Friday, October 15, 2021

stuck in an endless cycle. tired, very confused, and exhausted.

tw; mentions of binge eating

hi there. i am new to reddit and i feel quite safe here. for some context, i am 15f, about 115lbs and 5’3. i am quite short as u can see, so my tdee is quite low; for me to cut 500 calories, i’d have to go all the way down to 1200cals per day and that includes 10k steps of exercise per day (without the 10k steps my tdee is only 1500). a lot of people out there always say 1200 calories a day is not enough which really confuses me?

also, i know my weight is healthy rn but i know this isn’t my body’s set point of weight bc i’ve been binging a lot for the past few month which led to me gaining almost 6lbs.

i have an upcoming event in 2 months which i want to look good in but my weight loss plan has been failing miserably since i’ve been full out binging at night. i do pretty well in the day but when it comes to night time, my family tends to order out really unhealthy foods (such as fried chicken, mcdonald’s etc.) and at the end of the day i am already quite tired which ends up in me caving and having bites of my family’s food and then the “all or nothing” mentality steps in bc i feel like “i’ve messed up” and i start grabbing whatever food i can find and shoving it down. i don’t know what to do bc i don’t want my weight loss to also weigh down my family and stop them from eating whatever they want but at the same time, it triggers me to binge and then i feel like trash physically and mentally after for the night and the next day. i feel useless and incapable bc why can’t i do something so simple (keep to calorie deficit)?

do u all have some advice as to how i can get out of this cycle? and tips to aid in my weight loss? e.g. how to stay disciplined, how to spread out my meals to make it easier? i just want to shed a little bit more fat.

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Massive Improvements, Yet No Weight Loss

I've been hitting the gym even harder after a grueling defeat at the "feet" of my cousin 3-4 weeks ago as we faced off in a 3 mile park run. I realized I was a disgrace to my 19 year old track running self (now 29). At the time of my defeat I was 220 LBS at 5'11 and could not even run a quarter of a mile without almost feeling like i was going to die.

From that day on I've been pushing harder and harder. Setting and breaking new personal records on the treadmill. I started at 2 incline for my whole workout, now I am at 3. My intervals where I stop speed walking at 3 MPH and move it up to 6 MPH use to last 2:30 minutes of total dread, but now last 5 minutes, ending feeling on the lower end of "OK"(after that back down to 3MPH). I normally do 4-5 intervals per workout. My recovery time between each 6MPH Jog went from 10 minutes down to 4-5. For a total of 3.2 miles per day, 3-4 times a week(this week will end in 5 times). ALL this after 10 hour work shifts at a physically demanding job and I have still not lost a pound .

I am watching what I am eating. Am I doing something wrong? Any advice to give?

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Increased hunger after weight loss

Hello! This might be a question better for r/science, but I'm posting here in hopes that someone here could give some insight.

A year ago I lost some weight and managed to reach my goal weight. Obviously I was very happy about this, but somehow (like many others) I've gained some of that weight back. There are many reasons for this, but I've been trying to figure out how easy it is supposed to be to maintain after weight loss, and honestly it felt harder to maintain than to lose.

Anyway, in my search for this I've come across several research articles and "blog posts" suggesting that people who lose weight can get a permanent increase of ghrelin (hormone that regulates your hunger) levels. If I understood it correctly, this increased circulation is higher the more weight you lost. I can only assume this is the body trying to get back to its original weight.

Now, I don't know if this is the case for me, as I feel it is only natural to feel a bit hungry while the body is adjusting to a new diet with less calories, and also I suspect that there are individual differences regardless of ghrelin. I was never obese, but I lost about 30 - 40lbs to reach my goal weight of 176lbs for a 6'2 male.

My question is: does anyone know how much truth there are to this research? Are these anecdotal studies? Widely adopted truth? I can't help but feel disheartened, as this would mean that maintaining is going to be a struggle for a lot of people, potentially for the rest of their lives.

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Unable to control my eating in social situations

hey all, so i’ve realised that there’s this thing that i do that has been hindering my weight loss and i’m not quite sure how to change it. it’s that every time i have a social gathering/hangout with friend/anything that involves eating untracked calories, i feel very nervous several days before. l begin to alter my diet the few days before in order to accomodate for the extra calories i will consume. i expect that i will be eating a lot, so i’ll do more cardio and eat less leading up to that day. i just can’t seem to get it off my mind and my heart races very quickly when i think about eating more - in a bad way. on the day, i realise that even when i feel full, i can’t bring myself to stop eating. even when i can acknowledge that i am satisfied, i feel like i shouldn’t stop eating, i feel like I’ve earned it. this feeling washes over me, similar to the “i’ve messed up my diet i may just go full ham” but it’s “i’ve worked hard for this so i need to eat more to make it worth it”. and so, after today’s picnic with a friend and 1000 calories over my daily budget, i am drowning in guilt again and i feel like all the hard work i’ve put in has been wasted.

i’m not quite sure what to do, i have begun to find myself dreading social situations where i’ll be eating untracked cals even if i’m spending valuable time with my friends, this isn’t like me at all. the thought of going off track is frightening, especially when i’ve put in dedication and effort throughout the week. i don’t want to throw all this hard work away, and i thought the best way to combat this was by planning for these ‘cheat’ days ahead, but clearly it’s not working. i would really appreciate any advice to help with this situation, especially as i have another catch up with a friend tomorrow. after today’s ‘fail’ i am literally on the verge of cancelling :(

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Thursday, October 14, 2021

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Friday, 15 October 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Pushing through. [tip]

33F, CW: 218 Current GW - 199

I've been chubby my whole life, but have never experienced any serious health issues from it yet. My Dad overate himself into an early grave though, I learned some bad habits from him, and I feel as though I finally have my life in order enough to a point where I'm ready for sustainable weight loss, and hopefully a bit of muscle building. I'm still trying to work through using food as a coping mechanism. I think I'm getting there.

I started college around 215 and have hovered around 220-225 the last few years. Enough is enough. The first summer of the pandemic I started using Noom and it was very successful for me, I was able to make it down to 198 within a few months and wanted to go further, but got a bit demoralized when I went back above 200 in a natural fluctuation. One day last December I pushed way too hard, hurt myself, had to rest for 'a few days', let the pandemic blues get to me, and gradually bounced right back up to 220. So I'm calling this attempt #2.

I had a fabulous walk/run today. I'm lucky enough to live near a huge, gorgeous park and a huge, gorgeous beach. Now, there's been some local divisiveness over a road that borders the beach. It was closed to cars in the beginning of the pandemic, and I credit that ability to go for good long walks/runs in a beautiful location on a friendly, safe surface with my previous weight loss success. Not too long ago, the city allowed cars use of the space again, and left it to pedestrians only on weekends now. That's been a bit of a demoralizer, because I really enjoyed the previous times I was able to go for long walks on this road, and it's difficult to plan around the weekends. Because of some beach-related issues that occur on this road semi-frequently, it was closed to cars, and I was able to go for a run on it today.

So I was thinking about my method for pushing through when I'm exhausted, thirsty, hot and sweaty at the end of a workout, but still have a bit further to get home. I know that if I were to sit down on the curb, it would be some minutes before I could get up again. I ask myself if I can go one more block before pausing. If one block is too far to think about, I stick to physical, visible landmarks. Can I make it to that next tree? That next street light, that next crack in the sidewalk? It usually turns out I can. Most of the time, I can even go past it. And then the next, small, visible, landmark after that. Before I know it, I've conquered one more block, and I'm a bit closer to home. What do you do to push just a bit further?

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Tips and accountability buddies

Hey guys,

Who would like to be accountability buddies by messaging / checking in every day - few days, to hold themselves accountable? I had my first successful day in a while yesterday of staying under 1500 calories by spacing out my meals, and allowing for a small treat at the end of the day. It felt great, and I don't want to slip off the bandwagon so it would be good to check in with other people :)

My current stats: Height 5'7 169, M, 23, SW 179 (81.7), CW (Just started my journey) 173 (79), GW1 154 (70), UGW 140 (64). 33lb (15kg) to go.

My plan: 1500 daily, 1200-1500 in November, 1200-1300 with safety net of 1500 Dec-Feb, 1500 March (Use MFP, still need to buy food scales)

Cardio at gym from November 6-7x a week

Intermittent fasting: 14:10 work up to 16:8, then ultimately 18:6 and 20:4

Anyone who is currently going through weight loss, what tips worked for you the most?

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