Sunday, August 23, 2020

Decided to celebrate the beginning of my weight loss by chopping off my hair instead of hiding behind it!

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Weight has always been difficult for me. From the time I weighed 200 in high school and lost 60 lbs to later have a tummy tuck at 22, to now, at 26, currently weighing 149. I always found short hair so easy but before, I’d grow it all out as a safety blanket to hide behind. My hair is naturally curly and extremely thick as someone who is Armenian, and it caused me nothing but frustration and sweaty nights trying to sleep. Last night, I thought, hey...Weight loss will be much easier after moving out of my parents house. I am no longer around toxic people with personality disorders. I can do me! And I can be healthy, and I don’t have to worry about my mother sneaking oil into my cooking! Yay! So I decided I’d chop off all my annoying hair to celebrate the start of another weight loss journey. I had all my barber equipment at home and it went perfect. I cried so hard when I realized my hair was just a safety blanket, and how much I hated that frizzy prison. I felt so free. By the time I was done taking my shears and clippers to my head, I was a happy, crying mess. Cheers to shedding off more pounds and living with my amazing boyfriend who cooks for me and supports my weight loss journey!

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This sub LITERALLY saved my life - and advice to others facing death due to obesity

I want to say that this sub LITERALLY has saved my life, and I hope if someone else in my situation randomly comes across this post they listen to it.

Long story short, I was living with out of control obesity from basically age 16 until this year at age 34. Throughout this time, I had seen three medical doctors and a dietician. I had tried the fad diets like "keto", where I was told I could eat whatever I wanted as long as it was a keto food. I had already been jogging one mile a day and walking 30 minutes a day for over a year. I tried various other exercise programs over the years. I tried weight lifting. I tried "not eating before bed". NONE OF THIS WORKED. So, over the span of almost 20 years, I NEVER found anything that worked.

I developed high blood pressure in my early 20s. I am now 34. Early this year, I went in to see the doctor due to a pain in my upper right abdomen that had started off as a random pain but over months became a constant 24/7 pain. Blood work was done and I was pre-diabetic, bad cholesterol/triglycerides readings, and bad creatine indicating a potential coming kidney problem... but worst of all was my ALT reading was out of range. My doctor sent me to an ultrasound where it was discovered I had NAFLD (non-alcoholic fatty liver disease).

My doctor told me that I was looking at coming liver failure as the next step, which would then lead to death without a liver transplant (which I wasn't going to get.) My doctor gave me her official "advice" on how to lose weight - "eat more fruits and veggies. And stop smoking." (I don't smoke nor have I ever smoked in my life, but for some reason, she thinks I do.) Literally, this was the written plan she gave me and instructions on how to lose weight. From a medical doctor.

Let me say this again - I was looking at LIVER FAILURE AND DEATH AT AGE 34.

I went home in a panic and got on Google. I knew I had to find SOME way to lose weight or I was as good as dead. Somehow, one of my Google searches ended up on this sub where I read about CICO for the FIRST TIME in my life. I had NEVER heard of CICO before. (It was pure LUCK that I randomly came across this sub.)

I decided to give it a try as I was desperate and had tried everything else. I went on a maintenance/TDEE calculator website, calculated my TDEE, and calculated the calorie range I needed to stay in every day to lose weight. (YOU MUST DO THIS. YOU MUST GO ON THESE WEBSITES AND CALCULATE YOUR PARTICULAR CALORIE RANGE TO EAT AT.) Once I started tracking calories, I figured out that I had been eating drastically more calories than I was supposed to my whole life. You will be amazed how many calories are in things compared to how many you SHOULD be eating.

I have an Omada weight loss tracking scale. I weight myself everyday. As I did CICO, I saw consistent measurable weight loss week to week. I noticed over time that my 24/7 liver pain had slowly become pain that only lasted a few hours a day. When my liver didn't hurt, it only hurt when I bent over. Then eventually it stopped hurting when I bent over. Then the few hours a day of pain became a few minutes a day of pain. Then the few minutes of pain a day became pain only a few minutes every other day. Then it became almost no pain ever.

Here I am now. I am only 20 pounds away from not being obese on the BMI anymore. I saw my liver doctor a few days ago. My pre-diabetes is gone, my cholesterol and triglycerides are normal, and my liver enzymes are only SLIGHTLY out of range. I still have high blood pressure, but it is much more in control. I am no longer at risk of liver failure and death. At my current rate of weight loss, I expect I will no longer be obese on the BMI scale within the next two months for the first time in almost 20 years.

I say all this for anyone else who comes across this post - IT ALL COMES DOWN TO YOUR CALORIE INTAKE. YOU MUST CALCULATE YOUR CALORIES AND EAT UNDER YOUR MAINTENANCE LEVEL EVERY DAY. NOTHING ELSE WILL MAKE YOU LOSE WEIGHT. You can jog 10 miles a day, but if you are eating more calories than your body is using, you will not lose weight. It doesn't matter how much exercise you do or WHAT you eat. If you were eating nothing but fruits and veggies, if you are eating more calories of those than your body is using, you will STILL not lose weight. You can go and spend money on a weight loss program or weight loss food or a gym membership. It doesn't matter -it WILL NOT WORK unless you eat under your calorie level.

Hell, I would even say don't spend money on doctors and dieticians. I saw three medical doctors and a dietician. NOT ONE OF THEM EVER said the word "calorie". They sure as hell didn't say anything about "maintenance calories" or "TDEE" or "eat X calories a day". The medical doctors gave me advice like literally "eat more fruits and veggies" "don't eat fat" "don't eat fast food". The dietician made unrealistic meal plans and showed me pictures of "what a good meal should look like". (She also charged $400 every time I saw her - trash insurance)

Everything else you have heard about how to lose weight is either well-intended misinformation at best or an outright LIE at worst. Tons of "weight loss" has been turned into products that don't work trying to take your money. The best part about this? You don't need to spend money to lose weight. Actually, you will save a lot of money because you won't be buying as much food. Don't wait and don't doubt this - DO IT before it is too late. If I had not found this sub, I would likely be dead within the next 2-3 years at the path I was on.

I am including a picture of my weight loss progress before (when I was trying the last thing I had tried - keto) and then when I started CICO. As you can see, it is a drastic difference.

https://imgur.com/a/tL1HfJs

I hope this post will help others who were in my situation.

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I don't even know what my clothing sizes are anymore.

5'2, highest weight 200 + (I don't know by how much), CW: 140, GW 120. After unintentionally losing about 20 lbs, I started intentionally losing back in April. At first, changes were subtle, and then all at once. What I've found is that once you start to see results, buying new clothes is super tempting, especially in a case like mine where I'm the thinnest I've been since I was under ten years old. I cannot tell you how much money I've wasted on things that fit me when I bought them, but are too big a month later. I can't commit to certain pieces I love because they might fit like a dream right now, but give it some time, and who knows.

It's not really something you consider or even think about before you start losing weight. I think it's the "before and after" type of mindset we have about weight loss that's been so drilled into our brains that makes us forget, the whole journey is a transitional period. So now I'm left with a whole bunch of stuff from my 170 -150 days that I need to donate again, and in two months, I'll have whole new batch ready to go. My closet is separated into categories of "stuff I'm trying to fit into", "stuff that fits but not for long", "old fat clothes in case I get fat again", etc. It really is exciting and slightly irritating at the same time. I'm not really sure what my overall tone is with this post. It's kind of all over the place. But I just wanted to share an unexpected and sometimes pricey aspect of weight loss I certainly didn't anticipate. Keep at it everyone, you're all doing amazing. :)

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I could really use some advice on my weight loss journey.. (short story in the post)

Hello everyone.

I am 23yo female and I am currently overweight, I weight 78 kg and I am 173cm tall.

Since around 6-7 grade I had been 60kg (+/- 2kg) even though I never exercised, and I had a very poor diet, eating potato chips for lunch, burgers 2-3 times per week, mostly living on bread and pasta when I had a proper meal.

However, in November 2019 I gained 5kg in 30 days. Until March 2020 I gained an additional 5 pounds and I was 70 kilos. I told myself that if I ever hit 70kg I would immediately start exercising and eating healthier. However, quarantine happened and I wasn't even going to work, I was mostly laying in bed and eating 3 times per day, and until the end of April I gained 10+ more kilograms, and I hit 83 kilos.

I was really unhappy about the way my body changed. I did hormonal tests and everything turned out fine. So, the problem was my diet.

I started counting calories around June, and I saw that I was eating 1500+ calories only for lunch. I still had 200grams of chips per day, sweets etc. So I decided to eat healthy and start working out.

I tried to exercise, but because I have never worked out in my life, I had no strength to even do anything longer than 2 minutes. I started dieting, eating vegetables, rice and chicken only, to try to bring my weight down a bit so I can at least start moving.

But because of the extreme diet, I was eating ~700 calories per day, and I went down 3 kilos in 2 weeks, but it was extremely unhealthy, so I stopped. I almost missed my last period, which was 1 week late and tbh it made me really scared.

Now I decided to eat healthy but if I am full after only 700 calories per day, to eat more only to bring the calories up so that I won't stress my body. I read online that stress make you gain even more weight, and also trying to run or doing any kind of cardio after long periods of inactivity is too big of a stress to the body and it just takes the body into "storing mode". I don't know if this is true. I also get strong nausea and headache when I try to work out, so I won't try to in the near future.

I am planning to start walking on the treadmill for at least 2 hours a day and eating around 1400 calories. Is this a good place to start? Could anyone give me any successful tips to make weight loss easier and healthier for me, which doesn't contain the ordinary cardio+low calories? I read too many different things online, that I don't know what to do anymore.

I need to lose at least 5 kg to be in the healthy weight range, and I would like to lose around 15 overall to get back to my previous shape. Not because of looking good, but to be healthy and to at least get my strength to at least be able to walk/jog/climb the stairs without my head spinning and urge to vomit.

Sorry for the long post, I thought this would be shorter. :) And thank you for reading this far!

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Had the Fat Acceptance Movement ever held you from addressing your wheight issues?

Glitter and Lazers

So this week I was watching the new video from Glitter and Lazers because I'm following her weight lost journey -- she was diagnosed with lipedema.

She was always vocal about the FAM and how people shouldn't have to lose weight to be healthy or happy. Now she started making posts that I perceived as she begging not to get backlash from the people in the movement, in her posts on Instagram she would repeat many times that her weight loss is not about her image but because of her health. This is problematic in many levels because: 1. Why can't we change our image if it's not something we like about us? 2. Just the fact that she is so worried about the comments she would get shows how toxic the FAM is. 3. Why can't we love ourselves and accept that we need to change our habits if we want to live better lives?

In her last YouTube video she was really REAL about all those issues and what she now thinks love yourself really is. I think it is important to talk about this because sometimes people will find any excuse not to do what they have to do, myself included. I spent years trying to pretend my body and weight didn't bother me at all. Now, a decade later, I'm finally on the path to really love myself by taking care of me.

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Question for those of you who've had skin removal surgery

Hello everyone. I have been on the Keto lifestyle since February and have lost 122lbs since then. If you look through my post history you can see my story, some updates and a few progress pics. It really is the 2nd best thing I've ever done for my health (the first was tackling my mental issues that made this weight loss journey possible to begin with).

As you can guess by the title, the rapid weight loss has cause me to develop a TON of loose skin on my stomach, thighs, arms, man boobs, etc. I honestly probably have at least 15lbs of skin that needs to be removed for my... I don't know if I'd call it vanity or just peace of mind, but I would love for it to be gone. I'm ALMOST to the point of wanting to start my maintenance period, so I feel like this is the best time to start looking at options.

My questions are:

1) How long did it take you to find the right surgeon you felt comfortable with and did you go with an actual plastic/cosmetic surgery center or another type of place?

2) What was your recovery time like and how soon were you able to return to work and was the recovery time based on just pain and discomfort, or were there legitimate worries of something messing up with the stitching/sutures? I ask because I have a very high tolerance for pain and I feel like if a lot of the recovery time is due to pain and discomfort, I could probably push through and return to work earlier. My job is a pretty labor intense job with me routinely lifting 30+ pound items and being on my feet all day.

3) Sort of related to 2, but is it possible to get everything done at once or does it need to be done in different sessions and if can be done at once, does that cut done on the recovery time needed? I also am thinking about not getting any kind of thigh surgery since that is the area least seen. Would that help with recovery since I feel like that area would be the most "tender" since you have to support yourself on your feet.

3) Did the results of your surgery achieve what you thought it would in terms of how you viewed your body and was that feeling worth the money (since I'm prepared for insurance to not cover anything) and recovery period?

Those are my main questions, but I'd love to read stories about your experiences with the surgery and the pre and post effects of it if you are comfortable in sharing.

Thank you in advance for any information you can share with me!!

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Motivational Advice post Personal Trainer experience?

Hi all, long time lurker and first time poster here. I am 25F SW: 185lbs, CW: 167lbs, GW: 130lbs. Started May 1, 2020.

I am just hoping to get some advice from those of you who have had personal trainers. To get me started on my weight loss and lifestyle change, I decided to hire a personal trainer who has helped me with my diet, nutrition, and really taught me how to exercise properly.

I’ve lost almost 20 lbs from a combination of working out and making better diet choices. I work with my trainer 3 days a week, and exercise usually another day on my own. On my 3 other days, I try to go for walks, ride my bike, or just find some way to be active for 30+ minutes.

I’m nowhere close to where I want to be weight wise, and I don’t think I’m ready to give up using a PT, but I’m wondering how people stayed motivated when they previously had trainers? Should I just keep working with them until I hit my goal weight?

(Cost is partly the reason I’m looking for this advice, my trainer -who is great and deserves every penny- is super expensive and it’s just not super sustainable for me long term)

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