Friday, July 30, 2021

I want to lose weight as a last ditch effort to save my relationship. How do I start?

I am 25F 5'3" 122 lb.

I need your advice on how to lose weight.

I have not done this before but need to now.

My boyfriend whom I love has been talking daily about his ex, showing pics together?, talking in detail about their sex life and all the romantic things they did together. It is destroying ms but he says I am toxic and manipulative for policing his language when I tell him it hurts.

He says she is more attractive and he wishes I was as thin as her. He told me he would consider not bringing her up as much if I make an effort and work on myself.

So I am here embarking on weight loss as a last hope because my self esteem and sanity have left the scene. Help me with advice and tips.

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Advice for Weight Loss

Hello. I turned 25 this may and ever since high school, I've been gaining around 10-15 pounds a year. I'm now I'm hovering around 265 lbs.

Now that I'm done with college and time has passed since the death of a member of my nuclear family, I want to get down to 200 lbs at most. I've been constantly telling myself over the years that I'd lose weight, and I start well, but then end up back where I started.

I plan to start a keto diet in the very beginning of August and utilizing my new gym membership, but my biggest issue might be to maintain the diet and exercise. I easily fall out of it. How can I stop that?

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The first steps in my weight loss journey.

I started counting calories this week. And I’m proud to say I went from 368 to 361 when I weighed myself today. I’m 30yo male 6’1”. My current goal weight is to get to 300. My ultimate goal is to get to 250 or lower. I’ve been overweight all my life and it’s really affected me and my confidence. In high school I was made of a lot especially by girls. I’ve always felt like people don’t care about me so I’ve always been in the shadows by myself. It’s hard when you think that way and when many people’s attitude seem to affirm this belief, it’s even harder. I don’t want to go on some rant or tell a sob story. But I do want the support of the people in this subreddit to help me get to my goals. Eventually I would like be able to share my own advice with people.

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Reminder to get medical issues checked

I've been struggling the past few months with weight loss. Despite a deficit of 1300 to 1500 on average, rarely do I eat up to 2000, and increased exercise; my weightloss had slowed, stopped, and as of this week, reversed. Its been incredibly frustrating seeing the number go up with tracking every single calorie.

Today I had an appointment to get a heart ultrasound before I begin a ADHD medication. All good heart wise but I had a blood test a week ago and the cardiologist pointed out that my TSH is not at the right levels. Suddenly a lot made since. The stuttering weightloss and the newer and more aggravating symptoms, extreme itchiness like I was having an allergic reaction.

My hypothyroid medication is too low and it's causing a lot of issues. So here's a reminder that you might want to get a blood test if you're having any issues with weightloss.

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Injured my knee and feeling super discouraged

I was steadily losing ~1.5 pounds a week by eating small healthy portions and staying active. My boyfriend even started his own weight loss journey. Life was super rad.

Then I tore a ligament in my knee. And I'm stuck on the couch for now. I started my period as well so I'm bloated and not wanting to make healthy food choices at the moment either. I'm up 3 pounds since last week which isn't a whole lot considering the bloating and swelling from my knee/leg.

But damn. I just want to go outside. I want to put on normal clothes. I want to be able to go to the store.

I started at 215 and got to 205 last Friday and now this Friday I'm at 208. Ugh. All I'm craving right now is carbs.

What can I do? Does anyone have suggestions on how to not overdo calories while I can't exercise?

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5 Ridiculously Good Recipes for National Cheesecake Day

Cheesecake on a diet? You think of it as the richest, most decadent weight loss no-no you can imagine. But you can give these recipes a big “Yes!” They’re rich, they taste decadent, but you can enjoy them with zero guilt. All of these ridiculously good recipes are absolutely perfect for the cheesecake-lovin’, healthy-livin’ people out there—that’s right, you can literally have your cake and eat it, too, while on your Nutrisystem meal plan! That’s a diet win if you ask us.

Check out these five ridiculously good recipes for cheesecake-lovers:

1. No-Bake Chocolate Chip Cheesecake Bites >

Mini No-Bake Chocolate Chip Cheesecake Bites

This is one of the most ridiculously good recipes of all—Cheesecake, chocolate and no baking! Two count as one PowerFuel, so this recipe can be dessert or a mid-afternoon pick-me-up with a cup of tea or coffee. And it’s sooo easy to make. Using a blender or food processor, combine raw almonds, cocoa powder, sweeter-than-sugar medjool dates and sea salt to serve as the crust which you press into cupcake liners in a mini-muffin pan. On top, add a mixture of low-fat cream cheese, Greek yogurt, vanilla extract and a few drops of stevia that you’ve blended in a food processor. Stir in chocolate chips. Freeze them for a few hours then allow to thaw slightly before enjoying. They’re only 115 calories per serving, and you can make a batch of 10 servings at once.

2. Mini No-Bake Lemon Coconut Cheesecake Bites >

coconut

This recipe riffs off the chocolate chip version. The crust is made from raw almonds, unsweetened shredded coconut, medjool dates and sea salt, combined in a blender or food processor and pressed into 20 paper-lined mini muffin tins. The cheesecake part is a sweet, creamy and tangy combo of low-fat cream cheese, Greek yogurt, lemon juice, lemon zest, vanilla extra and stevia for extra sweetness. Freeze for a few hours then thaw for a few minutes before serving. Only 50 calories per serving, this sweet treat counts as two PowerFuels.

3. Birthday Cake Cheesecake >

birthday cake

Microwave mug cakes are the latest thing and you’re going to love this addition to your dessert choices. It’s only 186 calories and counts as one PowerFuel and two Extras.

The sweetest part? It’s insanely easy to make. Puree reduced fat cream cheese with Greek yogurt, egg whites, lemon juice, vanilla extract and Truvia Baking Blend. Pour the batter into a microwave-safe bowl or mug and stick it in the microwave. It’s done in less than a minute then just sits for a few hours in the fridge before you dig in.

4. Instant Pot Key Lime Cheesecake >

Instant Pot Key Lime Cheesecake

When it comes to tasty cheesecake recipes that you can enjoy on a diet, this Instant Pot Key Lime Cheesecake definitely takes the cake (literally!). Featuring just six simple ingredients and requiring just five easy steps to prepare, it’s a decadent dessert that’s perfect for those who don’t like to spend a ton of time baking in the kitchen.

5. Mini Pumpkin Cheesecake Bites >

Mini-Pumpkin-Cheesecake-Bites

And the last of our ridiculously good recipes is for the pumpkin lovers. Canned pumpkin is available year-round. No need to restrict your pumpkin-eating to the fall. This recipe is made extra flavorful with a gingersnap crust and pumpkin pie spice. It’s easy, too. Finely crush gingersnap cookies with melted coconut oil and water in a bowl, then press into a mini muffin tin lined with paper. Mix low-fat cream cheese, nonfat plain Greek yogurt, canned pumpkin puree (not pumpkin pie mix), vanilla extract, stevia, sea salt and spices in a food processor or blender. Divide the mixture evenly over 20 muffin tins then bake for 15 minutes until cheesecakes are firm around the edges. Cool at room temperature for one hour then refrigerate for two hours before serving. This recipe makes 12 servings at 64 calories per, plus they count as two Extras.

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Is Stress Ruining Your Sleep? How To Deal

For about 70 million Americans, a good night’s sleep is as mythical as the tooth fairy and Big Foot.1 For them, it just doesn’t exist.

At any given time, between 10 to 30 percent of the population suffers from insomnia—an inability to fall or stay asleep or poor quality of sleep when they do finally doze off. A good night’s sleep is defined as seven or more hours a night, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).2

Stress Drives Poor Sleep

a stressed out woman laying on the ground with a book over her head

There are many causes of poor sleep, but stress leads the list. So it should come as no surprise that the coronavirus pandemic—with its deadly combo of health concerns, economic anxiety, disruption of normal routines and isolation—triggered a 37 percent rise in insomnia, along with stress, anxiety and depression, according to a study of almost 6,000 people published recently in the journal Sleep Medicine.3

The American Psychological Association found in its 2020 annual survey, Stress in America, that stress is not only higher among Americans than in previous years, it’s the highest it has been since the survey was launched in 2007.4

The current wave of stress-induced sleep problems has even earned its own name: “coronoasomia.”5

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The Vicious Cycle of Stress and Sleep Deprivation

a man laying awake in bed looking at his alarm clock at night

Stress isn’t just the cause of sleep problems, it’s also the result of sleep deprivation. If you’re not getting enough shut-eye at night because you’re juggling your worries, they may seem to have multiplied overnight. And to add to those keep-you-up-at-night concerns: lack of sleep can lead to a depressed immune system, increased risk of health problems such as diabetes and hypertension, plus weight gain.6

In fact, if you’re trying to lose weight, not getting enough sleep is a major obstacle: Losing sleep can reduce the amount of weight you lose and trigger overeating, in part by altering your body’s appetite chemicals.7

Naps and a night-time glass of red wine may be your fallback plan for de-stressing and getting a better night’s sleep, but they’re not the best solution to avoiding the all-day yawns. And they’re not going to give you the skills you need to deal with everyday or extraordinary stress.

How To De-Stress And Get Good Sleep Tonight

Instead, follow these smart lifestyle tips from the nation’s top sleep and stress experts for calming down and getting all 40 of those winks.

1. Schedule regular daily exercise.

man on his daily run outdoors

Exercise can help improve your mood and make whatever’s bothering you seem more manageable. Studies have found that 20 to 30 minutes of aerobic exercise—like a brisk walk or bike ride—can make you feel calmer for up to several hours.8 Exercising can also help you sleep better, research says. Just don’t exercise too close to bedtime. Those feel-good endorphins you get from aerobic exercise can actually keep you up—plus your core body temperature may rise which sends the wrong message to your body clock that it’s time to be awake, according to researchers at Johns Hopkins School of Medicine.9

On Nutrisystem, we recommend 30 minutes of daily activity each day for weight loss and better health. These 10-minute workouts make it easy to fit some movement into your everyday routine.

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2. Meditate.

Woman sitting on her bed streaming an online meditation class

Meditation has been shown to calm you down and give you a sense of peace. It can also help you sleep.10 You don’t have to sit cross-legged and chant “Om” either. Simply finding a quiet spot and focusing on your breathing instead of the maelstrom of thoughts in your head can help anchor you to the present moment and shoo those thoughts away.

You can take meditation classes or use a guided meditation you find on the Internet in which you are “guided” by another person to a place of peace and relaxation in your mind. Yoga, tai chi and qi gong are forms of “moving meditation” that may help you both reduce stress and learn to relax enough to fall and stay asleep. Or you can simply take a deep breath to a count of four and exhale to a count of four whenever you’re feeling overwhelmed.11

Bonus: Studies have found that deep breathing can help you fall asleep and get back to sleep if you wake up. Not only by relaxing you, but by also initiating melatonin production.12

3. Cut back on caffeine.

Hot morning cup of coffee

Caffeine consumed at any time can give you the jitters. If you’re already stressed out, you need to switch drinks. Anything more than 400 milligrams a day—around four or five regular cups of coffee—can make you feel like you need to be scraped off the ceiling (your results may vary).13

And that cup of joe is a real killer at night. A 2013 study, published in the Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine, found that having a caffeinated drink even six hours before bedtime can interfere with sleep, reducing shuteye by about one hour.14,15

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4. Avoid excessive screen time.

Woman checks her phone in bed before going to sleep

TV, computer games, even e-books may actually make it hard to wind down for sleep. They’re not only stimulating, but the blue light emitted from the screen can suppress your body’s production of the sleep-inducing chemical melatonin.16 If you can’t cut down on screen time during the day, consider blue light blocking glasses or turning on the blue light filter on your e-book reader. A few small studies have found that blocking blue light can help you sleep.17,18

5. Find some green.

Cheerful man hiking outdoors

Visiting “green spaces”—a garden, a woodland park, a wilderness—during the day can relieve your stress. Not only do they provide a way to get some exercise, being in nature removes the distraction of daily life and helps you relax by making you feel like you’re “away,” according to a 2018 study in the journal, Behavioral Science.19

You don’t have to live at the edge of a national park to gain the stress-relieving benefits either. Spending even a little bit of time in a green space—only 10 minutes in research done by Cornell University—can have lasting results.20

6. When your worries wake you up, get up.

A woman that can't sleep because of stress is holding her face in bed.

If you find yourself counting worries instead of sheep, get out of bed, says the Sleep Foundation. It’s counterproductive to toss and turn, wrestling with your thoughts. If you haven’t fallen asleep within 15 minutes after hitting the sack, leave the bed behind and go to another part of the house and do something that helps you chill, like meditating, reading, or listening to music. If your worries shake you awake in the middle of the night, don’t look at the clock. It will just make you more anxious. If you have to, drape a cloth over the clock face so you don’t see it.21

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Sources:

  1. https://www.cdc.gov/sleep/about_us.html
  2. https://www.cdc.gov/sleep/data_statistics.html
  3. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7274952/
  4. https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/stress/2020/report-october
  5. https://health.ucdavis.edu/health-news/newsroom/covid-19-is-wrecking-our-sleep-with-coronasomnia–tips-to-fight-back-/2020/09
  6. https://www.sleephealthsolutionsohio.com/blog/10-effects-of-long-term-sleep-deprivation/
  7. https://www.sleepfoundation.org/physical-health/weight-loss-and-sleep
  8. https://journals.lww.com/acsm-healthfitness/fulltext/2013/05000/stress_relief__the_role_of_exercise_in_stress.6.aspx
  9. https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/exercising-for-better-sleep
  10. https://www.nccih.nih.gov/health/providers/digest/mind-and-body-approaches-for-stress-science
  11. https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/meditation/in-depth/meditation/art-20045858
  12. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6361823/
  13. https://www.fda.gov/consumers/consumer-updates/spilling-beans-how-much-caffeine-too-much
  14. https://jcsm.aasm.org/doi/10.5664/jcsm.3170
  15. https://www.sleepfoundation.org/nutrition/caffeine-and-sleep
  16. https://www.sleepfoundation.org/sleep-guidelines-covid-19-isolation
  17. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20030543/
  18. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5703049/
  19. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5981243/
  20. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/02/200225164210.htm
  21. https://www.sleepfoundation.org/insomnia/stress-and-insomnia

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