Tuesday, January 14, 2020

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 14 January 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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279 is my number.

I'm 6ft 2 and as of last week, at 349lb, I started my weight loss journey (again).

My issue is binge eating and snacking between meals.

I started writing everything down yesterday, because if you don't write a goal down then it's just a wish; I'm done wishing. Things to remember, meal plans, a tracker to track when (and if) I binge (so I can track it throughout the year) and a realistic goal I want to hit.

Everything is pointing in the direction of 279lb. I've not been that weight before (certainly not in my 20s or 30s anyway), it's 20% of my starting weight, exactly 70lb/5 stone of weight loss and would be me just entering the 19 stone range. I appreciate that these figures are meaningless to anyone else, but to me they are a challenging, yet realistic target. Plus I like how all the numbers sound/look on paper 😅. And I appreciate that being 279lb is still obese and unhealthy, but it's a hell of a lot better than where I am now. And when I hit it, because I will, it'll be my starting line for the next chapter of my weight loss.

Today I have my first appointment with a new counselor to discuss my relationship with food. I'm nervous about it, but I've been through counselling in the past and always got something from it.

Apologies for the brain dump. I just wanted to, again, put things down with the intention of it helping me hold myself to account.

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Monday, January 13, 2020

Tantrum Tuesday - The Day to Rant!

I Rant, Therefore I Am

Well bla-de-da-da! What's making your blood boil? What's under your skin? What's making you see red? What's up in your craw? Let's hear your weight loss related rants!
The rant post is a /u/bladedada production.

Please consider saving your next rant for this weekly thread every Tuesday.

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How do you keep heart and get fitter, when you know your body just sucks? I'm built like a man, and I'm a girl.

Between random odd pains (burning needles in my foot, constant muscle pain) and being chubby for almost my entire life, of course I wanna be fit and just have an awesome, strong body. It's empowering! But I've hit a roadblock.

I was mistaken as being a man for most of my young life despite having princess-like long hair. Between being built like a fridge with massive bones, I am...well. Anything besides feminine. I have A cups, a Hank Hill ass, skeleton-legs, a massive ribcage and fat waist, and wrestler shoulders, gorilla-shaped muscular arms. There's little harmony here. No curves.

I've cut down to 145. All along the way people were telling me that the weight loss was making me look uglier and while I tried to continue, I ended up quitting and gaining back 15 pounds. Now I am at 160 again. I wish this was BDD but, this has always been the feedback I was given by strangers and people I know (usually not to my face--usually behind my back).

If I were to cut to something like...120 pounds, I'd still have the shape of a muscular/wide guy, and apparently I won't even necessarily look better. It's vain, but yeah, it is a huge motivation killer to know that 99%+ of girls my age just automatically look much better than me. I just wanna look *normal*, but I can't because people have always said I'm shaped like a tank or footballer--and I hate being so intimidating. Though I realize I'm not being *that* vain. "I look great!" is the #1 remark for weight loss, and I'm not even sure if I could even say the same.

Sorry about the baby-talk. Just discouraged right now after hearing and seeing what I have seen.

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Marathon training?

I started my first day of marathon training today!....Sort of. I’m 15 and currently weight 244.4 pounds. My overall goal is 160, my mini goal is 240. Obviously I’m pretty young and I remember what it felt like to be a little kid and run all the time without being able to stop for a good amount of time. I loved it! I’ve committed to weight loss this year and on my first weight in since new years on the 7th, I had lost 2.8 pounds! I was so excited! I decided I wanted to try running again and thought marathon training would be pretty cool! I found a plan online and the first run was a 15 minute jog at 5 mph which I did on my treadmill. Unfortunately I couldn’t run hardly at all! I had to take a break after my first minute and 30 seconds! It didn’t feel great. And I only got to 5:30 minutes before I couldn’t go any longer. Mind you... I completed that 5:30 minutes in the span of like...20 minutes. I’m pretty down about it and won’t be able to start marathon training until I get more stamina, obviously. If anyone has any advice about how to get started with marathon training and any advice that would be much appreciated, so welcome and greatly encouraged! Thank you guys so much for letting me vent, haha

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Struggling Through Expensive, Awful Weight Loss Program

I have needed to lose weight for a while and my dad suggested a program, not sure if I want to say which one or not, that his friend tried and had great results with. He did research before talking to me about it and really encouraged me to go in for a consultation.

I went and the doctor and other person I spoke with were friendly and talked in depth about the program. I feel like I should have noticed some red flags during the appointment but I felt kind of desperate and to be honest embarrassed that my dad was so adamant about me losing weight. He's a very health obsessed person and he can't help but make comments. They had me stand on a scale barefoot to calculate BMI and other info and the doctor came and told me that I had the metabolism of an 80 year old woman (I'm in my early thirties.)

This kind of upset me and I have been so unmotivated to make the kinds of choices I know that I need to make in order to get healthy so I decided to sign up. Honestly if I hadn't my dad probably wouldn't have been super pleased. He offered to pay for all of it and I knew that this would also be an incentive for me to complete the program.

Here are the basics of it:

*The first part is the calorie-restricted phase that lasts 40 days.

*You take homeopathic drops every day that are supposed to suppress appetite and help your body adjust to the calorie reduction. You also have 1/2 tsp of pink salt in water each day.

*The food guidelines are two 5 oz servings of lean protein, 2 cups fruit, and 2 cups vegetables each day. No sugar, grains, fats, dairy, and there are only certain fruits and vegetables that are acceptable.

*No breakfast, lunch and dinner only.

*After 40 days you enter the maintenance phase where you add breakfast and from what I understand limited amounts of butter. After a few weeks you begin to add foods in.

Promised weight loss is a minimum of 20 lbs in 40 days. You go in every few weeks for an assessment and text them your weight every day. None of it seemed that bad at first and, my god, they really sell it to you during that consult.

I am a couple weeks in now and I have lower energy than I did before, I'm tired all of the time, I am very unhappy eating the most limited diet I have ever seen, and I'm now getting bruising that isn't caused by bumping into anything.

Have I lost weight? 10 lbs. I'm not sure it's worth it. I have had to turn down dinner invitations with friends because I don't want them to know I'm doing this and because I won't be able to eat anything. I don't even want to go anywhere because I might see something delicious that I can't have. Commercials for pizza make me tear up.

I have since seen some bad reviews online that I hadn't before starting and they have said that you are only consuming around 500-700 calories daily on this. They didn't tell me that and those numbers freakin scare me. Many people also said they gained the weight back after adding even healthy foods in.

I consider myself to be reasonably intelligent and I'm wondering why the hell I let myself get sucked into this. I should have been more skeptical of the entire program and the drops that the program hinges on, having since seen negative information about them.

I do more research buying a damn pillow than I did before starting because I really wanted it to work.

It costs $2700 (!!!) and that was discounted because I paid it all up front. If I give up there's no refund, my dad is out that money, and I look like a failure.

I should have just gone keto. FML. I guess this is just me venting but I wanted to see if anyone else used a similar program or if anyone has advice on how to get through this lousy thing.

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Finding I've lost weight hard to believe

Hey everyone, first time on the subreddit.

I've lost, so far, 92lbs (6"1' male, gone from 301 to 209), I've got about 27lbs to go before I hit my target.

The obvious factors, such as smaller clothes fitting better and not being so tired and sweaty all the time, are there. On paper, I can see how far I've come. But despite this, I still sometimes have a hard time believing it. I'm used to comparing myself to others because I'd get relief in not being the biggest person in the room on the occasions it would happen. A little self centered, I know, but I used to be like "well, they're bigger than me, so it's not that bad", it was a denial tactic. But now that I'm approaching a healthier weight, I still find myself comparing my weight and size to others. And rather than concluding that I'm reaching a healthier weight and other people have realistically stayed their consistent weight, when I see more and more people that are at or slightly above my current weight, I have to fight off the "they must have gained weight now that they're bigger than me" thoughts I used to use a denial/comfort effect when I was larger.

My question is, is this something you've been through as well? I was always so used to being the biggest person nearly everywhere I went than, rather than praise myself for what I've achieved so far, I almost push it away. Do other people have a hard time accepting their weight loss, as if they feel they don't deserve it or aren't used to it? How do you get past it?

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