginning of this year (CW: 198, 5'7) in the hopes of keeping myself accountable. I go to the gym twice a week, calorie count to my deficit, and so far I've made progress since the 3rd of this month. (-7 lbs!) But in the middle of all this, I began to realize who was supportive and who wasn't. There's one friend in particular whose mindset is very "body positive"; in that overweight people are perfectly fine how they are, and if you're overweight and unhappy about it, you're inherently fatphobic.

But I'm not fatphobic. I think overweight people should be treated with the same respect as everyone else. I mean, I should know, I am considered obese for my height. I was always overweight as a kid. I know the things that other people like me go through. But as someone whose family is also largely overweight, and has a history of heart problems, I wanted to change my health for the better. I see how people's livelihoods change on this sub in particular, among other weight loss subs, and I wanted that for myself.

How do I reason with this kind of rhetoric? Should I even reason with it at all?

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Ready to Finally Be Happy With Myself Before I Turn 20

I've been following this sub for a long time (as a lurker, some of my friends/families definitely know my account info, hence the throwaway lol), and all of your stories and support for one another has really changed my perspective on what healthy weight loss looks like and cemented into my mind that this is something I can and will do.

I've always been on the cusp of "fat", not enough to ever be bullied for my weight, but enough to convince my young self that I shouldn't be sharing in the excitement of first crushes and boyfriends; that I would never be asked to middle school dances or prom as I was never quite as desirable or thin as my friends. Fast forward to now, I'm 19, 163cm, and currently 70-71kg, but I've pretty much been insecure with my body all my life. Over the past year, I've made great strides in my mental health and gradually grown more and more confident with the way I look (a HUGE milestone for me), and I am now able to look at myself in the mirror and say that I like the way I look naked.

Of course, I still get bursts of insecurity, have a bad habit of comparing myself to others, and can't help but feel that the last bit of self improvement I have yet to achieve is a substantial physical change.

I'm excited to tackle this journey head-on knowing what I know now about CICO, a healthy mentality, and sustainability. I've been tracking calories for a while now, and been happy enough just to sustain my weight without fear of gaining more and more weight (a nightmare of mine I've had ever since I developed stretch marks in my teens). I haven't really been surrounded by the healthiest environment regarding food, eating, and healthy weight loss, and that definitely reflects itself in my mentality and bad habits. My best friend definitely has an eating disorder I've been trying to help her work through, and Ive always felt an unhealthy competition with my skinnier younger sister (who has experimented with dieting pills, e.t.c).

Nonetheless, this sub and other resources have helped me view weightloss in a different light, something that I can achieve by staying disciplined and trying to integrate lifestyle changes slowly and sustainably rather than restricting for short periods of time. I hope to reach my target weight before my 20th birthday, so that I can finally feel confident in the clothes I want to wear and start this new, healthier chapter of my life.

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