Sunday, August 8, 2021

Support and reassurance

Hello friends, I started my weight loss journey back in March at 255lbs. Originally I had exactly one goal in mind, to be healthier, for myself to feel better. I wanted just to move a little weight, one small step at a time. And when the weight did start coming off I did start feeling better, and everything started gaining momentum.

I found a work out partner. Someone just as excited as I was to be losing weight, and building health. Truth be told I am a fragile person, this journey was also about my mental health and growing there too. It was easy to fall for him. We worked out together, we shared diet food together, we dreamed together. And for the 30 days of our whirlwind friendship and romance losing weight was so very easy.

He left two weeks ago. And I’ve been very proud of myself for not falling off the wagon completely. I maintained my diet, and did some exercising (truth be told not as much as when we were together). The scale continued in my favor, and I can’t begin to tell you how good it feels to go through some hard stuff and not revert back to my old ways of eating and vegging out. I am currently down 42lbs, weighing in today at 213lbs.

Why I needed to post? Just need the support today, because I have so much more to lose. I need encouragement. Because sometimes this is really hard. And not having the support I grew to care about is hard. I know I need to be my own support and believe in myself. I am getting there, each day I am getting there. But for today I would love a little line of encouragement from my internet friends who have all been in my boat.

Thank you for the love and support!

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How to know if I should keep on losing weight?

Hello, I have always been a lurker here since about a year ago when I started my weight loss journey, but I had to make this post because I really don't know what to do.

I am 20M, 175cm tall, My starting weight was 95kg and I'm currently sitting at 70kg. I have, undoubtedly, changed quite a lot. I'm pretty much another person right now and indeed feel very good with myself.

However, when I look in the mirror, especially sideways, I feel and look absolutely huge. Like my whole ribcage is twice the size of a normal person's. I know the "big boned" thing is not true, however I don't have much fat to lose in my ribs and back, if at all.

So as stated, my current weight is 70kg, my BMI is 22.9 and I do not know whether or not to keep losing weight and by how much.

Also, english is not my native language, sorry for the wording and weird punctuation.

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I beat my emotional eating today!

I'm so proud of myself and I need somewhere to share without sounding insane haha

So I've been working pretty hard the last few weeks - I posted here a few days ago in detail about getting started with my weight loss, but the summary is that I'm 24F, 5ft7, 297lb, having gained 55lb in the last year and only realising when a doctor weighed me, now medicating my bad thyroid, getting my binge eating under control, and going to the gym. I've stop-started weight loss efforts a bunch of times before now.

My binge eating is very tied to my emotions. Food is my comfort, and I can easily put down several people's worth of food, especially on a bad day.

I'm in medical school, and tomorrow I'm resitting an exam that I failed in April. I really needed to work hard today but I woke up with a horrible migraine and lost a lot of my productivty, so I've been incredibly stressed.

A day like today would normally be a day where I order in, buy snacks, and absolutely gorge to feel better. And I was really craving subway, like £25 worth, multiple subs, an absurd amount of subway.

But!! I didn't!!!! I thought about it for a while, about all the progress I've made lately, and how I know that one binge is historically always a slippery slope for me on giving up altogether.

I still ordered, but I got a salad box instead, with the meat I'd usually get in a sub, and added my own dressing instead of having tons of sauce. Then I got a toasted bite, which are like little 120-ish calorie sandwiches. I didn't get the usual side snacks or sodas I would have bought on a bad day. It satisfied the craving, with the meat and bread and salad I would usually get in a binge, but stayed nicely within my calorie budget, and didn't weigh me down with excessive amounts of food.

Idk I just feel so proud of myself because my impulse control is usually so bad, i don't have a good track record resisting, especially with all the stress of this exam tomorrow. This feels like the biggest victory so far - moreso than starting to exercise and get my daily diet controlled, these emotional eating days are always my biggest challenge and this honestly is the first time I've ever truly resisted it. It makes me feel like it's real this time, and I'm not gonna give up like all the other times.

I'm just happy and wanted to really tell someone who'll get it. I adore this sub and I've not even been here long. I hope y'all are having beautiful days!!

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Need Help Understanding.....

Brand new member. Hoping for some insight from those who have "been there."

I started my "journey to health" quest in February 2020. My goal was to lose 80 pounds. I stopped eating junk food, avoided "almost" all sugar, ate primarily fruits, veggies, nuts, whole grains and legumes, had chicken once a week. I've always been an avid walker/hiker, so my activity level was pretty good. At that time I averaged walking 4 to 6 miles every day with varying terrain, intensity, speed, etc. I did well and by December 2020 had lost almost fifty pounds. Only thirty more pounds to go. It wasn't easy, and I had a few setbacks, almost all of which involved issues with my aging father. During those setbacks, I'd gain a few pounds in one week, then get back on track. I was very pleased with my overall progress when December rolled around. I was 0.2 pounds from the 50 pound weight loss mark and wanted to achieve that by January 1, then continue the same plan until I lost the remaining 30 pounds. I was averaging 1 to 2 pounds loss a week, except for the occasional setbacks.

On December 14, my father became ill (not Covid). Long story short, he passed away on Christmas Eve. Not surprisingly (to me) I experienced a set back during the ten days of being at the hospital all day every day, but was pleasantly surprised to see that I'd only gained back four pounds by early January. OK, once the funeral stuff was over and done with, I'd get back on track. That was the plan.

Never happened that way. I continued to gain. By February I had regained 30 of the almost 50 that I had lost. I have "restarted" several times, losing a few pounds here and there, but always going back to my old eating habits and gaining it right back. Since February, I have lost a little, gained it back, lost a little, gained it back. So now I'm back to needing to lose 60 pounds instead of 30. And, here's what I don't understand, I CANNOT SEEM TO GET BACK ON TRACK AND STAY THERE.

Losing the 50 pounds wasn't easy, but once I got started it wasn't all that difficult, except when Dad issues arose. SO I can't for the life of me figure out why I cannot simply "do it again" and this time continue on to reach my goal weight.

There MUST be some psychological reason for why I keep sabotaging myself. My dad was my main source of stress for several years, and now that stress is over. And that's when the weight starting coming back. Do I feel guilty that he died and that the stress is finally over? Have I just replaced the stress of dealing with him with guilt over being glad the stress is gone? WHY can't I just got back to the way I was eating--making healthy choices every day, eating reasonable portions, etc. WHY do I keep giving in to the cravings? I do well for three or four days, lose a bit, then BOOM I'm back to binging. Every time I do well for three or four days I think "OK, I'm finally back on track. I can do this." Then it all falls apart again.

I have a FABULOUS life. I am way luckier than many people. I am full of gratitude for all that I have, the peace and solace in my life. My activity level is very good--daily walking or hiking (6 miles or more most days), daily yoga, daily meditation. I am profoundly grateful for what my life has become. EXCEPT for my weight and my seeming inability to do anything about it. I was doing so well for so long, until Dad got sick and died. Why did that derail me so thoroughly that I cannot get back on track and stay there? When I was eating well, I never felt deprived. I wasn't hungry all the time. I felt GOOD. I want to feel GOOD again but can't seem to get there.

Sorry for the length....just had to vent about all this. Any ideas appreciated......

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I feel like giving up and I wish I could cry. I don’t know why the journey had to turn out this way…

And I’m tired of trying to guess what that is.

My heart is weighing heavy today and I could use some help here. I’ve talked about it to a therapist. I’ve talked about it to friends but they don’t seem to really get it and maybe some of you can.

I’m in a rush to lose weight. I’m a rush to lose weight because I believe I cannot start to live until I’m at a thin body weight. I always let my weight hold me back from opportunities, intimacy, relationships or even in making friends. Job interviews terrify me cause I worry being perceived as fat and ugly. I’ve never even had my first kiss yet (I’m 23) and I say I’m okay with it but lately a lot of things eat at me.

I just feel so fat and ugly. With the added stress of PCOS, I also feel even more stressed out about the weight loss journey.

I feel so much stress in general. I come to you for help because I think you can get it and what it feels like to be trapped in a body you don’t like but also needing to find a way to make peace with yourself too.

I know reaching my weight goal won’t do much of anything to fix of all that’s wrong with me on the inside. I know that because I was once 182 pounds and even though I was much thinner then than I am now, I still hid myself away and found more reasons to never get out there and I still found myself ugly.

I’m just really sad and defeated in life lately. I though that the journey would get easier but in general it has gotten so much harder and I want to give up but I also want to throw my body away and get out of the skin feel trapped in.

Edit to add: I’ve lost 80 pounds so far and even though lately I’ve hit a mental wall, I know this is something I need to address.

I will say this. I’ve managed to develop some self-acceptance this past year: - I showed a full body pic of myself online (I never would have been able to do this last year). - I displayed my stomach as well. - I am in therapy consistently for nearly the past year.

I’m in therapy for childhood trauma and was diagnosed with PTSD for it and Major Depression.

I know being skinny won’t automatically make me confident - nor necessarily healthy - because I know the journey is about so much more than just that.

I do intend on having a deeper conversation with my therapist about it this Wednesday as there’s a reason why it’s coming up so strongly.

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I've lost just over 30lb and I don't feel any different

The weight I've lost seems to be noticeable to others, I often get the comment "you must feel so much better having lost all that weight". I tried lifting something not long ago which was more or less equal to the amount of weight I've lost, and it was insane to me that I was carrying all that around with me.
But, to tell the truth, I don't feel any different, I'm still as tired, anxious, and depressed as I was when I was 30lb heavier.

Is this normal?

I've still got a long road ahead of me, about another 40lb until I'm at my target weight, and I honestly never thought I'd get to this point, and I don't feel like I'm going to get to my target weight.

Is it common to not feel as "different" as you expect? I almost wonder if weight loss is almost always viewed through rose tinted glasses from the heavy side. Like they say, the grass is always greener on the other side. Is there some truth to this? Or am I just being overly pessimistic?

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4 Sweet Reasons Peaches Are the Best for Summer Weight Loss

Sink your teeth into this juicy fruit for a sweet taste of summer. Fresh peaches are not only delicious, they also are accompanied by many healthy benefits. Grab a peach on the go or whip up one of our delicious recipes to use peaches for weight loss and enjoy a healthy, sweet and balanced summer diet.

Read on to find out exactly why you should bite into this sweet fruit and enjoy the many benefits of enjoying peaches for weight loss:

1. Low in Calories

peaches for weight loss

According to the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA), one medium peach weighs in at only 58 calories—and like many fresh fruits, it has less than ½ gram of fat, with no sodium or cholesterol. While it is true that peaches and other fruits contain sugar, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t eat them. Sugar in peaches and other fruits occurs naturally; the kind that is loaded into soda, cakes and candy bars is processed, or refined. Both types are broken down in your body for energy. Refined sugars, however, enter the blood stream very quickly, causing blood sugar to spike, then crash. Low blood sugar signals the body it needs more energy, or more sugar—which can start a vicious sugar-craving cycle, say experts. The sugar that naturally occurs in fruit is also packaged with a bunch of healthy nutrients, which help slow the absorption of sugar into your blood.

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2. High in Filling Fiber

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You get 2 grams of fiber per peach—half of which is soluble fiber, the other half insoluble. According to the Mayo Clinic, soluble fiber helps keep blood sugar levels steady; insoluble eases digestion. And overall, high fiber foods tend to be more filling, so you’re likely to feel fuller longer. Research, published in The Lancet, found that eating 25 to 30 grams of fiber per day can help you lose weight, as well as help reduce blood pressure and blood sugar levels.

3. Packed with Water

peaches for weight loss

A peach is 88% percent water—making it a low-energy-dense food. Energy density is the number of calories (or energy) in a specific amount of food, according to the Mayo Clinic. High energy density means a lot of calories in a little food; low energy density is the opposite—few calories in a lot of food. High water content in fruits, like peaches, help provide volume and weight so you feel fuller on less calories.

4. Loaded with Disease-Fighting Nutrients

peaches for weight loss

This fuzzy fruit is a good source of vitamin C, which helps boost your immune system, and vitamin A that promotes healthy vision. It also contains potassium (that’s good for your heart), iron, and antioxidants—plant compounds that help protect your body against aging and disease. The riper the fruit, the more antioxidants it contains, according to Plant Foods for Human Nutrition.

Research from Texas A&M AgriLife found stone fruits—like peaches, plums and nectarines—have been shown to ward off obesity-related diseases, such as diabetes, metabolic syndrome, and cardiovascular disease. Enjoy these fruits fresh or canned in water—on Nutrisystem, one medium fruit or one cup canned peaches counts as one SmartCarb.

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Get your peach fill this season by whipping up one of these delicious (and peachy) recipes:

1. Peach Buzz Bagel Sandwich >

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What better way to start your morning than with slices of juicy peaches and a drizzle of honey? That sweet sensation sits atop creamy cottage cheese and a soft-baked, fiber-loaded Nutrisystem Honey Wheat Bagel for a satisfying breakfast sandwich that weighs in at 320 calories.

2. Peach Honey Whipped Ricotta >

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It’s rich, it’s loaded with nutrition and it takes no time to make: Just blend honey with ricotta cheese and a hint of almond flavor for a sweet base. Add juicy grilled peaches to the side and voila—pure deliciousness that provides eight grams of muscle-building protein. On Nutrisystem, this flex snack counts as one PowerFuel and one SmartCarb.

3. Skinny Peach Cobbler >

peaches for weight loss

Sure, you can have your cobbler and eat it, too: This healthy twist on a classic features soft, juicy peaches sprinkled with nutmeg and brown sugar and baked beneath a cinnamon-hinted homemade crust. It takes like you’re cheating, but you’re totally not: Each serving is only 135 guilt-free calories.

4. Blackberry Peach Upside Down Muffin-Cakes >

peaches for weight loss

Two beautiful summer fruits join forces to create a sweet that serves as the perfect breakfast treat or evening dessert and is the perfect way to use peaches for weight loss. These muffins are light, super simple to bake, and are sure to satisfy your cake cravings. The bonus: no butter, no sugar, and you get to eat two for 153 calories. On Nutrisystem, each serving counts as one SmartCarb and one PowerFuel.

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5. Peach Melba Pudding >

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The Peach Melba your grandmother made had peaches, of course, plus vanilla ice cream and raspberry sauce. This healthier version keeps the sweet fruit, but subs in non-fat yogurt and raspberry-flavored gelatin to cut help sugar and fat from the old-fashioned favorite. Plus, this peach treat might take the win for best presentation. Each serving is 111 calories.

6. Peachy Green Ginger Smoothie >

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Green smoothies are an simple and delicious way to load up on body-boosting nutrients—and this one is no exception. You get the sweetness of peaches, creaminess from bananas, and a bunch of fiber, vitamins and minerals from the spinach. Combined with almond milk and fresh grated ginger for a little extra zest, this smoothie is so tasty you’ll slurp it right up. On Nutrisystem, one smoothie counts as one SmartCarb, one Vegetable and one Extra.

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