Tuesday, January 3, 2023

Venting: How Obesity Has Impacted My Family (marriage, elder care, etc)

A couple things on my mind as I am currently caring for 4 obese family members: grandmother, grandfather, father (64) and sister (36).

My grandmother and grandfather have had their lives drastically cut short due to life long obesity. They are currently with hospice and have spent the last 10 years in and out of the hospital with various cholesterol and blood pressure issues. Caring for them and finding caregivers who are willing and able to care for them is extremely challenging. It’s hard to move them due to their weight. When they were in senior care centers they received lesser quality of care because more than one staff was needed to assist them, which meant they were not assisted as frequently as easier to help seniors.

My father is one of my best friends. He is the best dad ever. His father had a heart attack at 60 so you would think he would make his health more of a priority, but sadly he has not. My mother had weight loss surgery several years ago and is now in perfect health and has maintained her weight loss for many years. The impact of him not getting his health under control has had serious effects on their marriage as he is not able to do any of the things she wants to do (kayaking, walking tours when they travel, cycling, etc.). He avoids physical activity and my mom seeks it. My mom is so sad because she knows caring for him is going to be impossible for her. She is petite (5’4 and 120 pounds) and my dad is 6’2 and 330 pounds. As their daughter, watching this change in their marriage has been so devastating. Watching my Dad have to take pills every day to control his blood pressure and other health issues is sad.

A couple of years ago my sister was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She’s about 5’7 and 350 pounds. I cannot tell you how many doctors appointments I sat in with her where doctors told her repeatedly, “losing weight would make the cancer treatment - chemo and radiation - much easier on your body.” She refused to make the changes. She actually went the opposite direction and said, “well if I’m going to be sick I might as well eat whatever I want.”

Why do I say all this? Because so much of what my family is going through could have at the LEAST been minimized if they had cared for their bodies more. Choosing not to take care of yourself now WILL have an impact on you AND YOUR LOVED ONES long term. If you haven’t made the decision to start a journey to a healthier life…. I hope you do. Your quality of life will improve in so many ways.

Lastly, eating healthy and maintaining a deficit is obviously the biggest part of weight loss. However, please remember that exercise is essential for minimizing health risks as you age. Blood pressure, for example, can be drastically impacted by a healthy exercise regimen. So, if possible, make it a goal to include exercise in your schedule.

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Postpartum Weight Loss

I am 9 months postpartum and desperately ready to start my weight loss journey. I didn’t gain much weight during pregnancy (maybe 25lbs) and I lost about 15 the first three weeks PP. At 9 months I’ve gained it all back and I’m back to my end of pregnancy weight.

I haven’t been drinking enough water (oops) and I absolutely snack too much. I have never been a sweet fan but after baby came I found myself craving chocolate all the time!

Other than meal prepping and adding more water to my day - any suggestions? Snack ideas would be amazing as well!

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5 Health and Fitness Goals for 2023

Haven’t chosen your New Year’s resolution for 2023 yet? You’re never too late: Any day is the perfect day to start exercising and reaping loads of health benefits, like drastically reduced risks of heart disease, stroke, diabetes and even early death.

Just make sure your goal is really achievable: While many people like the sound of running 10 marathons or becoming a world champion powerlifter, keeping things simple in year one can help you build towards bigger goals with subsequent resolutions.

Your fitness goals should be challenging yet realistic. According to experts at Cañada College, “unattainable goals are often the cause of injury, frustration, and ultimately the discontinuation of exercise.” They recommend creating short-term goals that are more attainable in the beginning of your fitness journey.

So here are five fitness goals you can really achieve this year—and each is backed by science, so they’re really worth doing!

Goal 1: Walk 4,400 to 7,972 steps per day.

Person jogging on a track

Thought the magic number was 10,000? Think again: The 10K number is said to have actually started as a marketing tool to sell pedometers in Japan in the 1960s.

That doesn’t mean that counting your steps is useless, though: In one study, older women who averaged 4,400 steps or more significantly reduced their risk of death compared to other women who walked about 2,700 steps per day. The researchers explain, “With more steps per day, mortality rates progressively decreased before leveling at approximately 7500 [steps per day].”

In another study of older adults, those who took 7,972 or more steps per day had a lower risk of death than walkers who logged less than 4,503 steps each day.

Use those results as your step goals: Strive to stride 4,400 to 7,972 times per day.

Goal 2: Do muscle strengthening activities twice a week.

Woman stretching against a wall

You often hear about the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommendation to get at least 150 minutes a week of moderate-intensity aerobic activity. (That’s 30 minutes, five days a week.) But did you know that the CDC also recommends doing activities that strengthen muscles at least two days each week?

According to The American Council on Exercise (ACE), strength training can help strengthen muscles and bones, increase the metabolism, decrease blood pressure and improve quality of life. Maintaining your muscle as you get older is essential. “Unless you regularly engage in activities to strengthen your muscles, you’ll lose about a half a pound of muscle a year in your 30s and 40s, and that rate can double once you turn 50,” says ACE.

Your weekly strength training doesn’t have to be all at once, and it doesn’t have to be as intense as a CrossFit class. You can do easy dumbbell or resistance band workouts. No equipment? No problem! Try this simple, four-move series that uses your own body weight to boost your strength:

  1. Move 1 – Wall Pushups: Standing with your feet away from a wall, put your hands on the wall, and slowly control your body as you bend your elbows to move your torso towards the wall. Keep your body straight from head to heels as you press back to standing.
  2. Move 2 – Step Ups: On the bottom step of a staircase, place one foot on the step, and press through the center of your raised foot to straighten your leg until your other foot could meet it on the step. Step down, and repeat with the other leg.
  3. Move 3 – Squat to a Chair: Hover over a chair, and control yourself as you sit down, not using your hands. If you can, stand back up without using your hands.
  4. Move 4 – Glute Bridge: Lie face up on the floor with your knees bent and feet flat on the floor. Squeeze your glutes to raise your butt up until your body forms a straight line from head to knees. Slowly return to the start.

Do each exercise for 15-20 seconds, then rest until the next minute starts and move to the next exercise. Repeat in this way for 15 minutes.

Goal 3: Sleep for at least 7 hours per night.

Man resting in bed

Is sleep a fitness goal? You bet! In fact, it may be the most important one of all: According to the CDC, “Adults need 7 or more hours of sleep per night for the best health and wellbeing.” Consistently getting too little shuteye (less than seven hours a night) is associated with poor health outcomes, including weight gain, diabetes, depression, high blood pressure, stroke and heart disease.

In a review of research, published in the journal Sleep, scientists found that sleeping less than seven hours per night was associated with a 12 percent increased risk of early death compared to sleeping seven to eight hours per night.

Sleep is also key to achieving your other fitness goals: When you sleep, your body can repair your muscles and give you the energy you’ll need for your next bout of physical activity. So hit the hay this year!

Goal 4: Go for a 10-minute walk every time you eat.

Woman checking her phone while walking outside

This is an easy way to get to that 4,400+ steps. Plus, timing your 10-minute walks with your three main meals will help you check off your 30 minutes of recommended physical activity. According to experts at Mayo Clinic, regular, brisk walking can help improve your cardiovascular health and decrease your risk of various conditions, including high blood pressure, heart disease, cancer and Type 2 diabetes.

Timing your walks for after meals has other potential benefits, too. According to Medical News Today, “Research suggests that a short walk after eating helps manage a person’s blood glucose, or blood sugar, levels. Moderate daily exercise can also reduce gas and bloating, improve sleep, and boost heart health.” Research has also shown that taking three 10-minute walks each day may reduce systolic blood pressure (the top number) in individuals with prehypertension.

So when you put down your fork, lace up your shoes!

Goal 5: Find a fitness activity that’s fun for you.

Man enjoying spinning class

Too many Americans think exercise has to be painful drudgery to work. But the opposite is true: Studies show that when people enjoy their workouts, they’re more likely to actually do them. And it’s no secret that an increase in exercise adherence can lead to better results.

If you’re going to spend 10, 20, 30 or more minutes of your free time doing something, it ought to be something that not only improves your health, but improves your mood. So while you’re walking and strengthening this year, resolve to find something about fitness you enjoy: Maybe it’s working out while talking on the phone with your best friend. Maybe it’s a new type of class or a new instructor that really gets you. Maybe it’s an active game or sport. Or maybe it’s a funny shirt that you love putting on each time you sweat. Find that thing you love, and you’ll create a habit that will last far beyond 2023.

*Always speak to your doctor before beginning a new exercise routine.

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Snacks

Hello, fellow redditors. Hubby and I are back on track with our weight loss program. We joined a gym close to home, and have started cooking at home more regularly. We are planning on trying to have a baby later this year, and this is our motivation to get into shape. We do pretty well with all our meals, but we struggle with snacking. I have a few healthy snacks i enjoy (Smokehouse almonds and frozen bananas). What are your favorite healthy snacks? Please feel free to share! Thanks guys ❤️

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The big back slide

So a few years ago I had a HUGE weight loss journey. From 405 in January of 2017 to 285 in July of 2019.

Since then, I’ve completely fallen apart. After dealing with mental health issues, covid, financial troubles, a tough breakup, and changes at work, I just feel completely defeated.

Last time I got weighed at the doctor’s office was months ago and I was around 450. Since then I close my eyes when they weigh me.

I can’t stop binge eating. I’ve been trying to work thru it in therapy, but I haven’t made any progress.

I’ve lost all discipline and motivation to do anything. I have to wear sweat pants everyday. I get winded just standing up.

I stopped leaving the house except to go to work. I haven’t seen any friends in months. I spent the holidays alone.

My depression has ramped up as hard as it’s ever been and it’s getting more and more difficult to deal with.

I’m not even sure why I’m posting all this now. Just to share, I guess. I live a very lonely life.

While I’m not exactly suicidal at this point, I’m not exactly NOT either. The only things keeping me around are my dad, my dog, and one really good friend.

How do I reignite the fire I had inside me back when I lost 120 lbs… I was so happy when I made a post about it on here that I cried. Today, I’m also crying but for a different reason…

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/9nv05x/i_finally_made_it_under_300lbs_from_405_to_296_in/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

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Tips i've learned

the new year is here and i'm going to just guess that there'll be more eyeballs in this sub for a bit. for those venturing down this journey, here's just a few things i've learned along the way to hopefully save you some time and stress.

by way of background, i'm 48m 5'9" and went from 213 to 179 from the onset of the pandemic. after yoyoing up/down most my adult life, this time i've been able to sustain the loss for an extended period. this is what works for me and not everything will be applicable to everyone, but there's some general lessons here that i hope can be useful

so here's my bulleted list of lessons learned (the hard way). i'll split it up into 3 parts: diet, activity, and mental

DIET / EATING

  • drink water. before a meal i drink a couple glasses of water, preferably about 15-30 minutes beforehand, maybe while preparing the food. this starts the clock on the delay before feeling full. want a snack? sure, just drink water first. the plain water is important here. not soda/juice.
  • personally, i know i don't do well with deprivation diets. meaning, the no meat/no carbs/no fat/etc diets don't work with me long term. so i eat whatever i want, just half of it. the last bite of (anything) doesn't taste nearly as good as the first bite anyway
  • i prepare half of what i want to eat. so if i want a sandwich i only make half a sandwich. this doesn't mean making a whole sandwich and cutting it in half, i literally only make half a sandwich. if i still want more, i get to eat it, but i have to make the other half from scratch just like the first half. my laziness works to my benefit there.
  • tv snacks are my weakness. so i eat something healthy before junk food. i'll nom nom on some carrots, nuts, or pickles cuz i like salty crunchy. if i still want chips, sure thing. but i put them in a bowl instead of eating straight from the bag. if want more i just have to get up to get it. again, my laziness is my ally here. over time the volume of junk food just kinda decreases on its own. if you're into sweets, fruit works wonders. for real. good fruit is tasty AF
  • useless calories sneak in all over the place. sauces and beverages pack a punch. i still have em, but just less of it. i mean, jeez my food has to taste good. i'd rather have a little salad dressing than a lot of vinegar.
  • i want to keep things appetizing. there's no point in conditioning myself to hate the healthy stuff.

ACTIVITY / EXERCISE

  • nothing epic for me. i mean, you want to run a marathon or ride a century? yeah man, have at it. those are amazing goals. but it's not for me. i opted for smaller guaranteed successes.
  • small things do make a difference. parking farther away. choose stairs instead of elevators. go to the office bathroom further away. the activity that worked for me was just to incorporate it into mundane life. when i make the hurdles smaller i don't have to think about it.
  • walking is super underrated. no need to run marathons if you get the daily steps in. i guarantee your phone has a step counter built in and i further guarantee that you always have your phone with you
  • i also know i get bored in a gym. so instead of 'working out' i play games. i joined my county parks volleyball/softball/kickball leagues and have a blast. some seasons are more physical than others, but it's really fun and i get to be outside. i realized later on that this also compels me to get dressed, leave the house, park, walk to/from whatever, reduces idle screen time, met cool people, etc. small things, they add up.
  • it's all about making my day to day life more active, not suddenly pretending to be an athlete.

MENTAL / ATTITUDE

  • run a mile. if you're like me, you have to slow down pretty quick. most of my weight loss fails were because i focused too much on the beginning and not enough on the rest of the distance. the weight loss we seek is a lifelong change and thinking i could sustain that early enthusiasm was unrealistic. the run a mile thing is just an illustration but if you actually do it, it's a good image to go back to along the way.
  • success stories on the internet are dramatic, but the fact is, is that most of our successes are modest, quiet, and very personal. but those small successes stack. they stack like crazy. wins can be hard to come by, celebrate them.
  • go easy on yourself. don't beat yourself up if you gave in to a craving or missed a gym session. if you're really in this you absolutely have to give yourself some grace.
  • no one can do everything at the same time. diet and exercise works but that does not mean starvation and labor camps.
  • have real expectations. weight loss waxes and wanes. you'll have periods of great success and times when the weight reverses or plateaus. it's all part of it.
  • unappetizing diets or exercising for the sake of exercising, all in the name of weight loss, could become a grind. that's why i focus more on the fun parts.

TLDR

  • i eat what i want, just less of it
  • i make my daily life more active, not epic
  • chill. it's all good
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how often do you plateau?

I know that weight loss isn't an exact science so let's get that out of the way. Having said that, I'm curious to know if other folks on here plateau after losing a certain number of pounds.

My first plateau happened after I lost 6 pounds and lasted a little over two weeks. Then I lost another 6 pounds and hit another plateau that has lasted a little over two weeks.

I just think it's interesting that my plateaus are happening after losing 6 pounds. This has happened to me during past periods of weight loss. It seems like I lose 5 or 6 pounds and the plateau.

The annoying thing is that this extends my overall weight loss plan. Every plateau adds a few weeks, which will eventually add up to months of extra time calorie counting. I hate plateaus!

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