Monday, September 14, 2020

My mom wants me to stop losing weight

I’m 18, and I used to be overweight (5’4>180>151) I still haven’t reached my goal as of yet because I wanna tone my stomach down and earn muscle fat. However, my mom seems to think that I’m becoming an anorexic and “too small.” Now keep this in mind-my mom lost weight in the past (not sure how much), but it was a lot. She gained a bit back, and I can tell she is trying to lose again. Anyway, like I mentioned, I used to be quite overweight, and intermittent fasting and diminished overeating has helped me greatly. My mom is a very very negative person. She won’t compliment me but she will point out the negative. When I started to lose weight, she said nothing about how I’m holding up. Last weekend I went to church and a church lady commented on my weight loss my stating how she preferred me bigger. Funny enough when I was overweight, so many people used to comment on it. I told my mom jokingly how people will never be satisfied with who you are. My mon took this to heart and went and told my family, and now they want to comment on how I look like a bird and how the weight loss doesn’t look good on me. Now my mom is telling me she’s the boss of this house and won’t allow me to get any slimmer. My goal weight is 140, with muscle mass, and I do believe I eat enough. I just think I live in a culture that is okay with unhealthy habits and overeating.

By the way, many of the clothes I have are very loose on me, and I haven’t bought anything new. This is probably why I appear too small.

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Not "obese" anymore after 7.5 months!

I thought I was still obese, but I recently realised I'm an inch taller than I thought I was, which just pushes me over into the "overweight" category. Not at my goal yet, but I thought this was pretty cool! I've been on a deficit of around 1500 calories, with little to no exercise. I've been aiming to lose a bit less than 2lbs a week. Some weeks I've lost a bit more, some weeks a bit less, but overall, after about 63lbs lost, over 32 weeks, I've lost approx. 1.96lbs a week. I recently pushed my calories up a bit, and started doing some moderate/light exercise on my stationary bike. I'm trying to find a balance of calories and exercise that will help me lose around 1.8lbs a week.

Before this successful weight loss, I had a couple failed attempts, and they were mainly because I was paying way too much attention to macros (fat/carbs/protein) and sodium. I'd become overwhelmed and quit because I ate too much sodium on one day. Another thing that deterred me from weight loss was also the whole "lifestyle change" thing. It sounds huge and intimidating. But it can really be as small as just not drinking soda, or eating less sweets. It's not a thing you have to adapt to in one go, just take baby steps.

Another problem was that I hated being hungry in the middle of the day, and would end up overeating because I didn't like being hungry later in the day. At the end of January this year, I had a realisation that I could try intermittent fasting, so I could go hungry at the start of the day, and then feel full later on, and not overeat. And it was that that sparked the weight loss. I don't do IF anymore, because I can stick to my calorie intake without it. Overall, I haven't found it too much of a struggle. Occasionally there's times where I may overeat, but it's nothing much.

The only problems I have, are that I don't feel like I've lost weight. 63lbs is a good amount if you were to pick it up in one go. It doesn't feel (or look, to me) like I've lost that much. I've started exercising with the hope that it'll energise me a bit more. I don't feel terrible or anything, I feel about the same as before the weight loss. Or maybe I do feel a lot better, but don't realise it because weight loss is so gradual.

A hard thing to accept is that weight loss takes a long time. You really have to get used to it.

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I used to judge this person, but now I am this person.

I was always astonished by the fact that there were people in this world that would willingly keep themselves from eating in an attempt to change what they looked like. The idea that people would turn away treats after mentally analyzing every ingredient, every calorie, and how exactly it may impact their body was so foreign. Why on earth would somebody enjoy a wonderful meal only to turn around and make themselves throw it up? I used to judge people with eating disorders, but now I fear that I am exactly like those people.

I think it started small. I would tell myself I could eat the delicious, homemade chocolate chip cookie if I got in my workout first. Then I would tell myself I could take one, put it in the freezer, and enjoy it at the end of a successful week. Then came in the "smart scale" that could apparently tell me exactly how my weight, BMI, and body fat percentage changed everyday. I got on that scale every morning (and I still do), and let that number dictate exactly what I do with my day. How severely I limit my calories to punish myself for a weight gain, how stressed I become about maintaining any losses, and how hard I had to push myself to keep going-all determined by a stupid number.

Fast forward a couple months-30 pounds down, almost to my "goal weight", and as unhappy as I've ever been. The scale stopped moving. No matter what I did, the number didn't budge. Now the severe restriction and intermittent fasting came into the picture. I was letting myself have about 500 calories a day. I was going as long as I could between times when I would let myself eat-validating this behavior by deeming it intermittent fasting. The number wasn't going anywhere. I would step off that scale in the morning, curse at it and threaten to throw it out the window, and then go lay on the couch, crying, and carefully analyze every decision I made the day before. "Of course the number didn't move, you ate that stupid apple. You didn't need that. You were weak. You didn't run as far as you could have. You didn't get in that extra HIIT workout." I let this continue for about a month before I sought out therapy. I think deep down I knew something was wrong, I just didn't want to accept what the probable answer and solution was. A couple months passed, I learned about energy and metabolism, the need our body has to be fed appropriately, and the number began to go down again. I stopped therapy-convinced I knew exactly what I needed to do to keep the number moving in the right direction. As you can guess, this lasted maybe a week before my behavior turned once again.

At this point, I'm down about 40 pounds. Slowly inching closer and closer to the new goal weight I gave myself (a number that has gone down every time I hit it). The loss starts slowing again. I tell myself it's the fact that the therapist convinced me that the minuscule amount of calories I was consuming was hindering my progress. Now comes in the restriction again. This time I cut out almost everything. I go as long as I can between meals, attempting to live off the "fullness" I got from Diet Coke. I was walking 10 miles a day, running when I could, and still coming home and telling myself I needed to do a HIIT workout. At this point I have no energy. I can barely get outside to do my walks. I feel shaky, light-headed, and like there's a mental block that is preventing me from being present in anything. This continues until I hit about a 45 pound loss.

Now fast forward to last night. I hadn't eaten all day and I ended up caving and eating a full sleeve of graham crackers (while simultaneously gawking at weight loss successes on Instagram). To say I was disappointed in myself would be an understatement. My mind became so controlled by the calories, sugar, and carbs that I had just consumed that I did something I used to judge people for, laugh at people for, and vowed that I myself would never do. I sat in front of the toilet with a toothbrush in my hand-willing myself to shove it as far down my throat as I could. I hit my all-time low last night and I'm not sure if I'm more depressed, or more thankful that this might've given me the wake up call I finally needed.

As I'm sitting here typing this, I feel the hunger pains, the headache, the fatigue and weakness, but for the first time in this whole journey, I also feel a bit of hope. Maybe that's naive, maybe it's stupid. Maybe it just doesn't matter. I just needed someone to hear my story.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 14 September 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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15 Colorful Recipes for Your Fall Menu

Autumn is prime time for cooking delicious, healthy meals. The days are cooler and shorter, so we’re inside more than in the summer. Plus, we’re glad for the hot stove and oven that bring extra warmth to our homes. Fall offers us lots of tasty and fresh ingredients to work with. To inspire your autumn menu, we gathered this collection of some of our favorite healthy fall food recipes and seasonal dishes for you to try. They’re easy to make—no advanced cooking skills needed to prepare them—and they’re as colorful on the plate as they are tempting to eat. Best of all, these dishes are so loaded with flavor that the whole family will enjoy them, yet they fit perfectly into your weight loss plan.

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Here are 15 colorful recipes for your autumn menu:

1. Crème Fraiche and Fruit Sweet Potato Crostini >

healthy fall recipes

Calories per Serving: 199

On Nutrisystem, Count As: ½ SmartCarb and 3 Extras

Crostini are like crispy little bites of toast topped with a few complementary ingredients that treat your taste buds to a variety of flavors and textures. For our healthy version, we substituted slices of nutrient-dense sweet potato for bread and crisped them in the air fryer, so they’re just as crunchy as toast. Then we added sweet crème fraiche, dried cranberries, almonds and figs on top to make little open-faced pies that you can enjoy for a snack anytime.

2. Caprese Sweet Potato Crostini >

healthy fall recipes

Calories per Serving: 161

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel and 2 Extras

This variation on the crostini could not be simpler to make or more satisfying to eat, making it one of our favorite healthy fall recipes. After “toasting” the thin slices of sweet potato, we top them with creamy mozzarella, cherry tomato halves and basil leaves. You can eat four of these crostini for a snack (just 161 calories!) or double them up for a complete Flex Meal.

3. Zoodle Mac and Cheese with Roasted Veggies >

colorful recipes

Calories per Serving: 156

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel, 1 Extra and 1 Vegetable

You can enjoy mac and cheese and stay on track with your weight loss when you prepare it with zucchini noodles and low-fat cheese. (Zoodles are easy to make with a spiralizer and fresh zucchini or you can buy them already made in the produce or frozen food section of the grocery store.) We tossed in a medley of colorful roasted fall vegetables, including broccoli, onions and sweet potato cubes. They add flavor and texture—and a serving of non-starchy vegetables—so this dish is a level up from plain old mac and cheese.

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4. Roasted Chicken with Rainbow Carrots and Potatoes >

colorful recipes

Calories per Serving: 253

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel, 2 Extras and ½ Vegetable

When the air begins to turn chilly, the aroma of a chicken roasting in the oven seems to warm up the whole house. We seasoned this version with fresh lemon, rosemary, thyme, garlic and black pepper to give the chicken more flavor but no extra calories. Just add colorful carrots and red potatoes to the pan and you have a complete meal that will satisfy the whole family. Even better, clean-up is easy with just one pan to wash.

5. Superfood Autumn Health Bowl >

colorful recipes

Calories per Serving: 289

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel, 2 Extras and 1½ Vegetables

For a hearty lunch filled with a mix of great flavors and textures, try this simple, colorful meal in a bowl. It features filling high-fiber ingredients such as lentils, edamame and kale, plus crunchy carrots and pumpkin seeds, all flavored with a quick-and-easy maple vinaigrette. Want more protein? Add two ounces of cooked chicken or turkey breast.

6. Sweet and Savory Spaghetti Squash Bowl >

colorful recipes

Calories per Serving: 288

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel, 3 Extras and 1 Vegetable

Once it’s baked, spaghetti squash can be scooped out in long, thin strands that make a healthy and filling substitute for pasta. Cubes of sautéed sweet potato add brilliant color and potent nutrients, along with a lightly sweet flavor, enhanced by a bit of honey and cinnamon. The tangy goat cheese gives this complete meal in a bowl a pleasantly creamy texture.

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7. Spicy White Bean Hummus >

hummus

Calories per Serving: 67

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 2 Extras

Dipping makes snack time a fun and easy way to enjoy one of your daily servings of non-starchy vegetables. Our version of the classic hummus is smooth and creamy yet low in calories and fats. It’s simple to make in minutes and it comes with turmeric, a zesty spice that also provides a boost to your immune system. Serve with a variety of colorful chopped veggies for the ultimate midday snack.

8. Slow Cooker Pumpkin Chicken Chili >

colorful recipes

Calories per Serving: 241 (283 if using cream cheese)

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel and 1 Vegetable (add 1 Extra if using cream cheese)

Chili is the perfect way to warm yourself on the inside when the weather outside starts turning colder. We make it with chicken and white beans, so it’s low in fat and loaded with fiber. Pumpkin adds a tangy fall flavor to the sauce, which you can spice up to your family’s taste with jalapenos and other hot peppers. This colorful dish virtually makes itself, thanks to the handy slow cooker that gradually heats it up and blends the flavors.

9. Instant Pot Pumpkin Risotto >

instant pot recipes

Calories per Serving: 267

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 PowerFuel, 1 SmartCarb and 1 Extra

With risotto, high-fiber brown rice is transformed into a filling and savory meal that’s perfect for fall days. The sauce on this risotto has the zingy taste of Parmesan cheese plus the creamy texture of pumpkin puree. With the Instant Pot, the rice is easy to make and done in no time.

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10. Sweet Potato Hash Power Bowl >

healthy recipes

Calories per Serving: 242

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel, ½ Vegetable and 2 Extras

Power bowls bring together a mix of satisfying flavors and textures into one dish. We started with super-nutritious sweet potatoes (a fall favorite) and added peppers and onions, just like the classic breakfast hash. Top with a fried egg and sliced avocado for protein and healthy fats, and you have a meal that will keep you energized all morning long.

11. Fall Pasta Salad >

pasta salad

Calories per Serving: 214

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel and 2 Extras

Tired of the same old side dishes? Bring the flavors and colors of autumn to your dinner table with this combination of tasty fall vegetables and whole wheat pasta. It features cubes of tender sweet potato, firm broccoli, chewy dried cranberries and zesty red onion, along with satisfying bites of roasted chicken breast and bits of cheese.

12. Cashew Cream Veggie Pasta >

healthy fall recipes

Calories per Serving: 272

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel, 1 Vegetable and 1 Extra

If you love a creamy pasta dish but would rather do without the lactose or extra fats in dairy foods, try making this simple cashew cream sauce. It’s smooth, rich and blends perfectly with whole wheat pasta, spinach and cherry tomatoes. It’s so good that it just might make you forget about fat-laden Alfredo sauce.

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13. Roasted Turnip Salad >

colorful healthy recipes

Calories per Serving: 377

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel, 2 Extras and 2 Vegetables

Turnips are a lot like potatoes, only with a spicy edge that makes them more flavorful than bland spuds. When roasted, turnips become tender and lightly sweet, a tasty foundation for this grain-based salad. Add goat cheese, fresh spinach and arugula and you have a dish that’s filling enough to be a meal.

14. Maple Roasted Root Vegetables >

colorful healthy recipes

Calories per Serving: 152

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 3 Extras, 1 Vegetable

Slow cooking beets, carrots and parsnips brings out their natural sweetness and fills your home with the scents of the season. The maple syrup glaze enhances those flavors and almost makes you forget you’re eating vegetables.

15. Maple Roasted Acorn Squash with Brussels Sprouts and Bacon >

colorful healthy recipes

Calories per Serving: 299

On Nutrisystem, Count As: 1 SmartCarb, 1 PowerFuel, 3 Extras and 1 Vegetable

Here’s everything delicious about autumn in one tasty dish. You get sweet-and-tangy acorn squash, earthy Brussels sprouts, smoky bacon and maple syrup complementing and balancing each other’s flavors and textures. It’s a vegetable dish that’s perfect for holiday meals or family dinners in fall.

For more healthy fall foods, check out these 12 autumn-inspired snack recipes under 200 calories! >

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Help with things to do other than eat!

Hi all!

I went on a weight loss journey two or so years ago, I got down to 130lbs from 210lbs (5’2F), maintained it for a little while, and now I’m back at 180lbs.

I’m devastated. My clothes are tight, I’m uncomfortable, I feel awful and look worse. I feel hurt and betrayed by people who promised me they would tell me if I gained a significant amount of weight, and I feel stupid for relying on them for that when it wasn’t a reasonable expectation to have of them in the first place.

I know I have intense issues with my self esteem that need addressing, so I’m already attending counselling.

This last week has been just slightly better since I got on the scale and saw how bad it had gotten, but I’m struggling to get back to the mind set I was in when I first lost weight. I just want to eat all the time. I need things to occupy myself with, and was wondering what you guys do?

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2 weeks slow weight loss then 2 weeks plateau every month

Hello, i started my weight loss journey in mid April at (84kg) 185 lbs im a 5"5(165cm) female now at (69kg) 150 lbs my ultimate goal weight is 130lbs. I did keto and intermittent fasting for the first 3 month then slowly reintroduced carbs back in my diet while maintaining the same calories deficit. I know its fairly normal that weight loss slow down the closer you get to goal weight but i only see a drop in weight for like 10 days an then nothing for 2 weeks or more no matter what i do cutting more long fast working out. My TDEE is 1500kcal and i eat between 1000 and 1200kcal. Im starting to get really discouraged, only lost 1lbs the last month while being really strict. I appreciate any advice.

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